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@ Vesanic

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blixa

Quote from: from_musings on Apr 01, 2011, 01:12 PM
Quote from: blixa on Mar 28, 2011, 10:32 AM
stop ganging up on her. she was just writing something nice about romain.

now there's a difference between saying something nice to someone and to systematically use lots of compliments for own personal gain.
using compliments to left and right like this is an attempt to fit in and trying to make others like her, because she's counting on that those who receive her compliments will like her. not only is it tactics,it's also cheap


i don't know the story here but i didn't read it like she was using lots of compliments for her own personal gain. i hardly think that she is using 'tactics' to make anyone like her. this isn't war; it's just a messageboard.

she's a new member so obviously she's going to try to be nice to get to know people. personally i think she's being lambasted way too much for very juvenile reasons.

blixa

although i've never hugged the guys that have come up to me hahaha.

blixa

i don't like people touching me. especially strangers. i always got propositioned by weirdos though. i would hug you though. you're very cute.

lukas989

Quote from: Vesanic on Apr 02, 2011, 11:52 AM
Quote from: blixa on Apr 02, 2011, 11:49 AMi don't like people touching me.

What's up with that ? Not dissing but that's pretty weird.  Even though I know you're the weirdest girl around ha.

Dunno if Id call it weird - theres plenty of folk out there Id be putting my self in the 'not liking' column if they were touching me...but yeah - you're missing out if you're saying thats in general.  And perhaps a little worrying...everything cool?

blixa

i don't like being touched. it creeps me out. i barely let my mum hug or kiss me. it has to be on my terms. if i'm really hot for someone then i'll touch them and they can touch me but only at certain times. i can't control my response most of the time. i automatically shudder when i feel anyone touching me and my first reaction would be to step away.

too bad for people though because i have the softest skin lololol.

but but but, there is a boy at work that i am omgcrushingomg on a little. he's much younger than me though and i think he may have a tiny crush on me too. i'm not going to do anything though because he is far too young to try to corrupt.

blixa

it's crazy!!!! i'm trying to find an excuse for him to touch me or for me to touch him. we've always got this safe distance between us. it's always initiated by me though. i have depraved sex dreams about him though. bad bad nasty shit. he's the sweetest boy i've ever met. so polite and well-mannered.

i also can't make eye contact with men i like. i can barely make eye contact with men i find attractive. in essence, i'm fucked!

blixa

no way. i'm going to wait for him to initiate a move. i ain't doing shit. usually this type of stuff always backfires on me. if he gives me a sure sign then maybe i will try to pash him but until then ONLY IN DREAMS.

blixa

nooooooooo, i'm super dooper shy. i would never have the guts to go up to anyone unless i was slightly intoxicated.

lukas989

Quote from: blixa on Apr 02, 2011, 01:30 PM
no way. i'm going to wait for him to initiate a move. i ain't doing shit. usually this type of stuff always backfires on me. if he gives me a sure sign then maybe i will try to pash him but until then ONLY IN DREAMS.

Hehe - Im with you there to a point...theres nothing worse than convincing yourself its a sure thing only to be told, ' Ummmm...whatever gave you that idea?  Sure you're gorgeous and muscular not to mention hilarious, I just dont feel that way about you.'  Totally humiliating.  But on the flipside, I wowed my current girlfriend with a beautifully executed evening of sharp and witty flirty nonsense (aided by a wee dab of mdma I must admit), when usually my style is woo them over several months before triumphantly winning them over.  I must stress Im totally drugs-free these days, and the magic still works - just needed that dutch courage in the beginning.  All in all, sometimes its worth hanging yourself out to dry in the hope of success.

blixa

i don't think i can give him drugs because he is constantly on my back (figuratively speaking because you know, I WISH) about smoking. he's always telling me to quit and i'm always like, "what do you care? i have nothing to live for blah blah blah".

he has never ever gotten drunk nor touched drugs. this is one of those lovely boys that you think doesn't exist except he does exist. he is so...lovely. he has never sworn in front of me. he doesn't swear in front of females and adults. SERIOUSLY. what is wrong with me? i usually like arseholes.

blixa

being a girl is what's right with me. it's my head that's wrong  :(

i get real weirdos (bad-weirdos, not good-weirdos) who like me and make suggestive comments to me. sooo, what's wrong with men? fuckin' everything.

blixa

maybe you're one of those hybrids. which would mean there is lots of wrong with you because you're both man and woman hahaha

blixa

Quote from: Vesanic on Apr 02, 2011, 02:28 PM
Maybe I have woman's brains.

that would be the bit you would most be lucky to have.

Crazylegs


rock_n_frost

you are trying to understand women ??
thats your epic fail
Quote from: Vesanic
You used to call me on my cellphone

blixa

remember young guy from work? he said i was a catch. he's far too nice for me. i guess i'm used to arseholes but if we attempt a relationship (which i can never allow because i just want his sweet virginal body), i'm going to be the arsehole 100% of the time. too much guilt. it'll get me into drugs, dabbling with lesbians, being at the pub every spare moment...wait a minutes, I ALREADY DO THAT NOW.

you can only fall down so far.

Penicks

he's totally gay

but you fancy that because you're 'special'

lostpilot

sup
good job at having a good source of Deftones videos for YouTube.
Even though I don't watch the Deftones on YouTube that much, I'm pretty sure other dudes and dudettes appreciate that greatly :)

lostpilot

hm, well, writing my thesis (such a bore-some activity), writing music, wasting time, thinking about stuff. Life, you know ;)
what about YO

rock_n_frost

i want to know  ;D

yo Darius, whatup yo yo, yeah modhafucka oh yeah
Quote from: Vesanic
You used to call me on my cellphone