Deftones Bassist In A Coma - wookubus
(4:13 PM MST 11/04/2008)
Deftones bassist Chi Cheng is currently in a coma following a car crash in Santa Clara, CA yesterday. Initial details are sketchy, but band frontman Chino Moreno has confirmed the situation to the "The Sacramento Bee", who have more details available here (http://www.sacbee.com/1089/story/1370452.html).
From Chino:
Hello everyone,
It deeply saddens me to inform you all that our brother Chi Cheng was involved in a terrible car accident last night. He is currently in a Northern California Hospital in serious, but stable condition. I am on my way up North right now to be by his side along with the rest of our band mates and family. Chi is one of the strongest people I know, and I'm praying that his strength will get him through this. Please say a prayer for him as well.
-chino.
Oh fuck..not Chi. Hope he pulls throughhhhhh
Holy shit...one bad new today :(....Chi keep with us!!!
It deeply saddens me to inform you all that our brother Chi Cheng was involved in a terrible car accident last night. He is currently in a Northern California Hospital in serious, but stable condition
the news says "in coma", wtf!!! :S
It's just like getting KO'd for a long period of time. Scary thing about comas though, is that you never know when you're gonna come out of it. When they say he's in serious but stable condition, that means he suffered some serious injuries but he's stable..he's fine..he'll pull through.
I hope he managed to vote today.
Quote from: ImperfectCircle on Nov 05, 2008, 12:11 AM
I hope he managed to vote today.
stupid shit like that is irrelevant right now.
i hope chi pulls through.
Oh my God!!! Fuck this! My favorite band member!! I know Chi will pull through!!!
Quote from: bIondie on Nov 05, 2008, 12:14 AM
Quote from: ImperfectCircle on Nov 05, 2008, 12:11 AM
I hope he managed to vote today.
stupid shit like that is irrelevant right now.
i hope chi pulls through.
Hey man, just trying to be a little optimistic.
what a sad day in deftones history..
I pray for chi.... and hopefully deftones only gets stronger by this terrible event.
If someone has some more official statements of news, please share it with us...
Be a real deftones fan and show ur respect... so dont fuck up this topic with bullshit.
Sad greetings from Belgium
Tom
damn :(
i'm glad he's stable though.
:(
Let's hope high for him...
He has our optimism....
I still don't get the 'coma' thing. Is he conscious or not?. When you're in coma you're not conscious and they don't know wheter you'll be back or not. So, that 'in coma' thing doesnt apply here... I hope so.
you can be in a coma and be stable but if you're in a coma, it's never good. let's hope it's not that bad since this is still breaking news.
everywhere they talk about he's in coma, but if he is in a stable condition, that can be worse.
hope for good news today
shit. this sucks.
We want chi back.
Chi is a real good person, is reallt painful that shit, I hope he'll get better soon... We will support you from here
I'll pray for Chi. Everyone else should do as well.
:'( What the fuck...get better soon, Chi.
no way, damn hes the spiritual one, he MUST pull through, his blessings have made these records and beauties possible, I must kneel down and pray right directly to Selassie's temple. He will live.
Tears are falling from my eyes
This fucking sucks
that article in the sacramento bee said the album is coming out in spring 2009!! i thought it'd be out in winter....
and get well chi...
fuck, i hardly ever post here, but i had to drop by after hearing this horrible news
i'll be praying for ya chi, get through this shit big guy
i have a good feeling he'll be alright, i dont know why, i just do. hopefully that feeling is right
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Nov 05, 2008, 02:53 AM
that article in the sacramento bee said the album is coming out in spring 2009!! i thought it'd be out in winter....
The album is irrelevant.
Woooooooow...that sucks!!! :(
Quote from: Inkblades on Nov 05, 2008, 03:11 AM
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Nov 05, 2008, 02:53 AM
that article in the sacramento bee said the album is coming out in spring 2009!! i thought it'd be out in winter....
The album is irrelevant.
EXACTLY!!! Geeze....
Chi is an AWESOME person,love him to bits.
my thoughts and prayers go out to him, and all the deftones family. =[
:( chi is the coolest of all the deftones he always drops lines on the blog and really cares about the fans. this is really bad news, PULL THRU THIS CHI cause god dammit we need ya and love ya!!!!
all of our norcal brothers should do a candlelit vigil
???
Damn, I can't believe that.... :'(
I'll be thinking about the big man, and hope he'll pull it through.
* wait anxiously for news *
What the fuck? This is...unreal. I know it's silly, but I've always thought of the Deftones as being invincible. Chi in a coma...? Just unreal.
I know,I still can't believe it. I feel terribly sorry for his wife and children. This is such a horrible injury too. :( Sucks that shit like this happens to the kindest of people.
Quote from: defskull on Nov 05, 2008, 04:27 AM
What the fuck? This is...unreal. I know it's silly, but I've always thought of the Deftones as being invincible. Chi in a coma...? Just unreal.
unreal indeed man, i too thought of them as HEROS, and invincible
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 05, 2008, 04:35 AM
I know,I still can't believe it. I feel terribly sorry for his wife and children. This is such a horrible injury too. :( Sucks that shit like this happens to the kindest of people.
shit, i cant even begin to think they were with him
Hang in there Chi and get well soon.
Unreal is the word yes... And now that you say it, that's the way I felt too : there would always be Deftones around...
Fuck
hope he gets better....
thoughts and prayers to Chi and his family and friends
:( wtf chi get better man
Aww....
(http://i206.photobucket.com/albums/bb240/kelsal/CHILOVE.jpg)
<3
He gave me love when I had the flu!
Ahh shit this is terrible news to wake up to, i really do hope he gets better, not for bands sake.
Why does this stuff happen to the decent people? argh!
Chi is by far one of the kindest souls I have ever met. I am devastated and shocked by this news. I hope our friend pulls through.
Quote from: buddyboy101 on Nov 05, 2008, 08:00 AM
Chi is by far one of the kindest souls I have ever met. I am devastated and shocked by this news. I hope our friend pulls through.
amen to that.........
aww fuck!!! Chi...fuck!!!
i said a prayer for him, thats all i can do..i sincerly hope he makes a full recovery!!
Just read this on the BBC website in work and to say I am shocked is an understatement, I hope he pulls through and makes a full recovery!
Thoughts are wish his friends and family also!
whoa, this sucks.
fuck. let´s hope everything turns out ok.
chi is strong. let´s keep the faith
there's one very strange thing - tonight after somewhat 3 months I had a dream with one of my friends, which was in a really really bad car accident more than a year ago (six months of coma, then recovery.. he's still recovering, and that doesn't look good, brain damage).. and when I wake up I read, that Chi got in an accident.. just really strange.
we should do somethin as fans. Send some messages or something.Maybe talk with rumors,causem maybe he can deliver some msg.
yeah, that would be really nice of us
Quote from: White Wrist on Nov 05, 2008, 10:05 AM
we should do somethin as fans. Send some messages or something.Maybe talk with rumors,causem maybe he can deliver some msg.
Maybe start a "A message to Chi" thread....
im sure rumors will eventually see it...maybe print it...when Chi gets better he can read how we were behind his recovery and in our prayers
perhaps a stand-alone website?
This is terrible news, on reading this thread title I really was hoping that it was a sick joke. I just hope he pulls through this and I like mnay of you, I really don't care about anything else. Chi's health and wellbeing is more important now.
wow this even reached norwegian web news sites.
I hope he'll be alright. He's a great guy.
Quote from: Jizzlobber on Nov 05, 2008, 10:21 AM
im sure rumors will eventually see it...maybe print it...when Chi gets better he can read how we were behind his recovery and in our prayers
What if Chi is rumors? If its someone from the band, it's got to be him...
still no more news?
News from other bandmembers?
What about the official statement from the label?
Where did it happen?
Man.... it rumbled my world today !
We really should do something... if I can help ... just send me a message.
this is terrible news. I really really hope he pulls through. my thoughts go to his family and friends. be strong Chi!
Just woken up to read this. This is horrible. Thoughts and prayers go out to him, his family and friends.
i'm praying for Cheng to get through this ok
i cant see deftones going on without him....
what a shitty day
Quote from: Bayle on Nov 05, 2008, 11:58 AM
I hope he'll be alright. He's a great guy.
Quote from: Jizzlobber on Nov 05, 2008, 10:21 AM
im sure rumors will eventually see it...maybe print it...when Chi gets better he can read how we were behind his recovery and in our prayers
What if Chi is rumors? If its someone from the band, it's got to be him...
Maybe he is...i always thought Stef was rumors for some reason, never thought it might be Chi.
such a shocking thing. i dont want to speculate, but i know Chi is an alcoholic, hope it wasnt a drunk driving situation.
:'(
i´ll pray for chi....the worst notice i heard in a long long time...please...a message for the big deftones family...pray for chi...
now, the new album, obama, and other things, are irrelevant...
I've hugged this man before, and I plan to do it again, get well man.
well, deftones family...pray for chi
I send all my love and prayers to Chi and his family in this time of devistation. I'm far from a religious person, but I pray that he is being looked over and taken care of. Its not his time to go,he can pull through this. He has many people that love him,and whatever powers that be won't take him from us yet. So come on Chi,get better. We love ya and can't imagine things without ya!
I am at a lost for words right now. Please God, Save Chi or deftones are done. No more albums and no more tours. This is beyond horrible. My prayers are with him and his family.
Wow. I just woke up and saw this. This is horrible. I pray for him and all who know him, that he will make a full recovery. =o( sad day indeed.
I'm still really shocked by this and I really hope the guy pulls through :[
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 05, 2008, 01:26 PM
I send all my love and prayers to Chi and his family in this time of devistation. I'm far from a religious person, but I pray that he is being looked over and taken care of. Its not his time to go,he can pull through this. He has many people that love him,and whatever powers that be won't take him from us yet. So come on Chi,get better. We love ya and can't imagine things without ya!
Couldn't of put it better myself, really.
I'm actually pretty much lost for words..
damn... what do say....
Althougt you are more than a thousand miles away from here I feel with u Chi. I pray for the best, for u, your family and stay connected with chino, stef, abe and frank...your soulmates!
Much respect for your art and work but let this be irrelevant at the moment.
I write this message not thinking about you as a deftones member but as a human in need.
God... is there anything more that I can do for you? Let me know....
Chi... you probably dont realise how much we feel with u but you are protected my friend. Protected with all the love and care, that what you gave us all these years.
Much love from your number one fan in Belgium !!!!
Next time we will meet here and have a good french wine (i know you like that)
Tom (aka longstem
I really hope he he makes a full recovery...im anxious to hear what news is released yet, i had a moment of dread when i realised it might go either way but if he is a stable condition, there is hope..
i pray for his family, his children (child?)..i pray for him to have the streangth to pull thorugh this, and wake up!!
He is a buddhist-vegetarian...he wouldnt harm a fly , wouldnt even eat an animal...he deserves to pull out of this.
amen.
Get well chi!
the worst can happen to the best of us.
get well Chi. the world needs you.
(http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y173/tarkil/IMG_24951.jpg)
Look at the man's face... He is indeed a great man...
Still keeping faith for you Chi...
this is just unreal, it sucks so much
he feels like family to me, they all do really, they been my favorite band for so long
chi..stay strong
people like u dont need to leave us now...really
prayers from santiago, chile
fuck, any good news today, anyone got something new to know?
NOOOO!! This is by far the worst news I could imagine waking up to. This is a nightmare, Chi HAS to get through this with a full recovery. He would be a huge loss in my life, like a relative.
Damn, this sucks
Chi-
You are in my prayers, get well bro.
Everyone here loves you
I hope he is able to recover and hug his kids again
I just spoke to Warner and an official press release has been sent out saying that he is stable but all the news is what we currently know. I should receive this shortly and I will post it up here.
Please get well soon sir! My thoughts are with you and your family & friends.
I don't believe in "god" but Chi is really strong and I'm sure that he's gonna be fine...
This is horribble news. My mates txt me today and told me. I had no idea.
I, along with others on here, have met him several times and each time he's been an absolute gentleman.
Really man, get well soon. We all love you.
Quote from: KLaUThiO on Nov 05, 2008, 03:49 PM
I don't believe in "god" but Chi is really strong and I'm sure that he's gonna be fine...
Ditto
I'm sending my deepest love to him and his family,
and pray for his complete recovery
I don't really know what to say, man.
I'm not a religious person, but my thoughts are with you and your family. I know you'll pull through.
The next time you're in the UK you're gonna get a welcome like no other. We love you man.
This is just too unreal to believe.
Please, from the bottom of my heart, get better Chi.
:'(
get well soon
The one and only time that I met the band, I was able to tell Chi how much their music means to me and my life and he gave me the most sincere "that's really awesome, man".
The world needs Chi Cheng.
Man this sux!!!!!.
My thoughts are with him.
My prayers go out to you Chi, your family and your friends. I pray that you pull through and get taken care of in the mean, and after time.
Much love, much respect. Take care.
Martin (aka Tuck)
Oh my god! What a sad news!
I hope it will soon become a bad souvenir and he'll be back on stage smiling to us!
Im not even religious but im gonna be praying for you chi..... We still gotta meet up in Dublin for that pint. Get well soon man. :'(
I wish all the love and respect he gives is giving back to him a million times more, right now and until his recovery!
I'm sending all my thoughts to Chi, his family and friends, from France!
We're waiting for you, bro...
this is one of the saddest news of last months... I really hope he wil be ok
and i'm looking forward for some details, and some more info about chi's current status...
Fuck the world... I need chi. Stay with us man. Fucking please...
pleeeease have a speedy recovery
My thoughts and love go out to a great man and musician, Chi Cheng.
Hopes and prayers to speedy recovery. Funny interview from 06 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_kXFiV5M6k
I have been gutted all day about this. What an incredible fellow he is.
This is the same man who didn't realise for two months that Stef was using an 8 string.
He will pull through and make us all smile again.
GET WELL SOON BRO
Any updated at all?? SOMEONE?!?!
What the fucking fuck, this is a surprise. Hang in there dude.
http://www.popeater.com/music/article/deftones-bassist-in-coma-after-crash/238322
found this on aol.com entertainment news.....says he's in a coma
this sux :(
much love from germany! get well soon!
Quote from: i kill for fun on Nov 05, 2008, 07:35 PM
http://www.popeater.com/music/article/deftones-bassist-in-coma-after-crash/238322
found this on aol.com entertainment news.....says he's in a coma
re-fuck.
I can't be the only one who's just trying to ignore that this is even happening, can I? Denial. Pure denial. I'm waiting for it to be over and a statement from him saying he's feeling great.
Otherwise I might lose it. No man is easier to talk with than Chi. He is the man. The man.
he is the man
just a great guy, he's funny as hell too
Fuck.
Get better soon Chi!
You are the greatest musician I have ever met!
All the forces for Chi... chi is strong.... God will protect him
I am very sad
I truely hope he pulls through this...
well, many people here is not religious (include me)...but, there is good reason to pray for him...:)
Not a religious person (like many others) but, I hope he gets better soon and recovers from this fully.
(http://resurrectionchurchinc.org/Pray.jpg)
you don't have to be religious to pray. there's a huge difference between religion and spirtuality, at least for me. if you're neither, then yeah, there's no point
i will be praying for you and yours Chi. hopefully in a few months i'll have the chance to be headbangin in front of you and all this shit will have been forgotten by then
i wish there was an update, the longer a coma lasts, the chances of coming out of it start dropping rather quickly i believe
One of the most genuine and down-to-earth guys I've ever met. Pull through brother.
Come guys, anyone lives at San Jose to go to the hospital and find out more about Chi's status? any website of the hospital, a fuckin email... i dont know...im really desesperated!!!!
Fuck, why him?!!! >:(
Oh man, I'm in shock right now...hope he get well soon. I know we all are sending good vibes to him and to his family, so I know he's going to be ok.
We love you Chi, stay with us.
Just curious,but would it be terribly gay if we all chipped in and sent flowers to the Hospital?
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 05, 2008, 09:17 PM
Just curious,but would it be terribly gay if we all chipped in and sent flowers to the Hospital?
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 05, 2008, 09:19 PM
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 05, 2008, 09:17 PM
Just curious,but would it be terribly gay if we all chipped in and sent flowers to the Hospital?
Why gay? I think we all are here not just like fans, I think (me) love this guy not just like a deftones member, i know he is a really good person and a really good soulmate. He needs all our support, and if he knows that we are with him i think this will be great. but how, when...
Yeah. You don't send the man flowers. You send him virgins. And grizzly bears.
Shit, this is really, really terrible news.
Fucking aye that sucks, not only for himself, family, the band .. etc but also thinking of the tour..
Quote from: deftoneskoen on Nov 05, 2008, 09:29 PM
Fucking aye that sucks, not only for himself, family, the band .. etc but also thinking of the tour..
Comon! who cares the tour now!...
Not a religious person, but this one really went in on me. If there is someone or something ruling up there, I'll stick to high hopes.
Come on, Chi.
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 05, 2008, 09:17 PM
Just curious,but would it be terribly gay if we all chipped in and sent flowers to the Hospital?
not at all
Quote from: DEFCAY on Nov 05, 2008, 09:25 PM
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 05, 2008, 09:19 PM
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 05, 2008, 09:17 PM
Just curious,but would it be terribly gay if we all chipped in and sent flowers to the Hospital?
Why gay? I think we all are here not just like fans, I think (me) love this guy not just like a deftones member, i know he is a really good person and a really good soulmate. He needs all our support, and if he knows that we are with him i think this will be great. but how, when...
Indeed. Who cares if if it's gay in someone else's eyes. I think it's a great idea to send the man something.
I'm willing to donate. Maybe we can even get a card, and everyone who wants to participate can write something down, scan it, and send it to whoevers willing to paste it all together. We'll need someone who's near to print everything out and paste it together, and a set date before which everyone can send that persone his or her handwritten wishes...
Just thinking along here.
Get well Big Bro!!!
From: Da sharing lung nigga's
I guess I can try to comfort myself and some of you with the fact that my dad fell directly to the ground from a pretty high distance and was in a coma for a week, and then woke up feeling all good. Let's just hope.
Who lives near of San Jose? I mean anyone can fond out more news about Chi...
Come on guys! a simple call by telephone to the Hospital, i dont know... :S
http://www.roadrunnerrecords.com/blabbermouth.net/news.aspx?mode=Article&newsitemID=108320
This says he was leaving his older brothers memorial service when the accident happened. How fucked up is that? Hopefully all of our positive vibes will reach him and help in his recovery.
I'd be willing to paypal cash to a competent member that will actually send flowers.
oh my god !............
we hope you could be fine
your family
and we
need this personality...
you are the man....
i wish allah would be with you...loves
(deftones-turkey)
CHI CHENG..
FUERZA!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote from: skinnypuppy on Nov 05, 2008, 10:14 PM
I'd be willing to paypal cash to a competent member that will actually send flowers.
Great!
Quote from: White Pwny on Nov 05, 2008, 10:06 PM
http://www.roadrunnerrecords.com/blabbermouth.net/news.aspx?mode=Article&newsitemID=108320
This says he was leaving his older brothers memorial service when the accident happened. How fucked up is that? Hopefully all of our positive vibes will reach him and help in his recovery.
and whats about the sister?
if anyone has the power to withstand such shit, its chi.
its cause obamas president
I PRAY FOR YOU MAN !!!!!! :'(
FRENCH FAN PRAY FOR YOU MAN :'(
oh shit, some bad news this week...
sad. I hope he's fine.
I have faith in his recovery wish nothing but the best for chi
I don't know about the sister... It never said anything about her.
well, we need to think positive in this situation...chi have the strenght to fuck this situation:)
Bad day...
Obama is the new president.
Rangers lost to the Islanders last night.
And one of the coolest and sweetest human beings gets himself injured. Why cant Chris Brown or Jonas Brothers get into these kind of accidents...
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 06, 2008, 01:48 AM
Bad day...
Obama is the new president.
Rangers lost to the Islanders last night.
And one of the coolest and sweetest human beings gets himself injured. Why cant Chris Brown or Jonas Brothers get into these kind of accidents...
Careful... karma may catch up to you.
Don't have the authority to say much but tired of seeing misinformation... and you guys seems so upset.
Chi's sister is okay.
It was more like an annual family function they were leaving...
He is receiving the best care.
He is super strong and has to be okay.
Whatever you guys send... I'm sure he would love.
Well.... thanks for posting... if indeed you do know something.
The news sites were saying it was his brothers memorial they were leaving. ?
Quote from: 1xuser on Nov 06, 2008, 01:55 AM
Don't have the authority to say much but tired of seeing misinformation... and you guys seems so upset.
Chi's sister is okay.
It was more like an annual family function they were leaving...
He is receiving the best care.
He is super strong and has to be okay.
Whatever you guys send... I'm sure he would love.
So you might know a little more than us, right?.
Anything else to add?, who are you? by the way :)
Pushing all good karma, vibes and spirit way...
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 06, 2008, 01:48 AM
Why cant Chris Brown or Jonas Brothers get into these kind of accidents...
No matter what you think of those people,thats a horrid thing to wish on anyone.
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 06, 2008, 02:00 AM
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 06, 2008, 01:48 AM
Why cant Chris Brown or Jonas Brothers get into these kind of accidents...
No matter what you think of those people,thats a horrid thing to wish on anyone.
Dont be so serious about it. I was merely making the point that this tends to happen to talented people.
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 06, 2008, 01:48 AM
Bad day...
Obama is the new president.
Rangers lost to the Islanders last night.
And one of the coolest and sweetest human beings gets himself injured. Why cant Chris Brown or Jonas Brothers get into these kind of accidents...
Who did you want, McCain?
Oh yes, 666, of course you did.
And you seem to know nothing about politics. I dont want to get into this now since its not the appropiate place. You wanna chat politics, then message me.
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 06, 2008, 02:09 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 06, 2008, 02:00 AM
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 06, 2008, 01:48 AM
Why cant Chris Brown or Jonas Brothers get into these kind of accidents...
No matter what you think of those people,thats a horrid thing to wish on anyone.
Dont be so serious about it. I was merely making the point that this tends to happen to talented people.
I'm not being too serious about it...and I am in no way defending Chris Brown or the JoBros,but talented or not,they're still someones kid. (there goes the mom in me)
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 06, 2008, 02:19 AM
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 06, 2008, 02:09 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 06, 2008, 02:00 AM
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 06, 2008, 01:48 AM
Why cant Chris Brown or Jonas Brothers get into these kind of accidents...
No matter what you think of those people,thats a horrid thing to wish on anyone.
Dont be so serious about it. I was merely making the point that this tends to happen to talented people.
I'm not being too serious about it...and I am in no way defending Chris Brown or the JoBros,but talented or not,they're still someones kid. (there goes the mom in me)
right on.
Okay... 2xuser then.
it was an annual function is all I can say without feeling uncomfortable about it. Not a "funeral".
and who am I...? Just a friend whose known him since pre-deftone days who is just as upset and scared as all of you.
and like I said... I don't have the authority to speak for the family or the band... but there isn't much else to know at this point. I've just seen some misinformation out there and didn't think it was fair.
how exactly would one go about sending him something, maybe not necessarily flowers, but something. Is there someone out there who is a reliable source for delivery?
Quote from: i kill for fun on Nov 06, 2008, 02:28 AM
how exactly would one go about sending him something, maybe not necessarily flowers, but something. Is there someone out there who is a reliable source for delivery?
I'm trying to contact someone close to Stef to see what we can do.
go CHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
Get better chi! We Love you!
Chi for the win.
I shall pray tonight for you Chi. I know you'd love that.
WE ALL love you, Chi.
God bless you.
oh man. i cant believe this. ive been away for a few days and wow. i feel sad.
man. i dont know what to say...
thanks for the art and passion and love you have given forth to the world.
no matter the outcome you are granted the fondest love of this board and many others abroad and even more to the one's who feel you even though they dont know who you are .
you are eternally prominant and the greater piece of all that has ever been and ever will be.
LOVE LOVE LOVE
went to go see soulfly tonight.... Max said to say a prayer for Chi and they even played part of Headup....
i'll keep you in my thoughts, chi. I'm also willing to pitch into any kind of gift that we can come up with.
i'm an atheist so i'm not sure what this "praying" stuff is, but
GET WELL SOON CHI!!!!!
yea i mean obviously we all have him in our prayers, i just wish there was more we can do to take action and show support.
I hope you will be ok, be strong, you and your family
Chi i'm praying for you buddy, hang in there
Me and my fellow Deftones fans/friends pray for him every night and day (well at least I know I do, my friends aren't spiritual enough to pray or meditate or anything of the sort). it's all we can do. I'm not up for sending any physical thing that might be detrimental to him or the hospital or it's workers, like flowers, that he or someone in the vicinity or even the delivery person may be allergic to (you never know). No sense in causing more accidents, I'm sure Chi wouldn't want that, he's too humble.
I've been fearing that something like this would happen someday...
Chi is in our thoughts, and my prayers.
goddamnit, i want some kind of update!
well, any new info of the health of chi?
WOW, SHOCKED to say the least!
Chi, I will pray for you man! PLEASE get well SOON!
I prayed yesterday "como mazo" de borracho...
QuoteChi's condition has'nt changed much as of yesterday, he is still in a coma but very stable condition, I have been in touch with Abe and he is there along with the other members of Deftones and Chi's immediate family. He is with people who love him very much and thats very important for him right now, I as well as many others want to be there with him but only family members are aloud to be near him, so I am doing whatever I can on this side to send him positive engery and keep in my thoughts throughout my entire day. I want to thank you as well as Abe and the rest of the Deftones and family for all the emails, comments and even profile pics that people have posted on our site and theirs. I have known Chi for a very long time, one of my favorite people on this earth and is a brother and a best friend, so I know Chi is a very strong person and if anyone can get through this it would be the mighty Cheng. So keep him in your thoughts and with everyones love and support we will all get through this and Chi will soon grace us with his amazing smile once again. So thank you everyone it means that world to us for your support..
I posted a video of Chi and Stephen doing an interview from when they were on tour in Hungry a few years ago. This is my all time favorite Deftones interview and just shows his sense of humor and why I love these guys so much. So please check it out...
much much love and respect
Jeff Irwin and will haven
[youtube=425,350]T_kXFiV5M6k[/youtube]
Aww...that's alway's been my most favorite video of them. :)
We are with you. man !
Get Better Chi !
live chi, just live. stay with us.
<3
Go Chi, you´ll get through this.
Quote from: ablackswan on Nov 06, 2008, 04:53 PM
QuoteChi's condition has'nt changed much as of yesterday, he is still in a coma but very stable condition, I have been in touch with Abe and he is there along with the other members of Deftones and Chi's immediate family. He is with people who love him very much and thats very important for him right now, I as well as many others want to be there with him but only family members are aloud to be near him, so I am doing whatever I can on this side to send him positive engery and keep in my thoughts throughout my entire day. I want to thank you as well as Abe and the rest of the Deftones and family for all the emails, comments and even profile pics that people have posted on our site and theirs. I have known Chi for a very long time, one of my favorite people on this earth and is a brother and a best friend, so I know Chi is a very strong person and if anyone can get through this it would be the mighty Cheng. So keep him in your thoughts and with everyones love and support we will all get through this and Chi will soon grace us with his amazing smile once again. So thank you everyone it means that world to us for your support..
Jeff Irwin and will haven
[youtube=425,350]T_kXFiV5M6k[/youtube]
well, nice interview, very funny...
and i think thats good news....so lets wait for chi news:)
"And he says..go fuck yourself"
GREAT interview. Cheng is hilarious in it.
wuaaahhh...i love this guy..
"Chi's condition has'nt changed much as of yesterday, he is still in a coma but very stable condition, I have been in touch with Abe and he is there along with the other members of Deftones and Chi's immediate family. He is with people who love him very much and thats very important for him right now, I as well as many others want to be there with him but only family members are aloud to be near him, so I am doing whatever I can on this side to send him positive engery and keep in my thoughts throughout my entire day. I want to thank you as well as Abe and the rest of the Deftones and family for all the emails, comments and even profile pics that people have posted on our site and theirs. I have known Chi for a very long time, one of my favorite people on this earth and is a brother and a best friend, so I know Chi is a very strong person and if anyone can get through this it would be the mighty Cheng. So keep him in your thoughts and with everyones love and support we will all get through this and Chi will soon grace us with his amazing smile once again. So thank you everyone it means that world to us for your support..
I posted a video of Chi and Stephen doing an interview from when they were on tour in Hungry a few years ago. This is my all time favorite Deftones interview and just shows his sense of humor and why I love these guys so much. So please check it out...
much much love and respect
Jeff Irwin and will haven"
"very stable condition" sounds like he's doing as good as he could be, I guess. He'll pull though :)
Best wishes to Chi and his family.
I still cant believe this is happening..
I'm gonna say a little prayer for Chi. He deserves the best and im glad he is surrounded by his family and friends right now.
Quote from: Battle-Axe on Nov 06, 2008, 06:56 PM
"Chi's condition has'nt changed much as of yesterday, he is still in a coma but very stable condition, I have been in touch with Abe and he is there along with the other members of Deftones and Chi's immediate family. He is with people who love him very much and thats very important for him right now, I as well as many others want to be there with him but only family members are aloud to be near him, so I am doing whatever I can on this side to send him positive engery and keep in my thoughts throughout my entire day. I want to thank you as well as Abe and the rest of the Deftones and family for all the emails, comments and even profile pics that people have posted on our site and theirs. I have known Chi for a very long time, one of my favorite people on this earth and is a brother and a best friend, so I know Chi is a very strong person and if anyone can get through this it would be the mighty Cheng. So keep him in your thoughts and with everyones love and support we will all get through this and Chi will soon grace us with his amazing smile once again. So thank you everyone it means that world to us for your support..
I posted a video of Chi and Stephen doing an interview from when they were on tour in Hungry a few years ago. This is my all time favorite Deftones interview and just shows his sense of humor and why I love these guys so much. So please check it out...
much much love and respect
Jeff Irwin and will haven"
"very stable condition" sounds like he's doing as good as he could be, I guess. He'll pull though :)
The interview in Hungary is indeed one of the best ever. They have a real fun moment and no promo talk. Just real, just people.
grtz
Tom
My thoughts are with him (...)
chi,
you have touched me, and countless others, deeply with your art.
you have brought me some of the best moments in my life. most of them, i will never forget.
what you have given, i am more than willing to give back.
all my love goes out to you.
gustav
well, good news i think:)
now, waiting for some new good news, and your return :)
Yeah, it sounds good. :)
Let's keep praying and hoping. Who knows, it might work.
I'll pray to every fucking "God" there is.
