Bullshit Thread #7

[theis]

Copenhagen.

[bright lights, big city]

man, i want some absinthe.

[roflestiltskin]

Sat, Feb 11th, 2012    Electric Factory    Philadelphia, Pennsylvania    
   
Set One
Jazz Odyssey > Ocean Billy$ > Glory$$, Conduit, Forks > Resolution > Morning Song, The Triple Wide -> Dr. Feelgood -> Ocean Billy
Set Two
Nothing Too Fancy* -> The Linear > Nothing Too Fancy, Freedom of '76**, Utopian Fir > Day Nurse > Utopian Fir, Rocker Part II > "Jimmy Stewart" > Rocker Part II, 40's Theme
Encore
1348 > Eminence Front > 1348
Notes
Work Drugs opened
$ with I Wanna Dance with Somebody (Whitney Houston) tease
$$ with I Will Always Love You (Dolly Parton) teases
* with Mercy Street (Peter Gabriel) teases in intro
** first time played, Ween

[sing blue silver]

My living room is now an arcade. Got a hockey table, Fighters History, Mortal Kombat 2 and Terminator 2. Childhood dreams are coming true.

[Oldnewtype]

@bright lights, big city: digging your sig, been playing San Andreas for the first time all week. I'm always like 7 years behind on video games.

[Crazylegs]

SIT YOUR WHORE ASS DOWN!!!

[theis]

Haha!

[roflestiltskin]

http://news.yahoo.com/chief-1-dead-ohio-nursing-home-meth-lab-040937605.html

[downtownpony]

http://news.yahoo.com/chief-1-dead-ohio-nursing-home-meth-lab-040937605.html

What the Fuck

[theis]

http://puu.sh/lCOn

[gottsu]

I even scared, man! 

[gottsu]

Tom and Jerry's Hole In The Earth

sorry for double post 

[theis]

Haha!

[wheresmysnare]

i'm falling into another long distance relationship, that makes three in a row, does anyone else suffer from this self inflicted habit of falling in with girls from other towns/cities? she's 21 and im 28 - this just makes it even more short sighted of me, is anyone else this fucked up, please say yes it will make me feel a whole lot better about my fucked up mindset right now.

sorry in advance for this pathetic emo post i just need an outlet, bs seems fitting

[Jacob]

i'm falling into another long distance relationship, that makes three in a row, does anyone else suffer from this self inflicted habit of falling in with girls from other towns/cities? she's 21 and im 28 - this just makes it even more short sighted of me, is anyone else this fucked up, please say yes it will make me feel a whole lot better about my fucked up mindset right now.

sorry in advance for this pathetic emo post i just need an outlet, bs seems fitting

only been in long-distance relationships myself up until a couple of months ago. it happens. either you make it work, or not. that's all that matters.

[blondie]

i'm falling into another long distance relationship, that makes three in a row, does anyone else suffer from this self inflicted habit of falling in with girls from other towns/cities? she's 21 and im 28 - this just makes it even more short sighted of me, is anyone else this fucked up, please say yes it will make me feel a whole lot better about my fucked up mindset right now.

sorry in advance for this pathetic emo post i just need an outlet, bs seems fitting

i think it can work if you're both committed to each other, but that would probably require you both to fall in love simultaneously. seems like this type of thing hasn't been working for you, though. i think you should just stick to sex when either of you are in town.

[wheresmysnare]

i'm falling into another long distance relationship, that makes three in a row, does anyone else suffer from this self inflicted habit of falling in with girls from other towns/cities? she's 21 and im 28 - this just makes it even more short sighted of me, is anyone else this fucked up, please say yes it will make me feel a whole lot better about my fucked up mindset right now.

sorry in advance for this pathetic emo post i just need an outlet, bs seems fitting

i think it can work if you're both committed to each other, but that would probably require you both to fall in love simultaneously. seems like this type of thing hasn't been working for you, though. i think you should just stick to sex when either of you are in town.

