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Started by Drop-Dead, Sep 15, 2005, 05:44 PM

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alvarezbassist17

it's mah bday today, nuckazzzzzzzzzzzzzz

bebo


sing blue silver

the restaurant across the street from me has something called the "peanut butter burger"

my mouth just orgasmed. this is friggin tasty.

Crazylegs

Quote from: alvarezbassist17 on Oct 14, 2010, 11:53 PM
it's mah bday today, nuckazzzzzzzzzzzzzz

drink a few for me.

lostpilot

Quote from: alvarezbassist17 on Oct 14, 2010, 11:53 PM
it's mah bday today, nuckazzzzzzzzzzzzzz

congratulations

alvarezbassist17

Quote from: Crazylegs on Oct 15, 2010, 02:42 PM
Quote from: alvarezbassist17 on Oct 14, 2010, 11:53 PM
it's mah bday today, nuckazzzzzzzzzzzzzz

drink a few for me.

Only if you find the rest of your avatar for me plz :D

Thanks y'all

Necrocetaceanbeastiality

Happy late birthday bro. Hope you had a cool one.

blixa

i hate it when it's really early in the morning and people start talking to me. i'm a complete arsehole before 11-12 because i'm not even awake yet.

sing blue silver

flight arrived in montreal this morning... i miss home already but i'm pouring a drink and going to have a good time.

derekautomatica

My girl just checked into the looney bin for trying to kill herself...how the fuck am I supposed to handle that shit.

blixa

Quote from: derekautomatica on Oct 18, 2010, 05:13 AM
My girl just checked into the looney bin for trying to kill herself...how the fuck am I supposed to handle that shit.

my friend was on depression tablets that made her lose her mind and she had to be strapped 24 hours a day so she wasn't able to harm herself. she had to be in a mental institution for a month. i was prescribed the same meds a few years ago. lucky she told me to get off them asap otherwise...

but you should be there for your girlfriend. avoid using the words 'loony bin' and 'crazy'. she's in a sensitive situation right now. talk to someone about how you feel as well. preferably the doctors that are available at the place she's staying.

tarkil

Quote from: alvarezbassist17 on Oct 14, 2010, 11:53 PM
it's mah bday today, nuckazzzzzzzzzzzzzz

It's late, but I was out of interwebz due to some travelling... Happy birthday then, I hope you didn't choke on a cock !
:)



If ignorance is bliss, then knock the smile off my face.

derekautomatica

Quote from: blixa on Oct 18, 2010, 12:03 PM
Quote from: derekautomatica on Oct 18, 2010, 05:13 AM
My girl just checked into the looney bin for trying to kill herself...how the fuck am I supposed to handle that shit.

my friend was on depression tablets that made her lose her mind and she had to be strapped 24 hours a day so she wasn't able to harm herself. she had to be in a mental institution for a month. i was prescribed the same meds a few years ago. lucky she told me to get off them asap otherwise...

but you should be there for your girlfriend. avoid using the words 'loony bin' and 'crazy'. she's in a sensitive situation right now. talk to someone about how you feel as well. preferably the doctors that are available at the place she's staying.

It just came out of nowhere because she's normally not like that at all. There has been signs of it because she has an anxiety disorder but I never though she would take it so far. Her problem is that she'll say something is bothering her and when I ask her about it she just says she doesn't want to talk about it. Its a tough situation because we've only been together for about 5 months or so. But she got out of there yesterday and she's doing somewhat better. I don't think her pills are helping at all though.

blixa

Quote from: derekautomatica on Oct 18, 2010, 08:43 PM
Quote from: blixa on Oct 18, 2010, 12:03 PM
Quote from: derekautomatica on Oct 18, 2010, 05:13 AM
My girl just checked into the looney bin for trying to kill herself...how the fuck am I supposed to handle that shit.

my friend was on depression tablets that made her lose her mind and she had to be strapped 24 hours a day so she wasn't able to harm herself. she had to be in a mental institution for a month. i was prescribed the same meds a few years ago. lucky she told me to get off them asap otherwise...

but you should be there for your girlfriend. avoid using the words 'loony bin' and 'crazy'. she's in a sensitive situation right now. talk to someone about how you feel as well. preferably the doctors that are available at the place she's staying.