Get better soon dude. We love you.
:(
Quote from: illmono on Nov 06, 2008, 05:54 PM
Quote from: ablackswan on Nov 06, 2008, 04:53 PM
QuoteChi's condition has'nt changed much as of yesterday, he is still in a coma but very stable condition, I have been in touch with Abe and he is there along with the other members of Deftones and Chi's immediate family. He is with people who love him very much and thats very important for him right now, I as well as many others want to be there with him but only family members are aloud to be near him, so I am doing whatever I can on this side to send him positive engery and keep in my thoughts throughout my entire day. I want to thank you as well as Abe and the rest of the Deftones and family for all the emails, comments and even profile pics that people have posted on our site and theirs. I have known Chi for a very long time, one of my favorite people on this earth and is a brother and a best friend, so I know Chi is a very strong person and if anyone can get through this it would be the mighty Cheng. So keep him in your thoughts and with everyones love and support we will all get through this and Chi will soon grace us with his amazing smile once again. So thank you everyone it means that world to us for your support..
Jeff Irwin and will haven
[youtube=425,350]T_kXFiV5M6k[/youtube]
well, nice interview, very funny...
and i think thats good news....so lets wait for chi news:)
Makes me think of this radio interview, they were supposed to say their names and say one special thing about themselves, and Chi had the most epic;
''I'm Shakira, and I'm a virgin.''
Came over this if you haven't seen it already:
Hello Everyone,
I am back from up North visiting our brother Cheng. His condition remains the same - serious, but stable. We, along with the entire Cheng family, would like to extend our gratitude to everyone that's said a prayer or sent out their positive thoughts to Chi. Your support means more than you know.
During his recovery process, Chi's mother has asked that each day we spread a little bit of good in his name. So each day Deftones will be posting what you can do to help Chi recover. Today, she has asked that you all remember to buckle your seat belts, and remind those you love to buckle up. By doing something so little in his name, you will be helping him find the strength to recover.
Thank you, and please check back daily.
-chino
Shit, i gonna cry...
Where did you get those news? I mean, where they will notice about Chi's health?, their blog?
thats pretty cool that chi's mom would say that. using this time, when she could easily be an emotional wreck, to think of ways, no matter how small, to help something like this to be prevented i think says alot about who chi is and how he got that way. much love
softparody'spost is from deftones blog!!
does it mean chi didnt buckle his safety car belt?
Good to hear he's stable. I'm more than willing also to chip in for a gift or whatever.
We're all thinking of you Chi.
I can't actually believe it.
Chi we love you!
Quote from: squealing like a pig on Nov 06, 2008, 10:47 PM
We're all thinking of you Chi.
Chi we love you!
yeah, everyone who knows you..
I hope he makes it through this shit. Respect.
oohhh, prayers may result:)
go chi, u can fight this
taken from deftonesinstudio.blogspot.com
Hello Everyone,
I am back from up North visiting our brother Cheng. His condition remains the same - serious, but stable. We, along with the entire Cheng family, would like to extend our gratitude to everyone that's said a prayer or sent out their positive thoughts to Chi. Your support means more than you know.
During his recovery process, Chi's mother has asked that each day we spread a little bit of good in his name. So each day Deftones will be posting what you can do to help Chi recover. Today, she has asked that you all remember to buckle your seat belts, and remind those you love to buckle up. By doing something so little in his name, you will be helping him find the strength to recover.
Thank you, and please check back daily.
-chino
well, new news, prayers may result:)
holy fuck!!!!!!!!!!!! thats bad luck shit :(
Keep praying everyone.
Quote from: illmono on Nov 07, 2008, 01:26 AM
taken from deftonesinstudio.blogspot.com
Hello Everyone,
I am back from up North visiting our brother Cheng. His condition remains the same - serious, but stable. We, along with the entire Cheng family, would like to extend our gratitude to everyone that's said a prayer or sent out their positive thoughts to Chi. Your support means more than you know.
During his recovery process, Chi's mother has asked that each day we spread a little bit of good in his name. So each day Deftones will be posting what you can do to help Chi recover. Today, she has asked that you all remember to buckle your seat belts, and remind those you love to buckle up. By doing something so little in his name, you will be helping him find the strength to recover.
Thank you, and please check back daily.
-chino
well, new news, prayers may result:)
No. Time will give results.. Praying just gives false hope.
Quote from: sharinglungs on Nov 07, 2008, 02:59 AM
Quote from: illmono on Nov 07, 2008, 01:26 AM
taken from deftonesinstudio.blogspot.com
Hello Everyone,
I am back from up North visiting our brother Cheng. His condition remains the same - serious, but stable. We, along with the entire Cheng family, would like to extend our gratitude to everyone that's said a prayer or sent out their positive thoughts to Chi. Your support means more than you know.
During his recovery process, Chi's mother has asked that each day we spread a little bit of good in his name. So each day Deftones will be posting what you can do to help Chi recover. Today, she has asked that you all remember to buckle your seat belts, and remind those you love to buckle up. By doing something so little in his name, you will be helping him find the strength to recover.
Thank you, and please check back daily.
-chino
well, new news, prayers may result:)
No. Time will give results.. Praying just gives false hope.
dude, shut up. Ok I get it. Your an atheist. Congrats. Im going to keep praying because its always given me results.
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 07, 2008, 03:25 AM
Quote from: sharinglungs on Nov 07, 2008, 02:59 AM
Quote from: illmono on Nov 07, 2008, 01:26 AM
taken from deftonesinstudio.blogspot.com
Hello Everyone,
I am back from up North visiting our brother Cheng. His condition remains the same - serious, but stable. We, along with the entire Cheng family, would like to extend our gratitude to everyone that's said a prayer or sent out their positive thoughts to Chi. Your support means more than you know.
During his recovery process, Chi's mother has asked that each day we spread a little bit of good in his name. So each day Deftones will be posting what you can do to help Chi recover. Today, she has asked that you all remember to buckle your seat belts, and remind those you love to buckle up. By doing something so little in his name, you will be helping him find the strength to recover.
Thank you, and please check back daily.
-chino
well, new news, prayers may result:)
No. Time will give results.. Praying just gives false hope.
dude, shut up. Ok I get it. Your an atheist. Congrats. Im going to keep praying because its always given me results.
^5. I'm not religious (as i stated earlier),but saying a prayer,even if to yourself,makes you feel better.
wow i just found out about this. what awful news
i pray chi will be okay
Quote from: sharinglungs on Nov 07, 2008, 02:59 AM
No. Time will give results.. Praying just gives false hope.
this is neither the time nor the topic to be trying to express your personal views about religious bullshit. all we can do, and in fact, all anyone can do is stay positive and do something like say a prayer or spread a positive message, like the one chono said. we can't give chi time; time will give chi time. what we can give chi is our heartfelt wishes through any means, even if it's through prayer, to get better and express sincere care about an indivdual who is part of an ensemble of individuals that give us something wonderful, which is wonderful music. if that can give families and fans even just a spec of positivity during a very bad time, i'm sure even someone like you can probably put aside your differences for a damn second.
I really wish that I, and other people, were more like Chi Cheng.
Yeah me too. Lets all chip in for get well soon flowers. We just need to find out the address for the Hospital he's staying at. Chi is too much of a good guy for him to receive anything from his fans.
Quote from: mr.sinister on Nov 07, 2008, 05:40 AM
Yeah me too. Lets all chip in for get well soon flowers. We just need to find out the address for the Hospital he's staying at. Chi is too much of a good guy for him to receive anything from his fans.
im up for that!!
Come on Chi! Fight for your life!
I think of you a lot, since I find out about the situation. Everytime I step into my car driving to work/home I say a little pray... It's so unreal...
But I know you will recover! You've got such a big heart, no way it's gonna give up on you!
It's wonderful to see how people around the world think you're a great person and feel about you like you're family to them.
I know you will recover!
Love and prays from The Netherlands (Holland)
(sorry for my bad English, but you probably understand what I'm trying to say)
I pray for you Man
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wearing a Deftones shirt today in support of Chi. I'm gonna try to keep wearing Deftones shirts until he gets well. I might start to smell horribly bad after a few days though, considering I only have two Deftones shirts.
Best wishes from Spain
i'm not good in medicine
is it right that the longer coma (even if it's ultra-"stable") lasts the less possibility of him waking up is? i mean doesn't long coma status hurt something important in, for example, brain, or something?
Yeah,being in a coma for long peroids can be uber damaging. But hopefully he'll pop out of it soon before any permanent damage is done.
fuck man, just heard about it. fucking shocked right now. hope he will recover quickly... my best wishes to him, his family and his friends...
have faith! Chi will wake up soon.
Head up.
Quote from: aenemic on Nov 07, 2008, 09:41 AM
wearing a Deftones shirt today in support of Chi. I'm gonna try to keep wearing Deftones shirts until he gets well. I might start to smell horribly bad after a few days though, considering I only have two Deftones shirts.
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Wash em silly!
Horrible news, Chi is the foundation for all those sick grooves they have. I really hope he comes out of this OK :-\
(http://i42.photobucket.com/albums/e308/new_failure/chi-1.jpg)
Fuck! I can't get out of my head this shit...I'm very sad...I can't wait to know more news about Chi's health. I wanna see him moving and playing at the stage soon :(
Quote from: Zevaka on Nov 07, 2008, 12:13 PM
i'm not good in medicine
is it right that the longer coma (even if it's ultra-"stable") lasts the less possibility of him waking up is? i mean doesn't long coma status hurt something important in, for example, brain, or something?
In a coma serious things can happen after you wake up. Some people suffer from head trauma afterwords and it takes them awhile to get back to a "normal" state after they woke up depending on neurological damage. They can suffer from psychological problems afterwords as well. Its fucking scary. Chi is a strong dude, he will get better soon.
Chi, I hope for yourself and your loved ones you will come out of this. I know you can.
You have given us so much, and now we can only pray for you in return.
chi:
[youtube=425,350]6siaN0hgskA[/youtube]
especially, 1.57-2.03... FUCK...you're the most grooving guy out there.. always screamin along with Chino...always giving more than 100%...always...
This is just awful, I can't wait to hear when he wakes up, I have faith he will.
His car accident was right near where I used to live in Santa Clara/San Jose... I slipped into a coma for about 38 hours, too many drugs. I haven't been the same since. Oh fuck I hope he comes out okay.... :(
Has there been any report as to why the accident happened? I'm still trying to get ahold of people for hospital details.
i'm really worried, he's been in a coma for days.....
:(
Yes, it is not a good sign.
hopefully it isnt a coma where he's there for years and years.
Most commonly it only takes a few days or 2-3 weeks to wake up from one.
I have messaged a guy I know in Sacramento so see if he has heard anything that hasn't been posted. I really hate to think what could be going through Chi's family and friends minds right now as I know how we all feel as fans. I have a strong feeling that Chi will be awake within 2 weeks.
Quote from: mr.sinister on Nov 07, 2008, 08:06 PM
Most commonly it only takes a few days or 2-3 weeks to wake up from one.
i'm just praying he wakes up from this, & gets back to 100%
Quote from: UrZ* on Nov 07, 2008, 07:01 PM
chi:
[youtube=425,350]6siaN0hgskA[/youtube]
especially, 1.57-2.03... FUCK...you're the most grooving guy out there.. always screamin along with Chino...always giving more than 100%...always...
A classic concert. At this point I don't care if the album has to get delayed, if a tour has to get delayed, or if they have to end up using someone else on tour, if Chi comes out of this in good condition we all win.
Quote from: defskull on Nov 07, 2008, 08:41 PM
Quote from: UrZ* on Nov 07, 2008, 07:01 PM
chi:
[youtube=425,350]6siaN0hgskA[/youtube]
especially, 1.57-2.03... FUCK...you're the most grooving guy out there.. always screamin along with Chino...always giving more than 100%...always...
A classic concert. At this point I don't care if the album has to get delayed, if a tour has to get delayed, or if they have to end up using someone else on tour, if Chi comes out of this in good condition we all win.
Thats right man!
Quote from: defskull on Nov 07, 2008, 08:41 PM
Quote from: UrZ* on Nov 07, 2008, 07:01 PM
A classic concert. At this point I don't care if the album has to get delayed, if a tour has to get delayed, or if they have to end up using someone else on tour, if Chi comes out of this in good condition we all win.
yeah man i hear ya.
But his playing reflects chi...i had an urge to view something like that (he has a same kind of solo in engine #9) and thought i'd share with you guys!
editbtw u guys, chino mentioned nothing of a coma only: terrible car accident and serious but stable. The press mentioned coma,... but maybe he's kept in coma-like state because else he'd have too much pain?...
Quote from: UrZ* on Nov 07, 2008, 09:22 PM
Quote from: defskull on Nov 07, 2008, 08:41 PM
Quote from: UrZ* on Nov 07, 2008, 07:01 PM
A classic concert. At this point I don't care if the album has to get delayed, if a tour has to get delayed, or if they have to end up using someone else on tour, if Chi comes out of this in good condition we all win.
I think Chino reported to a newspaper that he was in a coma.
yeah man i hear ya.
But his playing reflects chi...i had an urge to view something like that (he has a same kind of solo in engine #9) and thought i'd share with you guys!
edit
btw u guys, chino mentioned nothing of a coma only: terrible car accident and serious but stable. The press mentioned coma,... but maybe he's kept in coma-like state because else he'd have too much pain?...
to answer a few questions.
Accident was totally not their fault. they were struck by another car.
Head injury only... no other injuries.
Things look good so stay optimistic.
Quote from: 1xuser on Nov 07, 2008, 10:12 PM
to answer a few questions.
Accident was totally not their fault. they were struck by another car.
Head injury only... no other injuries.
Things look good so stay optimistic.
thank you so much.
Could you tell us if he's in coma due to the accident or if they are keeping him this way?
because of the accident.
1xuser I just wanted to let you know your information is greatly appreciated. Thanks man. Please send Chi and the crew our love and prayers.
QuoteHi,
I spoke to Chi's mother this morning, the Neurosurgeon treating Chi says the first 72 hours are critical, and as of now he is fighting the good fight and the doctors remain optimistic. We are seeing your prayers in action.
The family asks that all the prayer warriors out there to continue to pray for Chi, and keep sending out your positive energy!
Today's good deed for Chi is to call someone you love, remind them of that love by saying "I love you," and like yesterday remind them to buckle up.
-Abe
head injury is also a shit guys...brain damage or something like this?
Quote from: 1xuser on Nov 07, 2008, 10:12 PM
to answer a few questions.
Accident was totally not their fault. they were struck by another car.
Head injury only... no other injuries.
Things look good so stay optimistic.
thank god. I hope this is a genuine post. but I assume it is and that is good news indeed.
come on Chi, stay strong. we're all waiting here to welcome you back with open arms.
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 07, 2008, 10:46 PM
1xuser I just wanted to let you know your information is greatly appreciated. Thanks man. Please send Chi and the crew our love and prayers.
I whole heartedly agree.
From Deftonesinstudio Blog:
QuoteHi,
I spoke to Chi's mother this morning, the Neurosurgeon treating Chi says the first 72 hours are critical, and as of now he is fighting the good fight and the doctors remain optimistic. We are seeing your prayers in action. The family asks that all the prayer warriors out there to continue to pray for Chi, and keep sending out your positive energy!
Today's good deed for Chi is to call someone you love, remind them of that love by saying "I love you," and like yesterday remind them to buckle up.
-Abe
Quote from: DEFCAY on Nov 07, 2008, 10:56 PM
head injury is also a shit guys...brain damage or something like this?
Indeed. :(
i am fucking worried. in some parts of the day...i can´t stop thinking about him and his condition.
just fight, Cheng!
Quote from: 1xuser on Nov 07, 2008, 10:12 PM
to answer a few questions.
Accident was totally not their fault. they were struck by another car.
Head injury only... no other injuries.
Things look good so stay optimistic.
Thanks. Are you affiliated with Chi or any of his friends or family?
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 07, 2008, 11:19 PM
Quote from: DEFCAY on Nov 07, 2008, 10:56 PM
head injury is also a shit guys...brain damage or something like this?
Indeed. :(
Don't say that shit.
That's better than I tought.
1xuser:
do you know the coma scale? glasgow scale or something?any reaction from chi? anything...noise, lights, touch?
are we to assume from the site updates that he wasn't wearing his seat belt?
I hope he comes thru soon
Thanks. Are you affiliated with Chi or any of his friends or family?
[/quote]
Just to ease minds that I'm not some asshole posting false shit... the answer to that question is actually, all of the above. I've been sort of out of the picture for the last couple years because I've been sick. but we went to school together, took poetry classes together, sold our clothes to buy beer together, stole toilet paper from the Weatherstone cause we has spent our clothes money on beer. I was at his first wedding and then the baby shower. Was in the Cheng family in San Francisco after they played the Warped Tour in 96 with 13 other people including 7 of the Cheng family members when we got pulled over by a cop because his mom had forgotten to put her new stickers on the plates. sorry if that is TMI, I've been tripping around in my memories this week, scared as hell.
But seriously... From test results... they do think he'll be okay. He is still comatose because he is healing. He always told me about my disease that I shouldn't worry about the what if's and that things would work out if I was positive.
The reason that I posted was because I too... between updates from a family member and a small circle of friends who know him... have been cruising the web to make sure I don't miss any new news. And all I find are people saying awful things like he was probably drunk or thank got it was just the 'bass player', or what if he never gets better. I guess I'm just trying to keep things positive at least on one place on the internet.
One thing, Chi is the strongest person I've ever known and he is going to get through this. He has to. And thankfully things are looking up. Chi always used to say that he never looked at the ground when he walked because he was too busy looking up for the answers. (Steph used to tease him about tripping all the time...) But anyway... I guess that is all. Sorry if I've been vague. I just don't want to overstep bounds and spill too much of what was said to me in confidence.
So... lets all just look up for the answers and not look down.
Quote from: 1xuser on Nov 08, 2008, 12:56 AM
Chi always used to say that he never looked at the ground when he walked because he was too busy looking up for the answers. (Steph used to tease him about tripping all the time...)
Awww....well,no doubt everyone here is sending mega ultra positive vibes. Thanks for stopping by and letting us know.
Again, 1xuser, your pressence here is very appreciated.
I got my Headup.
Quote from: 1xuser on Nov 08, 2008, 12:56 AM
Thanks. Are you affiliated with Chi or any of his friends or family?
Just to ease minds that I'm not some asshole posting false shit... the answer to that question is actually, all of the above. I've been sort of out of the picture for the last couple years because I've been sick. but we went to school together, took poetry classes together, sold our clothes to buy beer together, stole toilet paper from the Weatherstone cause we has spent our clothes money on beer. I was at his first wedding and then the baby shower. Was in the Cheng family in San Francisco after they played the Warped Tour in 96 with 13 other people including 7 of the Cheng family members when we got pulled over by a cop because his mom had forgotten to put her new stickers on the plates. sorry if that is TMI, I've been tripping around in my memories this week, scared as hell.
But seriously... From test results... they do think he'll be okay. He is still comatose because he is healing. He always told me about my disease that I shouldn't worry about the what if's and that things would work out if I was positive.
The reason that I posted was because I too... between updates from a family member and a small circle of friends who know him... have been cruising the web to make sure I don't miss any new news. And all I find are people saying awful things like he was probably drunk or thank got it was just the 'bass player', or what if he never gets better. I guess I'm just trying to keep things positive at least on one place on the internet.
One thing, Chi is the strongest person I've ever known and he is going to get through this. He has to. And thankfully things are looking up. Chi always used to say that he never looked at the ground when he walked because he was too busy looking up for the answers. (Steph used to tease him about tripping all the time...) But anyway... I guess that is all. Sorry if I've been vague. I just don't want to overstep bounds and spill too much of what was said to me in confidence.
So... lets all just look up for the answers and not look down.
[/quote]
I've been holding back this entire time trying to keep it real, but I just lost it. this entire situation has me in tears. all the best for you, and the Chi's family. This is really hard on me and I've only met him a few times. Sometimes I get really emotional when I know someone as good as him is in trouble. Good people are far and few.
he knows jack-shit!
i hope chi (my fav chinese mofo in the world) pullsthefuck through..
he will..
it's fucking hard not to worry when the word "neurosurgeon" is being used to describe his accident. hopefully having a neurosurgeon is standard for head injuries, just to monitor the situation, i hope it doesn't mean that brain surgery was necessary to sustain life
i'm still praying that he comes out soon and he can still lead a normal life, keep on fighting Chi
fuck it, here's a positive thought, once he's all healed up, just think about how amazing the first shows after the accident will be! The return of the band after the accident should be a momenteous occasion!
Thanks a lot 1xuser...your the bridge beetween us and chi :D! Give to him all your energy, we know you are really a good friend of him, just reading those all pretty memories.
1xuser.. eat shit fucking piece of shit
The way it was explained to me is that the "Head Neurologist" of the hospital said that chi was expected to recover.
I know that they haven't done surgery... just lots of tests. Scans and stuff.
Quote from: cyppe101 on Nov 08, 2008, 01:48 AM
1xuser.. eat shit fucking piece of shit
See... this is why I shouldn't have done this. I was trying to be nice. Thanks.
kthxbye
Quote from: cyppe101 on Nov 08, 2008, 01:48 AM
1xuser.. eat shit fucking piece of shit
Calm down Cyppe.
Quote from: cyppe101 on Nov 08, 2008, 01:19 AM
he knows jack-shit!
i hope chi (my fav chinese mofo in the world) pullsthefuck through..
he will..
This is just another example of how a lot of people on this board are so goddamn judgemental and condeming of others. I mean i see many posts that i disagree with, but that doesn't mean im gonna go out of my way to bash them. And i think the trend is, the more familiar and popular one is with the SL community, the more forgiving other members are of such ignorant comments. As to 1xuser, im sorry their are people like this who are so quick to condemn everything. I think its imprtant to rememebr not all the members are sober when posting, including myself. So please keep updating, you cant let one asshole disenchant you from broadcasting your concerns.
Yeah,please disregard Cyppe's comments. I'm sure they were fueled by alcohol. This is not the time nor place to be starting shit. We're all concerned about Chi,and we don't need the negativity around here right now.
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 08, 2008, 02:12 AM
Yeah,please disregard Cyppe's comments. I'm sure they were fueled by alcohol. This is not the time nor place to be starting shit. We're all concerned about Chi,and we don't need the negativity around here right now.
+1
dont shoot the messenger.
1xuser gives us some info, true or false, we'll see, but we get something
here's a thought, maybe some of the big time boot collectors can make an awesome clip showcasing chi in all his glory.
Quote from: cyppe101 on Nov 08, 2008, 01:48 AM
1xuser.. eat shit fucking piece of shit
WTF is wrong with you !???
And as everyone said already, 1xuser, thank you so much for taking time to come by here and let us know fresh news of Chi.
Just being there without knowing anything and imagining the worse is one of the most terrible feeling ever... It really is much appreciated that you can do that.
I'll definitely keep sending good vibrations for our dearest Chi, and hope on his quick recovery.
Quote from: lithium on Nov 08, 2008, 03:26 AM
here's a thought, maybe some of the big time boot collectors can make an awesome clip showcasing chi in all his glory.
thats my job man....lemme chek my vids on a couple of days...
And Cype, go and fuck yourself!
Now, lemme drink my beer alone and listen deftones...each drink is a breath to Chi! Come on!!!!!!!!!
Cype, you are simply a cunt.
1xuser, everyone here is appreciative of what your doing despite a few assholes.
Quote from: BLUMPKIN on Nov 08, 2008, 01:36 AM
it's fucking hard not to worry when the word "neurosurgeon" is being used to describe his accident. hopefully having a neurosurgeon is standard for head injuries, just to monitor the situation, i hope it doesn't mean that brain surgery was necessary to sustain life
i'm still praying that he comes out soon and he can still lead a normal life, keep on fighting Chi
fuck it, here's a positive thought, once he's all healed up, just think about how amazing the first shows after the accident will be! The return of the band after the accident should be a momenteous occasion!
I'm pretty sure a neurosurgeon is called for any head injury. Just like if there is any chance at all something happened to the spinal cord during an accident they will take according action. It's just safety precautions. If what 1xuser is saying is true (and I do believe it to be true) then sounds like he will pull through which is great news.
Very tragic news, I'm pulling for him 100%.
Anyone who argues and gets into wars of words on this topic and about Chi, is doing nothing but acting foolish.
I pray he fully recovers, and am glad he has the support and care of his family, friends, doctors and the fans.
1xuser, thanks for keeping us on the clock with Chi's status..
Chi, i put you in my mind with positive energy and spirit, be well.
(http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3035/2370437774_23d656dc81_m.jpg)
My thoughts are with Chi and his family.
man...Chi is gonna get MAD love from the fans when he hits the stage again...might be a while, but can you imagine the uproar he'll get the next time he walks onstage!!! its gonna be fucking crazy!
Quote from: Jizzlobber on Nov 08, 2008, 09:02 AM
man...Chi is gonna get MAD love from the fans when he hits the stage again...might be a while, but can you imagine the uproar he'll get the next time he walks onstage!!! its gonna be fucking crazy!
I was thinking that myself. It should be 'The Chi Tour'.
First off, it is refreshing to see so many in concern for Chi. Well placed concern of course.
When I slipped into a coma no one could wake me up, no voice, no dreams, nothing. He has brain activity, he will be fine.
When I awoke from my coma it took about three days to reach sanity, when I closed my eyes I saw demons and nasty shit, crap I would never wish upon my worst enemy.
Growing up a friend was WAY into drugs. His family owned the San Fran sea ports - so yeah, he was loaded. Anyway, he was so fucked up on drugs he jumped off a four story house without anyone near. He laid in a back yard, in a coma, for 24 hours, his ear was missing, it was freezing out. Ten days in the hospital, in a deep coma he just awoke and said, "where is my cell phone." He got up and left the hospital right then.
It takes a strong mind, we all know Chi is well equipped.
Really, what I want to say, is no word of surgery, which is GOOD news.
I don't believe in the tradional god, but, my thoughts are with Chi.
Quote from: BLUMPKIN on Nov 08, 2008, 01:36 AM
it's fucking hard not to worry when the word "neurosurgeon" is being used to describe his accident. hopefully having a neurosurgeon is standard for head injuries, just to monitor the situation...
ANY, I mean any head trama a neurosurgeon is around. No worries, it is protocol.
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Nov 08, 2008, 11:26 AM
First off, it is refreshing to see so many in concern for Chi. Well placed concern of course.
When I slipped into a coma no one could wake me up, no voice, no dreams, nothing. He has brain activity, he will be fine.
When I awoke from my coma it took about three days to reach sanity, when I closed my eyes I saw demons and nasty shit, crap I would never wish upon my worst enemy.
Growing up a friend was WAY into drugs. His family owned the San Fran sea ports - so yeah, he was loaded. Anyway, he was so fucked up on drugs he jumped off a four story house without anyone near. He laid in a back yard, in a coma, for 24 hours, his ear was missing, it was freezing out. Ten days in the hospital, in a deep coma he just awoke and said, "where is my cell phone." He got up and left the hospital right then.
It takes a strong mind, we all know Chi is well equipped.
Really, what I want to say, is no word of surgery, which is GOOD news.
I don't believe in the tradional god, but, my thoughts are with Chi.
so nice of you man, respect!
im a bit disconnected of this thread for the last day, when i read the last update of the blog...nice news:)
im sure chi get better very soon
1xuser, we all really appreciate you taking the time and energy to come here and share.
Don't worry about little petty arguements in this thread, because, afterall this thread is for Chi, OUR favorite musicain. (sp?)
I've talked to a source that is a close family friend of Chi's,and she said instead of sending him flowers,we should donate to Peta in his name,since he is a big supporter. I personally think that's a great Idea.
Also,I was thinking of making a separate thread for everyone to put kind words and letters in,and I would print them off and get them mailed to him. I'm not gonna go through every page of this thread picking them out or print off every page of this thread.
I have a paypal account we can get donations going if that sounds good to you all?
Quote from: lithium on Nov 08, 2008, 03:26 AM
here's a thought, maybe some of the big time boot collectors can make an awesome clip showcasing chi in all his glory.
good idea
Actions speak louder than words or money... I agree, we should all write something to Chi and his family how he has touched our lives.
For me, I have a bad temper, a violent temper, I've been playing bass since I was 14 and to look up to Chi as a guide, well, I'm proud of that fact. I play bass note for bass note to Adrinellin everyday to keep my fingers in check., also calm my nerves - even the heavy metal bass riffs that only Chi could make in drop C (Yes, I know the first album was standard tuning)... I'm amazed what a caring and funny (sarcastic) character Chi is... Someone I would like to hang out with, someone like Rick Verret (Tinfed, Team Sleep) - we seem to get along great. I don't believe in idols, but Chi would be my hero for sure!!!
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 08, 2008, 03:46 PM
I've talked to a source that is a close family friend of Chi's,and she said instead of sending him flowers,we should donate to Peta in his name,since he is a big supporter. I personally think that's a great Idea.
Also,I was thinking of making a separate thread for everyone to put kind words and letters in,and I would print them off and get them mailed to him. I'm not gonna go through every page of this thread picking them out or print off every page of this thread.
I have a paypal account we can get donations going if that sounds good to you all?
Let's do it!
I'll put mine in a moment.
Fo Shizzle Chi bizzle.
This is where to post letters and such for Chi. I will be printing them all off and mailing them to him as soon as everyone that wants to post has done so.
Disrespect in this thread will NOT be tolerated.
If what you have chosen to write is personal,and you chose not to post it on the board,you may PM me your letter and I will print it with the others.
Chi,
You have managed to become one of my biggest inspirations. From a very young age I've been listening to your music and seeing you peform onstage. I've always thought that human beings could never be as cool as you and the crew. Your music and your art have had nothing but an extremely positive effect on my life. I am so grateful to you for that. Thats all that I really need to say. Chi, you are a great human being and extremely talented. Words cannot describe the impact you've had on me and all of your fans. Stay strong!
Nothing but love from Timmy Smith, NY.
13htp, you heard the story behind the bassriff to "Change (in the house of flies)"? that riff is so tight...
Quote from: UrZ* on Nov 08, 2008, 05:06 PM
13htp, you heard the story behind the bassriff to "Change (in the house of flies)"? that riff is so tight...
Whats the story behind the bassriff to Change?
Dear Chi.
I was shocked to hear about your accident! it was a surreal "NO WAY" type of moment that at first i thought was a joke coz ive read many crazy stories about you and i remember in an interview you once did you said you had read some pretty crazy stories about yourself too, including one that you were dead!..
