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letters for chi/ fundraiser/ update and prayers

Started by jv_, Nov 04, 2008, 11:52 PM

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Jesus2Chino

Let me preface this by saying I'm not arguing here, just talking--I'm not angry on any level over anything being discussed here. That being said, I don't think suppressing an instinct to punch someone in the face out of rage, and suppressing the instinct to help someone you feel close to (even if that closeness is illogical) is the same thing. I hope we don't evolve passed the point of helping the ones we care for, especially if the only justification we have for our apathy is that there are others out there with the same problems which we're not reaching. I'm not saying your apathetic over this, as I'm sure you're concerned for Chi as well as others in his, or even more dire, circumstances. I'm also not saying that Chi is on par with my mother or father, as I would jump through many more hoops for them than Chi, as I feel it should be. Unless I am to dedicate my life to the cause of personally funding coma-based research, the best I can do on an individual level is help those I know and care for. I could perhaps become some martyr for the cause and have, in that case, a very minimal chance of making a significant difference--but that is not realistic for most people, including you I'd imagine (not to say I'd discourage an attempt, I'd have nothing but admiration for someone willing to give it a shot). Keeping that in mind, if you're honest with yourself (again, I could be wrong here), you're not going to give all of yourself to the cause of coma research, and thus have almost no chance of making a difference in the cause. Short of that I feel the best you can do is help Chi out, as helping him is very realistic for you, and if it feels terribly wrong to ignore others in need, donate at least an equal if not a greater amount to a fund for research, or hell, perhaps to a complete stranger who is in a coma-based need. Just my two cents.

Much respect,
-Matt
Much respect,
-Matt

oneloveforchi

Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Apr 01, 2009, 03:28 AM
Let me preface this by saying I'm not arguing here, just talking--I'm not angry on any level over anything being discussed here. That being said, I don't think suppressing an instinct to punch someone in the face out of rage, and suppressing the instinct to help someone you feel close to (even if that closeness is illogical) is the same thing. I hope we don't evolve passed the point of helping the ones we care for, especially if the only justification we have for our apathy is that there are others out there with the same problems which we're not reaching. I'm not saying your apathetic over this, as I'm sure you're concerned for Chi as well as others in his, or even more dire, circumstances. I'm also not saying that Chi is on par with my mother or father, as I would jump through many more hoops for them than Chi, as I feel it should be. Unless I am to dedicate my life to the cause of personally funding coma-based research, the best I can do on an individual level is help those I know and care for. I could perhaps become some martyr for the cause and have, in that case, a very minimal chance of making a significant difference--but that is not realistic for most people, including you I'd imagine (not to say I'd discourage an attempt, I'd have nothing but admiration for someone willing to give it a shot). Keeping that in mind, if you're honest with yourself (again, I could be wrong here), you're not going to give all of yourself to the cause of coma research, and thus have almost no chance of making a difference in the cause. Short of that I feel the best you can do is help Chi out, as helping him is very realistic for you, and if it feels terribly wrong to ignore others in need, donate at least an equal if not a greater amount to a fund for research, or hell, perhaps to a complete stranger who is in a coma-based need. Just my two cents.

Much respect,
-Matt

well said...

one love for chi,
gina
www.OneLoveForChi.com - Fundraising Site For Chi Cheng, Deftones Bass Player

Do you search the web? If so, you could be raising $0.02 for Chi Cheng! Go To: http://isearch.igive.com/?s=28&c=51176

Hidalgo

if they could get their friends Korn to play just one fundraiser show with them, they'd raise a ton of cash. that would be cool

chino_208

FIRST EAST-EUROPEAN  BENEFIT SHOW FOR CHI CHENG WILL BE HELD IN ROMANIA -ON APRIL 12 –DEFTONES DAY IN BUCAREST AT FIRE CLUB

12 April 2009 at Fire Club in Bucarest(Romania) is declared Deftones day.The whole day will be dedicated to the Deftones and starting 19.00 a concert will be held with some famous local bands.COMA,DO-DIEZ,MG 42,CHESTER,SHESDEAD AND A SPECIAL GUEST BAND FROM ITALY-AB 4.will join forces in action to raise money for Chi.All the founds resulting from this concert will go directly to Chi s account put up on "One Love For Chi" Fundraiser http://www.oneloveforchi.com/
DEFTONES bassist remains in a coma following a November car accident. He was gravely injured in a November 3 car crash in northern California and has not regained consciousness since.Info for the show here:
http://www.metalhead.ro/Stire-Concert_caritabil_Deftones_in_Fire_Club-16023.html



jesusinabowlofdirt

no,i dont think helping people out and punching them in the face is the same thing.
i said that u cant say "instinct" and your actions there for are ok.im talking generally of course.

i just thought that its wierd that famous people who have money,when they get injured, they get even MORE money.
and if you are noone with no money,when u get injured, u dont get any money.

that to me seems wrong, but if the answer is "thats life kid" or "we look out for our own,screw others" and "its animal instict brah!" then ok,just the way it is. i was too much of  a blue eyed naive hippie to have that thought. if chi doesnt have any money im not against people who donate,u can do worse things in life. but im curious where it all went, he got to have some before right.

get well chi!

