Bullshit Thread #7

[blixa]

i have a customer at work who always makes inappropriate comments towards me. mostly sexual. it makes me really fucking uncomfortable. i had to serve him again today and everytime he looks at me i just want to run screaming to the shower so i can wash off the dirt that i can see going on in his head off of me. everytime he comes in i know what he will say and i always tell myself to tell him to fuck right off but i never do. maybe if he was my age and not so old i would be a lot more comfortable telling him to stop saying shit to me because it's inappropriate and it makes me feel uncomfortable.

today when i was serving him he said something about me being beautiful (100th time he has said that to me) and that he wants to kiss me all over and as he turned to go he said, "don't forget what i said - i mean it," he was talking about the kissing me all over part. FUCKING GROSS!

[Crazylegs]

how old are we talking?

[blixa]

i'm shit at telling age but i'm definite he's in his 60's because he asked my workmate where i was on the day that i usually work and if i had a boyfriend and if he (workmate that is) was my boyfriend. he creeped my friend out as well. my friend estimated that he was in his 60's and he's always right about guessing people's age.

i'm just remembering all the shit he's said to me and it's really distressing. once i was dumping out of date cask wines and he said that he wished men could trade their wives in once their use by dates came and that he would trade his wife in for me. i told him that what he said was offensive to me and most of all to his wife. then i seethed inside.

[Crazylegs]

I'm surprised that he hasn't given it up, if you're not being "friendly" back. He must really like the idea of kissing you all over.

[Variable]

Quit being a pussy and tell him to fuck off.  Then tell your boss and have him banned from the restaurant.  Then maybe even tell the police and get it on paper just in case he decides to try to "kiss you all over" in the parking lot after work.  So maybe you should buy a gun or a knife too.  Or maybe just always have someone walk you to your car.  Either way, quit puttying up with his shit and do something about it.  You are not a helpless little girl, don't act like it. 

[raynor]

Yeah i agree. But get some pepparspray instead!

[Oldnewtype]

Got problems? Solve them. Just hit that bitch with a bottle.

[Necrocetaceanbeastiality]

Got problems? Solve them. Just hit that bitch with a bottle.

I hope that was directed at "mister inappropriate".

[Oldnewtype]

it was directed at anyone who has a problem with anyone.



oh i forgot to ask, did he have a mustache?

[Variable]

Yeah i agree. But get some pepparspray instead!

I could totally continue to rape through pepper spray. 

[blixa]

Quit being a pussy and tell him to fuck off.  Then tell your boss and have him banned from the restaurant.  Then maybe even tell the police and get it on paper just in case he decides to try to "kiss you all over" in the parking lot after work.  So maybe you should buy a gun or a knife too.  Or maybe just always have someone walk you to your car.  Either way, quit puttying up with his shit and do something about it.  You are not a helpless little girl, don't act like it. 

hahaha that is such an american way to deal with things.

i work in a liquor store so i deal with arseholes like this all the time. none of them sexually forward as he is though. i asked my store manager what to do if he comes in again and makes a comment like that and she said if he says anything that makes me feel uncomfortable then i have to ask him to leave the store. even if he stops saying shit, it's the way he looks at me. last time i was moving cartons of beer onto a trolley and he came and stood really close to me and said something about my "body strength" which was utterly sexual. the first time he ever said something to me was about the birthmark on my arm. he asked me if it was okay for him to check my body to see if i had any other birthmarks.

[blixa]

it was directed at anyone who has a problem with anyone.



oh i forgot to ask, did he have a mustache?

yes. he has a moustache. he also has a wife. next time he comes in and says anything i'm going to tell him that he either stops making comments like that or he leaves and doesn't come back.

[raynor]

Yeah i agree. But get some pepparspray instead!

I could totally continue to rape through pepper spray. 

you built up an immunity?

[Variable]

Quit being a pussy and tell him to fuck off.  Then tell your boss and have him banned from the restaurant.  Then maybe even tell the police and get it on paper just in case he decides to try to "kiss you all over" in the parking lot after work.  So maybe you should buy a gun or a knife too.  Or maybe just always have someone walk you to your car.  Either way, quit puttying up with his shit and do something about it.  You are not a helpless little girl, don't act like it. 

hahaha that is such an american way to deal with things.

i work in a liquor store so i deal with arseholes like this all the time. none of them sexually forward as he is though. i asked my store manager what to do if he comes in again and makes a comment like that and she said if he says anything that makes me feel uncomfortable then i have to ask him to leave the store. even if he stops saying shit, it's the way he looks at me. last time i was moving cartons of beer onto a trolley and he came and stood really close to me and said something about my "body strength" which was utterly sexual. the first time he ever said something to me was about the birthmark on my arm. he asked me if it was okay for him to check my body to see if i had any other birthmarks.

So is the "non American" way of doing things to take non stop shit and harrassment from somebody and hope it magically goes away without standing up for yourself?

Yeah i agree. But get some pepparspray instead!

I could totally continue to rape through pepper spray. 

you built up an immunity?

and yeah, Ive had some practice

[downtownpony]

You're not an American unless you've raped somebody.

[Crazylegs]

but do you automatically become American if you rape someone?

[bright lights, big city]

yeah apparently you're granted citizenship, just like if you were born here.

[Crazylegs]

Cool beans.

[tarkil]

Nice :

[downtownpony]

Nice :

By the time I figured out it was a trick, I had already came. So the jokes on you.