Bullshit Thread #7

[ToneDef]

I've got a date!

how long did she take to inflate?

Aaaaahaha

Old skool Fireal is back in town

[White Pwny]

I've got a date!

how long did she take to inflate?

lol... o man.. I haven't laughed at a post here like this... In a LONG time.

[oldgentlovecraft]

I've got a date!

how long did she take to inflate?

Not long, used an air pump.  I was too excited to wait!

[yoda on mars]

haha

[White Pwny]

I've got a date!

LoL  Ryan.


how long did she take to inflate?

Not long, used an air pump.  I was too excited to wait!

[Juicy Fruit]

This dilemma seems perfect to mention in the bullshit thread.

Basically I'm with this guy at the moment but we haven't told anyone about it... and we had an argument today because last night I completely innocently went to a metal club with two of my male friends. He asked me not to because he gets jealous and thinks other people will think badly of me for going out with two guys to a club, but yesterday I was stressed out, angry and needed the release. Also, last night was extreme metal night which they hardly ever do and it's so much better than their usual nights. The next one will be on 29th December to put that into perspective. I explained all of this to him but he's being so difficult and keeps telling me anyone would say I'm in the wrong for going clubbing with two guys - even though the atmosphere in a place like that (a metal club as opposed to an RnB club) is not conducive to flirtation etc, and I would never have done anything with either of them - AND both of them have girlfriends. I think he thinks that because it's a club it's the same as the places he used to go where everyone goes to get drunk and find a member of the opposite sex, and while to a small extent that's true, most people go there for the music from my experience, just like I do. Am I completely naive to think like that? Am I in the wrong? I just need an impartial opinion cos he's doing my fucking head in making such a big deal out of this and I can't understand why.

[samson simpson]

sharpen your toothbrush and stab his ass in the throat.

[Juicy Fruit]

Lmao, so, is he in the right or in the wrong?

[Corleone]

This dilemma seems perfect to mention in the bullshit thread.

Basically I'm with this guy at the moment but we haven't told anyone about it... and we had an argument today because last night I completely innocently went to a metal club with two of my male friends. He asked me not to because he gets jealous and thinks other people will think badly of me for going out with two guys to a club, but yesterday I was stressed out, angry and needed the release. Also, last night was extreme metal night which they hardly ever do and it's so much better than their usual nights. The next one will be on 29th December to put that into perspective. I explained all of this to him but he's being so difficult and keeps telling me anyone would say I'm in the wrong for going clubbing with two guys - even though the atmosphere in a place like that (a metal club as opposed to an RnB club) is not conducive to flirtation etc, and I would never have done anything with either of them - AND both of them have girlfriends. I think he thinks that because it's a club it's the same as the places he used to go where everyone goes to get drunk and find a member of the opposite sex, and while to a small extent that's true, most people go there for the music from my experience, just like I do. Am I completely naive to think like that? Am I in the wrong? I just need an impartial opinion cos he's doing my fucking head in making such a big deal out of this and I can't understand why.

How old are you two?

[Juicy Fruit]

This dilemma seems perfect to mention in the bullshit thread.

Basically I'm with this guy at the moment but we haven't told anyone about it... and we had an argument today because last night I completely innocently went to a metal club with two of my male friends. He asked me not to because he gets jealous and thinks other people will think badly of me for going out with two guys to a club, but yesterday I was stressed out, angry and needed the release. Also, last night was extreme metal night which they hardly ever do and it's so much better than their usual nights. The next one will be on 29th December to put that into perspective. I explained all of this to him but he's being so difficult and keeps telling me anyone would say I'm in the wrong for going clubbing with two guys - even though the atmosphere in a place like that (a metal club as opposed to an RnB club) is not conducive to flirtation etc, and I would never have done anything with either of them - AND both of them have girlfriends. I think he thinks that because it's a club it's the same as the places he used to go where everyone goes to get drunk and find a member of the opposite sex, and while to a small extent that's true, most people go there for the music from my experience, just like I do. Am I completely naive to think like that? Am I in the wrong? I just need an impartial opinion cos he's doing my fucking head in making such a big deal out of this and I can't understand why.

How old are you two?

Haha, I'm 20 and he's 22. He's so fucking immature and it drives me insane because he drags me down to his level. Seriously, I've been on the phone to him for the last 2 hours trying to reason with him and he's not having any of it.

[Corleone]

So... would it upset you or make you feel good to tell him "shut the fuck up".

[Juicy Fruit]

So... would it upset you or make you feel good to tell him "shut the fuck up".

Well I don't think it would help the situation to be honest, all I'm trying to do is reason with him and sort the problem out.

[Corleone]

Seriously there is no situation, and if he believes there is a problem and it's stopping you from having fun with friends, time to look elsewhere. Sounds like you are pretty close though.

[Juicy Fruit]

Seriously there is no situation, and if he believes there is a problem and it's stopping you from having fun with friends, time to look elsewhere. Sounds like you are pretty close though.

I think you're right, to be honest I don't know why I'm bothering with him. I guess I'm just hoping he'll chill the fuck out eventually.

[White Pwny]

Seriously there is no situation, and if he believes there is a problem and it's stopping you from having fun with friends, time to look elsewhere. Sounds like you are pretty close though.

I think you're right, to be honest I don't know why I'm bothering with him. I guess I'm just hoping he'll chill the fuck out eventually.

Zaz.  Run while you can.  If they are a certain way when you  are just  freshly dating them... They will continue to be that way... and become worse.  This is the stage where he should be doing everything possible to reel you in.  Not restraining you already.    Don't give him that power.  wasting two hours on the phone trying to be realistic with a guy who is being overly possessive just isn't right for a new relationship.   

