Bullshit Thread #7

[tarkil]

What's the best way to break up with someone? I've tried twice and it doesn't seem to be working, he still thinks we're together!

I did that 3 days ago... Just show him in your talk that you have made up your mind, that you thought a lot about it, and that your decision is taken already, and won't change...

[Jacob]

What's the best way to break up with someone? I've tried twice and it doesn't seem to be working, he still thinks we're together!

start dating someone else *hint hint*

seriously though, you just gotta be really clear and honest. none of that "maybe we should take a break from each other". just say it, straight out - it's over, you need to move on.

when I broke up with my ex I was really straight with her - I didn't love her the same way anymore and I didn't have the energy nor the will to keep trying to work shit out. she kept calling me and crying and all that for a couple of weeks afterwards, but I just repeated that we needed to stop talking on a daily basis and move on with our lives for now. it's was really harsh for both of us, but it had to be done.

[Juicy Fruit]

Hmmm you're both right but I feel so sorry for him, he's a sweet guy deep down, he just didn't treat me well and I don't think I could ever love him so there's no point in us being together. I should've broken up with him a long time ago but I couldn't bring myself to do it. He was almost crying when I told him a couple of days ago and begging me to take him back and asking what he's done wrong and how he should change etc. He's usually an annoyingly proud person, it was really shocking to see him acting like that. He kept saying he couldn't bring himself to leave my apartment because he knew he wouldn't be able to come back and kept trying to hold me and stuff. All of this from a guy who couldn't even bring himself to tell me he's in love with me! And then I made the mistake of telling him I like someone else (which is sort of true but isn't the reason I was breaking up with him at all), thinking it might make it easier for him if he's angry with me rather than hurt but that didn't work either! It bothered him at first but now he doesn't seem to even care! He's still trying, he called me three times today talking to me like everything was completely normal between us! He wants to see me later on today, I'm not sure what to do.

[tarkil]

Just say it's better if you guys don't see each other for some time because both of you need to get over your story...
That you really meant what you said to him couple of days ago, and just be honest : there's no love between you so there's no point in this relationship... But after some time you can still become friends if you enjoy each other company, but you just need to cut seeing each other for now...

[Juicy Fruit]

Just say it's better if you guys don't see each other for some time because both of you need to get over your story...
That you really meant what you said to him couple of days ago, and just be honest : there's no love between you so there's no point in this relationship... But after some time you can still become friends if you enjoy each other company, but you just need to cut seeing each other for now...

Ok I'll try that, thanks for the advice tarkil.

[tarkil]

Well, that's 5 days that I'm talking about that with lots of my close friends as I'm in the same kind of issue...
So yeah, I can share all that with you now...

[Necrocetaceanbeastiality]

Relationships are way more complicated than they should be.

On a somewhat, but not very related note, being almost 19 and never having even having the situation in which kissing a girl would be a good idea kinda sucks. And by kinda sucks, I mean totally blows.

[Juicy Fruit]

Relationships are way more complicated than they should be.

On a somewhat, but not very related note, being almost 19 and never having even having the situation in which kissing a girl would be a good idea kinda sucks. And by kinda sucks, I mean totally blows.

I didn't kiss anyone until I was 20, don't worry about it. Your time will come! Just don't make the mistake of wasting it on a disgusting loser like I did!

[Necrocetaceanbeastiality]

High five for disgusting losers and wasting good moments.

[blondie]

happy hollowpoon.

[Necrocetaceanbeastiality]

Halloween sucks and is a stupid holiday.

[blondie]

your face is a stupid holiday.

[Necrocetaceanbeastiality]

I NO, RITE?!

[Martin]

Just say it's better if you guys don't see each other for some time because both of you need to get over your story...
That you really meant what you said to him couple of days ago, and just be honest : there's no love between you so there's no point in this relationship... But after some time you can still become friends if you enjoy each other company, but you just need to cut seeing each other for now...

Ok I'll try that, thanks for the advice tarkil.

Tarkil and Aenemic are right: be honest. Breaking up is never easy, but honesty shows respect.
Good luck.

[Real Nigga Black]

Hmmm you\'re both right but I feel so sorry for him, he\'s a sweet guy deep down, he just didn\'t treat me well and I don\'t think I could ever love him so there\'s no point in us being together. I should\'ve broken up with him a long time ago but I couldn\'t bring myself to do it. He was almost crying when I told him a couple of days ago and begging me to take him back and asking what he\'s done wrong and how he should change etc. He\'s usually an annoyingly proud person, it was really shocking to see him acting like that. He kept saying he couldn\'t bring himself to leave my apartment because he knew he wouldn\'t be able to come back and kept trying to hold me and stuff. All of this from a guy who couldn\'t even bring himself to tell me he\'s in love with me! And then I made the mistake of telling him I like someone else (which is sort of true but isn\'t the reason I was breaking up with him at all), thinking it might make it easier for him if he\'s angry with me rather than hurt but that didn\'t work either! It bothered him at first but now he doesn\'t seem to even care! He\'s still trying, he called me three times today talking to me like everything was completely normal between us! He wants to see me later on today, I\'m not sure what to do.

It looks like your having a freshman year love 6 years too late.

[Juicy Fruit]

Hmmm you\'re both right but I feel so sorry for him, he\'s a sweet guy deep down, he just didn\'t treat me well and I don\'t think I could ever love him so there\'s no point in us being together. I should\'ve broken up with him a long time ago but I couldn\'t bring myself to do it. He was almost crying when I told him a couple of days ago and begging me to take him back and asking what he\'s done wrong and how he should change etc. He\'s usually an annoyingly proud person, it was really shocking to see him acting like that. He kept saying he couldn\'t bring himself to leave my apartment because he knew he wouldn\'t be able to come back and kept trying to hold me and stuff. All of this from a guy who couldn\'t even bring himself to tell me he\'s in love with me! And then I made the mistake of telling him I like someone else (which is sort of true but isn\'t the reason I was breaking up with him at all), thinking it might make it easier for him if he\'s angry with me rather than hurt but that didn\'t work either! It bothered him at first but now he doesn\'t seem to even care! He\'s still trying, he called me three times today talking to me like everything was completely normal between us! He wants to see me later on today, I\'m not sure what to do.

It looks like your having a freshman year love 6 years too late.

I completely agree, this was my first relationship.

[Fireal1222]

holy crap this ice cream cone is good

[Necrocetaceanbeastiality]

IRON LUNG!

Man last night was the shit. Some grind as fuck bands and beerin' it up with the bros.

[Juicy Fruit]

I'm sad.

[sameol]

I'm sad.

girl if you've got the time, i'll give you some money, to buy a dirty mind, don't misunderstand me, I'll never fool around, but hunny you got me on my knees won't you please let me lay down.

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