The +/- thread!

[sing blue silver]

Billy knows what's up.

[pissedandpierced]

+/- met this girl at the bar last night. we clicked instantly. she was so cute...funny, smart, sweet and so easy to talk to. the chemistry was definitely there. as the night was nearing its end i tried to kiss her, but she wouldn't return it. she said she wanted to, but had just broken up with her boyfriend 2 weeks ago so it was weird for her. she gave me her number, we hugged and she left.
i've literally been staring at my phone all day trying to figure out what to write to her. I HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE. she's left me flabbergasted.

what to do, what to do!? :-/

There is nothing worse from a woman's point of view than waiting for a guy to text you. The three day rule is shit. Text her saying that it was nice to meet you and that if she wants to meet up again then for her to let you know. She gave you her number so she must have been interested, it might be odd for her to date so soon so leave it casual so you don't scare her off.

+ Interview for promotion
- Interview for promotion
- Had a tiff with a male friend

[theis]

+/- met this girl at the bar last night. we clicked instantly. she was so cute...funny, smart, sweet and so easy to talk to. the chemistry was definitely there. as the night was nearing its end i tried to kiss her, but she wouldn't return it. she said she wanted to, but had just broken up with her boyfriend 2 weeks ago so it was weird for her. she gave me her number, we hugged and she left.
i've literally been staring at my phone all day trying to figure out what to write to her. I HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE. she's left me flabbergasted.

what to do, what to do!? :-/

There is nothing worse from a woman's point of view than waiting for a guy to text you. The three day rule is shit. Text her saying that it was nice to meet you and that if she wants to meet up again then for her to let you know. She gave you her number so she must have been interested, it might be odd for her to date so soon so leave it casual so you don't scare her off.

Nothing better than getting advice from a woman's perspective when it comes to something like this. Thanks.

I'll text her tomorrow. It's 11.55 PM now, so it's a little too late.

[bright lights, big city]

good to hear man, she's obviously interested so you're in. you got this!

[from_musings]

if there was chemistry between you two, then it really shouldn't matter when you text her, what you write, what you suggest, as long as you are yourself. if you get turned down when you are yourself, and when you act according to what you think makes sense -  then clearly she's not for you. fuck playing games and being tactical when it comes to gf material, don't overthink and second guess yourself just go

[theis]

so...i texted her asking if she wanted to have coffee one day.

but she didn't...she said she wasn't ready for something new this soon after her break-up(which is understandable and an issue i had already been expecting a little).

still a major bummer 'cause she felt special. bah humbug.

[sing blue silver]

Dat hoe be triiiiiiippin'.

Sorry, that sucks dude. I'm sure she'll message you eventually. If not, don't sweat it too much.

[theis]

i'm certainly not keeping my hopes up.

i seriously just don't get why she'd give me her number for nothing. i really don't get women sometimes...

[bright lights, big city]

welcome to my world. good question though, about why she gave her number. there has to be part of her that likes you.

was she with friends at the bar? maybe her friends will give her shit for hesitating with you.

[CandyAndy]

I agree, the three-day-rule is some bullshit. I agree with the asking to out for coffee idea. Just be cool and confident about it.

[BillyNo.9]

++ Going to watch Gremlins in the cinema tonight with my girlfriend. For some reason this has made me extremely manic.

[from_musings]

i'm certainly not keeping my hopes up.

i seriously just don't get why she'd give me her number for nothing. i really don't get women sometimes...

i dunnno it could mean that she felt something that night, when she was drunk, but when she woke up the day after she thought "what the hell am I doing, I need time, not rebounds". or...maybe she thought you guys had a great time and realized that you liked her a little extra, so she gave you her phone number so the moment when you tried to kiss her wouldn't ruin anything you've bulit up that night, end the night in magic not in awkwardness. or maybe she just wanted to check if you would contact her again for self esteem.. so she could feel like she's desired hot stuff out there next time she's out hunting

[theis]

i'm certainly not keeping my hopes up.

i seriously just don't get why she'd give me her number for nothing. i really don't get women sometimes...

i dunnno it could mean that she felt something that night, when she was drunk, but when she woke up the day after she thought "what the hell am I doing, I need time, not rebounds". or...maybe she thought you guys had a great time and realized that you liked her a little extra, so she gave you her phone number so the moment when you tried to kiss her wouldn't ruin anything you've bulit up that night, end the night in magic not in awkwardness. or maybe she just wanted to check if you would contact her again for self esteem.. so she could feel like she's desired hot stuff out there next time she's out hunting

Wise words, man!

Oh well, just gotta get back up on that horse again, haha.

[RoyalDeftonicBoy]

--- So fucking depressed to see my dad on a hospital bed with a first time glucose reaction and finding out it is diabetes
- Hate to see my dad going through this shit
- Such a cold night
+ Dad back to his home with my mom
+ Words of support for me and my mom
+ Gf being great

[Crazylegs]

+ back on mainland Norway after 4 months on Svalbard.
- Going to miss my friends i met there.
+ Don't have to do shit until mid January

[sing blue silver]

+/- I think I'm falling for someone.
- It's not my girlfriend.
-- This situation could not come at a worse or more complicated time.

[Jacob]

so...i texted her asking if she wanted to have coffee one day.

but she didn't...she said she wasn't ready for something new this soon after her break-up(which is understandable and an issue i had already been expecting a little).

still a major bummer 'cause she felt special. bah humbug.

meh, the step between taking a coffee with someone and "something new" is pretty big. she's a bitch who couldn't be honest with you. screw her, you'll meet someone better.

[Corleone]

+ Got my grades back, 85 average, pretty happy
+ off for 3 weeks
- pimpin aint easy

[lostpilot]

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[Corleone]