szia chick de la lynch

[blixa]

fucking exactly!!! although i am 100% certain i'm over him.

[black coffee]

Tell him to fuck off and he'll not write you again, but if he asks to meet up and you respond with maybe, then he has reason to keep on trying. I know I would, because maybe hardly ever means no when it comes to women (no offense) ^_^

[blixa]

hahaha i actually said "maybe" when he asked if we could hang out. nothing good will come out of hanging out with him again. i have too much resentment towards him. no one has sat his arse down and told him what a narcissistic judgemental arsehole he is.

[black coffee]

ur so not over him and you know it!! too much anger in your heart you still have

[blixa]

i have pent up anger for sure. i never got to express it. i am over him though. he has messaged me before about various things and i remember how i felt, but when he messaged last time suggesting we hang out again, i just knew inside that i was over it all. i've grown up a lot over the last few years. he treated me like shit and i was completely passive to it. i think my anger is mostly directed at myself because i allowed it all to happen under my watch. he has a really high view of himself. no one has bothered to bring him down a notch.

[chick de la lynch]

I don't know why he was such a cocky piece of shit. He was attractive but there are hotter men in the world.

[blixa]

he wasn't that great looking. he had nice eyes though. he texted again today, but i didn't reply.

[Crazylegs]

Tell him to fuck off and be done with it. Not answering is a passive/aggressive, and childish move methinks (unless of course he's clogging up your phone with messages).

[black coffee]

Ignore his messages all you like, as long as you puss out of being clear with him I think it only affirms my earlier thought that you might in fact not be over him.
Maybe you think that he suffers from not receiving any replies and thats your way of payback for all the bad things he has done to you, but I don't believe this way of thinking would be very benefitial. Let go of the man, even if that means receiving no more messages and losing someone in your life who desires you.

[blixa]

i'm not playing any games. i don't think he's "suffering" at all. i don't think he even gives a shit. i didn't feel like responding so i didn't. i have let go. he's the one texting me. he broke up with me. he's supposed to never want to have anything to do with me. i've never initiated contact.

[chick de la lynch]

I ignore guys I have no interest with too, and after a while they back off. No need to reply back.

[blixa]

he's the last thing i'm thinking about. no men in my life and i feel good.

[chick de la lynch]

Me too! Hi five girl!

[blixa]

had beers with my friend doug and we were walking to my car and who's across the road? my ex. he was eyeballing me but we just kept walking.

[bright lights, big city]

he was jelly

[blixa]

my friend was like, "he's going to text you and ask about that super hot guy you were with". when i was walking up the road to the pub i thought i saw him walking on the other side of the road holding hands with some girl, but i'm not sure if it was him or not. i hope he's doing ok.

[blixa]

haven't had sex in so long.

[chick de la lynch]

When was the last time you banged?

[blixa]

beginning of april. the guy i was shagging is in europe but to be honest, i don't know if i want to shag him anymore. he was great at sex though. god, he was so good. and we had a rapport. i practiced a few things on him and we both gave each other feedback. super comfortable around him. we usually watched game of thrones and shagged with game of thrones in the background then he would tell me about liam neeson having a massive penis after. i have no attachment to this guy and it feels like i'm having sex with a mate who i'm very sexually attracted to. there is a great comfort in not having sex though. i'm so much more chilled out.

i do miss dick though.

[chick de la lynch]

I get the comfort with no sex part. Less stress. Less guessing. Things are clearer. You have less shit to worry about. I get it.

It's been a few weeks since I last got dick and it was during a threesome so I'm doing okay. But dick--I have a love/hate relationship with it. I can go without for a while but as soon as I have good sex, I miss it terribly. What kind of things would this guy do? Sounds like he's a bit adventurous.