But it turned out to be true, and i read something Chino wrote about how it was true, and he was freaked out by it. News that you were in a car accident leaving you in a coma..what a shock!
I think you form a very important part of Deftones, not many bands can boast having an asian, buddhist vegetarian (pescatarian?) in their bands..You have a very good energy that you give off and the word 'love' definatly describes that energy..i think you have a really gifted mind, and music all starts in your head so , all the craziness that makes you who you are is definatly felt through your bass contributions to the music..listening to your playing within the songs is almost like getting a glimpse of how your brain works..and its always entertaining, your steadfast insistance on not playing bass with a pick is really admirable too..keeping thoses grooves organic.
You've inspired me to support causes like PETA also, and you encourage me to read more about things i normally wouldnt.. ,always good to know you're the type who likes to drink 10 beers and have fun now and then too......ive been a fan of Deftones for about 7 years now, and if the worst happens...its gonna be devastating!
Nothing else matters as James Hetfield sang, other than you recovering, waking up, and continuing to spread the love.
hope you feel better soon!
Josh . UK fan
Quote from: UrZ* on Nov 08, 2008, 05:06 PM
13htp, you heard the story behind the bassriff to "Change (in the house of flies)"? that riff is so tight...
No I haven't, enlighten me! Yes, it is a sweet riff!! That is all Chi right there, oh and Cherry Waves, Deathblow, how he wrote this notes is beyound me...
I'll happily donate some money for Chi. I don't have much but fuck it, this is Deftones we're talking about.
Chi is the greatest Deftone simply for writing the Cherry Waves bass line.
this sucks. but chi's a tough motha fucka, he'll pull through.
i'm with you buddy
ah man, and after leaving their old bros memorial service..
come on chi, we know you can do it. he'll be up in no time slammin those sick basslines.
we're prayin for you man
Quote from: sharinglungs on Nov 08, 2008, 05:14 PM
Whats the story behind the bassriff to Change?
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Nov 08, 2008, 07:10 PM
No I haven't, enlighten me! Yes, it is a sweet riff!! That is all Chi right there, oh and Cherry Waves, Deathblow, how he wrote this notes is beyound me...
Alright, he wrote that line. I don't recall for 100% but I know the riff wasn't appreciated all that much, people were like "what's that?". This is why the bass is hard to hear in that song, which is such a shame. Because it's so grooving...
A lot of his newer playing (HITE, Cherry Waves, Beware etc etc.) is in a similar style. If Chi would have listened to the "complaints" and came up with a different riff we wouldn't have all those sick grooves...
Funny little anecdote...
Quote from: mr.sinister on Nov 08, 2008, 08:16 PM
Chi is the greatest Deftone simply for writing the Cherry Waves bass line.
Why are you mocking me?
was that mocking? :-\
But anyway, never heard that about the bassriff from change?
I dunno, I can't tell if he/she was mocking me...
i dnno man, i don't it was...that riff is so tight man..whenever i hear something like that, or see abe drum feiticeira i wanna go play.
Anyway, did u miss what i posted like 2 posts back or..? :O
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chi update 11/8/08
Hey everyone, As of today chi is holding strong. He we be so happy to know the good things you are doing out of respect for him in his downtime. For day three, Please, if your gonna party find a designated driver beforehand and of coarse stay buckled. Chi's mother (Jeanne) asked if I would post these words from her as well. -Chino.
"When asking Chi's head neuro surgeon what kind of thank you gift we could get for he and his team of doctors he responded that some of the surgeons love the Deftones and he would like them to have tickets for when chi's back onstage. He expects a tough recovery but in the end expects Chi will be playing his bass again. Praise Jah. For himself the doc has a special request for all of you. He will give you more details soon. It is 1:00 am now and I am with Chi. I've been reading your emails to him. You are so wonderful. My heart aches with love for you. We are all connected." - Jeanne (chis mom).
Quote from: UrZ* on Nov 08, 2008, 10:54 PM
i dnno man, i don't it was...that riff is so tight man..whenever i hear something like that, or see abe drum feiticeira i wanna go play.
Anyway, did u miss what i posted like 2 posts back or..? :O
Oh sorry, I forgot to say thanks.
Change live sounds a lot better, most of the time you can hear Chi's progression in the song.
Pull through dude.
Dear Chi,
I, like many others, was devastated to hear about your accident and resulting comatose state. I have been listening to your music for 11 years and have been fortunate to see you guys at least 10 times. In fact, you guys popped my concert cherry on November 10th, 1998, a decade ago. I have loved all the work you have done with the band, from the opening of One Weak to the awesome bass line in Cherry Waves.
I have not had(or perhaps taken) the opportunity to personally meet you, but I have heard from many of my fellow friends here on Sharing Lungs that you are a very cool and down to earth guy. I admire your achievements that you have earned and how you have used your status to promote some good in this world, through community outreach and with organizations like PETA. I hope to meet you one day and shake your hand, and maybe talk over some beers and cigarettes.
You truly are an awesome person and will pull through this. This world is not done with you yet. Stay strong.
Peace and love,
Michael Rodriguez from Houston TX
Chi,.
Look for inspiration in people like Rick Allen (Def Leppard drummer) also involved in a serious car accident and has managed to carry on despite his mind blowing disability. No matter what the outcome of this you will have god with you in whatever route your life will take. No matter what happens im sure you wont be forgotten as an artist, a poet, a human, a father, a brother etc..... I think you get the message so basically we are with you mate stay true and god will be with you. x
Alex, Liverpool UK
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Nov 08, 2008, 11:02 PM
Oh sorry, I forgot to say thanks.
Change live sounds a lot better, most of the time you can hear Chi's progression in the song.
Haha no need to thank me. It just looked like you missed it or something, i thought it was pretty funny that the other members didn't like it at first, because that riff is pure genius :P
Yeah and i agree, if the bass would just be a tad louder..but it does have a special vibe on the album
ablackswan,
thank you for the heads up really appreciate it.
Quote from: ablackswan on Nov 08, 2008, 10:59 PM
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chi update 11/8/08
Hey everyone, As of today chi is holding strong. He we be so happy to know the good things you are doing out of respect for him in his downtime. For day three, Please, if your gonna party find a designated driver beforehand and of coarse stay buckled. Chi's mother (Jeanne) asked if I would post these words from her as well. -Chino.
"When asking Chi's head neuro surgeon what kind of thank you gift we could get for he and his team of doctors he responded that some of the surgeons love the Deftones and he would like them to have tickets for when chi's back onstage. He expects a tough recovery but in the end expects Chi will be playing his bass again. Praise Jah. For himself the doc has a special request for all of you. He will give you more details soon. It is 1:00 am now and I am with Chi. I've been reading your emails to him. You are so wonderful. My heart aches with love for you. We are all connected." - Jeanne (chis mom).
That's amazing, we're getting more hopes. He'll do it, I know.
Dear Chi,
one of my close friends got into a car accident about a year ago.. Heavy brain damage, what a person he was, and now - after a year everybody knows, that he will not be the same person ever again. I sincerely wish this does not happen to you, in any way. There are just too many people dying in carcrashes, too many lives taken by the machines. And even though I would never know you personally, and the closest distance between you and me were just few metres, I still, with all my heart, wish you a full recovery - to be reborn as an artist and spread your love to every person in this world. People need you.
with his deepest love,
Darius Gerulis from Lithuania.
Hey bro,
I couldn't avoid feeling shocked when I read about your accident, and still can't believe it. Life can sometimes meddle with the wrong people, and all of this is a good example. Wish you the best recovery possible, can't wait to see you on stage again communicating the infinite amont of energy and good vibes you've gotten us accustomed to. Until then, see you soon.
Nico from Argentina
Dear bro Chi
There aren't enough words to express how you and the rest of the band have inspired me on the last 8 years. It was so shocking to knew about your situation, but at that moment I just remembered the time I had the chance to shake your hand the last time you came to Mexico and I knew everything will end up good. I hope to see you soon making what you do best, making us forget our problems with your music. Stay strong bro. Good vibes.
A big hug from a big mexican fan.
Jonás.
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Nov 08, 2008, 10:31 PM
Quote from: mr.sinister on Nov 08, 2008, 08:16 PM
Chi is the greatest Deftone simply for writing the Cherry Waves bass line.
Why are you mocking me?
Of course not! I am just saying Chi is my favorite member because he wrote that line.
Quote from: Frankz0r on Nov 08, 2008, 11:33 PM
That's amazing, we're getting more hopes. He'll do it, I know.
he's on the good way
when chi wakes up from the coma. Hes gonna be like did Mccain win? arrrr god damn it
c´mon chi!we are waiting for you!stay strong
Dear Chi,
we are all waiting for you. i know, that in this time, all the deftones community are together and praying for you. we all miss you, in the stage, in the album, in life. every day i wake up, and think about you, and i hope that today will be the day that you wake up, just to make our life a little more complete. We all have faith on you, and in your recovery. You have been a great inspiration for us, and i hope that, with this suffering, we all learn some things.
We need you.
Love from Portugal.
André
Dear Chi,
When I heard you where hurt, I instantly broke down in tears. I am thinking about you always and I hope you feel better soon. You and your music are a big inspration in my life. When everything just sucks and nothing seems to be working out in my life, I just turn to your music and it makes me just want to keep on going. I want to thank you for that from the bottom of my heart. Chi your one awesome guy and one hell of a bass player. Even though we have never met, I LOVE YOU MAN! I look forward to meeting you for the very first time one day and when I do I'll give you a hug. Hang in there and Get better! Hope to see you rocking it out on stage with some wicked notes and shouting your lungs out! Thank you again and get well soon.
Your Fan Forever.
Jared - Fort Lauderdale, FL
Chi,
May God bless you and keep you in His thoughts. You will certainly stay in mine. Get well soon dude.
Tom
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Quote from: ilovechino69 on Nov 09, 2008, 02:06 AM
when chi wakes up from the coma. Hes gonna be like did Mccain win? arrrr god damn it
Nah, I bet you Chi was an Obama fan.
Quote from: ablackswan on Nov 08, 2008, 10:59 PM
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chi update 11/8/08
Hey everyone, As of today chi is holding strong. He we be so happy to know the good things you are doing out of respect for him in his downtime. For day three, Please, if your gonna party find a designated driver beforehand and of coarse stay buckled. Chi's mother (Jeanne) asked if I would post these words from her as well. -Chino.
"When asking Chi's head neuro surgeon what kind of thank you gift we could get for he and his team of doctors he responded that some of the surgeons love the Deftones and he would like them to have tickets for when chi's back onstage. He expects a tough recovery but in the end expects Chi will be playing his bass again. Praise Jah. For himself the doc has a special request for all of you. He will give you more details soon. It is 1:00 am now and I am with Chi. I've been reading your emails to him. You are so wonderful. My heart aches with love for you. We are all connected." - Jeanne (chis mom).
awesome, I got so happy when reading this.
Chi,
You once said you started playing bass because your brother made you play Iron Maiden songs with him. In all those years, you and the rest of the tones have been that big brother for a lot of people (including me). You have been an inspiration to so many.
I hope you will get better soon, and hope to see you rocking the stage as you used to!
Thanks for everything.
I'm praying for you.
Bram, the Netherlands
@devilinside: Thank you for giving everybody the opportunity to do this! It's greatly appreciated!
Dear Chi,
When I first heard about the accident I was, as well as every other Cheng and Deftones fan I've spoken to, shocked and afraid.
Shocked by the fact that you had been in a terrible accident, and afraid that I would might lose an essential part of the group who makes the most important thing in my life - music. My favourite music.
I have never met you in real life, but one of my biggest dreams is to meet you and your friends in Deftones in person, to tell you face-to-face how much you and your music means to me. If you receive this letter and read it, then maybe it can be a start.
Who knows?
I've tried to find comfort in the fact that when my dad was 19 he fell from a couple of floors and had a pretty bad landing. He was in a coma for about a week, but woke up just fine except a very bad head ache. I've been hoping the same for you, and I still will.
I have plenty other things to write to you, but I'll stop here.
Maybe I'll get the chance to tell you everything someday.
Come on, Chi. I know you will get through this.
Thomas, Norway
yeah, really good news finally
lets start the countdown for see chi again onstage
:)
Just been hanging back and sitting on this, but definitely been praying for Chi. I'm really glad to hear that everyone is staying optimistic (especially his doctors). I know you'll pull through it Chi, we all love you and only have the highest of hopes for your recovery. You're so lucky to have such a strong family who is so supportive of all that you believe in, and we're all saying prayers for them too. I know through the power of prayer and all the good energy everyone is sending your way, you'll not only recover, but you'll be rocking and contributing even more than the huge amounts you already have to the world, and doing so with a new zest and appreciation for life and how fragile it is. We all love you!
Much respect,
-Matt
Captain my Captain,
I know you'll pull through it Chi, we all love you and only have the highest of hopes for your recovery. You're so lucky to have such a strong family who is so supportive of all that you believe in, and we're all saying prayers for them too. I know through the power of prayer and all the good energy everyone is sending your way, you'll not only recover, but you'll be rocking and contributing even more than the huge amounts you already have to the world, and doing so with a new zest and appreciation for life and how fragile it is. We all love you!
Much respect,
-Matt (Sunderland, MA)
Chi,
I can still remember the first time I saw Deftones on the telly about 6 years ago as good as the first time Hexagram gave me goosebumps [which it does every time], the first time I saw you live in 2006 when you gave me the horns and how I felt like such a little girl at how excited I was that you dedicated No Ordinary Love to all the ladies in the crowd that night. It's strange how such little things like that can make you feel and it also seems crazy to some how hearing that the bassist from your favourite band is in a coma even if you don't even know them, let alone never met them before.
I ended up in an ambulance on friday night after running down a hill with my friend and tripping, hitting my head real hard on a lamp post and somehow cutting all my stomach and bruising my ribs pretty bad. I don't remember much from that night and I'm sure the copious amounts of alcohol didn't help either, but I somehow remember Be Quiet And Drive coming on at the club we were at that night and feeling like the happiest person alive. I have you and the rest of the Deftones to thank for that and I can't wait to do so in person next time you're touring over here, even if it's 5 years down the line because I know you're gonna be okay, Chi. And I can't wait :]
Jemma,
Manchester, UK.
Dear Chi!
I'm praying for you from Hungary! Sorry for my bad english, but I try to write down my thoughts. This accident is a terrible thing, but (how I heard from Chino's words) you are a very strong man. And when you fully healed, when you playing your awesome music again, you will know, this accident just makes you more stronger! I know, you will be much better soon and a lot of people will be glad, what gives you more enegry. In 2000 I heard something what never before ... The White Pony. You are the ONE from the great guys, who makes that masterwork. In a moment a feeled a lot of thing, what never comes out from me by the other musicians. So, I'm praying for a big musician ...
I hope, you will be much better soon!
Greetings and Respect
Attila from Nagykanizsa, Hungary
go chiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
Quote from: mr.sinister on Nov 09, 2008, 12:04 AM
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Nov 08, 2008, 10:31 PM
Quote from: mr.sinister on Nov 08, 2008, 08:16 PM
Chi is the greatest Deftone simply for writing the Cherry Waves bass line.
Why are you mocking me?
Of course not! I am just saying Chi is my favorite member because he wrote that line.
Oh, sorry for the mix up.
so fly
Praise Jah
All falls into place
1
Chi,
I smell horribly bad right now. I've had this Deftones t-shirt on ever since I heard of your accident and yesterday me and a friend moved into a new apartment so we carried furtiture and stuff for about 4 hours. I'm still wearing the same shirt. and I'm not gonna take it off until you recover.
Deftones has become one of the most important bands for me and not one single day goes by without me thinking of your music. I have huge amounts of respect for you as a musician and as a person. and I think what you believe in and stand for are honorable things that inspire hundreds if not thousands of people. simply put, the world needs you and we're all here to welcome you back when you're ready. stay strong and get well, Chi. I know you're gonna be back on stage with more energy than ever.
oh, and thank Abe for teaching me how to play drums through your songs!
greetings,
Jacob from Sweden
Hey Chi, I'm gonna write this cuz I know you'll be able to read these letters we're writing to you -maybe you'll be tired to read mine- but at least you'll read some, that just makes me happy.
Knowing your situation makes us more fan than we are, being with you guys (the band, family and friends) together in a pray makes this whole Deftones situation a thing more united than ever, and it will be like that after your recovery, that's the good thing that will come up about this accident. Good things can come from bad things, that's why I think.
I'm sure -and so do a lot of people- you'll be someday back onstage screaming and breaking those fucking strings again. You, along with the guys have been an inspiration to all of us through all these years, eventhough I don't even play a shit, it's just an inspiration you've given me... That's something so hard to give back to you, cuz the thing you do is so awesome and it's just a feeling so hard to explain.
You know you have us, and we know we have you. It was good to see you for the first time last year, I'm sure I'll see you again soon. Youdaman.
- Frank from Venezuela.
***
Thank you kelly, you're a hot sweetie ;)
from today's blog.
chi 11/9/08
The critical 72 hours has passed and his condition is stable. His doc is expecting a recovery but want to continue to sedate him and keep him quiet, he was trying to fight even in his coma. His mother and son have asked that I pass this information on as well...
In the past when chi was not on tour he would gather a few instruments together once a week and meet the homeless kids in the park to play music with them. Today we ask you to give a homeless person a blanket, some warm clothes or some food. If you don't see a homeless person, reach out to a child near or far, and show some kindness to them. keep sending your good thoughts and prayers, they are keeping him with us and he is improving daily.
Chi,
I don't usually do this kinda thing but I kinda feel the need to say something. The first time I ever saw the Deftones live was back in '03. I'd been a fan for a while before but this was the first time I'd actually seen you guys play. I'm in the UK and the show was in London. I remember waiting for you guys to arrive at the gate along with a bunch of other fans. Eventually, after the bus turned up you came over and talked with us for a while. It was surreal as fuck man and really fucking cool to meet you, you know? The show was awesome and it was a great fucking day.
I've met the other guys a few times along with yourself again since. You've probably always been the nicest guy, the one who always seems the happiest to take a little time to speak to the fans. You're the bass player in my favourite band, you know? You're a fucking hero of mine. So to meet you in person and stuff has been fucking cool. I got you guys tattooed on my arm man, you're a real important part of my life.
It was a shock to hear about your accident. The other guys have been kind enough to keep us updated every now and again on your progress. I never pray.. I've never been that kind of person really. I must have attempted it a handful of times in my life. But the other day I kind of tried it in an attempt to help you get better man.
When you wake up and get healthy again you can read all these things people have said and really know how important you are to us. It's funny because I don't know you at all.. And yet I feel as though I know you so well because of the way your music has moved me for all these years. I've grown up with you guys in the background.
Get better soon man. We all love you.
Trav (UK)
So does that mean he's out of the coma but they're just sedating him???
And really, how fuckin often do you hear about people in bands as big as Deftones doing that for people, huh.
Infact when do you really hear about it ever? :/
Chi Cheng is fucking awesome.
so...i guess that the coma is controlled? if that is true, this is good news.
indeed, good news today
Chi, you get better now dang it! you guys seem like family, you been my favorite band for so long. i been praying for you each day. been worried. i wanna thank you for being such a cool person, & for all the great shows you've done, & the awesome tunes you guys make. lookin forward to seeing you rockin like a champ out there again. hang in there buddy
Dan - from Ohio
I'm wondering why they want to keep him sedated.
i really appreciate that they update us everyday. i still dont fully understand what sorta condition he's in, i wish they could explain it further, but i'm just glad they're cool enough to take the time to update us. during such a major ordeal it would be easy to not think about updating the fans. so many of us are worried it's cool to see an update every day
so why did they stop updating the official site and now just the mysapce page? I can never pull the shit up on myspace
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 10, 2008, 01:20 AM
I'm wondering why they want to keep him sedated.
So he doesn't hurt himself?
Good news..I knew he'd be okay.
from site update 11-9-08 part 2
Hello Everyone,
I just had the pleasure of speaking with Chi's mother. She, as well as the entire Cheng family, would again like to thank you for all your love and support and knows God is healing Chi because of your prayers, love and good work.
This Sunday saw the first signs of your prayers in action. Chi was able to hear and respond to his father's request to move his lower lip. His father also administered a tendon reflex test, of which both legs responded with movement. Doctors continue to remain optimistic, and the energy at the hospital remains very positive.
The family would also like to send a special thank you out to the three off duty EMTs that stopped shortly after the accident and saved Chi's life. It was by the Grace of God that these three individuals happened to be traveling on the road with medical gear in tow at the time of the accident. If not for them, the chances of Chi making to the hospital alive would have been poor.
Please, keep your prayers, thoughts, and love coming!
Thank you for the updates!
I have had Chi in my thoughts and prayers since I heard of the news! :-\
While out for a drive today, I said a prayer for him while holding the rosary beads hanging off my car mirror!
That may sound corny, but they belonged to my late grandfather and I see them as a protection, as if he is watching over me while driving.
Quote from: sharinglungs on Nov 10, 2008, 03:51 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 10, 2008, 01:20 AM
I'm wondering why they want to keep him sedated.
So he doesn't hurt himself?
Sometimes a coma is induced by doctors. This is to keep the brain from working too much. It controls swelling, relieves pressure, and helps in healing.
Quote from: i kill for fun on Nov 10, 2008, 05:29 AM
from site update 11-9-08 part 2
Hello Everyone,
I just had the pleasure of speaking with Chi's mother. She, as well as the entire Cheng family, would again like to thank you for all your love and support and knows God is healing Chi because of your prayers, love and good work.
This Sunday saw the first signs of your prayers in action. Chi was able to hear and respond to his father's request to move his lower lip. His father also administered a tendon reflex test, of which both legs responded with movement. Doctors continue to remain optimistic, and the energy at the hospital remains very positive.
The family would also like to send a special thank you out to the three off duty EMTs that stopped shortly after the accident and saved Chi's life. It was by the Grace of God that these three individuals happened to be traveling on the road with medical gear in tow at the time of the accident. If not for them, the chances of Chi making to the hospital alive would have been poor.
Please, keep your prayers, thoughts, and love coming!
Awesome. I'm so incredibly happy he's responding.
i buckled up today, i never buckle up normally, but i thought of Chi & did it
Quote from: Hidalgo on Nov 10, 2008, 06:50 AM
i buckled up today, i never buckle up normally, but i thought of Chi & did it
You never buckle?
Damn that's really really stupid....!
And that's just so odd to hear that if these 3 people wouldn't have been there he might be dead - cruel. But I'm so happy to hear that he is doing fine so far!
Sweeeet. Things are looking up! He's responsive!
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: Hidalgo on Nov 10, 2008, 06:50 AM
i buckled up today, i never buckle up normally, but i thought of Chi & did it
You shouldn't even have to think about doing it man.
good news. he is responding!
Chi, my man. I'm not good with words so I'll keep this short.
It bothered me a hell of a lot to hear of your accident. And for me to feel this way about something happening to a person i have no real personal attachment to seems strange. I believe your ability to spread so much good energy and joy through your music or just by being is amazing and so important. I bet your presence is really important for your family, friends and the band. I know you'll get through this, and i will send you good thoughts until you do. I know it's just a matter of time. Wear your seat belt next time.
Get Well
-Håvard from Norway
Not long after I got my license (seems like ages ago, I've been driving for almost a decade) I got pulled over for not wearing my seatbelt. Well, I had also just gotten outta jail (weed :'() So, needless to say I buckle up every fucking time I get in the car, its just habit now. Besides saving you $100+ on tickets, buckling up is good for your health. ;)
yes, very good news, hopefully hell jump up on rehab soon enough.
chi is fucking awesome!!!
finally prayers of all the deftones family result!
cant wait for see you onstage again chi, get strong men!
Great news! He's responding! Hope this continues.
good news of the week :)
made my day.
so happy. and yea i never used to buckle either, but now i do.
good thoughts and energy for chi and his family and friends everyday :)
Quote from: BigMood on Nov 10, 2008, 08:01 AM
Quote from: Hidalgo on Nov 10, 2008, 06:50 AM
i buckled up today, i never buckle up normally, but i thought of Chi & did it
You never buckle?
Damn that's really really stupid....!
And that's just so odd to hear that if these 3 people wouldn't have been there he might be dead - cruel. But I'm so happy to hear that he is doing fine so far!
I will admit...I don't buckle up every time I get in the car. :( If I'm just going around town I wont,but if I'm getting on high speed roads like the interstate I do. Yet...I wont leave my driveway till my kids are buckled. Kinda silly I make them and I don't.
Chi,
Man if I didn't know that you were gonna pull through this then I'd be worried and upset, I still am, but I know you're gonna pull through. Everyone's comin together for you man, it's awesome. Chino, Abe and your Mom are keepin all your fans updated, so a big thanks to them, and your doctors too. But Chi, if anything ever happened to you or any of you guys, my goddamn life would be over. Me and my buddies have a band, and we cover nothing but Deftones. We fuckin love you guys, you are the biggest influences in our lives at this point. Anyways, my thoughts and prayers (which is weird because I don't pray at all usually) are with you and yours. Take care man, hope to see you back onstage in no time. I still haven't seen you motha fuckas play, so get your ass up and start rippin apart peoples ears again boys.
Love your homie from Duncan, British Columbia
Will
chi 9/10/08
As you can see from the extra update, Chi is showing definite signs of improvement. His father expects when he wakes up fully that they may have to re sedate him so that he doesn't start pulling out tubes and wires from his body... "Again you are so very much appreciated, god has his hand on our son, please continue to lift him in prayer. For today please forgive someone who has wronged you or wronged yours. Not forgiving is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die. Please continue to stay buckled, show love and spread kindness throughout the day to those around you". -Jeanne.
So stoked about Chi, we wrote a song for him just like yesterday, I'll post it as soon as we get it recorded.
Chi,
I remember my friend and I hugged you and Chino at the meet and greet in 06 at family values in pittsburgh, and I hope to be able to give you a hug again one day, get well man.
~Eddy
Chi's waking up cuz he just thought of bassriff for a new song that will blow up our speakers... :P
get well soon man, you rock!
Chi,
old school fan here letting you know how much i've been thinking of you. you are a wonderful person whose music has been in my life for 13+ years now (i still remember the day i picked up adrenaline in 95). i hope you get better and that you continue to inspire us all. Its people like you that make this world a fne place to be.
-josh
Columbus, Oh
Great news. Chi Cheng is a warrior.
So chi's not in coma anymore!
I'm so glad to hear this, for real... almost a week passed till we knew it.
I'm loving the way his family speak to us, telling us to do things everybody should do everyday.
Props to him.
Well... what can i say???
Like the others, i get really shocked when I read about your (for me is) tragedy... I really don't know what would I do if any of the members of the band leave the band (in any possible way)...
I just have to thank you for making that great TONES that we all know, every one that is special in every song...
I don't know what else to say, I just hope you to get well as soon and be back touring and meeting your people=fans...
and i don't want that the first time i saw you with the band in México was the last!!!! get really well bro,
big hugs from Mexico!!!!
defThe1s (HerBar) - Mx (Mexico ;) )
Quote from: Frankz0r on Nov 10, 2008, 09:08 PM
So chi's not in coma anymore!
I'm so glad to hear this, for real... almost a week passed till we knew it.
I'm loving the way his family speak to us, telling us to do things everybody should do everyday.
Props to him.
No, he's still in a coma.. it's just that he'll probably wake up really soon.
yay, I'm so happy :D
Really goods news. I'm so happy now...Keep strong Chi!!!
Chi,
1st time I met you was at Nitas Hideaway in Tempe, AZ May 2003. You walked up started to sign autographs. The item I wanted you to sign was in my car! I asked you: " I have something I would love to have you sign, I have to get it from my car, do you have a moment" you reply,"Yeah, but you better hurry!" Needless to say, I RAN real fast, and you signed it for me! I hope you have a VERY speedy recovery! I can't wait to see you again in Phioenix REAL SOON!
Mike AZDEFTONESFAN
yeahhh! still fighting chi, this fucking situation will go away very soon
energy for u
You guys kick ass.
I always buckle up, ALWAYS.
It never crosses my mind not to.
as things have changed in my life, one thing has always remained constant, Deftones music.
from adrenaline, to saturday night wrist, you guys have always been there. when i heard of your accident, i didn't know how to react, but after a few days, it happened, it sunk in, and i was devastated. i can only imagine how hard this must be for your family, deftones, and everyone that surrounds you. as a fan, i've always thought of you guys as untouchable, like super heroes. with the world at war, people dying every day from hunger, the last person i ever thought would be hurt was you. i know it's selfish to say "get well, i'll see you soon"
but please come back, for your wife, your parents, and your family, and one day maybe i'll see you out on the road. cheers to a speedy recovery. all my love goes out to you and yours.
erik from houston texas
Quote from: Infector on Nov 11, 2008, 03:54 AM
I always buckle up, ALWAYS.
It never crosses my mind not to.
I feel no sympathy for people who don't wear seatbelts.. they're there for a reason, if you don't wear it, it's your own damn fault if you die in an accident.
Quote from: sharinglungs on Nov 11, 2008, 04:14 AM
Quote from: Infector on Nov 11, 2008, 03:54 AM
I always buckle up, ALWAYS.
It never crosses my mind not to.
I feel no sympathy for people who don't wear seatbelts.. they're there for a reason, if you don't wear it, it's your own damn fault if you die in an accident.
I think you should really rephrase this...I mean....look who this thread is for dude.
Quote from: Infector on Nov 11, 2008, 03:54 AM
I always buckle up, ALWAYS.
It never crosses my mind not to.
I dont feel right without a seatbelt. Kinda like being on a motorcycle witout a helmet.
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 11, 2008, 04:45 AM
Quote from: sharinglungs on Nov 11, 2008, 04:14 AM
Quote from: Infector on Nov 11, 2008, 03:54 AM
I always buckle up, ALWAYS.
It never crosses my mind not to.
I feel no sympathy for people who don't wear seatbelts.. they're there for a reason, if you don't wear it, it's your own damn fault if you die in an accident.
I think you should really rephrase this...I mean....look who this thread is for dude.
I know who the thread is for..
People still have a responsibility to protect themselves.. if they don't respect that option, then I have no sympathy.. he's gonna be fine, he got lucky.
Chi.
I am not a man of much sentiment or poetic words. So I will put this simply. The work that your life has been dedicated to has touched and influenced me in depths and measures that I will never be able to make you understand. Deftones mean more to me than I have even been able to make anyone understand. The news of your accident has devastated so many of us. I really don't even know how to describe how helpless I felt when my friend told me about your accident. You have done so much for all of us, all we can do for you is pray and support your family. One of the best memories of my life was watching you and the rest of the Band rock out on the ST tour. I really, really hope I get to see you do that again. Another memory that I will never forget is the first time I introduced Deftones to the Afghan soldiers I was embedded with. They couldn't quite figure out how to dance to your music, but they tried, and they had a great time doing so. Literally, the world misses you Chi.