Vesanic

#1225
Some new pics added on Facebook...



Martin

Remains a very cool picture.

Down at the local radioshow, we played Headup and asked listeners to donate to oneloveforchi.com if they wanted to, just like last week.
Dunno if it helps. But we have to try.

jesusinabowlofdirt

hehe .. chino usually dress cool.. but a winter jacket with a dead fox on the hood round yr neck and shorts and the tube socks to it? . i just dont know..

Martin


Martin


Jacob

Chino hasn't dressed well since the ATF days, to be honest.
pray nightfall release me
then i could wander, wander to deep sleep

Vesanic

I know there is no link with Chi but...


What's your favorite Chino's look ?


The old days with the dreadlocks ?
ATF era with his blondie spikes ?
2000's era with his dark and simple clothes and the " long " hair " ?
The era that followed when he used to wear the " trasher " sweat and the shorter hair ?
2001's european tour with his red shirt and the blond hair again ?
2003's era with the long hair, the sideburns, the blue clothes and the sideburns ?
Or what else ?

jesusinabowlofdirt

vesanic my man! youre gonna get shit for posting chino fashion on the Chi's Update and Prayer Thread.. BAIL OUT!

Vesanic

Should I get out the country and change my name right now ?


Have you consulted the chart ?

Jesus2Chino

Eh, I feel like you've ignored 99% of my post. I in no way said or implied that "thats life kid" or "we look out for our own,screw others" or "its animal instict brah!" I understand what you're saying and you're right, the whole thing sucks. I think your real beef is with our poor healthcare system more than anything else, maybe that's where you should spend your time and money trying to reform. I'm probably beating a dead horse here, but oh well, lol.

Much respect,
-Matt
Much respect,
-Matt

defTHE1s

Mines are:
Quote from: Vesanic on Apr 02, 2009, 12:43 PM
What's your favorite Chino's look ?

2000's era with his dark and simple clothes and the " long " hair " ?
2003's era with the long hair, the sideburns, the blue clothes and the sideburns ?
now, back to the topic please!

*praying for Chi*

Yes yes, Deftones, yes yes, heavy metal, yes yes, nü metal, yes yes, fucking queer, yes yes...

defTHE1s

Quote from: Martin on Apr 02, 2009, 11:38 AM
Very cool!
+1!
Spread the word worldwide and help our brother!

Yes yes, Deftones, yes yes, heavy metal, yes yes, nü metal, yes yes, fucking queer, yes yes...

oneloveforchi

Quote from: Martin on Apr 02, 2009, 11:33 AM
Remains a very cool picture.

Down at the local radioshow, we played Headup and asked listeners to donate to oneloveforchi.com if they wanted to, just like last week.
Dunno if it helps. But we have to try.

thanks so much for the support..

one love for chi,
gina
www.OneLoveForChi.com - Fundraising Site For Chi Cheng, Deftones Bass Player

Do you search the web? If so, you could be raising $0.02 for Chi Cheng! Go To: http://isearch.igive.com/?s=28&c=51176

oneloveforchi

Quote from: defTHE1s on Apr 02, 2009, 04:31 PM
Mines are:
Quote from: Vesanic on Apr 02, 2009, 12:43 PM
What's your favorite Chino's look ?

2000's era with his dark and simple clothes and the " long " hair " ?
2003's era with the long hair, the sideburns, the blue clothes and the sideburns ?
now, back to the topic please!

*praying for Chi*

ya plz... wtf.. who cares what the hell chino or the guys wear.. seriously.. i mean.... does it matter? wow... people actually talk about this shit? wtf.. ?

one love for chi,
gina
www.OneLoveForChi.com - Fundraising Site For Chi Cheng, Deftones Bass Player

Do you search the web? If so, you could be raising $0.02 for Chi Cheng! Go To: http://isearch.igive.com/?s=28&c=51176

Vesanic

Hey come on, it's just a forum you know, made of discussions and stuff.


Yeah Chi is in bad health and he needs help, but do we have to talk only about this ?

I know it's Chi's update thread, but it was just a fuckin' question, has it killed you ? Has it destroyed your life ? No. If you don't give a fuck, then don't even quote me.

Yeah Chino's look is not important, it's like those polls where we get asked " what's your favorite song from white pony ", nobody cares but once again it's a forum.

People are so agressive, jeez.