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Bullshit Thread #7

Started by Drop-Dead, Sep 15, 2005, 05:44 PM

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vida_mae

::shock: well maybe if you talk to teach, and have that doctors note/ hospital shit.. they will let you do maybe like a 8 page for half credit.? surely you can negotiate something...


if not i will knock some ppl out if you need me too!  :lol:

Fireal1222

she already knows i was in the hospital


my average was a 90 in her class
but this fucking paper was worth 35% of the grade



im so sick of college, i have a strong feeling im gonna drop out

I'm Not Here.
This Isn't Happening.

vida_mae

Quote from: "Fireal1222"she already knows i was in the hospital


my average was a 90 in her class
but this fucking paper was worth 35% of the grade



im so sick of college, i have a strong feeling im gonna drop out

you should pass with a d then.. way to go!.. ur playing in my field now..  :lol:
what year are you and whats ur major?

Fireal1222

Quote from: "vida_mae"
Quote from: "Fireal1222"she already knows i was in the hospital


my average was a 90 in her class
but this fucking paper was worth 35% of the grade



im so sick of college, i have a strong feeling im gonna drop out

you should pass with a d then.. way to go!.. ur playing in my field now..  :lol:
what year are you and whats ur major?


this is my 2nd year, im in general studies



school makes me so depressed its disgusting.. i take the summer for granted when its here, and when its gone, i really miss it

I'm Not Here.
This Isn't Happening.

vida_mae

Quote from: "Fireal1222"
Quote from: "vida_mae"
Quote from: "Fireal1222"she already knows i was in the hospital


my average was a 90 in her class
but this fucking paper was worth 35% of the grade



im so sick of college, i have a strong feeling im gonna drop out

you should pass with a d then.. way to go!.. ur playing in my field now..  :lol:
what year are you and whats ur major?


this is my 2nd year, im in general studies



school makes me so depressed its disgusting.. i take the summer for granted when its here, and when its gone, i really miss it


oh, whats general studies? i go to school too, but never paid attn to that major.. :x

Fireal1222

its not a major, it means im undecided




my whole family is gonna destroy me when they find out i might be flunking out of school

I'm Not Here.
This Isn't Happening.

ToneDef

Dont worry man, fuck school. Surely you can just retake college any time you want? I'm 20 years old and still don't know what I wanna do with myself so I'm gonna try some college courses in September. Take some time out in the real world away from education, have some fun, then just go back when it suits you.

vida_mae

Quote from: "Fireal1222"its not a major, it means im undecided




my whole family is gonna destroy me when they find out i might be flunking out of school


ohhh i see.. well part of growing up is having to make choices for yourself.. your family will get over it.. they may cut off the cash flow  :x , and nagg you to death  :roll: .. and get all hot and heavy about it all  :evil: .. but when thats all said and done, they will ulitimately respect you for going after what you truly want to do..

alot of parents try to direct their kids what to do.. its just out of love, and they think they can save you from mistakes..most likely mistakes they made.. but your going to make all sorts of wrong desions in life.. its called living.  You wont regret dropping out of school and you wont be like "dammit i wish i would have stayed in school for the last 2 years, and finished my degree in a field i have no passion for." Decide and figure out what you really want to do, and go with it..it takes time to figure it all out.. and many ppl switch careers in life.. but go with ur gut and do your thing..  what you feel is truly all you know..

Moz La Punk

Vida, you're so sexy when you're actually talking serious for a change. I mean it. That and your signature really turns me on.

Fireal1222

see. if i stop with school now, a load of money is wasted



i hate feeling depressed. i mean, im sure nobody likes it. but when school makes me that sick, i hate having to keep going back there

I'm Not Here.
This Isn't Happening.

Moz La Punk

Quote from: "Fireal1222"see. if i stop with school now, a load of money is wasted



i hate feeling depressed. i mean, im sure nobody likes it. but when school makes me that sick, i hate having to keep going back there

Woa man I've been there before. I went to an education and I really didnt felt like it, I mean it wasn't what I wanted to become but I didn't know, because back then I didnt know what the hell I wanted to do with my life.

So I got into this downward spiral. School wasn't interesting for me so I didn't do homework and I got bad degrees, kept them secret for my parents because they put money in it. In turn, things and work started to heap up, and so did the feeling of depression. Every day it feels a little bit worse to come back there, not only because you dont like the education but the shit is heaping up more and more.

Sooner or later it has to be stopped, you know. It can seriously, literally kill you, so it has to stop sooner or later. If you think the situation can't be straightened anymore, you have to stop going to the school and either work or (preferably) go to another education that will hopefully suit your tastes more.