Respectfully
Trey Gregory
From Albuquerque, New Mexico. And the United States Navy - Marine corps ;)
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 11, 2008, 04:45 AM
Quote from: sharinglungs on Nov 11, 2008, 04:14 AM
Quote from: Infector on Nov 11, 2008, 03:54 AM
I always buckle up, ALWAYS.
It never crosses my mind not to.
I feel no sympathy for people who don't wear seatbelts.. they're there for a reason, if you don't wear it, it's your own damn fault if you die in an accident.
I think you should really rephrase this...I mean....look who this thread is for dude.
Not only that, but no one deserves to get hurt like this. It's not like he raped a girl. He just forgot his seat belt. I'm sad that I missed the majority of this thread. It's cool that we have such good updates though.
Look , i personally think there are some people who feel a hint of "rebelliousness" at not wearing a seatbelt..almost like they dont like the conformity of it..i speak mainly for a couple of people i personally know..a bunch of real idiots if you ask me.
But in Chi's case, thank goodness he is gonna be okay, but no one seemed to even bother to consider if his sister was okay or not.
She was also in the accident and must feel pretty damn distraught over what happened to her brother, and she was at the wheel, so , his life was in her hands. Hope she is okay too!
Undanceable Days
i've seen a day
and many more
coming
slowly
like a turtle walking
a worm crawling
hungry and rock-steady
to fulfill its natural need
on that day
you and i will dance again
to the stage its rock 'n roll
or whatever is on the radio
we'll remember days
the ones
so undanceable
our time
empty
of moving feet
our beats
nowhere to be found
our inspiration
lost
then
wisdom -
waiting all along
standing right beside -
lets you open a new gift
i'll foretell -
sneakers
new and pimped
because
as long as we can dance
we feel the arms of relief
the warmth of joy
the hope for happiness
i've seen a day
and many more
coming
ones again
- beaver with fishy shoes
(perhaps with my deftones do rick astley vid http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zvgf3aYS-4I to cheer him up)
Hey Chi
It has been some sad days since i heard of the terrible accident. In fact, i havent yet realized that this really happened. it feels like a bad dream.
My thoughts are with your whole family right now, especially your mom, she seems to be the sweetest person. I lost my sister a couple of years ago and i now how it is when someone very close to you passes away, my mom was devestated for years. No parents should ever have to bury their child.
I pray for you and your family each day until you get well again. I know that you will fully recover, i know that.
You are a strong person and their is a lot of faith and believe in you.
The Deftones has been a huge inspiration in my life for many years now.
I mean, you have a song with same title as my name (Linus ;) )
Seriously, You guys have helped me in many dark times.
And it will continue to do it.
See you on the road soon Chi!
Come to sweden soon as you have recovered!
- Linus from Sweden
My thoughts are with you Chi. I hope for a speedy recovery for you. :-*
Chi Update 11/11/08
Hello Everyone,
Chi's condition remains stable and doctors continue to remain positive about his recovery. They anticipate Chi waking from his coma sometime in the very near future.
As some of you know, Chi is also a poet and released a spoken word CD, The Bamboo Parachute. A portion of the proceeds are donated to help homeless children as well as WEAVE (Women Escaping A Violent Environment). Because of this, today's assignment is to please go through your house, as well as your clothes and donate anything you aren't using to your local Goodwill, Salvation Army, Women's shelter, or homeless shelter.
Please continue to heal Chi through your prayer and love. Remember to spread kindness and love to the world around you, and please stay safe and buckle up.
A suggestion for you: If any of you want to keep a journal of good deeds as well as the good around you, please do so. You can post these on the blogs or share them with Chi when he wakes up. These journals will help him through his rehabilitation.
"Adversity introduces a man to himself."
I will continue to tell you about this good man daily.
With our love,
Jeanne
P.S. Oprah, I have an assignment for you: please call!
Quote from: White Pwny on Nov 11, 2008, 07:16 PM
Chi Update 11/11/08
With our love,
Jeanne
I really hope he's out of it soon... what's this about Oprah?
Quote from: White Pwny on Nov 11, 2008, 07:16 PM
They anticipate Chi waking from his coma sometime in the very near future.
this is really hopeful :D!!!
I have no idea. Oprah don't strike me as a Deftones fan.
Quote from: White Pwny on Nov 11, 2008, 07:28 PM
I have no idea. Oprah don't strike me as a Deftones fan.
lol maybe it's Chi that is the fan of Oprah?
i didn´t understood...is he induced in come by docs?
No,Oprah is GOD,and everything she sells brings in the mega bucks. I think they want her to endorse his cd/book,cause everything she touches turns to platinum.
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 11, 2008, 08:33 PM
No,Oprah is GOD,and everything she sells brings in the mega bucks. I think they want her to endorse his cd/book,cause everything she touches turns to platinum.
maybe it was a joke? :P
I wonder what he will think when he wakes up. The last time he was conscious he was in his car. Next he knows he will wake up in a hospital bed.
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 11, 2008, 08:33 PM
No,Oprah is GOD,and everything she sells brings in the mega bucks. I think they want her to endorse his cd/book,cause everything she touches turns to platinum.
so then nickelback are GOD too, selling doesnt make you GOD. Oprah is just some lady that for some reason is put on a huge pedistal, for no real reason. her opinion on anything is no better than yours. like P Diddy, the dude is a dildo, yet he's "supposed" to be cool, & makes tons of money(i wouldnt give him a penny, who is paying him? & why?). i just dont buy into celeb hype
Quote from: Hidalgo on Nov 11, 2008, 10:14 PM
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 11, 2008, 08:33 PM
No,Oprah is GOD,and everything she sells brings in the mega bucks. I think they want her to endorse his cd/book,cause everything she touches turns to platinum.
so then nickelback are GOD too, selling doesnt make you GOD. Oprah is just some lady that for some reason is put on a huge pedistal, for no real reason. her opinion on anything is no better than yours. like P Diddy, the dude is a dildo, yet he's "supposed" to be cool, & makes tons of money(i wouldnt give him a penny, who is paying him? & why?). i just dont buy into celeb hype
I agree. I guess people just want to be with the hype then. If your doing what everyone is doing, then your cool and hip, right?
On a related note, I remember watching Late Night w/ Conan O Brien a few weeks ago and he was talking about how when Oprah mentions someones book on her show the instantly become the no. 1 seller on Amazon.com. Yet Conan, when he mentions an authors book on his show they drop 560 spots down in the Amazon.com's sales rank, lmfao. ;D I fuckin' love Conan.
Conan is hilarious
LOL...Conan is awesome!
back to the topic though, Chi is awesome!
Quote from: Hidalgo on Nov 11, 2008, 10:14 PM
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 11, 2008, 08:33 PM
No,Oprah is GOD,and everything she sells brings in the mega bucks. I think they want her to endorse his cd/book,cause everything she touches turns to platinum.
so then nickelback are GOD too, selling doesnt make you GOD. Oprah is just some lady that for some reason is put on a huge pedistal, for no real reason. her opinion on anything is no better than yours. like P Diddy, the dude is a dildo, yet he's "supposed" to be cool, & makes tons of money(i wouldnt give him a penny, who is paying him? & why?). i just dont buy into celeb hype
lol. That's awesome.
Quote from: mr.sinister on Nov 11, 2008, 10:18 PM
On a related note, I remember watching Late Night w/ Conan O Brien a few weeks ago and he was talking about how when Oprah mentions someones book on her show the instantly become the no. 1 seller on Amazon.com. Yet Conan, when he mentions an authors book on his show they drop 560 spots down in the Amazon.com's sales rank, lmfao. ;D I fuckin' love Conan.
Also hilarious.
Quote from: sharinglungs on Nov 11, 2008, 06:14 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 11, 2008, 04:45 AM
Quote from: sharinglungs on Nov 11, 2008, 04:14 AM
Quote from: Infector on Nov 11, 2008, 03:54 AM
I always buckle up, ALWAYS.
It never crosses my mind not to.
I feel no sympathy for people who don't wear seatbelts.. they're there for a reason, if you don't wear it, it's your own damn fault if you die in an accident.
I think you should really rephrase this...I mean....look who this thread is for dude.
I know who the thread is for..
People still have a responsibility to protect themselves.. if they don't respect that option, then I have no sympathy.. he's gonna be fine, he got lucky.
I didn't mean for my comment to sound rude, I was just saying that's what I do.
Get well soon Chi.
Hey Chinky Spice.
Its good to hear that your on your way to a great recovery. I knew that if anyone could pull through such tough adversity it would be you. Your work with the Deftones will always have a deep impact in my life. You are one of the most important individuals in that band that adds to their unique sound. If you were ever to pass on, no one would be able to fill your shoes as a bassist in that band. When your fingers fly all over that fretboard you strike many hearts as well as give off many emotions. The bass line you wrote for Cherry Waves is my favorite moment in SNW. Even though I don't play bass, you have influenced my life as a human being by showing me how to help other people that are in need. Glad to hear that your on the road to recovery and I can't wait to see you on tour with your brothers. You will get the ovation you have always deserved.
-Daniel
we're supposed to keep some kind of journal for shit we doin for chi so he can read this.
so i hope he reads this haha
the other day i was gettin a ride to work from a friend, with my seatbelt on of course, when i saw an old woman tryin to get her walker over a puddle and onto a sidewalk. it wasnt happening, so i ran out of the car across the intersection and helped her up. can't say i didnt put myself in danger, but i helped her. for you chi haha.
oh you deftones, always makin me a better person
Good deeds. Good ideas. So far, I have almost (maybe I forgat once or twice) always buckled up in the back or passengers seat (seeing how I don't own a drivers license). I didn't actually tell people I loved them, but hugged the people that I saw that day (which included my dad and my best friends). I haven't seen a homeless person in the last few days, I've seen a few children last night, when I was wandering around, and had some kind small talk with them. Working on the forgiving thing. Will go through my house. There's a can which collects clothes for those in need close to where I live, to which I have donated a little bit in the past.
hope chi wake up from coma soon
still sending good energy to you
I always buckle up, there this new advert out in the UK showing this guy crashing his car and that it was the crash that killed him but his insides being all fucked up and his ribs breaking and puncturing his lungs and major arteries. My brother hardly ever wears a seatbelt and I always tell him too but he never listens to me, he has been caught a few times by the police and fined. With regards to the good deeds, I did tell my brother that I loved him (not in THAT way) and he was like yeah what ever. The last time I gave my brother a hug was at my mums funeral, normally I just thump him then run away.
dear chi,
you are a strong man dude.
dont ever give up to your self
people all around here in sl are really love you.
also in here, in Indonesia.
get well soon
really love to see you back on stage banging your head like always
Shout from Indonesia!
pony_01
Chi Update 11/12/08
Hello Everyone,
Chi's condition remains stable. He is still hooked up to a respirator to control his breathing, but can now breathe on his own. Yesterday, while visiting, I let him know that all his fans are praying and waiting for him to wake up. He responded by moving his eyes underneath his eyelids. We are so very happy with all of these small victories.
Yesterday Fieldy, the bass player for Korn, came to see Chi. As his visit was concluding, this nice, wonderful man left me with this, "we have the freedom of choices to make, but do not have the freedom to choose the consequences of the choices we make." We make so many choices each day, both small and large, that shape the lives we live. Can anyone create a life making bad choices? Today's assignment in this: please think everything through today, both the insignificant as well as the important. Make positive choices and be aware of the consequences of your actions. Doing this will you and those around you better.
Please continue to pray for Chi, and spread kindness when you can.
Respect, Love, and Gratitude,
Jeanne
i am sorry for being so negative..but he can stay like that for years...
Quote from: White Wrist on Nov 12, 2008, 07:48 PM
i am sorry for being so negative..but he can stay like that for years...
I hope not (Esperemos k não, o Chi é forte ;) )
Quote from: White Wrist on Nov 12, 2008, 07:48 PM
i am sorry for being so negative..but he can stay like that for years...
In the history of recorded coma's no one who could move a body part like a lower lip via vocal command has ever stayed in a coma for years.
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Nov 12, 2008, 09:29 PM
Quote from: White Wrist on Nov 12, 2008, 07:48 PM
i am sorry for being so negative..but he can stay like that for years...
In the history of recorded coma's no one who could move a body part like a lower lip via vocal command has ever stayed in a coma for years.
Or his eyes for that matter... I see him waking up hopefully before the end of November.
last night i had a dream Chi woke up from his coma, & he updated the blog himself saying he had woken up, etc. wish it would have been real
QuoteI let him know that all his fans are praying and waiting for him to wake up. He responded by moving his eyes underneath his eyelids.
This is the reason why we have to keep praying and sending the best wishes to this great man. That was really exciting.
just have read all this thread, and i passed from totally shocked to being more relaxed and very positive...
From the very beginning i knew he was going eventually OK!
This just can't happen to such a person like him!
Chi Update 11/13/08
Hello Friends,
Chi continues to be strong. Since his arrival at the hospital, he's had several probes attached to his brain that monitor and help control certain brain activity such as the ICP (brain pressure). Due to the activity remaining steady as well as the numbers coming back positive, today doctors are began removing the probes. We are so grateful for the small victories and know that your prayers and loving energy are what is keeping him progressing forward. Thank you, thank you, thank you for all your prayers. Please keep them coming.
The good deeds going around are so wonderful!
No Man is an Island- by Joan Baez
No man is an island,
No man stands alone,
Each man's joy, is joy to me,
Each man's grief is my own.
We need one another,
So I will defend,
Each man as my brother,
Each man as my friend.
I saw the people gather,
I heard the music start,
The song that they are singing,
Is singing in my heart.
No man is an island,
Way out in the blue,
We all look to the one above,
For our strength to renew.
When I help my brother,
Then I know that I,
Plant the seed of friendship
That will never die.
I've never felt more loved and connected to this extended family that is keeping us in prayer. Today please reflect on our connectedness and how we are all family. Everyone you meet is your sister, your brother, your daughter, or your son. Some of them are just the family that you haven't met yet. Today would you please smile at a stranger? Maybe say, "Have a great day." If someone is looking sad or is short tempered with you, they probably need this all the more. This small kindness may just be the best thing that will happen in their whole day. By the way, just smiling releases the same happy chemicals in your body that are released when you are joyful and help you to be happy too.
God Bless You All,
Jeanne
P.S. Oprah, I'm working on your assignment. Please call me, Velvet Hammer has my number.
P.S.S. Dr. Oz, You are my son (Chi's) resident at Columbia. Head's-up to you. You can help Oprah with her assignment. Please call me.
(http://content.velvethammer.net/deftones/chidog.jpg)
what's the stuff with oprah?
Great photo... The Oprah thing was a joke. Not insulting, but poorly timed... I didn't say it.
Oh how I hope Deftones don't go on Oprah, BUT... if she can somehow help Chi then I guess it'd be good
I'm so happy Chi is showing these good signs, I think about him everyday and pray he continues to get better and recovers fully soon. Like so many I 'm not really religious, in the traditional sense, but I believe in something beyond our perception and understanding. Whatever you may believe in, keep sending your prayers and/or good energy towards him. :)
hey chi hope you read this soon, for all of our sakes
but and my girl have been fighting a lot lately but the other day when i called her out of the blue and told her i loved her, it just really "brightened up" our day so kudos to you brother, i pray for you to wake up and have many more brightened days-Adriel and Yvonne
Quote from: emehlen on Nov 14, 2008, 12:35 AM
Oh how I hope Deftones don't go on Oprah, BUT...
:-X
Chi, my brother for the past seven years you and your brothers have been an inspiration, but more than that my bros, your music has always gotten me through stuff, man and after the last four months of Army IET, i realized how fragile our lives are and now that im on my way to Afghanistan ive put extra time and gesture in letting my family and other loved ones know that i love them, for years deftones have gotten me through some trips, now its my turn all of the fans turn to pray and do whatever to make sure you come back to us, i ,as well as the untold millions of fans patiently wait for you to wake up.-Adriel,Lubbock Texas
I think deftones and OPrah are a good idea. Perhaps they'd get the recognition and sales they deserve.
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 14, 2008, 02:40 AM
I think deftones and OPrah are a good idea. Perhaps they'd get the recognition and sales they deserve.
i think that's the first thing you've said that i agree with
Well I feel so honored.
No, I don't.
Quote from: lithium on Nov 14, 2008, 03:48 AM
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 14, 2008, 02:40 AM
I think deftones and OPrah are a good idea. Perhaps they'd get the recognition and sales they deserve.
i think that's the first thing you've said that i agree with
but it's not the same audience
Deftones want to stay underground, I want them to stay underground. Oprah - never. Let's drop the subject and wait for good news from the Cheng family.
Oprah ? Let's not make things even worse
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Nov 14, 2008, 12:34 AM
Great photo... The Oprah thing was a joke. Not insulting, but poorly timed... I didn't say it.
Why would Chi's mom keep joking about something like this over and over. I think she's pretty fucking serious. And what you want Deftones to do and what they and their family want to do is their choice.
Haha...never thought i'd see a Joan Baez song on the deftones website. Classic. But i dig folk music. Kinda wished they would have posted it as an mp3
I thought that the pic of Chi with the little dog was of him partially recovered...
I hope this could happen as soon as he cans!!!
"Still waiting" (Still praying)
Chi Update 11/14/08
Hello Everyone,
Chi's condition is stable, with no real change since yesterday. Our gratitude to all of you for your encouragement and willingness to wait for him. Chi had been at the coast with a few of his siblings and I and forgot to bring the last book he bought. The book, Wake Up by Jack Kerouac, has been brought to the hospital by his wife and we are all reading it to him.
Today's assignment is to be a the sister, brother, and mother to all. When you have an action to take, try to do with that in your mind through your day. You will be continuing the good work done for all of us and our extended family.
What a comfort this is to me and mine. You are so awesome! Please keep the prayers coming! Buckle-up and designate a driver if you want to party. Some lives will be saved today with this small change.
All My Love and Respect,
Jeanne
Everyday the same news...:S Come on Chi!!! wake up!!!
yea, i'm gettin real worried, he's gotta wake up soon. it's scary...
the way i see it, it's like someone dropped him off right in the middle of the deepest forest on earth, & he's gotta find his way out. it's the fight of his life for sure....
Quote from: Hidalgo on Nov 15, 2008, 04:24 AM
yea, i'm gettin real worried, he's gotta wake up soon. it's scary...
the way i see it, it's like someone dropped him off right in the middle of the deepest forest on earth, & he's gotta find his way out. it's the fight of his life for sure....
People can be in coma's for Years and be fine when they wake up
Man i thought there would be some news about him waking up or something by now...
Hope Chi wakes up soon. Keep praying.
Quote from: Tuck on Nov 12, 2008, 10:19 AM
Good deeds. Good ideas. So far, I have almost (maybe I forgat once or twice) always buckled up in the back or passengers seat (seeing how I don't own a drivers license). I didn't actually tell people I loved them, but hugged the people that I saw that day (which included my dad and my best friends). I haven't seen a homeless person in the last few days, I've seen a few children last night, when I was wandering around, and had some kind small talk with them. Working on the forgiving thing. Will go through my house. There's a can which collects clothes for those in need close to where I live, to which I have donated a little bit in the past.
Onwards with the deeds. In the process of forgiving someone. Haven't spoken it out yet, but feel it. Washed some clothes yesterday, hung 'em to dry and donated them to charity today. Thought my actions through, though I didn't do much the last few days. I'm kind to strangers and think of them as brothers and sisters like, 70 % of the time. The other 30%, well, some days I don't meet strangers, some days are off. Right now, it's kinda hard when a lot of people act as self centered beings. But moreover, it's hard as I am in near constant pain at the moment. Not really bad, just real uncomfortable (muscle pain in neck, stretching out into my back and right shoulder...there's not a lot of movements left where I don't feel it, even if I'm on pain medication). Ow well, it'll be over soon, I'm sure, and then I focus more again :) Onwards.
Pretty sure jeanne's using Oprah as a code name..
Yeah really. some kind of conspiracy is going on here. Lucky we got you on the case.
= (
Chi, I doubt you will ever read this but I geniunely hope you pull through this.
You have helped all of us through a lot and hopefully our thoughts and prayers will help you in this difficult time.
I love you in a completely non-gay way.
- Jay
Quote from: earphone on Nov 15, 2008, 05:35 PM
Pretty sure jeanne's using Oprah as a code name..
Sure... i really don't see the relation in between Deftons or Chi's mom and Oprah...
and why on earth she (Oprah would be checking deftones blog to see her assignaments??)
but who knows?? maybe all this i wrote is crap...
wake up....praying again!
im gonna ask my atheist/agnostic friends to pray
lol¬¬
Quote from: deafnotes on Nov 16, 2008, 01:35 AM
im gonna ask my atheist/agnostic friends to pray
it won't work
Quote from: deafnotes on Nov 16, 2008, 01:35 AM
im gonna ask my atheist/agnostic friends to pray
That is insulting, would you ask a Jewish person to believe in Jesus.
you can ask some agonstic to make a pray, just convince him.
so here's not the point, don't start to speak of beliefs
I love all the religious arguments lol.
Pray. Yeah yo.
Chi's wikipedia page says he's "awake from the coma", but being it's wiki, I'm assuming it's bullshit.
can rumors or someone close to the band give an update?
Damn i've got to re edit this cos i didn't actually knw owhat was wrong when i wrote it
Dear Chi
I really hope that maybe you'll read this. You Have alot of Fans, Family, Friends Out there who Just hope to god that you'll wake up. its sad Really sad. That it happened to happen to such a Talented musician But i proves the theories That all life does is try to defeat you
I hope and wish you come out of it. Maybe life won't be so cruel and actually Bring you out. : (
Adios
Sam
or a christian to believe in Mohammed
Quote from: Inkblades on Nov 17, 2008, 05:23 AM
can rumors or someone close to the band give an update?
Since the accident, has Rumours been online?
nope
prayer is like "the little train that could".
Hey Chi,
I was really shocked to hear that you were involved in a horrible car accident.
As you are the bassplayer of my favorite band of all time I among many other fans hope you will recover good.
Ive been in a coma once and eversince alot of things have changed, but it offcourse can be defferent with everyone.
I really hope you will rock soon again with the deftones!
By the way, I know you love tattoos. I want to let you know that last september I've had my (first) deftones tattoo.
Good luck to you and your friends and family.
Greetz Koen
(Netherlands)
Quote from: wither-I on Nov 17, 2008, 11:23 AM
prayer is like "the little train that could".
Hmm....good way to look at it.:)
Why are any of you even arguing about religion? Who cares if people "pray" for chi or not? We can all just focus on sending him positive energy and thoughts in our own ways.
Who knows? Atheists love being atheists. Do what you feel necessary to think positive.
any new info guys??
Quote from: jbmp1390 on Nov 17, 2008, 07:56 PM
Why are any of you even arguing about religion? Who cares if people "pray" for chi or not? We can all just focus on sending him positive energy and thoughts in our own ways.
+1!
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 17, 2008, 11:04 PM
Who knows? Atheists love being atheists. Do what you feel necessary to think positive.
i am an atheist
Awesome!
BTW Penguin, fucking love American Psycho!
Quote from: jbmp1390 on Nov 17, 2008, 07:56 PM
Why are any of you even arguing about religion? Who cares if people "pray" for chi or not? We can all just focus on sending him positive energy and thoughts in our own ways.
exactly. my thoughts are full of tits for instance.
hey, this thread is for chi, or for discuss religion and other bullshit?
I haven't been online for a few days and was hoping to see some good news today... not even an udpate from Chi's mom makes me worried.
Quote from: aenemic on Nov 18, 2008, 02:36 PM
I haven't been online for a few days and was hoping to see some good news today... not even an udpate from Chi's mom makes me worried.
Like wise, I was used to the daily updates. If anything bad had happened then we would have been informed by now. As the say goes, no news is good news.
it's been like 4 days after the last update? Damn I wasn't online for like 5 days and there's nothing new about chi :(
yes i agree, no news is good news
his mom was updating it like everyday, wonder what made her stop
Guys, Im sure Chi's condition has remained the same over the weekend. Hence the reason theres no need for updates. The info was getting repetitive. I'm sure shes just waiting for something big.
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 18, 2008, 11:04 PM
Guys, Im sure Chi's condition has remained the same over the weekend. Hence the reason theres no need for updates. The info was getting repetitive. I'm sure shes just waiting for something big.
yeah.this possible, and probably true. he is in coma for too long, i guess...
Chi Update 11-18
Hello Friends,
My apologies for the delay in updates. Chi's condition remains the same - serious, but stable. He still lies in a coma, however his vitals (heart, lungs, and blood pressure) all exhibit very stable functions and doctors have begun removing much of the excess monitoring equipment. Chi remains strong in his fight to recover.
Winston Churchill once said, "Never give in - in nothing, great or small, large or petty, except to convictions of honour and good sense." Today, please be especially aware of your personal choices. Never give in to pressure and try not to be discouraged. Your good choices each day will bring good things back to you and create a better life for you and yours.
Moving forward, I will be creating a new blog dedicated to my daily updates. It will take me a few days to get this up and running, so please bear with me. Deftones will continue to update you on Chi's condition when there's a significant change in his condition.
Thank you again for keeping Chi in your prayers. It's keeping all of is strong.
Our love to you all,
Jeanne
...at least his vitals are doing well!
someone here wanted some updates?? here they are!!!
and yes, we wanted that updates!!
Quote from: Buchido on Nov 19, 2008, 12:43 AM
...at least his vitals are doing well!
Quote from: Timmy666 on Nov 18, 2008, 11:04 PM
Guys, Im sure Chi's condition has remained the same over the weekend. Hence the reason theres no need for updates. The info was getting repetitive. I'm sure shes just waiting for something big.
turns out you were right
finally a new update!
well, chi´s fighting... hope he still strong
maybe wake up from the coma in a few days....
he's been in a coma 2 weeks now :'(
Quote from: defTHE1s on Nov 14, 2008, 09:58 PM
I thought that the pic of Chi with the little dog was of him partially recovered...
I hope this could happen as soon as he cans!!!
"Still waiting" (Still praying)
What picture? can you post it...
Quote from: i kill for fun on Nov 19, 2008, 05:20 AM
Quote from: defTHE1s on Nov 14, 2008, 09:58 PM
I thought that the pic of Chi with the little dog was of him partially recovered...
I hope this could happen as soon as he cans!!!
"Still waiting" (Still praying)
What picture? can you post it...
it's on page twenty, but outta respect for Chi, i won't be a douche about it.
(http://content.velvethammer.net/deftones/chidog.jpg)
oh , i thought he was refering to a pic on the official site. I visit it for Chi updates more than I do sharing lungs. And thanks for not being a d-bag about it, a rare instance on this board.
Good to see another update, hoping, as every time, the next one will tell us that he's awake.
Today's assignment is a good one, and a very though one. In the long run, growing up and aging, not giving in to the pressure and being discouraged is probably one of the hardest things in life.
Some news from a friend.
"My friend Rey is putting on some shows for Chi. He is the former lead from Tinfed and now is in Death Valley High.
anyway... here are the details if you want to put them on your board. :)
"We (our music family) are putting together a few shows for our friend Chi Cheng, who is at the hospital and in need of our love and support.
All the proceeds for these shows are going to Chi's family.
Saturday Nov 29th, San Francisco, CA @ Fat City SF
CONFIRMED: Will Haven, Death Valley High, Eightfourseven , more to be announced soon...
Sacramento, CA - TBA
Los Angeles, CA - TBA
thx and peace."
some of u may not have read this:
"The night of his accident there were 3 off duty EMT's that happend to be driving on the same road and came across that accident shortly after it occurd. The amazing thing is that they had all their equipment with them and started helping Chi right away. This act of fate is the reason Chi is still with us today. I was speechless when I heard that story and then began to think of all the amazing stuff Chi has done for this world and it all made sense."
-jeff irwin (will haven)
this is just an excerpt from 1 of the few myspace bulletins he has posted.
Quote from: i kill for fun on Nov 10, 2008, 05:29 AM
from site update 11-9-08 part 2
Hello Everyone,
I just had the pleasure of speaking with Chi's mother. She, as well as the entire Cheng family, would again like to thank you for all your love and support and knows God is healing Chi because of your prayers, love and good work.
This Sunday saw the first signs of your prayers in action. Chi was able to hear and respond to his father's request to move his lower lip. His father also administered a tendon reflex test, of which both legs responded with movement. Doctors continue to remain optimistic, and the energy at the hospital remains very positive.
The family would also like to send a special thank you out to the three off duty EMTs that stopped shortly after the accident and saved Chi's life. It was by the Grace of God that these three individuals happened to be traveling on the road with medical gear in tow at the time of the accident. If not for them, the chances of Chi making to the hospital alive would have been poor.
Please, keep your prayers, thoughts, and love coming!
yea chi's mom posted it also...
anyway, the new profile pic on their myspace (http://www.myspace.com/deftones) is pretty sweet of em...
[joke]
Must have took Chino two weeks to figure out how to do that :P
[/joke]
Quote from: aj on Nov 05, 2008, 07:03 PM
I have been gutted all day about this. What an incredible fellow he is.
This is the same man who didn't realise for two months that Stef was using an 8 string.
the thought makes me miss him even more
i've been offline for so long i didn't see this blow coming... not getting any sleep tonight.
fucking sucks
really nice photo on myspace
what is the average time someone wakes from a coma? this has been a while... why hasn't he woken?
Quote from: Hidalgo on Nov 20, 2008, 02:41 AM
what is the average time someone wakes from a coma? this has been a while... why hasn't he woken?
Outcomes range from recovery to death. Comas generally last a few days to a few weeks. They rarely last more than 2 to 5 weeks but some have lasted as long as several years
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coma
you know not to be disrespectful of the letters, but i think it would be cool to lighten this up by adding jokes that chi could evetually read and laugh at. I think laughter and humor is the best way to heal someone, but i suck at telling jokes....so maybe we can start submiting jokes or humorous anecdotes b/c i know chi and deftones have always been about humor and joking around.
Quote from: UrZ* on Nov 19, 2008, 09:54 PM
yea chi's mom posted it also...
anyway, the new profile pic on their myspace (http://www.myspace.com/deftones) is pretty sweet of em...
[joke]
Must have took Chino two weeks to figure out how to do that :P
[/joke]
what pic are you reffering to?? Chi's picture??
and what took Chino two weeks? I'm just curious....