It just came out of nowhere because she's normally not like that at all. There has been signs of it because she has an anxiety disorder but I never though she would take it so far. Her problem is that she'll say something is bothering her and when I ask her about it she just says she doesn't want to talk about it. Its a tough situation because we've only been together for about 5 months or so. But she got out of there yesterday and she's doing somewhat better. I don't think her pills are helping at all though.

it's usually a build up of everything until she can no longer keep it together. i hate this whole pills thing. it always feels like they give you a few pills before one actually starts working. i hope she feels better. it's horrible to feel like you're not in control in some way.

E-Money

Bixla is correct man, try not to make her feel like shes too out of it.  And just be there for her.  Maybe u two can get some couples therapy going.  Sounds like its more about some personal issues she's having but just be there for her.  And get her off the pills as soon as u can.  Its hard to think rationally on a bunch of shit... at least it is for me....

usefulidiot

Quote from: derekautomatica on Oct 18, 2010, 05:13 AM
My girl just checked into the looney bin for trying to kill herself...how the fuck am I supposed to handle that shit.

Dude, I have been there. An ex-girlfriend spent 4 months in the psyc ward after trying the same thing. It can be tricky, I felt like it wasnt allowed to NOT handle it, that I had to be strong and completly ok with everything that came up, mostly cause she had noone else, her family wouldn't even go visit her (they suck). You need to be there for her, be that paitent rock,  but at the same time look after yourself. I didnt want to talk to her about how it was affecting me (seemed selfish) and having someone outside, in my case a friend who is a qualified counciler, to rant to when it all gets to you is invaluable. I took me 3 of the four moths to do something about it and was actually quite surprised when I got a chance one day to just go off  how much it was affecting me. I was trying being the strong, nothing-can-faze-me super-boyfriend by just shoving it all down and ignoring it. Not healthy at the best of times, let alone during times like that. You need to be healthy, to be strong for her. Also you've been togther 5 months, as close as you feel to your girl theres probably alot about her you dont know, especially if she not the type to talk about it. I've now been married 3 years, togther for 5 years and I still learn thing about my wife all the time.

I have a split opinion on psychiatric medicines, some a brilliant for some people and others are usless. You probably, initially at least, need to trust the Dr's on this one unless problems become obvious, then get a second, even third opinion.

So, basically, be there, be paitent, look after yourself and there rest will just come, day by day.



Variable

Quote from: tarkil on Oct 18, 2010, 07:14 PM
Quote from: alvarezbassist17 on Oct 14, 2010, 11:53 PM
it's mah bday today, nuckazzzzzzzzzzzzzz

It's late, but I was out of interwebz due to some travelling... Happy birthday then, I hope you didn't choke on a cock !
:)
what he said

derekautomatica

Quote from: E-Money on Oct 19, 2010, 04:23 PM
Bixla is correct man, try not to make her feel like shes too out of it.  And just be there for her.  Maybe u two can get some couples therapy going.  Sounds like its more about some personal issues she's having but just be there for her.  And get her off the pills as soon as u can.  Its hard to think rationally on a bunch of shit... at least it is for me....

Well that was how she tried to kill herself. She took half a bottle of klonopin, 2oz of nyquill, and some aspirin. So I guess her dad keeps all the pills locked up in his room. I tried to tell her to just smoke pot and there's an ample amount of pot at my house so that's not an issue. But she said that pot "isn't fun for her" when in this case its not for just getting stoned, its actually for medicinal purposes. But over the past few days things are kind of getting better but she's still having really bad panic attacks. There's only so much I can do but thanks for the input everyone its helped a lot. Plus she needs to start rockin out to some Deftones and not that dubstep nonsense.

kittyy

I've been in similar situations as your girlfriend it seems, and honestly, she probably just needs to know you care. Don't make it seem like you think she's crazy or underestimate the things that bother her. I used to have little episodes and freak the fuck out and just wanted to kill everyone, or better yet, myself. My boyfriend would get so worried and frustrated  because I couldn't and wouldn't explain what was wrong, so him misunderstanding me made me worse a lot of the time. I'd suggest just being there for her and let her know if she does hurt herself, it hurts you. Don't try to force anything out of her, let her feel comfortable talking to you so that she doesn't feel like you'll judge her if she does talk. It's a weird feeling being on anxiety meds. They can make you feel like a robot, like you're not in control of yourself... you're just on autopilot.. especially klonopin. But if you really do care about her, don't think she's crazy. Just try to be understanding.

Sorry for writting an essay dude. haha.
RIP No More Sugar<3

usefulidiot

Pot + panic attacks/anxiety = very very bad