To explain what it can do to you: in that four to five months where I had my education-gone-bad experience, I lost more than 25kg (dunno what it is in pounds but I was skinny ass),  smoked 30 cigarettes a day, slept about 2 hours a night, had a bad addiction to cutting myself and a few suicide attemps that were seriously not a cry for help but out of desperation.

Things going bad at school can seriously kill you. Do something about it man.

vida_mae

Quote from: "Fireal1222"see. if i stop with school now, a load of money is wasted



i hate feeling depressed. i mean, im sure nobody likes it. but when school makes me that sick, i hate having to keep going back there

MONEY DOES NOT EXIST.

i repeat

MONEY DOES NOT EXIST.

dont worry about the money dude.. dont let money decide your fate! thats horrible..and you will always be depressed.

you definetly should take some time off from school..if your feeling depressed... maybe just a semester so your parents dont freak out... just do it, like nike says.  :lol:  
and cheer up !!  :lol: dont let some lame ass paper ruin your hour..

Fireal1222

i was with you 100% up to the getting suicidal part



it makes me so depressed. i mean something amazing can be happening in my life, but in the back of my head is that horrible feeling of what my grades might be in school


i know what u mean when u say u couldnt stand the feeling of the work piling up more and more, it makes me just wanna drive my car past the school, and keep going until the road stops, and when it does, get out of my car and run away from it all

I'm Not Here.
This Isn't Happening.

Moz La Punk

You know you dont have to be a therapist to know that the real work piling up are giving you a mental pile of work to carry on your back. It's getting heavier and heavier, and when you resolve this problem, it's going to feel like all that trash felt of your back. You'll feel free again.

So try to take a good objective look, which is difficult when you're in the middle of it, and see if you can find a solution. If you can't go on with the education, then dont, because your mental health is more important.

Of course, I dont know the situation with your parents, but mine could wholehearthly understand. They just wished I didnt kept it a secret for them so long. Don't make the same mistake, like I said I dont know them but if they have at least some heart, then talking about it with them will make stuff even easier in the end.

What can I say? Good luck.

vida_mae

Quote from: "Fireal1222"i was with you 100% up to the getting suicidal part



it makes me so depressed. i mean something amazing can be happening in my life, but in the back of my head is that horrible feeling of what my grades might be in school


i know what u mean when u say u couldnt stand the feeling of the work piling up more and more, it makes me just wanna drive my car past the school, and keep going until the road stops, and when it does, get out of my car and run away from it all

hey, maybe you could go talk to your counseler at school.. they could give you professional advice.. here you only get weirdos like me,  trying to tell you what to do with your life! and i dont know who you are, and the story of your life or how serious you are.. (you could just be having a bad day at school)  so its just kinda difficult.... but you should always do what you want, and be happy..so if your not, you should change your situation, even if that means going against what your parents say/want... infact you should never listen to your parents.. they are old and were brought up in a time when when little boys and little girls were taught that they had do be army men and housewives.. just listen to urslef and it will all magically work out.

Moz La Punk

Damn, 'never listen to your parents'? In some cases this may be true, but there are enough sensible parents out there. They helped me a lot in my life. I don't know about you but I'm past the whole teenage rebellion stage.

vida_mae

Quote from: "Moz La Punk"Damn, 'never listen to your parents'? In some cases this may be true, but there are enough sensible parents out there. They helped me a lot in my life. I don't know about you but I'm past the whole teenage rebellion stage.



ya, i can tell.. ur in super serious adult mode right now. :wink: . i was just joking...unless your parents are retards like most of the 90% of american citizens.. spawning more retards.. what ever happend to EUGENICS.. bring it back i say.. :wink:  

Fireal1222

luckily i have parents that are cool


its hard to talk about solutions to this with u guys right now, im still in the middle of this hell like feeling.

I'm Not Here.
This Isn't Happening.

rxqueen

I feel you moz. I often feel terrible because 50 year old woman at my work act like 16 year old bitches. And my mom told me to do what makes me happy and follow my heart. She's gorgeous! <3 Life isn't disneyland, you can't always escape and do what you want. But if you're really so depressed, it certainly would be the best to change something fireal. :/

Moz La Punk

Sorry if I was giving the impression that I felt like the 'know it all, experienced guy'... I'm just speaking from my own viewpoint. Like I said, it's not the same for everyone, but I think there's some sense left in a lot of parents.

To Rxqueen: life surely isn't disneyland, no. Of course, you can't just chicken out from everything. With becoming older, there should come certain feelings of responsibility. Growing up doesn't mean you can get it your way all the time, it means you should grow the ability to give in to other people's needs and your own responsibilities.