Quote from: defTHE1s on Nov 20, 2008, 05:04 PM
Quote from: UrZ* on Nov 19, 2008, 09:54 PM
yea chi's mom posted it also...
anyway, the new profile pic on their myspace (http://www.myspace.com/deftones) is pretty sweet of em...
[joke]
Must have took Chino two weeks to figure out how to do that :P
[/joke]
what pic are you reffering to?? Chi's picture??
and what took Chino two weeks? I'm just curious....
Chi's pic yeah...
and it took chino two weeks to figure out how to change the pic <it was a joke...> :)
Quote from: Tuck on Nov 19, 2008, 09:09 AM
Good to see another update, hoping, as every time, the next one will tell us that he's awake.
Today's assignment is a good one, and a very though one. In the long run, growing up and aging, not giving in to the pressure and being discouraged is probably one of the hardest things in life.
On short term, I haven't given in and continued to pursue personal choices.
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=46888553
good performance
yep, nice quality, godd perfomance
Man, this is starting to get scary... C'mon Chi!!!!
hey, no notice, what tha fuck....
im getting nerv
A sandwich walks into a bar, the bartender says, "get out! We don't serve food here!"
When you walk into this world!!!
They should have a bassplayer in his room playin' some 'tones grooves, on a jazzbass and his amps ofcuz.. that'll wake him up :P
nah j/k and where to find a bassplayer that gets down like Chi.. ;)
still in my thoughts Chi!
update is a picture of chi's hand
[img alt=]http://hotlink.myspacecdn.com/images02/2/9351175fc284410182b8bb9702394a0d/m.jpg[/img] (http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=769597&albumID=1348336&imageID=50221890)
Ok that's a really creepy fucking picture! Looks like a pose from a casket...though I know its not. Where's that from?? He cant be wearing a black shirt in the hospital?
keep up the good fight bro, we got your back.
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 24, 2008, 02:34 AM
Ok that's a really creepy fucking picture! Looks like a pose from a casket...though I know its not. Where's that from?? He cant be wearing a black shirt in the hospital?
It's an older picture, before the tattoo's on his hands.
I'm really trying not to be asshole, but it's obvious that this is old picture. If you just look previous page of this thread you will see that he's done a few tatoos on his hand after this picture was taken.
hang on Chi!
edit: uh, you posted that a second before me! ;)
We have a keen eye then 8)
Quote from: ablackswan on Nov 24, 2008, 02:27 AM
update is a picture of chi's hand
[img alt=]http://hotlink.myspacecdn.com/images02/2/9351175fc284410182b8bb9702394a0d/m.jpg[/img] (http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=769597&albumID=1348336&imageID=50221890)
That is an old picture, Chi has Jesus tattoo'd on his right hand.
Another keen eye, good thing 8)
Keep the positive vibe. Think positive. Be positive.
Yeah...his friend emailed me and told me it was older. Good job guys.
well, no news again? only a photo :(
im getting scared....
Members of Death Angel, Will Haven, Phallacy, Eightfourseven, Death Valley High and other 'special guests' are all joining together to take part in a benefit concert for Deftones bassist Chi Cheng on Saturday, November 29 at Fat City in San Francisco, California.
Chi was involved in a serious car crash on November 3rd, proceeds will go to Chi's family.
Fat City
314 11th Street @ Folsom
San Francisco, California 94103
Cost: $12
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Nov 24, 2008, 11:54 AM
Quote from: ablackswan on Nov 24, 2008, 02:27 AM
update is a picture of chi's hand
[img alt=]http://hotlink.myspacecdn.com/images02/2/9351175fc284410182b8bb9702394a0d/m.jpg[/img] (http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=769597&albumID=1348336&imageID=50221890)
That is an old picture, Chi has Jesus tattoo'd on his right hand.
why would he have Jesus tattooed on his hand when he's a practising Buddhist?
I need news :( No news means no progress which makes me nervous. It has been over 3 weeks now. Just have to keep praying and keeping faith.
Much respect,
-Matt
things are not ok. 3 weeks is too long.
Quote from: White Wrist on Nov 25, 2008, 05:12 PM
things are not ok. 3 weeks is too long.
Things are fine.
Coma's last between 3 and 5 weeks.
Well every second in coma is too long, but maybe it´s better for him to stay in there for some more time, just not to risk anything unnecessary.
Updates from time to time are great though. Hopefully he´ll make it through this.
3 weeks is okay.
my friend was in coma for three months.
so trust me when I say that 3 weeks is normal
Quote from: lostpilot on Nov 25, 2008, 10:54 PM
3 weeks is okay.
my friend was in coma for three months.
so trust me when I say that 3 weeks is normal
I've been told by a close source to Chi that things are good. I am not allowed to say anymore until the official Deftones statement,but things are good.
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 26, 2008, 12:55 AM
I've been told by a close source to Chi that things are good. I am not allowed to say anymore until the official Deftones statement,but things are good.
I believe you, thanks!!!
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 26, 2008, 12:55 AM
I've been told by a close source to Chi that things are good. I am not allowed to say anymore until the official Deftones statement,but things are good.
Gah, that's good. I really want the news now. But yeah, thanks for that.
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: DEFCAY on Nov 26, 2008, 12:21 AMQuote from: Vesanic on Nov 25, 2008, 11:24 PM...
and is your friend "normal" at this moment?
that's the problem.. that he's not.. yet, I hope.
Quote from: penguin in the desert on Nov 25, 2008, 01:58 PM
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Nov 24, 2008, 11:54 AM
Quote from: ablackswan on Nov 24, 2008, 02:27 AM
update is a picture of chi's hand
[img alt=]http://hotlink.myspacecdn.com/images02/2/9351175fc284410182b8bb9702394a0d/m.jpg[/img] (http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=769597&albumID=1348336&imageID=50221890)
That is an old picture, Chi has Jesus tattoo'd on his right hand.
why would he have Jesus tattooed on his hand when he's a practising Buddhist?
I think the idea of Jesus was the catalyst. Chi told someone in a interview it was Jesus, that's all I know.
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 26, 2008, 12:55 AM
I've been told by a close source to Chi that things are good. I am not allowed to say anymore until the official Deftones statement,but things are good.
Good, good. I'll focus on the word good.
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 26, 2008, 12:55 AM
I've been told by a close source to Chi that things are good. I am not allowed to say anymore until the official Deftones statement,but things are good.
good? or like ever...
Quote from: DEFCAY on Nov 26, 2008, 02:08 PM
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 26, 2008, 12:55 AM
I've been told by a close source to Chi that things are good. I am not allowed to say anymore until the official Deftones statement,but things are good.
good? or like ever...
What do you mean by 'Like Ever'? or am I just being a tard and not getting it?
infooooo????????????????????????
any new news??
Quote from: pissedandpierced on Nov 26, 2008, 02:19 PM
Quote from: DEFCAY on Nov 26, 2008, 02:08 PM
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 26, 2008, 12:55 AM
I've been told by a close source to Chi that things are good. I am not allowed to say anymore until the official Deftones statement,but things are good.
good? or like ever...
What do you mean by 'Like Ever'? or am I just being a tard and not getting it?
Yeah...I don't get that either. HOPEFULLY they'll give out the update soon.
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 26, 2008, 03:11 PM
Yeah...I don't get that either. HOPEFULLY they'll give out the update soon.
Do you know what it is and unable to say anything until it's officially confirmed? is it about Chi or the tour and his replacement?
It's about Chi and his situation. I've heard nothing of the touring situation. I wouldn't imagine though that they would tour without him.
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 26, 2008, 03:31 PM
It's about Chi and his situation. I've heard nothing of the touring situation. I wouldn't imagine though that they would tour without him.
That thing just wouldn't make sense... It's like seem the live and not playing Deftones songs... weird....
Quote from: defTHE1s on Nov 26, 2008, 04:23 PM
Quote from: devilinside on Nov 26, 2008, 03:31 PM
It's about Chi and his situation. I've heard nothing of the touring situation. I wouldn't imagine though that they would tour without him.
That thing just wouldn't make sense... It's like seem the live and not playing Deftones songs... weird....
Why doesn't it make sense. They are not gonna go on tour if he's in a Coma.
I mean, it doesn't make sense been touring with someone replacing him, while he is in recovery...
and yes, i know that they aren't gonna go on Tour until Chi gets well, finish the album and all that..
Quote from: defTHE1s on Nov 26, 2008, 07:42 PM
I mean, it doesn't make sense been touring with someone replacing him, while he is in recovery...
and yes, i know that they aren't gonna go on Tour until Chi gets well, finish the album and all that..
The album's done.
Don't expect the tour...I've heard some things but yea, I kinda can't say more either. but don't expect a tour.
Quote from: skinnypuppy on Nov 27, 2008, 12:41 AM
Don't expect the tour...I've heard some things but yea, I kinda can't say more either. but don't expect a tour.
There's nothing new you could know. The no-tour thing is so obvious.
a tour without chi will not be a real deft tour....
shit....i want news...:(
I don't know too much about being in a coma but I hope we get the good news soon that hes out. I was always under the impression that the longer you are in a coma, the less the chance that you will recover.
I suppose I should just trust the word that things are good and that hes stable.
My thoughts are with ya Chi
jesus. stop arguing about who knows what insider information. let the deftones tell us what is happening or not happening.
Still no news ?!?
....
Quote from: dufftones on Nov 27, 2008, 06:08 AM
jesus. stop arguing about who knows what insider information. let the deftones tell us what is happening or not happening.
Umm....whose arguing??
C'mon Chi, wake up already dude.
get up chi, all the deftones people are with u
please, news!
any news out there? i can' be patient...
t
Quote from: ablackswan on Nov 16, 2008, 04:39 PM
Quote from: deafnotes on Nov 16, 2008, 01:35 AM
im gonna ask my atheist/agnostic friends to pray
it won't work
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Nov 17, 2008, 01:46 AM
Quote from: deafnotes on Nov 16, 2008, 01:35 AM
im gonna ask my atheist/agnostic friends to pray
That is insulting, would you ask a Jewish person to believe in Jesus.
we should convert to buddhism instead
nothing?
Come on... Someone has to know something... Where are rumors and that other guy ?
Or don't we have anyone in here from Sacto who could have some insider news a little ?
It's terribly harrowing....
Yeah, this is torture. I mean I'd at least hope that if things hadn't changed someone would update us saying so--at least once a week or once every few days or something, I dunno. Just get better Chi!
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: Frankz0r on Nov 27, 2008, 02:13 AM
Quote from: skinnypuppy on Nov 27, 2008, 12:41 AM
Don't expect the tour...I've heard some things but yea, I kinda can't say more either. but don't expect a tour.
There's nothing new you could know. The no-tour thing is so obvious.
Err, yes there is, and true, it is an obvious statement.
Playing the insider card sucks so much balls... Either you don't say anything, either you say what you know, but just saying "I know stuff but I cannot tell you guys" is bullshit. Had to get that out sorry.
Anyway, to keep the positive vibe, I'm still thinking about you Chi, and hoping for your prompt healing.
Just keep on with the good fight brother.
staying positive here, thinking no news is good news... it's hard though.
another day in a coma..
...another prayer.
Keeping positive.
Hope for an update. New assingment, something to keep the positive feeling going.
im starting to imagine these weird scenario's of Chi being in a coma for 12 years or something and it be the longest album wait to date..
not that thats important right now though
yea, the album is on hold for sure, & rightfully so. could be years before it hits(i have no clue what they'll do with it if he just stays in the coma). it was on track to be the fastest release since ATF. nobody can hold it against them this time though, it's a horrible situation, & Cheng's well being has gotta be the main concern
seen on deftnz.net:
chi was moved into a smaller hospital
Is that good or bad??
Much respect,
-Matt
Going on a month now. Fuck.
new msg on their myspace (http://www.myspace.com/deftones).
what the *bleep* does it mean? is it chino or chi? or a combination?
I can't read the message as I'm at work and myspace is blocked. What does it say?
Quote from: pissedandpierced on Dec 03, 2008, 09:40 AM
I can't read the message as I'm at work and myspace is blocked. What does it say?
" Wednesday, December 03, 2008
this and that
i'm not sure what bto think at this moment. I love my friends> i love u<>http://www.sendspace.com/file/knnljc "
strange post.
we can imagine that´s chi. or maybe is just hope.
they also posted a new pic on their myspace.
(http://c1.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/54/l_50f52c0f5bb04a7b88450435d6e32d94.jpg)
behind Abe... it says "The End"... that makes me worried. :-\
Quote from: pissedandpierced on Dec 03, 2008, 09:40 AM
I can't read the message as I'm at work and myspace is blocked. What does it say?
Title: this and that
i'm not sure what bto think at this moment. I love my friends> i love u<>http://www.sendspace.com/file/knnljc
the file contains a few songs (chino's playlists?)
they also changed the pic on their main page..
~the end...fuck
weird playlist
i"m thinking someone was stoned. i mean i hope it was chi. that would be fantastic, however, i'm still thinking someone was stoned.
The post contains music, plus the number 1111(looks like 11/11): must be the new playlist by Chino.
And dear Lord, that post noticing the words 'The End' in the back of their new profile picture scares the shit out of me.
That said, the post saying that Chi was moved to a smaller hospital...that's usually good news (right?).
The End is from the Radio Station back then as from what I´ve read "107.7 The End"
It sure has something to do that is going on for them now. Interpretate what you want as nothing is confirmed. But it surely has some deeper meaning - not sure what though. It can be good or bad, but praying might help.
maybe it's "the end" of Chi's coma?
Quote from: penguin in the desert on Dec 03, 2008, 02:21 PM
maybe it's "the end" of Chi's coma?
I can only hope that is the meaning of it. It's so frustrating, not knowing anything.. and they don't really say what they mean. It's like they give us puzzle pieces.
Quote from: ablackswan on Dec 03, 2008, 12:11 PM
weird playlist
Yeah but why can't i get it to open?
dont know, i can't extract files but can listen to them song by song
I just spoke to Warner because of this post, yeah it could be a twisted signal that the band are gonna go on hiatus or split because of Chi, but come on, this is Deftones, something like this they wouldn't be so mystical about and just come out with it. At the end of the day it's just a photo and a playlist, we have to not get so worked up over this. Warner said that they haven't had any updates in the UK about Chi's condition since it first happened. I was told that the album is pencilled in for an April release but they don't know if this is still going ahead or not due to Chi.
Like someone said before, if this was some big of a deal the guys wouldn't be so mystical about it. they would come clean and tell us whats happening.there for i believe people shouldn't be so negative about this. hopefully they will tell us something in the next couple of days and you guys will see there has been to much worry over nothing that serious.
Keep on the positivity, I believe good news will come to us soon.
Quote from: penguin in the desert on Dec 03, 2008, 10:34 AM
they also posted a new pic on their myspace.
(http://c1.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/54/l_50f52c0f5bb04a7b88450435d6e32d94.jpg)
behind Abe... it says "The End"... that makes me worried. :-\
That is 107.7 The End music station here in Seattle.
It is just a cool picture with Chi in it!!! That is all, you all are thinking too much about it.
Quote from: ablackswan on Dec 03, 2008, 02:51 PM
dont know, i can't extract files but can listen to them song by song
yeah but i can't even get it to open so that i can see the songs. how did you do that?
maybe is just Chino´s Gazelle!
I don't think that the band would be cryptic like this is something major did happen. Even though the banner that says "the end" is a radio station, whoever updated would be out of their mind to put those words up right now, when so many people are watching and waiting for good news.
Either this is Chi, someone was stoned, or someone hacked their myspace and is fucking with us all.
EDIT: Some people on myspace are saying that the file is empty, so maybe the site was hacked after all.
"The End" of his coma.
Quote from: janie13 on Dec 03, 2008, 07:51 PM
Quote from: ablackswan on Dec 03, 2008, 02:51 PM
dont know, i can't extract files but can listen to them song by song
yeah but i can't even get it to open so that i can see the songs. how did you do that?
i just click on the audio file.that's all
[img alt=]http://hotlink.myspacecdn.com/images02/7/4872814b32584612bac9f24aa836c132/m.jpg[/img] (http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=769597&albumID=1348336&imageID=50877579)
Quote from: MissRomania on Dec 03, 2008, 08:50 PM
I don't think that the band would be cryptic like this is something major did happen. Even though the banner that says "the end" is a radio station, whoever updated would be out of their mind to put those words up right now, when so many people are watching and waiting for good news.
Either this is Chi, someone was stoned, or someone hacked their myspace and is fucking with us all.
EDIT: Some people on myspace are saying that the file is empty, so maybe the site was hacked after all.
What file? the zip? No its not. It has Madonna songs on it an stuff.
Chi all my prayings are for Him get well soon chi keep fighting
"He's been taken off life support and is fully breathing on his own," Mojonnier said. "He's opened his eyes and shown (physical) response and we're all just praying that he's back home by Christmas."
Hi i'm new here but saw this on line and thought it might cheer everyone up. :)
Quote from: PinkMagetRX on Dec 03, 2008, 11:34 PM
"He's been taken off life support and is fully breathing on his own," Mojonnier said. "He's opened his eyes and shown (physical) response and we're all just praying that he's back home by Christmas."
Hi i'm new here but saw this on line and thought it might cheer everyone up. :)
*mouth drops*
Where did you get this from? Please...a source...don't fuck around...
EDIT: Ok, I googled the whole line, this is for real:
http://www.newser.com/localnews/58/sacramento-ca.html
Chi Cheng, reading some of his poetry at a Sacramento cafe in 2005, remains in a coma after a car accident last week. The bassist for the platinum-selling Sacramento band Deftones, is hospitalized in San Jose.
Deftones bassist Chi Cheng is still in a coma following a November car accident, and now Sacramento area musicians are banding together to provide support.
Cheng, 38, was seriously injured in a car accident Nov. 4 in Santa Clara County.
Local metal band Will Haven will headline a benefit show Tuesday at Harlow's (2708 J St.) The line-up features Deftones drummer Abe Cunningham and a Tinfed reunion. Death Valley High, Last Angels and Eightfourseven are also on the bill and DJs Frank "Nitty" Delgado and Crook One will also spin tunes.
The benefit is being staged by Will Haven guitarist Jeff Irwin and Marc Mojonnier, a longtime friend of Cheng.
Mojonnier said Cheng, athough still unconscious, is showing signs of recovery and has been moved to a rehabilitation center in Marin.
"He's been taken off life support and is fully breathing on his own," Mojonnier said. "He's opened his eyes and shown (physical) response and we're all just praying that he's back home by Christmas."
The benefit show starts at 9 p.m. and costs $12 at the door. All proceeds will go to Cheng's family.
My God. This is a relief. He's not there yet, but he is getting there. I'll keep praying.
I've been so depressed for a month now but i got the biggest smile on my face when i heard it, glad to hear there is some (Not all) relief. :)
Quote"He's been taken off life support and is fully breathing on his own," Mojonnier said. "He's opened his eyes and shown (physical) response and we're all just praying that he's back home by Christmas."
Hi i'm new here but saw this on line and thought it might cheer everyone up.
If that is true, then that is very very very good news!
Indeed, that's great.... Ah, It's good to know at last a bit of something...
ohhhhh fuck!im crying!!!!
ohhhhhhh hopeeee
Wow... at the 7:00 pm of today good news started to rain over me, including this! (the one above from the Sacto news...)
so let's hope they keep arriving to my life as well as to all of us...!!
Probably it's the End of the Coma, and that's why was moved to a smaller hospital, because he only needs to be in observation so intensive cares are not for him (i mean, he doesn't need them, he's quite alright!)
but they should have let us know all that... time will say thought..
Can one remain in a coma but open and close their eyes?? Either way, this is great news. If he's up and about by Christmas--that would be fantastic, just awesome. Keep fighting Chi! Everyone is rooting for you!
Much respect,
-Matt
awesome news!
Yeah so in case anyone wants this is a myspace site that is all about CHI, just same thing as here updates, stories and so on. http://www.myspace.com/headupchi Keep your head high and your prayers strong. We love you CHI!
como on chi! u can!
waiting for new good news, good energy for you bro!
he's been in the coma for a month now, it's time to snap out of it!
Quote from: Hidalgo on Dec 04, 2008, 10:33 PM
he's been in the coma for a month now, it's time to snap out of it!
One can only hope. :(
yeah he can do it
being in a coma is fuking scary :(
ya know i wunder if chi is gunna rite a song about when he wakes up i think thatd be awesome,
gray fox iz that shit, heh hes almost as cool as chi! ;D
what if he quits the band and become a solo artist?
either way as long as chi is up and about, ill listen to whatever it is they come up with
does anyone knows the date of that last news post? becuse, someone on another board noticed this:
Chi Cheng, reading some of his poetry at a Sacramento cafe in 2005, remains in a coma after a car accident last week. The bassist for the platinum-selling Sacramento band Deftones, is hospitalized in San Jose.
"it's so nice here down off the shore
I wish you could see this
'Cause there's nothing to see
It's peaceful here and it's fine with me"
So apparently Cheng has opened his eyes a few times and is breathing on his own...
thats awsome, he probably has realised what the fuck happened to him and that he has a fight on his hands. im sure he's up for it!
ok, that was a good promo thing. now get back to life Chi.
http://www.sacbee.com/entertainment/story/1446580.html
Published: Wednesday, Dec. 03, 2008
Deftones bassist Chi Cheng is still in a coma following a November car accident, and now Sacramento area musicians are banding together to provide support.
Cheng, 38, was seriously injured in a car accident Nov. 4 in Santa Clara County.
Local metal band Will Haven will headline a benefit show Tuesday at Harlow's (2708 J St.) The line-up features a Tinfed reunion, Death Valley High, Last Angels, Eightfourseven, and DJs Frank "Nitty" Delgado and Crook One will also spin tunes.
The benefit is being staged by Will Haven guitarist Jeff Irwin and Marc Mojonnier, a longtime friend of Cheng.
Mojonnier said Cheng, athough still unconscious, is showing signs of recovery.
The benefit show starts at 9 p.m. and costs $12 at the door. All proceeds will go to Cheng's family.
Quote from: Tuck on Dec 05, 2008, 11:23 AM
Local metal band Will Haven will headline a benefit show Tuesday at Harlow's (2708 J St.) The line-up features a Tinfed reunion, Death Valley High, Last Angels, Eightfourseven, and DJs Frank "Nitty" Delgado and Crook One will also spin tunes.
The benefit is being staged by Will Haven guitarist Jeff Irwin and Marc Mojonnier, a longtime friend of Cheng.
These guys deserve pure respect for setting up something like this. Wish it wouldnt be 1000s+ miles away from Germany.
Quote from: Buchido on Dec 05, 2008, 11:46 AM
Quote from: Tuck on Dec 05, 2008, 11:23 AM
Local metal band Will Haven will headline a benefit show Tuesday at Harlow's (2708 J St.) The line-up features a Tinfed reunion, Death Valley High, Last Angels, Eightfourseven, and DJs Frank "Nitty" Delgado and Crook One will also spin tunes.
The benefit is being staged by Will Haven guitarist Jeff Irwin and Marc Mojonnier, a longtime friend of Cheng.
These guys deserve pure respect for setting up something like this. Wish it wouldnt be 1000s+ miles away from Germany.
Agreed (I live in Germany too)
My thoughts are still with you CHi
Even me, that i'm living in Mexico, it's fucking hard to go to another place far that 4 hours in car...
And God bless you all Chi..... Stay Strong!
Holy shit, Tinfed is getting back together for it - awesome!
that is cool, wish was lucky enough to go
Quotethat is cool, wish was lucky enough to go
Yeah same here
Has anyone tried talking to Kenia to see if she knows more about this?
i'd still like to know what happened, what caused them to wreck, etc
Quote from: Hidalgo on Dec 08, 2008, 05:55 PM
i'd still like to know what happened, what caused them to wreck, etc
Incompetence.
I know that Chi is on the mend and getting better but I wish he would just wake up and that we could have another update.
Another update would be nice, even if it's the same news, even just another assigment...to keep the spirits high.
Exactly. It's really weird as I always read about something similar happening to someone in a band that I'm not really a fan of but in a odd and maybe crazy way, I didn't think that this would affect me in such a way. I was totally distraught and saddened when I first read it.
yeah same here it still feels surreal ya know
any news??
New post on the blog: nothing new. He's been transfered to a smaller hospital and is still in the exact same state... :'(
Chi Update 12/9/08
Hello,
Chi remains in a coma, and as of this morning there's been no significant change in his condition. Last week he was moved out of the Intensive Care Unit and transferred to a brain rehabilitation hospital in Northern California. The hospital specializes in the care and management of traumatic and non-trauma related brain injuries with a team of highly skilled therapists, nurses and consultants. He's in great hands.
Please continue to pray for our brother, and thank you all for your love and support.
-deftones
I'm a little woried at this point. :(
Uuh yeah......no bueno.
Ok yeah, I was expecting some good news any day now. This is sucking nuts.
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 09, 2008, 09:22 PM
Uuh yeah......no bueno.
i didn't catch the point... i'm nuts also...
at least it's a official post...
fuck fuck! more of the same...
I know I'm gonna be the negative Nancy here...but I honestly don't have a good feeling about this. I think if and when he comes back,he won't be the same.
That post was so different, since it's not his mother. Cuz every post she did was so hopeful...
goddammit.... :'(
:(
It's difficult to keep the faith, but I still have faith.
People have waited much longer for good news to come.
What happened to his mom's entries? They were really hopeful and created lots of positive vibes. We need more of those as time marches on.
I feel bad for bringing this up..but..
has anyone thought, considering Deftones dip in sales, maybe even a dip popularity etc..that Chi's accident might be a blessing in disguise for the band and their position in the music biz/rock world?
i mean..if people had perhaps, not been into the Tones for a while, considering they were hugely popular around the WP era...could Chi and his recovery bring back some lost fans and build up a new surgence of passionate fans?
Maybe Deftones will explode back onto the scene with total avengeance?
before we start making up new words... No, they wont be exploding back onto the scene with total vengeance.
People who arent into the Deftones now, still won't be.
Well, i disgree.
Be optimistic man! TRL is gonna get hit hard by their new shit.
I think the new albums gonna blow us away, don't get me wrong, Deftones are my number 2 band right behind Metallica.
I don't think they really left he scene really, just put it on hold... and I really hope this new album shows that they can still be the biggest little band on the planet.
Quote from: sharinglungs on Dec 10, 2008, 01:58 PM
Deftones are my number 2 band right behind Metallica.
:o ??? :-\
Quote from: Tuck on Dec 08, 2008, 07:55 PM
Another update would be nice, even if it's the same news, even just another assigment...to keep the spirits high.
It was another update, thankfull for that. 'No significant change'...sounds scary. That said, the news has been really positibe so far. Keep the faith.
Quote from: White Pwny on Dec 10, 2008, 02:00 PM
Quote from: sharinglungs on Dec 10, 2008, 01:58 PM
Deftones are my number 2 band right behind Metallica.
:o ??? :-\
what? I didn't think that'd be so weird.
Quote from: Jizzlobber on Dec 10, 2008, 12:09 PM
Well, i disgree.
Be optimistic man! TRL is gonna get hit hard by their new shit.
TRL was canceled a long time ago. haha But I agree with Sharinglungs....if they didn't know who Deftones were or weren't into them then,they wont be in the future either. Hell....hardly anyone knows what the fuck is going on anyways since it's not a huge topic of discussion in the music world.
This really isn't the thread for this. And it has nothing to do with Blue October... they are not my favorite band. I just don't get anyone liking Metallica over Deftones. =o\
Quote from: White Pwny on Dec 10, 2008, 05:01 PM
This really isn't the thread for this. And it has nothing to do with Blue October... they are not my favorite band. I just don't get anyone liking Metallica over Deftones. =o\
Because Metallica are head over heels better than the deftones. Deftones are awesome, Metallica are better.
Hate the band for personal reasons thats cool, but they've made some of the best metal ever.
Quote from: White Pwny on Dec 10, 2008, 02:00 PM
Quote from: sharinglungs on Dec 10, 2008, 01:58 PM
Deftones are my number 2 band right behind Metallica.
:o ??? :-\
I actually thought this was weird...
any other band could be... but, Metallica?? Right now??
Quote from: defTHE1s on Dec 10, 2008, 08:50 PM
Quote from: White Pwny on Dec 10, 2008, 02:00 PM
Quote from: sharinglungs on Dec 10, 2008, 01:58 PM
Deftones are my number 2 band right behind Metallica.
:o ??? :-\
I actually thought this was weird...
any other band could be... but, Metallica?? Right now??
What.. there's nothing wrong with Metallica. Load/Reload/St. Anger can all die.. but everything else is Genius.
lets stop the deftones/metallica talk in this thread. this isnt the place to do it. besides metallica isnt the enemy, they're a fine band(minus load re-load & st anger, those are horrible albums). if someone likes them better than deftones it's no big deal.
nickelback, & disturbed, now they're the enemy. they suck beyond belief, yet still sell insane amounts of albums. that pisses me off
back to the main topic here, CHI
hate to even think this, but if Chi doesnt get out of this coma, the band is almost surely done... :(
Quote from: Hidalgo on Dec 10, 2008, 09:30 PM
hate to even think this, but if Chi doesnt get out of this coma, the band is almost surely done... :(
yes. i agree. not good...but this is reality
Quote from: Jizzlobber on Dec 10, 2008, 09:55 AM
.........bring back some lost fans and build up a new surgence of passionate fans?
who lost ?
who ever listen the deftones still they are listening.......i am pretty sure of that
if i hadnt a soul i could love metallica even with this last shitty album.
But i have my love my dear darling holy seety pinky darky def def de de de de deftones !..
Quote from: Hidalgo on Dec 10, 2008, 09:30 PM
hate to even think this, but if Chi doesnt get out of this coma, the band is almost surely done... :(
To be honest would you really want them to go on if Chi didn't bounce back? I mean it wouldn't be the same band at all... It hurts to say or think this... But if he doesn't make it or isn't the same i would rather them release this last album and call it quits. I'm still praying and hoping. We still have faith in you CHI!
p.s. oh and i'm not a huge Metalica fan at all but please let's not talk about it on this thread. :o
Why does everyone think that the band will break up (even if Chi recovers)? I thought they were really happy getting over the SNW fighting and making an album like the older sound..
I'm just trying to keep all things Deftones-related positive right now.
Stop saying shit like that.
Quote from: White Pwny on Dec 10, 2008, 05:01 PM
This really isn't the thread for this. And it has nothing to do with Blue October... they are not my favorite band. I just don't get anyone liking Metallica over Deftones. =o\
I could say i like Metallica slightly more than Deftones, just coz Metallica have released more cool stuff...and more DVD's and video's and stuff.
