Bullshit Thread #7

[blixa]

Blixa=

is that a...potato?

[blixa]

and fuck off, i want to feel sorry for myself for at least another week.

[from_musings]

yeah ok crying potato, but could you do that somewhere else please ^

[blixa]

i'll do it wherever i want. if you don't want to know about it put me on your ignore list. it's simple. all you do is say useless crap to me.

[sing blue silver]

Well blixa, that's forever alone guy. Learn your memes. And if it'll make for feel better your hand can hang out with my junk and I'll wear my dick pants.

[poofing acid]

i'll do it wherever i want. if you don't want to know about it put me on your ignore list. it's simple. all you do is say useless crap to me.

I'm ignored by ben, lolz.

Cheer up, some people are just mad over their small wangage. From musings doesn't know how to cope.

[blixa]

Well blixa, that's forever alone guy. Learn your memes. And if it'll make for feel better your hand can hang out with my junk and I'll wear my dick pants.

shouldn't it be a vegetable that doesn't get any recognition though. everyone loves potatos so they're not really lonely, are they? who made this meme up? i need to talk to them. also, when i said fuck off i meant it in a nice way. i'm shit at sarcasm. it doesn't even translate well in person so it's bound to suck on the internet.

you keep those dick pants away from me, mr slick hips! you'll be getting me in all sorts of strife.

[from_musings]

i'll do it wherever i want. if you don't want to know about it put me on your ignore list. it's simple. all you do is say useless crap to me.

and you don't say useless crap? however, i will not use not the ignore list, i'm not a monster. i will use the scroll function when you post though

[from_musings]

i'll do it wherever i want. if you don't want to know about it put me on your ignore list. it's simple. all you do is say useless crap to me.

I'm ignored by ben, lolz.

Cheer up, some people are just mad over their small wangage. From musings doesn't know how to cope.

i said no to my girlfriend when she said she would post our home sex videos on youporn.com because people would use it against me. did she listen? no

[poofing acid]

i'll do it wherever i want. if you don't want to know about it put me on your ignore list. it's simple. all you do is say useless crap to me.

I'm ignored by ben, lolz.

Cheer up, some people are just mad over their small wangage. From musings doesn't know how to cope.

i said no to my girlfriend when she said she would post our home sex videos on youporn.com because people would use it against me. did she listen? no

Is she fat? Post a link, John Holmes.

[sing blue silver]

Links or GTFO!

[theis]

Links or GTFO!

[blixa]

i'll do it wherever i want. if you don't want to know about it put me on your ignore list. it's simple. all you do is say useless crap to me.

and you don't say useless crap? however, i will not use not the ignore list, i'm not a monster. i will use the scroll function when you post though

i was talking about a situation i'm going through and asking for some advice. that may be crap to you but it isn't to me. i'm not sitting here saying, "go talk about your problems somewhere else" because i'm not a monster to do that. putting me on your ignore list would actually be kinder because that way you will never have to address me in any way.

and if you didn't give a shit why didn't you just scroll past my post as opposed to saying, well, useless crap and being a knob about it.

[bright lights, big city]

heh... knob

[devilinside]

whenever I need some cheering up, I just watch this video.

Twilight Farts

LOLZ

[svjchtr]

but i am that person too. i have never ever told anyone i liked them. i just wait till it goes away and not speak to the person involved or they tend to say something. what you're saying sounds amazing and so simple, and you know, maybe it is but this situation involves two very stubborn people who will not admit anything to each other.

i have confronted him about his flirting and the things he says and he has done exactly what you described and said, "hey, i didn't mean it like that. i'm glad you didn't take it out of context." a big part of me wishes he would admit that maybe he did mean it in that context. the issue i take with this is his age. i know that sounds horrible but there is a big gap between us. six years is...a lot. it makes me feel like the feelings i have are inappropriate. the close friends i have told about this are split. some think i've done the right thing and others think i should tell him how i feel. but i can't. i told him that we can't be friends right now. i feel lost because i'm going to see him at some point and what then? i don't even know what i'll say if he approaches me wanting to know what the hell is going on - as he should. i miss him so much and it's only been TWO DAYS.

but if he asks, am i meant to tell him how i feel? i think my biggest fear is him saying, "well, i'm sorry you feel this way because i don't like you like that." i can't phrase the fact that i have feelings for him in a positive way.

this dude's been trying (hard) to tell you that he likes you, he just really sucks at it. if turtling up and avoiding him seems better than enduring an uncomfortable moment and talking to him about it (which i'm fairly confident would end positively, if you actually did it), then by all means, pursue that route. one thing you DON'T get to do is to try to justify running away by saying stuff like "well he confused me too much blah blah" (you're no better at it than he is) or "I'm six years older blah blah blah" (if you can't step up and do the mature thing and just have a conversation with him, the age difference means nothing more than he grew up with pokemon and you grew up with power rangers)

i recently saw something online somewhere, where a dude who started some big company was talking about the moment when he decided to quit his (good) job and start the company. the way he made the decision was that he imagined that he was 80 looking back on that moment, and asked himself which course of action would lead to the least amount of regret for his 80 year old self. obviously, starting a company and talking to a BOY are not the same, as only one can lead to getting the COOTIES, but the same mentality seems quite applicable here. you can hide from this guy that you clearly like, just to avoid having to deal with some short-term awkwardness. but really, the only way you'll have regrets later on is if you do that. just talk to the fellow imo - i know it's not as easy as i make it sound, since i pretty much have the same communication problems that both of you do, but if you think about things like a rational human being there's really only one justifiable way to approach your situation