Yeah, we've been doing the sleeping together thing since last Easter but i guess its getting to that stage where either you commit or drift apart. i am speaking generally here but in my experience girls tend to want commitment rather than casual sex every now and then.

Yeah Jacob you are right, it's entirely in my hands, in the past i'd jump straight in but now that i'm scraping through into my late twenties I seem to get bogged down in what if's. Anyway, I think i was on a bit of an alcohol come down after the bank holiday drinking, i'm sure things will work out some way or another, appreciate the impartial advice.

[Jacob]

i'm falling into another long distance relationship, that makes three in a row, does anyone else suffer from this self inflicted habit of falling in with girls from other towns/cities? she's 21 and im 28 - this just makes it even more short sighted of me, is anyone else this fucked up, please say yes it will make me feel a whole lot better about my fucked up mindset right now.

sorry in advance for this pathetic emo post i just need an outlet, bs seems fitting

i think it can work if you're both committed to each other, but that would probably require you both to fall in love simultaneously. seems like this type of thing hasn't been working for you, though. i think you should just stick to sex when either of you are in town.

Yeah, we've been doing the sleeping together thing since last Easter but i guess its getting to that stage where either you commit or drift apart. i am speaking generally here but in my experience girls tend to want commitment rather than casual sex every now and then.

Yeah Jacob you are right, it's entirely in my hands, in the past i'd jump straight in but now that i'm scraping through into my late twenties I seem to get bogged down in what if's. Anyway, I think i was on a bit of an alcohol come down after the bank holiday drinking, i'm sure things will work out some way or another, appreciate the impartial advice.

girls tend to want exactly what guys tend to want: some want commitment, some want casual sex. I don't think there's that much difference between the sexes in the end. girls just have a harder time making their mind up and being honest about what they want

what I meant with my previous post was simply that there's nothing wrong or right with how you meet someone. if the feelings and the commitment are there it will work out. with long-distance relationships you just might have to work a bit more for it. if neither of you have any plans whatsoever to move closer to the other one, or both of you move to the same city, chances are you'll drift apart. it will only work as a long-distance relationship for a while, you have to have some sort of plan. at least, that's what my experience tells me. if you're unsure, it's kind of hard to keep it casual and date until you make up your mind, since there's a lot of logistics, money and time restrictions involved. so if it's nothing more than casual sex, it might be fair to both of you (and your wallet) to either call it off or at least be honest that it's nothing serious.

with my current girlfriend we were both commited from an early point in the relationship, which meant we spent pretty much every weekend together, or a full week or two when it was possible. we talked early on about moving closer. I ended up moving back to my home city, where she already lived. unfortunately this meant that we had to put other things aside, such as hanging out with friends on the weekends (we made exceptions, of course), but if you know you want it and are willing to work for it, it is worth it.

[wheresmysnare]

Yeah I was being way too generic with my statement, i don't mean to lump the female species into one bracket. That's funny because she is from my home town too, I get what you mean about the every weekend thing, this has how it has worked (give or take the odd week off) with the other long distances i've had. The thing is she is studying and doing an internship and getting paid one day a week and has no car. This means she can't afford to get up to where I am that often and hence I probably see her about once or twice a month but we communicate every day pretty much. I think its hard for both of us to get head over heels with each other due to the pure on off time together, kind of kills it a bit. This is obviously a temporary situation and we could of course live together in the future, but it seems pretty far off and for some reason my head is full of doubts, mainly self defeatist doubts due to things not working out in the past. When you switched and went back home to live with your girlfriend, did you just jack in your job or could you take it with you or did you just start out fresh?

[Jacob]

no, I was studying when I met her and school ended about a year later. didn't really have anything planned after that, other than keep taking some small courses I could take pretty much anywhere. so I thought, what the hell, why not move back home to my friends, family and girlfriend and see where that takes me. it was a pretty lucky situation in a way. but if I had stayed, she would probably have ended up moving to me instead since she didn't really have anything tying her up either. that's what we discussed at first.

well, good luck to you, man. hope it works out for the best. don't let boring shit like a job and what people would think get in the way of happiness.