They have some kickass metal in their set too!!
ok, stop with the metallica discussion
When I woke up this morning I had a good feeling Chi would be waking up really, really soon.
I've had feelings like these prior to earthquakes n' crap - so I hope it is promising.
yeah i hope so too, he needs to wake up so we can all have a badass christmas present
come on chi!!!
damn... 5 weeks in a coma. i'm getting really nervous.
CHI.
CHI you the man!!!!!!!!!!!!
All I can tell everyone right now is...I'M HAPPY! :)
What does that mean? If you know more than you can tell us more--no one is going to sue you. Is he awake?
Much respect,
-Matt
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
;D
awesome to hear, cant wait for the official news, i knew it was only a matter of time. stef and chino prolly just smoked a fatty in the room while blasting the new album, and the aroma and badass riffs awoke his conscienece. welcome back my brother, your were missed dearly.
yeah i hope so too ;)
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:19 AM
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
i think all you know about it is jack & shit. & jack left town
I just took a shit.
i dont understand...
dont we have any deftones fan from sacramento here ?
if we had, why he cant go that hospital and learn the real situation ?
i am far away as one world but i m still trying to find a way to go that hospital............why cant anybody ?
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:19 AM
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
then you are of no help and only wasting your time, our time and the time of the people you ask for inside information.
Quote from: PinkMagetRX on Dec 09, 2008, 09:07 PM
Chi Update 12/9/08
Hello,
Chi remains in a coma, and as of this morning there's been no significant change in his condition. Last week he was moved out of the Intensive Care Unit and transferred to a brain rehabilitation hospital in Northern California. The hospital specializes in the care and management of traumatic and non-trauma related brain injuries with a team of highly skilled therapists, nurses and consultants. He's in great hands.
Please continue to pray for our brother, and thank you all for your love and support.
-deftones
I'm a little woried at this point. :(
it means he's better.
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 12, 2008, 08:33 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:19 AM
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
you are of no help and only wasting your time, our time and the time of the people you ask for inside information.
Come on man, don't be like that.
It's totally helpfull: the last update plus the fact that time rolls by is getting people worried, what better news is there then to 'not worry and be positive' from insiders?
Quote from: Tuck on Dec 12, 2008, 02:46 PM
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 12, 2008, 08:33 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:19 AM
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
you are of no help and only wasting your time, our time and the time of the people you ask for inside information.
Come on man, don't be like that.
It's totally helpfull: the last update plus the fact that time rolls by is getting people worried, what better news is there then to 'not worry and be positive' from insiders?
I think she's right!
Time will give us the reason, as in everything, we just have to wait to know official things, but yes, i believe her....
Quote from: sicily on Dec 12, 2008, 04:57 AM
awesome to hear, cant wait for the official news, i knew it was only a matter of time. stef and chino prolly just smoked a fatty in the room while blasting the new album, and the aroma and badass riffs awoke his conscienece. welcome back my brother, your were missed dearly.
Or it's just thru the thing about the smoked fatty 8) ...
I don't know where is devilinside, but if someone ask for some1 from sacto, well, probably she went as close to the hospital as she was permitted and she's only allowed to say this and that,
c'mon, they aren't goin to tell you "OK, tell everybody when is he going to be awake from hospital, when they're going to continue the new album and where are they going to spend their holidays!!"
Quote from: Hidalgo on Dec 12, 2008, 05:31 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:19 AM
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
i think all you know about it is jack & shit. & jack left town
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 12, 2008, 08:33 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:19 AM
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
then you are of no help and only wasting your time, our time and the time of the people you ask for inside information.
Say what you want,but the information I was given,was given to me confidence,and I don't want to break what her and I have just so you can doubt it. So either take what you can get or sit in silence not knowing anything.
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:54 PM
Quote from: Hidalgo on Dec 12, 2008, 05:31 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:19 AM
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
i think all you know about it is jack & shit. & jack left town
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 12, 2008, 08:33 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:19 AM
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
then you are of no help and only wasting your time, our time and the time of the people you ask for inside information.
Say what you want,but the information I was given,was given to me confidence,and I don't want to break what her and I have just so you can doubt it. So either take what you can get or sit in silence not knowing anything.
Thank you for the update. any info is good info. besides. any TRUE deftones fan would know that people on this board are not going to feed us bullshit just to be heard. You've been right about all youe other updates and i know you looove the band. so please continue to let us know as much as you're permited to say as soon as you hear it. thank you
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:54 PM
Quote from: Hidalgo on Dec 12, 2008, 05:31 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:19 AM
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
i think all you know about it is jack & shit. & jack left town
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 12, 2008, 08:33 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:19 AM
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
then you are of no help and only wasting your time, our time and the time of the people you ask for inside information.
Say what you want,but the information I was given,was given to me confidence,and I don't want to break what her and I have just so you can doubt it. So either take what you can get or sit in silence not knowing anything.
that's the thing, we still don't know anything. and I'm not doubting that you hear things, I'm just saying what's the point in taking time and effort to post saying "I know stuff but I can't tell you"? you might as well post "I'm cool and you're not" because that seems to be the whole point of it.
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 12, 2008, 05:48 PM
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:54 PM
Quote from: Hidalgo on Dec 12, 2008, 05:31 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:19 AM
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
i think all you know about it is jack & shit. & jack left town
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 12, 2008, 08:33 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 04:19 AM
I just means things are ok. I have not been given permission to speak publicly about anything,and so to keep getting what little information about him I can,I have to keep it private until any official releases. All I have to offer are discrete comments..... And all I can say at this moment is things seem to be positive.
then you are of no help and only wasting your time, our time and the time of the people you ask for inside information.
Say what you want,but the information I was given,was given to me confidence,and I don't want to break what her and I have just so you can doubt it. So either take what you can get or sit in silence not knowing anything.
that's the thing, we still don't know anything. and I'm not doubting that you hear things, I'm just saying what's the point in taking time and effort to post saying "I know stuff but I can't tell you"? you might as well post "I'm cool and you're not" because that seems to be the whole point of it.
Well....I mean,if you would take into consideration that I said I was happy and things were positive,that should give you an idea. Especially after looking at my postsin this thread a few days BEFORE talking to this person...where I was pretty negative about the whole situation.
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 10, 2008, 02:07 AM
I know I'm gonna be the negative Nancy here...but I honestly don't have a good feeling about this. I think if and when he comes back,he won't be the same.
But whatever. I'm not trying to act like I'm "cool",I'm trying the best I can to ease minds without going against the wishes of the source.
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 12, 2008, 05:48 PM
I'm just saying what's the point in taking time and effort to post saying "I know stuff but I can't tell you"? you might as well post "I'm cool and you're not" because that seems to be the whole point of it.
couldnt agree more. very obvious and very pathetic
Cool...fuck you then. It's a pitty you act this way. Now you'll have no idea as to whats going on...good or bad. I'll keep my "coolness" to myself. Sad tho..the person I get my info from is also a person ya'll ran away from here a few weeks ago,when all they were trying to do was give a little insight,but you're all soo fucking harsh they wont come back. So have fun with your silence.
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Dec 12, 2008, 06:57 PM
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 12, 2008, 05:48 PM
I'm just saying what's the point in taking time and effort to post saying "I know stuff but I can't tell you"? you might as well post "I'm cool and you're not" because that seems to be the whole point of it.
couldnt agree more. very obvious and very pathetic
Quote from: devilinside on Dec 12, 2008, 07:13 PM
Cool...fuck you then. (...) So have fun with your silence.
+1 with your funny silence :-X (@ jesusinablowofdirt)
whats happening here...................mod fighting ?
i wanna ask again ; dont we have any deftones fan from sacramento ? cant he go to the hospital and learn that fucking situation ?
they just told us on the blog, no change in his condition
I spoke to a professional lighting designer we hired to control some lights we set up and he toured with deftones in 2003 and did all there lighting on stage. he told me that he spoke with chino and chino said there is little improvement and chi can kinda make body responds when chi's father is talking and reading to him thats all.
::)
Quote from: ilovechino69 on Dec 12, 2008, 10:12 PM
I spoke to a professional lighting designer we hired to control some lights we set up and he toured with deftones in 2003 and did all there lighting on stage. he told me that he spoke with chino and chino said there is little improvement and chi can kinda make body responds when chi's father is talking and reading to him thats all.
Names!!! I want names, God Dammit!!
Don't make me say "pics or it didnt happen".. ;D
i dont want to say is name cause idiots on here will look up his site and call him up to bother him. But he told me it doesnt look good. he also said chino was kinda upset about it so he changed the subject.
just calm down.
if the news are good...we are all happy. let´s wait.
hed^
I just hope Chi gets (or really is getting) better. Regarding the whole mini-fight thing, I think it's important for everyone involved to realize this isn't easy for anyone. All of us are upset here, and I'm sure any skepticism just comes from not wanting to feel disappointment. No one means to be harsh just for the sake of it, the whole thing is fucked up. Devilinside, even though I know I asked outwardly for what you know (which you feel like you can't, I understand), I don't think you should stop giving us information out of anger towards anyone here, the whole ordeal is bound to leave some people upset and standoffish. I would encourage you to ask 1xuser to keep us updated as well. As much as it is in everyones control to take things with a grain of salt, you can't really expect it from everyone given the situation, and you're bound to run into people or comments that you don't agree with. In the spirit of Chi and of good will, I don't think it's worth it to hold the grudge--we should all just be more decent. Anywho, just my two cents.
Much respect,
-Matt
tru dat
I believe devilinside. Given the mature fashion in which the inside info has been given, I have faith that it's true and that we can take a deep breath and relax. God knows Chi has been on my mind too much.
Quote from: MissRomania on Dec 13, 2008, 07:55 AM
I believe devilinside. Given the mature fashion in which the inside info has been given, I have faith that it's true and that we can take a deep breath and relax. God knows Chi has been on my mind too much.
did you see that thing flying over your head making a "swoosh" sound? that was the point that you completely missed. no one said they didn't believe her.
anyways, sorry for being sort of an ass. I'm not in the best of moods lately and the lack of real informative updates is really annoying.
..... ???
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 13, 2008, 10:52 AM
Quote from: MissRomania on Dec 13, 2008, 07:55 AM
I believe devilinside. Given the mature fashion in which the inside info has been given, I have faith that it's true and that we can take a deep breath and relax. God knows Chi has been on my mind too much.
anyways, sorry for being sort of an ass. I'm not in the best of moods lately and the lack of real informative updates is really annoying.
It's okay. I just woke up to a really shitty morning, so I feel ya. We are all tired and frustrated.
where is rumors?
CHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII ! ! !
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 13, 2008, 10:52 AM
Quote from: MissRomania on Dec 13, 2008, 07:55 AM
I believe devilinside. Given the mature fashion in which the inside info has been given, I have faith that it's true and that we can take a deep breath and relax. God knows Chi has been on my mind too much.
did you see that thing flying over your head making a "swoosh" sound? that was the point that you completely missed. no one said they didn't believe her.
i dont believe her
8) the aliens have him
All this waiting kinda sucks...just makes me feel like we will wait a hellova lot longer to see him onstage
just a new pic on myspace
where's the big awesome news at?
this person is a fraud(i think). bogus news about something this serious is some bullshit
Quote from: Hidalgo on Dec 15, 2008, 02:40 AM
where's the big awesome news at?
this person is a fraud(i think). bogus news about something this serious is some bullshit
ditto
What big awesome news?
Quote from: dictatesofreason on Dec 15, 2008, 03:01 AM
Quote from: Hidalgo on Dec 15, 2008, 02:40 AM
where's the big awesome news at?
this person is a fraud(i think). bogus news about something this serious is some bullshit
ditto
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I would guess devilinside is talking to rosebud or Kenia, right?
I think she's referring to 1xuser, but I could be mistaken.
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Dec 15, 2008, 11:54 AM
I think she's referring to 1xuser, but I could be mistaken.
Much respect,
-Matt
yeah. I don't know what happened to him (or her), but I know I thanked them for the informative posts and so did a lot of other people. he/she actually gave us worthwhile information, not "I know stuff but I can't say anything. now kiss my feet".
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Dec 15, 2008, 11:54 AM
I think she's referring to 1xuser, but I could be mistaken.
Much respect,
-Matt
You're right. I talk to her on a fairly regular basis. I'm sure she woulda kept coming around here,but again as I said,a lot of you were assholes,so she chose to tell me things in privacy instead. She did however apologize to me for how people on here are treating me,saying it's not really fair for you all to act the way you are towards me. But I told her it was ok,that the assholes will remain in the dark and can keep complaining when they hear NOTHING!
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 15, 2008, 12:56 PM
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Dec 15, 2008, 11:54 AM
I think she's referring to 1xuser, but I could be mistaken.
Much respect,
-Matt
yeah. I don't know what happened to him (or her), but I know I thanked them for the informative posts and so did a lot of other people. he/she actually gave us worthwhile information, not "I know stuff but I can't say anything. now kiss my feet".
And you're a real prick Jacob...you know that? I've been coming here for a long time,I'm not seeking attention. I could see if I just registered and started posting shit,but thats not the case. I'm not trying to fucking act cool or telling people kiss my feet....so shut the fuck up with that shit already. MAYBE if you were nice to people they might tell you stuff...but that's pretty impossible for you.
I'm nice to people who deserve it. I tried with you, but you ignored you attempt to create peace and so I decided you're not worth it.
now let's stop this bickering and concentrate on Chi.
No..you didn't try...all your attempts were derogatory. But that''s fine..I have no need for you.
Wow. This thread took a weird turn.
We should all at least be happy that his health is improving. ;)
hermano! chi cheng awanta....dame mi navidad wn!!! mi mama se mato...te kero wn!!!
jeez - chi's in a coma and these guys are bickering like little girls - if only every band had supporters like these...they'd all be teeny-bopper favorites.
executive decision #12345134790613956123513 496891234756-13751 from Gods lips to my ear (cause we're tight like that):
CUT THE SHIT
This thread is about positivity and not some BS pissing contest. If you want to fight, go to user to user. keep that shit off this topic. definitely not good vibrations that chi needs.
Quote from: goldpony on Dec 15, 2008, 09:27 PM
executive decision #12345134790613956123513 496891234756-13751 from Gods lips to my ear (cause we're tight like that):
CUT THE SHIT
This thread is about positivity and not some BS pissing contest. If you want to fight, go to user to user. keep that shit off this topic. definitely not good vibrations that chi needs.
+168578
All those who are bickering, shut the fuck up.
This threads about Chi, not your petty squabbles.
GOD HELP ME GOD HELP ME GOD HELP ME GOD
Quote from: aenemic on Dec 15, 2008, 04:22 PM
now let's stop this bickering and concentrate on Chi.
Concentrate ....dont bicker..concentrate.
well...dont know exactly how long Chi's coma has been but, it seems like a while...: (
its been six weeks, right?
get well soon, chi.
FUCK...this is making me so sad. Ima go play Deftones real loud and the bass level through the roof...this one is for you Chi...
Tremble with the notes!
I'm taking the rest of today and listening to EVERY Deftones album ever made. (B-Sides and imports also) It cheers me up to think that maybe just maybe i'll be able to send some good vibes CHI's way by doing so. Let's ALL of us unite and celabrate the reason we're all on here talking and praying and hoping.... The DEFTONES and their AMAZING music. i for one know that this has really fucked with me which goes to show that Deftones fans REALLY do care about the music these 5 amazing guys have made over the years. I hope CHI can make it. So let's all do our part by sending him some good Karma. I know the Deftones have saved my like (as well as many others on here) So let's Save them!
"God i'd even lick her fucking picture" Fave line ever!
:)
"i could go right in her.."
In all fairness I really do think 99% of everyone was incredibly grateful and hospitable to 1xuser--I recall only one person being rude, and for that person like 20 people apologized. I'm not sure how right it is to keep everyone anxious and wondering. All angst aside I just want to know how Chi is doing, and if there's any good news I'd be very thankful to hear it--I'm sure a lot of others would be as well. There are more important things to be angry about, don't let a couple bad run ins keep a lot of worried people worried.
Much respect,
-Matt
I wonder what the day-to-day is for the rest of the band. What they're doing to keep busy,etc.
I remember when a friend of mine was in a coma. It was a rough time for my entire school (a really small high school where the graduating class is 75) so every day, it was the elephant in the room.
(http://i452.photobucket.com/albums/qq245/mohfreak/l_f2aac2e23c5f42dd43b0b5d546b25d121.jpg)
get up !!!!!!!
"get up , stand up, stand up for your life"
chiii!!!!!
come on chi give us a nice christmas present 8)
A month and a half? I don't want to be negative, but this is not good.
no, not good at all...
yeah he batta fukin wake up by new years
come on chi!!!!!
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Nov 22, 2008, 05:40 PM
A sandwich walks into a bar, the bartender says, "get out! We don't serve food here!"
A termite walks into a bar, looks at the guy behind the counter and says "Is the bar tender here?"
Chi, you are still in my thoughts and prayers!
Please, get well soon BROTHER!!!!!!!!
I'm praying for Chi every day.
no news?? :(
get well soon brother
errbin
"It's like you never, had wings." :'(
" now you fell..so ALIVE.."
wake up
in soviet russia deftones rocks YOU!
CHI..
please wake up soon I love you chi
i'm trying really hard to be optimistic, but it makes me uneasy since it's been so fucking long since the last update
you're still in my prayers Chi, you can get through this shit
hopefully there will be some amazing news soon
ive said a prayer everyday . i just want the coma phase to be over...as soon as possible.
my thoughts are with the other guys too, i imagine they are devastated, it makes me realise, looking back on Deftones reputation as being party animals, that the party is over for them right now.
this could be the end of the band... and even worse, Chi's life... :(
ahh gotta think more positive *praying*
Quote from: Hidalgo on Dec 21, 2008, 02:35 PM
this could be the end of the band... and even worse, Chi's life... :(
ahh gotta think more positive *praying*
no.......these are not gonna happen
even a devil may cry when he loses a loved onw, dnt ya think
I'm staying positive ;D
Siempre -- Always
Chi's mom Jeanna wrote a blog on Myspace.
DOCTORS ARE EXPECTING CHI TO WAKE UP ANY DAY NOW!!!!!!! AND CHRISTMAS IS ON ITS WAY!!!
Everyone use their power of positve though and lets try give Chi energy to wake up on XMAS...
now that's what i'm fuckin talkin about nigga!!!
hey man, where did you see that at? I looked on the tones myspace but to no avail. Where is it, does Jeanna have her own page?
ya i havent seen that
Quote from: Jizzlobber on Dec 23, 2008, 08:19 AM
Chi's mom Jeanna wrote a blog on Myspace.
DOCTORS ARE EXPECTING CHI TO WAKE UP ANY DAY NOW!!!!!!! AND CHRISTMAS IS ON ITS WAY!!!
Everyone use their power of positve though and lets try give Chi energy to wake up on XMAS...
Where can we see her blogs?! That sounds like great news!
i hope it's true
hoping u will get up soon chi...cmon!!
c'mon Chi!
x-MAS time! you... should wake up... befrore the .... x-mas!!!
dammit chi i told santa i wanted u to wake up for christmas....come on man
love for CHI!
Quote from: Jizzlobber on Dec 23, 2008, 08:19 AM
Chi's mom Jeanna wrote a blog on Myspace.
DOCTORS ARE EXPECTING CHI TO WAKE UP ANY DAY NOW!!!!!!! AND CHRISTMAS IS ON ITS WAY!!!
Everyone use their power of positve though and lets try give Chi energy to wake up on XMAS...
B S
Merry Christmas, Chi.
I think about you daily.
Quote from: dictatesofreason on Dec 22, 2008, 11:47 PM
even a devil may cry when he loses a loved onw, dnt ya think
There's a new update on the myspace.
All The Best!!!!
Hello all! I just wanted to take a moment to say hi and to wish everyone a very Merry X-Mas and to let you know how much all of your positive comments and energy mean to us, to Cheng and to his family. It truly means the world. On that note, Chi's condition still remains about the same. I wish I could elaborate, but there's not to much to add at this time, other than I know he's pissed and wants the fuck outta' that hospital......................for real, this I know.
.....................that being said, on a night like tonight, I hope that everybody is warm and with the people that they love. Here's to all of you and here's to a wonderful and extremely Happy and Healthy New Year!!!!!!
Much love,
Abe & Deftones
I guess it's good they seem somewhat positive...
good things! He wants to get out of the hospital! he is ok now... who the ++++ wants to be in a hospital for a day?
true that
still thinking positive, please good news before new year =)
I just want to hear the news that he's awake... I don't know what state he'll be in at that point. But just to know he's awake would make my new years so perfect :) Come on CHI!!!!!
i'm glad you've been listening to deftones since 2006!!
me too!!!
;) ;) :) :) ;D ;D ;D ;D :D ;D :) :) :-X :'( :-* :o
Quote from: defTHE1s on Dec 26, 2008, 09:39 PM
good things! He wants to get out of the hospital! he is ok now... who the ++++ wants to be in a hospital for a day?
who the fucks wants to be in for nearly 2 months??
not chi
maybe on new years night he will wake upp!
let's hope this then!
everything can change on a new years day ....
and has changed! now even chi writes in sharinglungs!! hi buddy!!
???
Been thinking a lot about Chi since I've read the news, I know them since Adrenaline came out, I was a big fan but I must be admit I kinda drifted away after White Poney came out. Coincidentally, a friend of mine put Adrenaline in her car stereo during some trip right before I learned about Chi's accident, so I checked out the S/T and Saturday Night Wrist after that and appreciate the evolution of the band, never understood and still can't understand why they keep on being labelled nu metal, this is so reductive....and so wrong!
Anyway, I so hope Chi will get well soon, I've been posting some encouragement messages regularly on the myspace page. He's been of my favourite bass player, love his screams and his stage presence is so powerful, fuck, his place is definitely not on an hospital bed, that guy must be on a stage, hair and bass flying in the air. Love that stage move by the way.
Much love and strength to Chi, his relatives and the Deftones crew,
new year, new news??
Abe saying he KNOWS he hates being stuck in the coma was quite touching, obviously he see's his agrivation even though he isnt concious..man, i wonder how many and what type of dreams Chi has been having
another day, we wait...cmon Chi buddy! we cant wait any longer man! good vibes
I was so sad when I first heard the news about Chi, it almost made me cry. Having loved Deftones for this many years, I sort of feel like they're family, kind of. since then I've been scared. Scared for Chi first of all and his family and his Deftones family. Then for the band and their future.
But I want to hope and pray - so please Chi, Abe saw you resenting being in hospital even in your coma - please stay strong and fight. We need you.
In Bamboo Prachutes, in Beautiful - the poem for his wife, there's a beautiful line... (Everybody probably knows it)
QuoteBeautiful, she’s like rain
Witness,
Your winter in June, red lights, and the smell of stale sex
I’ll take a crane to you, there’s more cream than sugar in that grin
Looks like the death of a month in one less overlooked erection
The problem with hope and how easy it is to get fucked,
Paved with sharp cartilage and the national weather forecast
I’ll do anything not to be alone after I wake up from the storm of dreaming
The azaleas’ pink warm root
Don’t you know?
You can’t trust men who work on elevators
I respectfully apologise if I got any part of that poem wrong, my English isn't always that good :)
I pray for you, Chi. <3
CHIIIIIIIIIIIIIII YOU THE MAN
GET UPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP.... HOMIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Hope more and better news comes soon.
don't wanna put a downer on things but it doesn't look good at the min :( im wondering if he's gunna pull through... SNW the last 'tones album??? coz i doubt theyd replace him its not deftones (prays for Chi)
2 months. too much...
Why would SNW be the last album? Eros is supposedly done on their end... right? Just needs mastered and artwork?
tru
Quote from: White Pwny on Jan 04, 2009, 12:27 AM
Why would SNW be the last album? Eros is supposedly done on their end... right? Just needs mastered and artwork?
We all hope so I guess. Any reliable sources about that?
people are more worried about this affecting the band then worrying about chi
who cares if they never release another album anyway. SNW was such garbage that i can care less about deftones
Head up Jumpin Chi Man
[size=11I wanted to start by saying what a fucked up mess this whole situation is! Chi, I believe you are a truly righteous person. I don't remember ever reading one negative thing about you. I've been a Deftones fan for many years now and appreciate what a phenomenal musician you are.
I pray every day that you return to us soon and I feel you are the kind of person who can and will get past this. My best wishes to you, your family and the Tones.
Peace.pt][/size]
fuck any news??its much time
Quote from: Fireal1222 on Jan 04, 2009, 10:55 PM
people are more worried about this affecting the band then worrying about chi
who cares if they never release another album anyway. SNW was such garbage that i can care less about deftones
Of course people are worried about Chi. Jesus Christ. Do you see the 40 pages here... and the other post about him.. not to mention the TONS of messages on their myspace for just CHI. But on the other hand, people do wonder about the album.
Not trying to be rude.. .but if you care less about Deftones... why even be on this board. Sorry that you viewed SNW as such garbage. *sigh*
uh o
Hey I like Fireal. But I don't count this board as even the majority of Deftones fans considering seeing their fans at shows... or alllll the messages on their myspace. But to just say.. " I could care less about Deftones' and then have issue with some people wondering how this will all affect the album..
I wasn't trying to be a bitch. But hey. Just sayin...
Head up jumpin Chi man
Ditto White Pwny
Quote from: White Pwny on Jan 05, 2009, 04:03 AM
Quote from: Fireal1222 on Jan 04, 2009, 10:55 PM
people are more worried about this affecting the band then worrying about chi
who cares if they never release another album anyway. SNW was such garbage that i can care less about deftones
Of course people are worried about Chi. Jesus Christ. Do you see the 40 pages here... and the other post about him.. not to mention the TONS of messages on their myspace for just CHI. But on the other hand, people do wonder about the album.
his brain is too fried to comprehend what's written on the first 40 pages in this thread.
seriously...wow
Go EROS and chi!
Well lets just hope that he didnt receive any serious brain injuries. (witch im almost possitive is the case)
:( he will probably be a completely different person when he wakes up. hopefully someday he can return to normal.
I could care less for "Eros" as I'm more concerned about Chi. I hope for the best for Chi, his family and friends.
not so good for your grandma tho huh
this very well might be the end of the band. if Chi doesnt wake up, & get back to normal, i think eros will come out in late 2010 & be their last album :(
Chi needs a miracle at this point
Quote from: Hidalgo on Jan 06, 2009, 06:52 PM
this very well might be the end of the band. if Chi doesnt wake up, & get back to normal, i think eros will come out in late 2010 & be their last album :(
Chi needs a miracle at this point
Why would they wait a whole year + when the albums done already?
Quote from: sharinglungs on Jan 06, 2009, 07:50 PM
Quote from: Hidalgo on Jan 06, 2009, 06:52 PM
this very well might be the end of the band. if Chi doesnt wake up, & get back to normal, i think eros will come out in late 2010 & be their last album :(
Chi needs a miracle at this point
Why would they wait a whole year + when the albums done already?
i just dont see them rushing the album out when Chi's in this condition. they'll probably give him a lot of time to hopefully come out of it, & see if he can recover. if he doesnt get better, if they release it at all, i'd figure it would be in 2010. then again, i'm just a fan, so i have no clue, just guessing. but i'm a good guesser though
Quote from: Hidalgo on Jan 06, 2009, 08:06 PM
Quote from: sharinglungs on Jan 06, 2009, 07:50 PM
Quote from: Hidalgo on Jan 06, 2009, 06:52 PM
this very well might be the end of the band. if Chi doesnt wake up, & get back to normal, i think eros will come out in late 2010 & be their last album :(
Chi needs a miracle at this point
Why would they wait a whole year + when the albums done already?
i just dont see them rushing the album out when Chi's in this condition. they'll probably give him a lot of time to hopefully come out of it, & see if he can recover. if he doesnt get better, if they release it at all, i'd figure it would be in 2010. then again, i'm just a fan, so i have no clue, just guessing. but i'm a good guesser though
Record Companies don't give a shit about their artists.. they want to make money.. if they can make money by releasing the album soon, then they will.
Quote from: sharinglungs on Jan 06, 2009, 08:37 PM
Record Companies don't give a shit about their artists.. they want to make money.. if they can make money by releasing the album soon, then they will.
agree... thats the way it is, like it or not. and i dont think youre a bad person just because u want to hear eros although chi is in a coma. why wouldnt u like to hear him play`?
I seem to remember reading that when it happened, Chi was on his way back from his brother's memorial...? His poor family really do need all the support they can get, and even more so if this was the case. I'm very worried about him, especially since there were so many updates posted regularly, then.... nothing. I realise rehabilitation requires time whether you're in a coma or not, but I just have this really bad feeling.
I've been watching all these youtube videos with interviews and such recently, and it makes me sad to see Chi being spiritual, funny and amazing :(
Also, Jean/Chi's mom said she was going to post her own regularly updated blog.... I may have missed it, but I don't recall having seen any update from her since she mentioned this blog?
Maybe I need a life, but after all these years I've loved everything about them, Deftones somehow feels a little bit like family..
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Jan 06, 2009, 10:00 PM
Quote from: sharinglungs on Jan 06, 2009, 08:37 PM
Record Companies don't give a shit about their artists.. they want to make money.. if they can make money by releasing the album soon, then they will.
agree... thats the way it is, like it or not. and i dont think youre a bad person just because u want to hear eros although chi is in a coma. why wouldnt u like to hear him play`?
Oh I want to hear him play.. I'm just saying. they wont delay the album just because he's in the hospital.
no i wasnt refering to you (sharinglungs) when i said "why wouldnt _u_ like to hear him play", i meant "you" as in anybody. i fucked up. it all just get painted in black or white, either u wish chi gets better and dont care about the album, or ju care about the album,but then yr a heartless dick. thats dumb, i think u can care about chi and still want to hear eros
Quote from: sharinglungs on Jan 06, 2009, 10:52 PM
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Jan 06, 2009, 10:00 PM
Quote from: sharinglungs on Jan 06, 2009, 08:37 PM
Record Companies don't give a shit about their artists.. they want to make money.. if they can make money by releasing the album soon, then they will.
agree... thats the way it is, like it or not. and i dont think youre a bad person just because u want to hear eros although chi is in a coma. why wouldnt u like to hear him play`?
Oh I want to hear him play.. I'm just saying. they wont delay the album just because he's in the hospital.
i think they will
i wanna hear the album!
whats up with the oprah thing that was mentioned before?
i mean i really dont like oprah but she does run the world
Quote from: wither-I on Jan 06, 2009, 10:43 AM
not so good for your grandma tho huh
Nope, their was nuts, bolts and pieces of wigs everywhere.