[Corleone]

Seriously there is no situation, and if he believes there is a problem and it's stopping you from having fun with friends, time to look elsewhere. Sounds like you are pretty close though.

I think you're right, to be honest I don't know why I'm bothering with him. I guess I'm just hoping he'll chill the fuck out eventually.

He will realize eventually, because either way you can move on and still have your friends. What does he want? You to himself? Thats pretty selffish.

[Juicy Fruit]

Seriously there is no situation, and if he believes there is a problem and it's stopping you from having fun with friends, time to look elsewhere. Sounds like you are pretty close though.

I think you're right, to be honest I don't know why I'm bothering with him. I guess I'm just hoping he'll chill the fuck out eventually.

Zaz.  Run while you can.  If they are a certain way when you  are just  freshly dating them... They will continue to be that way... and become worse.  This is the stage where he should be doing everything possible to reel you in.  Not restraining you already.    Don't give him that power.  wasting two hours on the phone trying to be realistic with a guy who is being overly possessive just isn't right for a new relationship.   

Haha I know you're right but I'm bored and not interested in anyone else so for now I'm going with the flow... that probably sounds bad...

Seriously there is no situation, and if he believes there is a problem and it's stopping you from having fun with friends, time to look elsewhere. Sounds like you are pretty close though.

I think you're right, to be honest I don't know why I'm bothering with him. I guess I'm just hoping he'll chill the fuck out eventually.

He will realize eventually, because either way you can move on and still have your friends. What does he want? You to himself? Thats pretty selffish.

Yeah it is selfish, I think he's really insecure.

[Martin]

Seriously there is no situation, and if he believes there is a problem and it's stopping you from having fun with friends, time to look elsewhere. Sounds like you are pretty close though.

I think you're right, to be honest I don't know why I'm bothering with him. I guess I'm just hoping he'll chill the fuck out eventually.

Zaz.  Run while you can.  If they are a certain way when you  are just  freshly dating them... They will continue to be that way... and become worse.  This is the stage where he should be doing everything possible to reel you in.  Not restraining you already.    Don't give him that power.  wasting two hours on the phone trying to be realistic with a guy who is being overly possessive just isn't right for a new relationship.  

Haha I know you're right but I'm bored and not interested in anyone else so for now I'm going with the flow... that probably sounds bad...

Seriously there is no situation, and if he believes there is a problem and it's stopping you from having fun with friends, time to look elsewhere. Sounds like you are pretty close though.

I think you're right, to be honest I don't know why I'm bothering with him. I guess I'm just hoping he'll chill the fuck out eventually.

He will realize eventually, because either way you can move on and still have your friends. What does he want? You to himself? Thats pretty selffish.

Yeah it is selfish, I think he's really insecure.

If you don't mind my opinion as well;

Said already and rightfully so: don't let anyone else restrain you to go out with friends. But I'd say not to put much weight on it; just go out and have fun, if he decides to make an issue out of it, just see how big he'll make it.
And if it gets on your nerves, explain to him that if he keeps on doing that he's got nothing left to be so protective of.

That said, jealousy is very natural. I think everybody is, it's just the way you deal with it. I'm certain jealousy doesn't necassaraly (sp) have anything to do with insecurity, with what you haveto offer. It's also about being secure that others have something to offer as well.

[Jacob]

I gotta join in and agree with pretty much everything everyone else said. a guy like that is not worth it (nor would a girl like that be - they exist too). you have all the right in the world to go to a club with your friends. if he so insecure that he can't let you do that, then he has problems to solve by himself and shouldn't drag you into it.

I can kinda relate though, seeing as how I was the possessive and overly jealous guy many years ago. I've changed though, since I have experienced more and learnt that you can't control another human being. he should simply be glad you're willing to waste 2 hours of your life arguing with him instead of just asking him to fuck off.

oh, btw... I'm single, just so you know. *wink wink*

[Juicy Fruit]

If you don't mind my opinion as well;

Said already and rightfully so: don't let anyone else restrain you to go out with friends. But I'd say not to put much weight on it; just go out and have fun, if he decides to make an issue out of it, just see how big he'll make it.
And if it gets on your nerves, explain to him that if he keeps on doing that he's got nothing left to be so protective of.

That said, jealousy is very natural. I think everybody is, it's just the way you deal with it. I'm certain jealousy doesn't necassaraly (sp) have anything to do with insecurity, with what you haveto offer. It's also about being secure that others have something to offer as well.

I gotta join in and agree with pretty much everything everyone else said. a guy like that is not worth it (nor would a girl like that be - they exist too). you have all the right in the world to go to a club with your friends. if he so insecure that he can't let you do that, then he has problems to solve by himself and shouldn't drag you into it.

I can kinda relate though, seeing as how I was the possessive and overly jealous guy many years ago. I've changed though, since I have experienced more and learnt that you can't control another human being. he should simply be glad you're willing to waste 2 hours of your life arguing with him instead of just asking him to fuck off.

oh, btw... I'm single, just so you know. *wink wink*

Well Tuck I've decided I'm not going to stop doing what I want and if he can't get used to it then I'll eventually have to leave him. I was pretty sure I'd get this response so I suppose it shows his claim that 'anyone would say you're in the wrong' was complete bullshit. I have such shitty taste in guys. I know this guy isn't worth my time, and I've certainly had enough people telling me the same thing. And I don't even like him that much. I'm just bored and hoping he'll improve, even though deep down I know that's highly unlikely.

Haha aenemic thanks for the hint... I'll be sure to stop by next time I'm in Sweden.