EDIT: also worth noting that you owe it to your future mental well-being to try talking to this guy. as your life goes on, and more situations like this come up, it's either going to get harder and harder to talk to guys (if you keep withdrawing from them), or easier and easier (if you take the "risk" and put yourself out there, like you should right now)


p.s. looooool @ twilight farts

[from_musings]

Is she fat? Post a link, John Holmes.

oh yes. she keeps me warm in the winter and she's shade in the summer

Links or GTFO!

we can do some trading, nothing in this world is for free. i'll post mine when you guys post yours.

links or gtfo




(lemon party links does not count)

[blixa]

but i am that person too. i have never ever told anyone i liked them. i just wait till it goes away and not speak to the person involved or they tend to say something. what you're saying sounds amazing and so simple, and you know, maybe it is but this situation involves two very stubborn people who will not admit anything to each other.

i have confronted him about his flirting and the things he says and he has done exactly what you described and said, "hey, i didn't mean it like that. i'm glad you didn't take it out of context." a big part of me wishes he would admit that maybe he did mean it in that context. the issue i take with this is his age. i know that sounds horrible but there is a big gap between us. six years is...a lot. it makes me feel like the feelings i have are inappropriate. the close friends i have told about this are split. some think i've done the right thing and others think i should tell him how i feel. but i can't. i told him that we can't be friends right now. i feel lost because i'm going to see him at some point and what then? i don't even know what i'll say if he approaches me wanting to know what the hell is going on - as he should. i miss him so much and it's only been TWO DAYS.

but if he asks, am i meant to tell him how i feel? i think my biggest fear is him saying, "well, i'm sorry you feel this way because i don't like you like that." i can't phrase the fact that i have feelings for him in a positive way.

this dude's been trying (hard) to tell you that he likes you, he just really sucks at it. if turtling up and avoiding him seems better than enduring an uncomfortable moment and talking to him about it (which i'm fairly confident would end positively, if you actually did it), then by all means, pursue that route. one thing you DON'T get to do is to try to justify running away by saying stuff like "well he confused me too much blah blah" (you're no better at it than he is) or "I'm six years older blah blah blah" (if you can't step up and do the mature thing and just have a conversation with him, the age difference means nothing more than he grew up with pokemon and you grew up with power rangers)

i recently saw something online somewhere, where a dude who started some big company was talking about the moment when he decided to quit his (good) job and start the company. the way he made the decision was that he imagined that he was 80 looking back on that moment, and asked himself which course of action would lead to the least amount of regret for his 80 year old self. obviously, starting a company and talking to a BOY are not the same, as only one can lead to getting the COOTIES, but the same mentality seems quite applicable here. you can hide from this guy that you clearly like, just to avoid having to deal with some short-term awkwardness. but really, the only way you'll have regrets later on is if you do that. just talk to the fellow imo - i know it's not as easy as i make it sound, since i pretty much have the same communication problems that both of you do, but if you think about things like a rational human being there's really only one justifiable way to approach your situation

EDIT: also worth noting that you owe it to your future mental well-being to try talking to this guy. as your life goes on, and more situations like this come up, it's either going to get harder and harder to talk to guys (if you keep withdrawing from them), or easier and easier (if you take the "risk" and put yourself out there, like you should right now)


p.s. looooool @ twilight farts

we are talking now. after three days of not speaking he sent me a nervous text asking if i was ever going to talk to him again and then told me he was freaked out about us not being friends or something. i still haven't told him. i find something that usually keeps me from telling him all the time. i feel like i'm projecting my desire onto him and assuming that he feels some sort of thing for me. i know that i will only find out if i ask him. i'm a coward when it comes to that stuff.

he has asked me to come watch him play soccer and he made a crack about sticking around afterwards and have the both of us watch the older men play because i would enjoy a bunch of middle aged men running around. he always makes jokes about my adoration of older men.

this whole thing feels like one long saga. in the meantime i have been making out with my neighbour non-stop. it's so much easier to be straightforward with men i have no feelings for whatsoever.

[poofing acid]

Is she fat? Post a link, John Holmes.

oh yes. she keeps me warm in the winter and she's shade in the summer

Links or GTFO!

we can do some trading, nothing in this world is for free. i'll post mine when you guys post yours.

links or gtfo




(lemon party links does not count)

You're all talk.  Fuckin soft, brah.

[from_musings]

haha acting all disappointed and crestfallen. cheer up dude, i bet there's others you can jerk off to ; )