Quote from: Robotsatemygrandma on Jan 07, 2009, 03:35 AM
Quote from: wither-I on Jan 06, 2009, 10:43 AM
not so good for your grandma tho huh
Nope, their was nuts, bolts and pieces of wigs everywhere.
hahaha wish i could have been their to salvage the carnal remains for pawning
no offense
condolences...
Quote from: Fireal1222 on Jan 04, 2009, 10:55 PM
people are more worried about this affecting the band then worrying about chi
who cares if they never release another album anyway. SNW was such garbage that i can care less about deftones
Fuck off and get off this board, this thread is for info and positive stuff about chi, not about you being an asshole
and chi?? nothing?? :o
man, this sucks.
Quote from: Vesanic on Jan 08, 2009, 01:48 AM...
Because it will be featured for the new movie Underworld. They need money more than ever to support Chi while he is in the hospital.
you think chi has health insurance ? if he doesn't thats gonna be a hell of a bill when he gets better.
Quote from: ilovechino69 on Jan 10, 2009, 01:52 PM
you think chi has health insurance ? if he doesn't thats gonna be a hell of a bill when he gets better.
are you serious? of course he has health insurance. he's not exactly poor.
i think they need some money but that remix wasnt for that....
cuz its not a big money thing..
btw cool renholder remix !...
wow...i hope Chi is gonna be okay after this, the longer the coma, the more extreme the after effects can be..and the more rehab is needed.
another day...Chi must have a hell of a beard growing on him...or like in South Park....a face warmer..
haha
he probably looks like father time by now
Actually wouldn't he be like really hot?
or is it winter there
wait no sorry
COLD!
old man winter
damn, this gets scarier with every passing minute
Quote from: jbmp1390 on Jan 07, 2009, 07:51 PM
Quote from: Fireal1222 on Jan 04, 2009, 10:55 PM
people are more worried about this affecting the band then worrying about chi
who cares if they never release another album anyway. SNW was such garbage that i can care less about deftones
Fuck off and get off this board, this thread is for info and positive stuff about chi, not about you being an asshole
lol he dedicated his 1000th post to calling me an asshole
thanks for the kind gesture. moron
and i was saying that more people should be worried about chi. rather than worrying about deftones releasing music.
Quote from: Fireal1222 on Jan 13, 2009, 12:54 AM
and i was saying that more people should be worried about chi. rather than worrying about deftones releasing music.
true.
Quote from: Fireal1222 on Jan 13, 2009, 12:54 AM
Quote from: jbmp1390 on Jan 07, 2009, 07:51 PM
Quote from: Fireal1222 on Jan 04, 2009, 10:55 PM
people are more worried about this affecting the band then worrying about chi
who cares if they never release another album anyway. SNW was such garbage that i can care less about deftones
Fuck off and get off this board, this thread is for info and positive stuff about chi, not about you being an asshole
and i was saying that more people should be worried about chi. rather than worrying about deftones releasing music.
yeah true, the music is WAAAAY on the backburner at the moment...firsty , once Chi does wake up, thats not the end of the wait...there is still gonna be a couple of months before he is ready to get back into his old , regular routine. thats gonna talke a while
THe issue is, some people would like to hear the music that they worked on and may have completed prior to Chi getting injured. Do you think he wouldn't want us to want to listen? He's been in a coma for over 2 months now, when and if he does come out of it, he will need months and months of therapy to just be able to WALK. I'm as torn up over him being hurt as the next TRUE Deftones fan..... I will not accept that it's the end of the band, and I will not accept him not playing on stage again, at this point. Because I truly LOVE them. Aside from that... I have waited years to hear something new... and I STILL want to hear something new. It really sucks that this had to happen, but it does not change the fact that I know there is an album waiting to be released sometime this year named "EROS".
I admire that man for his beliefs and NUMBER ONE for his talent as a musician.... and fuckennay, I wanna hear it.
if that makes me an ass.... so be it.
I would like to hear some of the new music too, but it just doesnt feel as excitiing to think of hearing new music with Chi still comatose.
I also think he will return to the stage but only time will tell if they ever need to get a temporary 'fill in' bassist for some reason..who knows yet
He drifts in and out of my thoughts. Updates would be nice. Good deed missions to. Something to keep positive.
Going to donate some more clothes in his name.
Not to sound morbid or anything but apart from his coma, I wonder what are the extent of his injuries (broken bones, etc...)...
He must've have lose some weight too....it's gonna take a long time to go back to where he was...I'm also wondering if he'll still be able to play...
let's fucking hope so.
Quote from: White Pwny on Jan 13, 2009, 01:57 PM
THe issue is, some people would like to hear the music that they worked on and may have completed prior to Chi getting injured. Do you think he wouldn't want us to want to listen? He's been in a coma for over 2 months now, when and if he does come out of it, he will need months and months of therapy to just be able to WALK. I'm as torn up over him being hurt as the next TRUE Deftones fan..... I will not accept that it's the end of the band, and I will not accept him not playing on stage again, at this point. Because I truly LOVE them. Aside from that... I have waited years to hear something new... and I STILL want to hear something new. It really sucks that this had to happen, but it does not change the fact that I know there is an album waiting to be released sometime this year named "EROS".
I admire that man for his beliefs and NUMBER ONE for his talent as a musician.... and fuckennay, I wanna hear it.
if that makes me an ass.... so be it.
well said. and no it doesnt make u an ass, this is a deftones page for deftones fans, of course we want to hear new stuff. nothing strange with that. we want chi to get better and we want to hear new stuff, yes u can actually think both! im tired of people pointing out certain persons as demons because u want to hear eros while chi is away
the truth is, it was their music that makes us care about chi in the first place. i really want to hear eros.
I don't really think the issue is with people not wanting the album to be released yet. I think it's more to do with understanding that the album probably won't come out when we thought it would and being fine with that since it's most likely the band's decision not to release it. I really want to hear new material too, but I'm fine with waiting until Chi has recovered if that's the case.
Quote from: aenemic on Jan 14, 2009, 01:26 AM
I really want to hear new material too, but I'm fine with waiting until Chi has recovered if that's the case.
+1 !!
June.
Quote from: pissedandpierced on Jan 14, 2009, 10:03 AM
June.
Is when he will wake up?
this is turning into an eros thread... :|
This is what happens when there are NO updates. None of us know anything!!! It's frustrating.
we need rumors...
chi >>>>>>> eros
Quote from: illmono on Jan 14, 2009, 05:43 PM
chi >>>>>>> eros
Uh.. No shit? No one is debating that.
ISO: Update.
New Blog.
Happy New Year everyone!! 2009 looks to be a busy year for us. So ready for it. Sure you are to. The past year and a half has had it ups and downs. And just want to thank all the family and friends that have been there for all of em. As always keep the positivity, well wishes, prayers, etc. for Chi coming. It definitely helps. Looking forward to reconvening with my band mates next week at the Spot! The Midnight Queen is calling...
Frank
Whaaaa?! With the band mates at the Spot?! Things that make ya go hmmmmmm. Sounds promising. But no real update on Chi!!! =o(
What does it all mean!? lol Anyway, sounds good.
But what about Chi....!? I really want to know how he is doing.... ???
the spot huh.... making new music maybe?
but chi is with them? It seems to be that he's ready for the jam! I hope this then!
Chi with them? i dont see where he said that. Chi's in a coma still
Quote from: White Pwny on Jan 14, 2009, 11:54 PM
Sounds promising. But no real update on Chi!!! =o(
i know, i want a good update, what Docters are doing to try & wake him up, & i really wanna know what happened, what caused the wreck, etc
still, in their recent blog entries both Chino and Frank seem happy and motivated, so I take that as a good sign and that they're sure Chi will be up and rocking soon.
Wasn't Chi sedated so he could stay in a coma longer?
Quote from: mr.sinister on Jan 15, 2009, 11:18 PM
Wasn't Chi sedated so he could stay in a coma longer?
i never heard that
That's totally unlikely.
Yes he WAS sedated for him to heal.
I read the doctor induced the coma so that he can rest and heal.
Didn't Abe say in an update that Chi was angry and wanted to get out of the hospital....with reading that I thought he was awake.
Ever since I heard what happened he's been in my thoughts...u'd never expect a band like Deftones with pretty much the original line up for like 15 yrs, for something like this to happen. While we have fags like Kevin Rudolph and Lil Wayne being considered "Rockstars". Why must all happen to the artists with Actual Talent?? Why can't some fuckers like Thriving Ivory have a tragedy. Though I don't wish anything bad towards anyone (whodoesntdeservit) BUT SHIT...It's only the good ones that get fukt.
Well I hope for a tremendous recovery..and may he be back with the boys on stage tearin shit up and release one of the baddest lp's they've made.
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Jan 16, 2009, 04:42 AM
That's totally unlikely.
far from it.
Quote from: juvenile on Jan 16, 2009, 07:39 AM
I read the doctor induced the coma so that he can rest and heal.
I read that too. In fact, most people in this thread probably read that.
My two pennies worth:
I am just plain confused. On the one hand, being in a coma for 2 and a half months is worrying. The lack of any meaningful updates even more so. But on the other hand, Frank's message brings a ray of light to this sad story. Because clearly the band is planning on forging ahead with a release schedule for the new album. And there is no way that they would be doing this if Chi wasn't going to be ok.
Although Chi's health is a private matter between his family and friends, I do feel that the lack of information about his condition is pretty unfair on the fanbase. Keeping us in the dark like this for over a month now is just not acceptable.
I agree, keeping us in the dark sucks.
To be honest, I love the 'tones, and I don't think they would be who they are without Chi. I can't wait for Eros, but when Chi (if) comes out of the coma and can't play I would rather him be alive than to never hear new deftones... I wish I never had to speak or write that last sentence.
I think the reason for the lack of updates on Chi is because there isn't anything to say. His condition is the same.
CHI WAKE UP, WE'RE BORED.
Knowing Deftones, Chi probably woke up like 2 weeks ago and still haven't mentioned shit about it. Still if doctors sedated him or induced a coma on him, doesn't that mean the doctors can wake him up whenever?
Quote from: mr.sinister on Jan 17, 2009, 08:47 PM
Knowing Deftones, Chi probably woke up like 2 weeks ago and still haven't mentioned shit about it. Still if doctors sedated him or induced a coma on him, doesn't that mean the doctors can wake him up whenever?
they can but it will be dangerous to Chi's health, if im not mistaken
Well, here's my prayer, I guess:
Chi, I hope you get well soon man, and I hope you continue rockin the bass for Deftones.
I have given myself the impression that Chi is actually awake and in a few weeks or so, Deftones will announce a gig and lo and behold Chi will be on stage and just walk out and say 'SURPRISE'.
that would be teh most awesome thing evar.
Quote from: pissedandpierced on Jan 18, 2009, 06:04 PM
I have given myself the impression that Chi is actually awake and in a few weeks or so, Deftones will announce a gig and lo and behold Chi will be on stage and just walk out and say 'SURPRISE'.
if it is gonna be a surprise.. who will they say will play base when they announce the gig`? fieldy ?
That idea is kinda cool but...cruel (for lack of a better word) somehow. If he's been indeed awake, many people have been left hanging and worrying about Chi so they should cut the "joke" asap.
Chi is still in a coma people. Just be patient.
Im sure Chi is still fightinig hard to come out of it.
he will come out of it!
what, the closet?
vørd
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Jan 18, 2009, 06:32 PM
Quote from: pissedandpierced on Jan 18, 2009, 06:04 PM
I have given myself the impression that Chi is actually awake and in a few weeks or so, Deftones will announce a gig and lo and behold Chi will be on stage and just walk out and say 'SURPRISE'.
if it is gonna be a surprise.. who will they say will play base when they announce the gig`? fieldy ?
nop... stef -bass, chino -guitars... they'll have setlist of really mellow songs, but 1st son will be Rats!x3 and Chi will jump to the stage immediately!... at least i hope it a lot....
that would be the awesomest thing ever.....
Quote from: defTHE1s on Jan 19, 2009, 07:56 PM
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Jan 18, 2009, 06:32 PM
Quote from: pissedandpierced on Jan 18, 2009, 06:04 PM
I have given myself the impression that Chi is actually awake and in a few weeks or so, Deftones will announce a gig and lo and behold Chi will be on stage and just walk out and say 'SURPRISE'.
if it is gonna be a surprise.. who will they say will play base when they announce the gig`? fieldy ?
nop... stef -bass, chino -guitars... they'll have setlist of really mellow songs, but 1st son will be Rats!x3 and Chi will jump to the stage immediately!... at least i hope it a lot....
sounds good to me :)
I get the impression Chi is coming in and out of consioucness...
Like he will decide to "wake up" ... but realises he needs to sleep more...so he drifts off again...
Then a day later..does the same thing, wakes up , realises his condition still has him feeling lethatrgic beyond resistance...so he drifts off again...this probably might happen until eventually he's like..hey im awake, i feel okay...i think i can stay awake for good...i think im done with the heeling process...get me a wet sponge nurse, a sixpack, and a pack of smokes...
Quote from: Jizzlobber on Jan 19, 2009, 09:18 PM
I get the impression Chi is coming in and out of consioucness...
Like he will decide to "wake up" ... but realises he needs to sleep more...so he drifts off again...
Then a day later..does the same thing, wakes up , realises his condition still has him feeling lethatrgic beyond resistance...so he drifts off again...this probably might happen until eventually he's like..hey im awake, i feel okay...i think i can stay awake for good...i think im done with the heeling process...get me a wet sponge nurse, a sixpack, and a pack of smokes...
lovin the theory...one can only hope that his current situation is similar
It's going to be 3 months soon... :-\ *sigh*
Yeah three months in a coma is pretty bad :/
eh y'all are just pessimistic, 3 months ain't shit you can be in a coma for years and years
y'all just need to be thankful he's still alive, i mean he was obviously just hanging on by a thread and pulled through and as far as we know he's not in any serious condition right now. time will tell...
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Jan 26, 2009, 08:20 AM
eh y'all are just pessimistic, 3 months ain't shit you can be in a coma for years and years
the longest someone ever been in a coma is 37 years.... now thats a long time!
Quote from: ilovechino69 on Jan 27, 2009, 02:55 PM
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Jan 26, 2009, 08:20 AM
eh y'all are just pessimistic, 3 months ain't shit you can be in a coma for years and years
the longest someone ever been in a coma is 37 years.... now thats a long time!
why are you so stupid?
I dont care if its been a month!
Chi should not be in this coma.
I slipped into a coma in first class alaska airlines wearing a deftones shirt!
About two years ago I was in San Jose, near where Chi got into the accident (Santa Clara). I took out old clients and freaked out when I got the bill for $6,000... I started poppin' pills like mad -- just my daliy routine due to a recent break up but this time I downed enough muscle relaxers, valium, and xanax to kill a rhino. I was out. About 30 hours after it I recall openning my eyes but I was still so drugged I couldn't speak or comprehend what the doctors were saying around me. Around hour 33 I was in a wheel chair and words were making sense... Alaska Airline wasn't sure who I was, some 23 year old, tattoo'd punk lookin' idiot, drugged out in first class -- they thought I was someone really really big so they carried my lifeless body all over Seattle airport -- calling people in my phone and asking who I was -- I don't know what they were thinking, but they thought I might sue I guess or didn't want the burden of someone famous dying on their plane...
To make a point, I'm still here, even though it was only 30 hours, 3 months is really starting to scare me. I hate to be a buzz kill, I feel like Chi will make it, but he is 38 and might retire. Honestly we shouldn't be talking about that just keep hoping for Chi to wake up...
incredible story.
and yeah 3 months... this is unreal...
Something tells me he's been awake and on the road to recovering. Deftones just don't want to spill the beans. They never give away too much detail on anything if you've noticed whether it be Chi or new music. They might want to wait til he's way better to break anything with an official statement. Frank's last post seemed to be pretty optimistic and he only mentioned one line about people giving support for Chi, nothing regarding his status.
That's kinda what I was hoping... When I was in a coma they strip you naked, so clean up is easier for them -- thankfully I didn't need to go, but I maybe in Chi's situation he has a beard, is messy, is kind of awake but couldn't deal with a fan -- so maybe they are waiting until he is farting around before he says anything.
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Jan 29, 2009, 04:56 AM
That's kinda what I was hoping... When I was in a coma they strip you naked, so clean up is easier for them -- thankfully I didn't need to go, but I maybe in Chi's situation he has a beard, is messy, is kind of awake but couldn't deal with a fan -- so maybe they are waiting until he is farting around before he says anything.
what happen to you to be in a coma if you don't mind me asking?
nothing new?? :o
Quote from: defmark87 on Jan 29, 2009, 04:46 AM
Something tells me he's been awake and on the road to recovering. Deftones just don't want to spill the beans. They never give away too much detail on anything if you've noticed whether it be Chi or new music. They might want to wait til he's way better to break anything with an official statement. Frank's last post seemed to be pretty optimistic and he only mentioned one line about people giving support for Chi, nothing regarding his status.
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Jan 29, 2009, 04:56 AM
That's kinda what I was hoping... When I was in a coma they strip you naked, so clean up is easier for them -- thankfully I didn't need to go, but I maybe in Chi's situation he has a beard, is messy, is kind of awake but couldn't deal with a fan -- so maybe they are waiting until he is farting around before he says anything.
yes
and yes.
there was some hint to this theory...
Quote from: ilovechino69 on Jan 29, 2009, 05:02 AM
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Jan 29, 2009, 04:56 AM
That's kinda what I was hoping... When I was in a coma they strip you naked, so clean up is easier for them -- thankfully I didn't need to go, but I maybe in Chi's situation he has a beard, is messy, is kind of awake but couldn't deal with a fan -- so maybe they are waiting until he is farting around before he says anything.
what happen to you to be in a coma if you don't mind me asking?
My body had such a high tolerance to drugs that instead of over-dosing, I just slipped into a coma. I wrote about it on the first post of this page (45).
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Jan 29, 2009, 03:27 AM
I slipped into a coma in first class alaska airlines wearing a deftones shirt!
About two years ago I was in San Jose, near where Chi got into the accident (Santa Clara). I took out old clients and freaked out when I got the bill for $6,000... I started poppin' pills like mad -- just my daliy routine due to a recent break up but this time I downed enough muscle relaxers, valium, and xanax to kill a rhino. I was out. About 30 hours after it I recall openning my eyes but I was still so drugged I couldn't speak or comprehend what the doctors were saying around me. Around hour 33 I was in a wheel chair and words were making sense... Alaska Airline wasn't sure who I was, some 23 year old, tattoo'd punk lookin' idiot, drugged out in first class -- they thought I was someone really really big so they carried my lifeless body all over Seattle airport -- calling people in my phone and asking who I was -- I don't know what they were thinking, but they thought I might sue I guess or didn't want the burden of someone famous dying on their plane...
Moron.
yeah few days ago i notice he already told... sorry
Quote from: sleeptraveler on Jan 30, 2009, 06:42 PM
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Jan 29, 2009, 03:27 AM
I slipped into a coma in first class alaska airlines wearing a deftones shirt!
About two years ago I was in San Jose, near where Chi got into the accident (Santa Clara). I took out old clients and freaked out when I got the bill for $6,000... I started poppin' pills like mad -- just my daliy routine due to a recent break up but this time I downed enough muscle relaxers, valium, and xanax to kill a rhino. I was out. About 30 hours after it I recall openning my eyes but I was still so drugged I couldn't speak or comprehend what the doctors were saying around me. Around hour 33 I was in a wheel chair and words were making sense... Alaska Airline wasn't sure who I was, some 23 year old, tattoo'd punk lookin' idiot, drugged out in first class -- they thought I was someone really really big so they carried my lifeless body all over Seattle airport -- calling people in my phone and asking who I was -- I don't know what they were thinking, but they thought I might sue I guess or didn't want the burden of someone famous dying on their plane...
Moron.
Yeah, no shit it was stupid. But to call me a moron, go fuck yourself faggot!!!
I've learned from my mistakes and try to convey the message so other can learn from it too, what have you ever done!?
Fuck off. Die.
(http://i151.photobucket.com/albums/s160/p0ke_me/no20u.jpg)
:-\
owned
Quote from: juvenile on Jan 30, 2009, 09:36 PM
owned
Hahaha, what? How the hell was that owned... Jump on the band-wagon why don't you... I bet you're a hot topic little bitch. You realize I could phyiscally beat the shit out of you right? ;)
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Jan 30, 2009, 10:04 PM
Quote from: juvenile on Jan 30, 2009, 09:36 PM
owned
Hahaha, what? How the hell was that owned... Jump on the band-wagon why don't you... I bet you're a hot topic little bitch. You realize I could phyiscally beat the shit out of you right? ;)
Hey relax man, you're getting too defensive. I think this guy was ruling in your favor anyways, and you're misreading his comment. Besides that lets keep all the shit beatings and name callings to any other topic but this one (I mean it really doesn't belong anywhere, but you know what I mean). C'mon Chi, you've gotta be tired of that bed, it's time to get up now--we love you man.
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Jan 30, 2009, 10:04 PM
Quote from: juvenile on Jan 30, 2009, 09:36 PM
owned
Hahaha, what? How the hell was that owned... Jump on the band-wagon why don't you... I bet you're a hot topic little bitch. You realize I could phyiscally beat the shit out of you right? ;)
If you mean all this, you're pathetic.
Now you call me pathetic, I've never seen a positive or insightful reply from you. PIss off.
I tried to make a reply to Chi's condition which had relation to a period of my life, which I shared with you all. I am sorry this page got sour, however I have all the right to defend myself when dumb noobs say stupid crap.
I am sorry, but drugging yourself up like Amy Winehouse is in no way related to Chi being in a car accident.
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Jan 29, 2009, 03:27 AM
I downed enough muscle relaxers, valium, and xanax to kill a rhino.
youre stronger than a rhino?
haha come on guys this about chi
Quote from: Penicks on Jan 31, 2009, 11:12 AM
I am sorry, but drugging yourself up like Amy Winehouse is in no way related to Chi being in a car accident.
You're in idiot, I was in a coma...
Hey Guys (and girls)
There is a myspace page that I created in the name of Chi, where everyone can go and post comments, send messages, create photos, and send love to Chi Cheng and his family.
The page is growing, we have a lot of support and we know the messages will get to him when he's awake again :)
Message me if you want to add us and I'll give you the address.
♥
Thanks for reading.
Lotion.♥
Hey Guys (and girls)
There is a myspace page that I created in the name of Chi, where everyone can go and post comments, send messages, create photos, and send love to Chi Cheng and his family.
The page is growing, we have Chi's family and friends support, (and a message from Chino) and we know the messages will get to him when he's awake again Smiley
If you want to add the page, send me a message for the address.
♥
Thanks for reading.
Lotion.♥
Hey, great page! The profile pic is awesome, never saw that one before. Sending my request right now...
Quote from: lotion on Jan 31, 2009, 09:24 PM
Hey Guys (and girls)
There is a myspace page that I created in the name of Chi, where everyone can go and post comments, send messages, create photos, and send love to Chi Cheng and his family.
The page is growing, we have Chi's family and friends support, (and a message from Chino) and we know the messages will get to him when he's awake again :)
Add us at www.myspace.com/deftonesgirlsforchi
♥
Thanks for reading.
Lotion.♥
Where is the msg from Chino... I thought he deleted his myspace account a long time ago.
Nope, he definitely still has one :) I'm friends with Chi's sister and a few of his friends on the page, I found out what Chino's myspace was and sent him a message. Friends can see it if they ask too, I had it posted in a blog for a little while but have taken it down now. It's a personal thing really but everyones free to see it if they want to. :)
http://ibasports.com/iba/p4449.html
Get Well Chi
Quote from: lotion on Feb 01, 2009, 10:52 AM
Nope, he definitely still has one :) I'm friends with Chi's sister and a few of his friends on the page, I found out what Chino's myspace was and sent him a message. Friends can see it if they ask too, I had it posted in a blog for a little while but have taken it down now. It's a personal thing really but everyones free to see it if they want to. :)
If you're friends with Chi's sister, then can you please give us an update on his condition? We have recieved virtually no news for over a month.
yeah a little insider scoop...
Yeah sure (note I'm not a personal friend of Chi's sister, I live in the UK but met her through the myspace page)
Chi is still asleep and there hasn't been much change. His family and friends are with him all day,every day - I know from speaking to them that this is a very difficult and painful time for them, so I don't want to pry, ask them questions, mainly out of respect for Chi and them.
I've seen the post from Chino and it was a really nice and personal one. I'm on Deftones Girls for Chi Cheng. I don't think anyone would intrude on his family at the moment though. I'd like an update as well but an official one
I really am not sure now its been so long im wondering wether Chi's gunna pull through its bin soo long now
At least that will putt those "He's been awake, but they didn't tell cos'..." blabla rumors to rest, that's wishful thinking and it's understandable but we got to face the facts and be realistic, Chi is still in a coma and he still needs our help and prayers.
Can someone please copy and paste the quote from Chino then!!!?
I'm friends with his g/f Risa and Chino has no myspace page. Please prove me wrong.
If it's really that important to you, I will forward you the message if you have a myspace.
I don't know why I need to prove myself really to be honest, it was a reply to a personal message about Chi that I sent to him so you won't even grasp what his response is anyway..
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Feb 02, 2009, 04:31 AM
Chino has no myspace page. Please prove me wrong.
I think that Chino's username is ~MASTERMIND~. He's on the top friends list of Deftones and Team Sleep
Quote from: lotion on Feb 02, 2009, 10:21 AM
If it's really that important to you, I will forward you the message if you have a myspace.
I don't know why I need to prove myself really to be honest, it was a reply to a personal message about Chi that I sent to him so you won't even grasp what his response is anyway..
why you deleted your SL account?
Quote from: lotion on Feb 02, 2009, 10:21 AM
If it's really that important to you, I will forward you the message if you have a myspace.
I don't know why I need to prove myself really to be honest, it was a reply to a personal message about Chi that I sent to him so you won't even grasp what his response is anyway..
I just want to read the quote... That's all. I'm not saying you're a lair.
dnt ya mean liar
I'm a lair. Sharks with lazers and all that shit.
"Lair"
Quote from: dictatesofreason on Feb 03, 2009, 05:07 PM
dnt ya mean liar
Don't you mean "don't", and ya - "you". Kind of stupid to point out a typo when... Ah, nevermind.
With the announcement of our appearance on Bamboozle, we felt like its time to address some things.
First, Chi.
Our fallen comrade has not made significant progress as of late, but continues to fight on from his accident. Doctors are working feverishly to return our brother to us, and we continue to hold out hope and faith that Chi returns to the life he has waiting for him and can join us on stage once again.
For everyone that knows Chi, knows that he never wanted down time. Chialways wanted to keep working and never slow down, which is why we feel confident in returning to the stage at Bamboozle in April. Chi would want it, and we want to make sure we're keeping his legacy alive.
Back in 1999, Chi had to leave the band for a brief moment and our closefriend Sergio Vega filled in to keep the train moving. 10 years later, Sergio is going to step in once again while Chi is down. Sergio is family to us, and had received Chi's blessing before, so without a doubt we know that if Chi could tell us now, he would give us his blessing again.
In the meantime, we continue work on our record, and as for Bamboozle, we felt like we needed to poke our heads up for a quick breath before we buckle down and get this record finished... So we'll see you all in Irvine.
-Deftones
thank god for some kind of update. while it's not necessarily good news regarding Chi, I'm glad they keep going and try to get the record done. who knows, maybe they need to keep playing to get their minds off of this shit...
Well, at least I will get to see most of the 'tones again. I still wish he would WAKE UP!
yeah, maybe if they keep busy, time will pass fast and when they least expect it, Chi will be with them all healthy!
i got a feeling chi going awake up before this show
fuck, at least an update!....well, chi is strong, come on!
Quote from: AZDEFTONESFAN on Dec 20, 2008, 06:20 AM
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Nov 22, 2008, 05:40 PM
A sandwich walks into a bar, the bartender says, "get out! We don't serve food here!"
A termite walks into a bar, looks at the guy behind the counter and says "Is the bar tender here?"
Hahah, funny.
Goddam!!! Cheer up guys and gals! Chi is coming back!!!
Saturday, February 07, 2009
Chi Cheng Update
We just want to let all of you know that your thoughts and prayers are being heard!
We would like to give all you well wishers some great news
Chi is moving his hands and feet and lifting his legs. Also his trac-tube has come out today! Hopefully he will start talking very soon! We have also been told that he has even tried to get out of his chair. (He's a fighter!), this card will be one of the first things that he will be shown to him when he wakes up all the way.....
So, Keep those good thoughts, prayers and well wishes coming.
(All of your Positive Energy helps.)
Heads-up would like to say thank you for all your comments and support! ....
We would like to say a special thank-you to the Cheng family for sharing this wonderful news
Is this for real? Because 2 days ago he was still in a coma.
I read it there: http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=431307774&blogID=469148591
Holy smokes, great fuckin' news.
Oh so it's a reliable source then? That's some good shit.
So masturrbating on pics of Chi DID work after all!
Amazing!
That better be true ;D ;D!!!
Great News - Read it somewhere else with some more info like
Chi heard the request from his dad and moved his upper lip as stated the other day. His Dad tested his tendon reflexes and both his legs were moving. The doctors are still optimistic about the healing process and there´s still very positive energy in the hospital. Some of the Docs are pleased for their efforts to get some free tickets for the next Deftones show cuz some of the doctors outed as deftones fans. The authorized doctor said that there will be a long rehibilitation but Chi will likely be able to play Bass again. Mrs. Cheng thanks every Fan for his/her enormous condolence and promises updates in the feature. Then something on the luck they had with the 3 medics that were next to them when the accident happened - without them their chances would have been dramatically low to survive it.
Translated from Laut.de hope it helps to clarify it a bit more.
Cheers and Good News :)
YES!FUCK YES!
Quote from: M1GHTY M4VS on Feb 07, 2009, 05:33 PM
Great News - Read it somewhere else with some more info like
Chi heard the request from his dad and moved his upper lip as stated the other day. His Dad tested his tendon reflexes and both his legs were moving. The doctors are still optimistic about the healing process and there´s still very positive energy in the hospital. Some of the Docs are pleased for their efforts to get some free tickets for the next Deftones show cuz some of the doctors outed as deftones fans. The authorized doctor said that there will be a long rehibilitation but Chi will likely be able to play Bass again. Mrs. Cheng thanks every Fan for his/her enormous condolence and promises updates in the feature. Then something on the luck they had with the 3 medics that were next to them when the accident happened - without them their chances would have been dramatically low to survive it.
Translated from Laut.de hope it helps to clarify it a bit more.
Cheers and Good News :)
I'm 99% sure this is an old update, I remember reading a message virtually word for word like this one. I'll have a look through the blogs on my Myspace, as I've posted all official updates there.
Anyway - GREAT NEWS!!! :) :) :)
Chi is responding to movement but not cognitive yet, or so I heard. This made me so happy and I hope it's a really good sign!
:)
QuoteMonday, November 10, 2008
Chi Update 11/9/08 (Part 2)
Hello Everyone,
I just had the pleasure of speaking with Chi's mother. She, as well as the entire Cheng family, would again like to thank you for all your love and support and knows God is healing Chi because of your prayers, love and good work.
This Sunday saw the first signs of your prayers in action. Chi was able to hear and respond to his father's request to move his lower lip. His father also administered a tendon reflex test, of which both legs responded with movement. Doctors continue to remain optimistic, and the energy at the hospital remains very positive.
The family would also like to send a special thank you out to the three off duty EMTs that stopped shortly after the accident and saved Chi's life. It was by the Grace of God that these three individuals happened to be traveling on the road with medical gear in tow at the time of the accident. If not for them, the chances of Chi making to the hospital alive would have been poor.
Please, keep your prayers, thoughts, and love coming!
Yeah, this was an old update. Still good though! :)
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!
wait. thats real old...
Quote from: Penicks on Feb 07, 2009, 04:34 PM
Is this for real? Because 2 days ago he was still in a coma.
You are the dumbest mother fucker on this forum. Wow you're retarded. Chi is making more sense than you right now.
Don't mix up old and "new" news. Check this page: www.myspace.com/headupchi it's the only page reporting the info for the moment but they seem pretty reliable (apparently in contact with Chi's family) and I'm sure there'll be an update to confirm this on Deftones' blog or myspace.
Quote from: Sugartolove on Feb 07, 2009, 06:30 PM
Yeah, this was an old update. Still good though! :)
Ohh your right my bad anyways atleast Chi is doing better, ignore my stupidence ;)
Quote from: M1GHTY M4VS on Feb 07, 2009, 06:44 PM
Quote from: Sugartolove on Feb 07, 2009, 06:30 PM
Yeah, this was an old update. Still good though! :)
...ignore my stupidence ;)
Done. Is that a real word?
I like it... so it should be.
I'm going to start making T-shirts that say 'I'm with stupidence'.
< - Billionaire
I am not trying to hijack this thread.. but making up words fucking rocks.
i hate words
That's fucking great news.
holy shit!!! amazing newss =:::)!!!!
HELL MOTHERFUCKING YEAH!
Great News =D
alright
hell be havin a beer next weekend
Quote from: dictatesofreason on Feb 07, 2009, 11:23 PM
hell be havin a beer next weekend
;D
i love u dude....you and chi
great news! go Cheng, go!
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Feb 07, 2009, 06:39 PM
Quote from: Penicks on Feb 07, 2009, 04:34 PM
Is this for real? Because 2 days ago he was still in a coma.
You are the dumbest mother fucker on this forum. Wow you're retarded. Chi is making more sense than you right now.
at least i don't suck dick, m8
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Awesome to hear. Oh man, he heard they were playing without him and knew it was time to wake up and show everyone how it's done. Way to go Chi--we love you man!
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: Penicks on Feb 08, 2009, 02:08 AM
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Feb 07, 2009, 06:39 PM
Quote from: Penicks on Feb 07, 2009, 04:34 PM
Is this for real? Because 2 days ago he was still in a coma.
You are the dumbest mother fucker on this forum. Wow you're retarded. Chi is making more sense than you right now.
at least i don't suck dick, m8
Wow, nice come back PENICKS! You're the board dumbass, you know how retarded everyone thinks you are... I would just leave dude, you are making a fool of yourself.
::)
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Feb 08, 2009, 03:34 AM
Quote from: Penicks on Feb 08, 2009, 02:08 AM
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Feb 07, 2009, 06:39 PM
Quote from: Penicks on Feb 07, 2009, 04:34 PM
Is this for real? Because 2 days ago he was still in a coma.
You are the dumbest mother fucker on this forum. Wow you're retarded. Chi is making more sense than you right now.
at least i don't suck dick, m8
Wow, nice come back PENICKS! You're the board dumbass, you know how retarded everyone thinks you are... I would just leave dude, you making a fool of yourself.
Stop being confrontational 13, you started it this time. And again, if you want to do it, please don't do it here. The newest update was calling for positive energy--bring that here. I know you have respect for Chi, so please show some.
Much respect,
-Matt
This is amazing news! lets not fight brothers,
Thank God for this slow miracle.
wind your fucking necks in you bunch of three year olds
Great news!
I'm sure its true. Chi's been in that coma for so long he had to progress for the better. I'm sure any day now we will get great news from the band about chi's health!
i'm still waiting for an official blog post.
Oh, he's that guy? lol
laugh out loud... ;D
I'm sorry, who are you?
(Glad to hear at least an update about Chi)
Here's a message from Chi's mother Jeanne, lost in all the positive replies to the original message I posted earlier (just look around it's there):
"It hurt me to stop doing the updates and the daily deeds. It was such a simple thing and made the world a better place. I thank every lovely one of you for doing these good works for Chi and for all of us. Anyway, it was felt that I was getting too personal and I am still trying to get my web site up. Back to Chi. I will try to be more specific. These three months have been very difficult and it has been two steps forward and one step back. It has taken so much strength to beat pneumonia four times, collapsed lungs, numerous infections including meningitis, brain surgery....shall I go on? Your prayers and God's faithfulness are the biggest reason that he is still here and fighting. And he is starting to move his hands some of the time and his feet and legs some of the time. It is progress and he isn't giving up. And I do let him know daily that you all are praying and sending him love. Our love goes back to you, as always! Jeanne"
and an other one:
"Please allow me to clarify the improvement/no improvement issue. If I had posted on the Deftones page, it would have mentioned that his trac tube was due to be removed. In point of fact, it came out about 6PM last night. The doctors do consider this to be progress. I wish it could be said that Chi was up and doing the happy dance, but not at all yet. He is still in a coma part of the time and part of the time he can look at us and work to move his foot and leg a few inches off of the bed. We, his family, are happy for these small victories. It is a marathon, not a sprint."
Holy shit, I had no idea Chi was dealing with all that... Fuck me running.
Maybe it's best he is not awake.
I just hope the best.
It's so good to hear that there's some progress.
Let's try and keep the arguing to a minimum. In this thread at least.
I know, I'm sorry, as I said above no more will come from me...
Best of thoughts to ya Chi.
"brain surgery"
!!!
Yep...he must have lost his mane and those brain surgery scars usually don't look too good...
Edit...
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Feb 09, 2009, 01:27 AM
Holy shit, I had no idea Chi was dealing with all that... Fuck me running.
Maybe it's best he is not awake.
I just hope the best.
yeah dude im not ashamed to admit my eyes welled up when i read all that stuff...you think its just a coma then its collapsing lungs, and infections and brain surgery...wow..
that hurt to read that..Pray for strength, sacrifice yourselves in Chi's name..he IS getting better!
Wow. Just wow. Kinda knocked back by this news...and that said, this is legit right?
It seems it is. Like I said I only saw that news there: www.myspace.com/headupchi it's on their blog and Jeanne even posted the commentaries I copy/pasted earlier there.
pneumonia is a killer in a feeble state of health..
wheww
Good great fucking awesome news!!!!
I knew it! He's fighting hard, he'll get up as soon as possible!!!
;D ;D
Quote from: Timmy666 on Feb 09, 2009, 02:57 AM
"brain surgery"
!!!
:-X
and all that ugly things Jeanne said... and not only in coma! Well, he's a true fighter if he has been through that and is still alive!! hell yeah!!
great news! thanks for the update!
Quote from: Timmy666 on Feb 09, 2009, 02:57 AM
"brain surgery"
!!!
Chi is God. He even dodged having brain surgery! This is great fuckin' news.
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Feb 09, 2009, 01:27 AM
Holy shit, I had no idea Chi was dealing with all that...
me neither man.. thats scary!
he is on the fight!
thank christ
yeah the respiratory issue its a main concern
head up chi head UP
Please rest, Chi, so you can come back, happy, healthy, and ready. All my love, hope and prayers are with you, with your beautiful family and with Deftones.
"We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars."
- Oscar Wilde -
** New email from Chi's aunt **
"Pass this on....everyone should stop what they are doing tomorrow, Wednesday, Feb. 18th and pray for Chi to wake up from his coma.
Thank you"
Heard from 'Get well soon Chi Cheng' myspace.
I will pray for Chi. Please everyone else do the same
Of course! :)
C'mon Chi, your family needs you, we need you...
we're like your second family!
Head Up Chi!
Far beyond a visible sign of your awakening
Hiding from some poisoned memory
update from Jonah Matranga:
QuoteWent and saw Chi yesterday, sung into his ear quietly and held him. His limbs were being manipulated by a physical therapist. His mom, brother and a couple friends were there. He looked at me, it seemed. I sung him to sleep, he snored sweetly. He looked more alive than I thought he would. That was encouraging, sad and scary, all at once. I think it was a trick of perception. I have no idea where he is medically-speaking, but I'm pretty sure it's not good in the way we normally think of 'good'. Oh, life.
Encouraging, sad, and scary. Pretty much sums up all the news we've been getting lately. Love you Chi, stay strong.
Much respect,
-Matt
That was really sad. I still can't believe this has happened.
Quote from: pillswithwine on Feb 24, 2009, 10:28 PM
That was really sad. I still can't believe this has happened.
Yeah mang... :-[
Pretty much what Chi's mother said, it is back and forth between days where he seems to get better and making progress and others where his health and condition stagnate. This must be nerve wracking for the family.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
A Message From Chi's Mother - Jeanne
It hurt me to stop doing the updates and the daily deeds. It was such a simple thing and made the world a better place. I thank every lovely one of you for doing these good works for Chi and for all of us. Anyway, it was felt that I was getting too personal and I am still trying to get my web site up
About Chi
I don't want to paint a picture that is not what it is. I don't want to have anyone think things are rosier than they are. But we know that he is here for a reason and truly have faith that when his brain is healed, he will wake fully.
I will try to be more specific. These three months have been very difficult and it has been two steps forward and one step back. It has taken so much strength to beat pneumonia four times, collapsed lungs, numerous infections including meningitis, brain surgery. shall I go on?
Your prayers and God's faithfulness are the biggest reason that he is still here and fighting. And he is starting to move his hands some of the time and his feet and legs some of the time. It is progress and he isn't giving up. And I do let him know daily that you all are praying and sending him love.
- Our love goes back to you, as always! Jeanne.
Quote from: White Pwny on Feb 25, 2009, 02:02 PM
These three months have been very difficult and it has been two steps forward and one step back. It has taken so much strength to beat pneumonia four times, collapsed lungs, numerous infections including meningitis, brain surgery. shall I go on?
Your prayers and God's faithfulness are the biggest reason that he is still here and fighting. And he is starting to move his hands some of the time and his feet and legs some of the time. It is progress and he isn't giving up. And I do let him know daily that you all are praying and sending him love.
- Our love goes back to you, as always! Jeanne.
I've read this part before... thanks anyway!!... btw, where it was posted? deftones blog? myspace?
yeah myspace.
Oh Chi... :(
brain surgery!? fuck hell.
Good to read a new update, even if it's not as rosy indeed as everyone hopes. Still. Movement. Beating the sickness, the surfery. Hopefull.
Will continue to do the good deeds that we've got so far. Last week I gave some more clothes away. Got to keep the positive feel going.
please chi, u can. praying for your health bro
i kind of assumed that brain surgery had taken place on some level....but i had no clue he was dealing with all of those different infections, motherfucker is a fighter. i'd think that one case of pneumonia while in a coma would be more than enough to take someone out and Chi has overcome it 4 TIMES!
something tells me that Chi has a purpose on this planet that hasn't been fulfilled yet
...keep up the fight and you'll pull through eventually bro
love you chi.
you were always my favorite.
Last night wearing a seat belt saved my life, I was a passenger in my best friends car. We went round a county bend and the car lost control, the car swerved and spun round. The next thing I know is the car went on to a verge and rolled on to it's side which I was sitting on, my immediate thought was 'I'm going to die' as I saw a tree in front of us. I don't know if I blacked out but I can't remember the car landing back on it's wheel's. I saw my best mate move but I was too scared to look at him incase something had happened. The next thing was he placed his hand on my leg and looked at me in shocked and asked if I was ok. The side of the car was flattened, the window was smashed and so was the back window. The car door wouldn't open and I started to panic. The car is a write off. When the police, fire brigade and paramedics turned up, they were so shocked and suprised that we were ok and able to have walked away from it. My only injury is a achey neck. My best mate kept saying sorry and as the car rolled, he just saw my face next to the grass and the look on my face, but it wasn't his fault. The police think there was black ice on the road. It was a total freak accident and it feels so surreal. Just remember to wear a fucking seat belt.
damn, I'm glad you and your friend are ok. sounds cary as hell...
I never get in a car without putting my seatbelt on. I blame it on good parenting.
glad you and your friend are ok.!
I put the seatbelt always I'm on a car... but i travel a lot in bus, and those fucker drivers sometimes drive as maddogs!! fuck them!!! >:( >:(
fuck...i was coming home from work feeling great.. ready to enjoy the rest of my afternoon when on came the radio...........
[youtube=425,350]DNT7uZf7lew [/youtube]
and i thought of the first time i met Chi and he told me thats one of his fav songs...
get better brother
(http://img12.imageshack.us/img12/8306/chik.jpg)
were all wishing for the best
Chi :)
wats the deal
any updates on chi?
hello everyone,
my name is gina blackmore. i put up a site: .............. for chi cheng's mother jeanne so we could start helping raise funds for him online. chi's brother ming has started helping me promoting it on myspace.. and jeanne called me tonight and gave me the go ahead to start promoting it online.. i just wanted to ask everyone to please post one of the banners available on..........on your myspace page..or on here and maybe post a bulletin or blog on myspace/facebook etc.. to help in getting the word out and start promoting it in any way you can.
see... chi's insurance has ran out but the bills keep coming in. chi is making progress but needs as much therapy as he can get - and that costs money. the bills this family is facing are astronomical to say the least. this is our chance to show chi our support and give back to someone who has given us so much via music.
any way you can help is very much appreciated. there is also a family blog that chi's brother ming will be updating. he has already made one post (great read). i will also be adding an update directly from chi's mother within the next day or two... and will continue to update that blog with news on chi and his recovery.
let's all unite and show this sweet family how much we care about our brother chi.
thanks in advance.
blessings, :)
gina
if this is just a way to make you rich, you must be one of the most unmoral persons on the planet
awesome
way to assume.
srsly it could be a fake and we just pay gina`s next holidays...
you really think so huh
i have no idea.
what i know is the inner logic of capitalism.
i would spend if chino would post on myspace.
btw: american health system sucks really hard.
Quote from: Nailec on Mar 18, 2009, 04:29 PM
i have no idea.
what i know is the inner logic of capitalism.
i would spend if chino would post on myspace.
btw: american health system sucks really hard.
correct
correct
and correct again!
Quote from: Nailec on Mar 18, 2009, 04:09 PM
if this is just a way to make you rich, you must be one of the most unmoral persons on the planet
you have got to be kidding. if you take the time to read the site you would see that i know his mom, brother.. i even know chi. i am doing this because i care about the family and chi and am trying to help them out. they have alot on their plate.
gina blackmore
sorry, but i'm not donating anything until this is at least on deftones' official blog or their myspace.
just sayin'.
ya ok - i understand. i will talk to ming and jeanne..
thanks.
cool web site...im right there...i really would like to donate somethn..
i dunno.... are the little man going to pay for rock stars hospital bills? they've been famous for like 20 years, surely there got to be some money somewhere else than in our wallets? will they pay for my bills if im injured? deftones and crew can sponsor these bills. drop eros and pay for it
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Mar 18, 2009, 05:50 PM
i dunno.... are the little man going to pay for rock stars hospital bills? they've been famous for like 20 years, surely there got to be some money somewhere else than in our wallets? will they pay for my bills if im injured? deftones and crew can sponsor these bills. drop eros and pay for it
read the post from ming, chi's brother. there is no money - just debt. the first hospital he was in was $2000 per day. the one he is in now is $400 a day... and that is just the room.. not including medical expenses. his wheel chair alone was over $6000.. the insurance has stopped paying. READ:
gina
i just threw in 11$ :)
Quote from: Hidalgo on Mar 18, 2009, 06:00 PM
i just through in 11$ :)
thanks.. every little bit helps. when chi wakes we are giving him the list of all the supporters with email addresses. his mom told me he said 'mom' twice the other day. it's slow progress... but it is progress.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: bIondie on Mar 18, 2009, 05:06 PM
sorry, but i'm not donating anything until this is at least on deftones' official blog or their myspace.
just sayin'.
that would be a good place to promote this thing too. lots of people could see it there, & they could blog about it. so lots more people could help
Quote from: Hidalgo on Mar 18, 2009, 06:51 PM
Quote from: bIondie on Mar 18, 2009, 05:06 PM
sorry, but i'm not donating anything until this is at least on deftones' official blog or their myspace.
just sayin'.
that would be a good place to promote this thing too. lots of people could see it there, & they could blog about it. so lots more people could help
ya - i know. i just let chi's brother know to make that happen.. and i will call his mom about it tonight. i emailed chino about it too.
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Mar 18, 2009, 05:59 PM
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Mar 18, 2009, 05:50 PM
i dunno.... are the little man going to pay for rock stars hospital bills? they've been famous for like 20 years, surely there got to be some money somewhere else than in our wallets? will they pay for my bills if im injured? deftones and crew can sponsor these bills. drop eros and pay for it
read the post from ming, chi's brother. there is no money - just debt. the first hospital he was in was $2000 per day. the one he is in now is $400 a day... and that is just the room.. not including medical expenses. his wheel chair alone was over $6000.. the insurance has stopped paying. READ: http://oneloveforchi.blogspot.com/2009/03/sorry-about-weather.html (http://oneloveforchi.blogspot.com/2009/03/sorry-about-weather.html)
gina
woah a wheelchair!
can you update us more on his condition!?? this wold mean alot to the board!
Quote from: wither-I on Mar 18, 2009, 07:21 PM
woah a wheelchair!
can you update us more on his condition!?? this wold mean alot to the board!
sure. well as you may have read from other posts our dear chi has been thru alot.. but he is a fighter.. and as his mom told me on the phone last night.. if he was meant to leave us it would have already happened. he has had progress although it is slow.. it is still progress. she (jeanne/mom) is sending me a "personal letter to everyone" that i will post everywhere i can. she isn't much into computers and lord knows she has enough to do - so i will be helping her in keeping everyone more frequently updated on how he is doing.
jeanne said that he responds really well to ming, chi's older brother. he can get chi to respond to requests to move, open eyes etc. the other day jeanne had to leave chi to go run some errands and she told him that she would be back but if he wanted her to stay a bit longer to open his eyes... and he opened his eyes. so he hears and understands. he has said 'mom' a few times. he has sat up in the bed and opened his eyes and looks right at her... so many little progressions... it will take time.. but we will be here to welcome him back.
so our prayers and well wishes are working...
i will post more here as i get news.
blessings,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Mar 18, 2009, 07:36 PM
jeanne said that he responds really well to ming, chi's older brother. he can get chi to respond to requests to move, open eyes etc. the other day jeanne had to leave chi to go run some errands and she told him that she would be back but if he wanted her to stay a bit longer to open his eyes... and he opened his eyes. so he hears and understands. he has said 'mom' a few times. he has sat up in the bed and opened his eyes and looks right at her... so many little progressions... it will take time.. but we will be here to welcome him back.
so our prayers and well wishes are working...
i will post more here as i get news.
blessings,
gina
great news. my best wishes are always with him.
Good news little improvements are what count right now. I'm gonna donate some cash as well.
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Mar 18, 2009, 07:36 PM
Quote from: wither-I on Mar 18, 2009, 07:21 PM
woah a wheelchair!
can you update us more on his condition!?? this wold mean alot to the board!
sure. well as you may have read from other posts our dear chi has been thru alot.. but he is a fighter.. and as his mom told me on the phone last night.. if he was meant to leave us it would have already happened. he has had progress although it is slow.. it is still progress. she (jeanne/mom) is sending me a "personal letter to everyone" that i will post everywhere i can. she isn't much into computers and lord knows she has enough to do - so i will be helping her in keeping everyone more frequently updated on how he is doing.
jeanne said that he responds really well to ming, chi's older brother. he can get chi to respond to requests to move, open eyes etc. the other day jeanne had to leave chi to go run some errands and she told him that she would be back but if he wanted her to stay a bit longer to open his eyes... and he opened his eyes. so he hears and understands. he has said 'mom' a few times. he has sat up in the bed and opened his eyes and looks right at her... so many little progressions... it will take time.. but we will be here to welcome him back.
so our prayers and well wishes are working...
i will post more here as i get news.
blessings,
gina
amazing. this makes me smile. :)
ya - it is amazing all that he has survived. his mom is soooo appreciative of all of us and our support/prayers. she is an amazing woman. so the next thing we want to do is start gathering recordings of everyone who wants to send a get well wish via voice and make a compilation CD so his mom and sister mae (equally amazing woman!) can play it for chi. i will let you all know when we start this and how you can submit your recordings.
i will keep you all posted.
blessings,
gina
http://www.myspace.com/ginablackmore (http://www.myspace.com/ginablackmore)
just a mind-experiment.
what would happen if there was no money? would doctoes turn off all the things that keep him alive? what about the Hipporatic Oath?
its freaking murder if they do that.
^ Nah that is illegal. They cant do that. But they still have to pay their medical expenses one way or the other.
Quote from: Nailec on Mar 18, 2009, 09:12 PM
just a mind-experiment.
what would happen if there was no money? would doctoes turn off all the things that keep him alive? what about the Hipporatic Oath?
its freaking murder if they do that.
right now chi only has a feeding tube.. that's it.
They won't turn anything off they'll transfer you to another hospital, one that is financed either by the state of the county. The family would then have to apply for some sort of state insurance, they're usually available for low income family and bums.
what do normal average joes do in america when something like this happen to them`? if rock stars aint got money for it, how will the normal american manage? they die?
Damn..poor Chi. You'd think that they'd have the money to pay for all that shit but they aren't a super popular band like U2 or something. If I had money, I'd give it away to help Chi in a heartbeat.
They have money bro, he has to have some equity
Quote from: lithium on Mar 18, 2009, 09:30 PM
They have money bro, he has to have some equity
read this from chi's brother ming.. chi is in debt: .......
the first hospital was $2000 a day - the next is now $400 a day.. that is just for his room. it's been coming up on 5 months. his insurance stopped paying awhile ago.
i hope bands who got big and rich by sounding like deftones and ripping their sound pay chi piles of money
Hi! (please pass this on everywhere you can once you read! Thanks!!!)
I've found a free, easy way to raise money for Chi Cheng, just by searching the web or shopping online.
is a search engine powered by Yahoo! Search and ....., the internet's first online shopping mall where a portion of each purchase is donated to your favorite cause.
See it for yourself at:
Here's what makes so useful:
> It's free, fast, and easy-to-use
> The donation is $0.02 per qualified search (no hidden fees, no limits) PLEASE no fraudulent searches or they will remove our cause!
> Donation checks are sent every month
> You can keep track of your individual contributions
> If you shop online, up to 26% of each purchase via also benefits this cause
Please give it a try! The numbers may seem small at first, but we all search the web hundreds of times every month, and our combined efforts can add up to real funds for a great cause. And since it's powered by (a site that has been helping causes raise money online since 1997), we know it's not just a flash in the pan!
Thanks!
Gina
eeh... do u work for Yahoo Inc or something. this feels like advertisment
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Mar 18, 2009, 11:07 PM
eeh... do u work for Yahoo Inc or something. this feels like advertisment
no i don't work for yahoo.. it isn't an ad for yahoo - it is a way for online fundraising for chi..
What is considered a fraudulent search?
Quote from: defskull on Mar 18, 2009, 11:15 PM
What is considered a fraudulent search?
well if you sit there all day and try to abuse the system. if you just use it to search as you naturally would - that is fine. we earn .02 per search.. if everyone started doing this - over time it could rack up. every penny helps. and hell - we're searching the web anyway.. why not help a brother out?
Hi Gina (It's Pray for Chi 09/RX Queen) - The site looks amazing already and I'm already addicted to checking the progress.. Sounds exciting with the t shirts, events, etc. Best of luck and let me know if there's anything else I can do <3
Record a Get Well Message for Chi Cheng!
All recordings we be manually reviewed. Once reviewed/approved we will make a
compilation CD for Jeanne, Chi's mother, to play for Chi.
[Maximum record time is 20 minutes but please try to keep them at about 5 minutes.]
Message to Chi Cheng Phone Number:
(214) 615-6044 ext 3028
Thanks,
Gina
I'm gonna lock this thread until there is some sort of official notice. I know you're trying to do a nice thing and I'm sorry if you are indeed an honest person,but you just registered today and are asking for members money. So get this published on the official board or myspace and we will open this up again no problem. :)
Thanks
I'm a bit behind here, what site are you talking about?
I had to delete the link until we got an official statement confirming this. But from my take,things are looking legit and we'll have it up soon.
that was a smart move. even if the site is legit, many sharingtards are way too trusting.
I agree you have to be careful, especially if somebody's asking for members' money. I completely understand that, especially with so much fraud going round.
But Gina is the real deal. I kinda know Chi's family a little through my Chi Myspace, and Gina is very close to the family. If you go to the website and read Ming's blog, you'll see that she is mentioned several times in his blog (Ming is Chi's older brother)
Jeanne, Chi's mom, posted (on the Get Well soon Chi Cheng Card Myspace) about the horrendous cost of his hospital bills. As of January 16 the insurance stopped paying. First hospital bill was $615000 and air ambulance alone is $42000. Hospital bed alone was $55000 in the last hospital. I spoke to her (on the Get Well Soon Card) vaguely about setting up a website where fans could help donate money (March 1) and she was going to look into it. Then amazing Gina has gone above and beyond in organising a fantastic website. If you go on her Myspace, you'll see she is close friends with his closest family. I just thought I'd throw in my two cents - moderators obviously have to be vigilant, especially when money is concerned.
All I can say is that I see first hand how sweet his family is and how much our support means to them. I wish I could do more to help them out.
I donated money though, and when I'm not completely broke, I will donate more.
As I don't have to pay medical insurance, I know know much about it but why would the insurance stop?
Chi's amazing family have set up a website for Chi, he is still in much needed medical care and if you can make any donation for him it will go a long way in helping him get better, I visit him every weekend and I know firsthand how insane his medical bills are, unfortunately health insurance in this country doesnt go a long way when you have a serious health issue, so please check out the site, www.oneloveforchi.com and you can read about his progress and what you can do to help. Also if you have some free time in the day please send some positive energy his way, he is an amazing person and the more we can send positive vibes his way the sooner we can have him back stronger than ever..thank you..
love you cheng!!
Jeff Irwin and the will haven crew
Taken from a MySpace bulletin.
I'll contribute next week. :)
thanks guys... appreciate you helping in getting the word out.
there are some new blogs from the family on the site too.
blessings,
gina
http://www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
Quote from: Sugartolove on Mar 20, 2009, 07:17 AM
I agree you have to be careful, especially if somebody's asking for members' money. I completely understand that, especially with so much fraud going round.
But Gina is the real deal. I kinda know Chi's family a little through my Chi Myspace, and Gina is very close to the family. If you go to the website and read Ming's blog, you'll see that she is mentioned several times in his blog (Ming is Chi's older brother)
Jeanne, Chi's mom, posted (on the Get Well soon Chi Cheng Card Myspace) about the horrendous cost of his hospital bills. As of January 16 the insurance stopped paying. First hospital bill was $615000 and air ambulance alone is $42000. Hospital bed alone was $55000 in the last hospital. I spoke to her (on the Get Well Soon Card) vaguely about setting up a website where fans could help donate money (March 1) and she was going to look into it. Then amazing Gina has gone above and beyond in organising a fantastic website. If you go on her Myspace, you'll see she is close friends with his closest family. I just thought I'd throw in my two cents - moderators obviously have to be vigilant, especially when money is concerned.
All I can say is that I see first hand how sweet his family is and how much our support means to them. I wish I could do more to help them out.
I donated money though, and when I'm not completely broke, I will donate more.
thanks so much for your kind words. your support means so much. chi is a sweetheart and deserves our support. this is karma in action. chi has always done for others.. now we do for him.
also thanks for helping get the word out on the oneloveforchi.com site. you are awesome!
take care.
gina
Much, much thanks for doing this Gina: setting it up, keeping us informed. Good thing.
EDIT: Just donated a bit.
no problem. chi is worth it
thanks so much for the donation.
i will be posting an update from chi's mom soon.
one love for chi,
gina
http://www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
Cool, thanks.
And you're right, Chi's worth it for sure.
Great posts by Jeanne and Chi's brother on the blog. It's good to know Chi is partially awake (I didn't know that could be possible by the way) and making progress.
Hi, just registered to post this.
Gina, its really nice what you're doing. I've been a fan since Adrenaline, and it feels like this happened to an old friend or something. Keep your spirit up, no matter what. People here are understandably skeptical, the internet being what it is(meaning anyone can claim to be anything), but I'm sure it'll work out as awareness spreads. I'll give a bit.
Hey there Gina~
It's Jude from Myspace. Love and appreciate all the hard work you are doing to get the word out about this amazing new site. I have already donated and will continue to as much as possible.
Chi is such a special and unique person that I'm sure many others will follow with similar support.
It's sad that people have such little faith in things these days but I guess that's nothing more than a sign of the times. Please know that those of us who care about Chi and his family will continue to support this cause in any way possible.
Please let me know if there is anything you need from me. I am here for you!
Much love,
Jude
www.oneloveforchi.com
Just as a reminder to the sharing lungers, you should take into account that the 2 pennies per search will end when april begins. From that point, only a penny will be donated. So hurry to do as much searches as you can now, to make it more effective.
Quote from: ValleyGirl on Mar 22, 2009, 03:07 PM
Hey there Gina~
It's Jude from Myspace. Love and appreciate all the hard work you are doing to get the word out about this amazing new site. I have already donated and will continue to as much as possible.
Chi is such a special and unique person that I'm sure many others will follow with similar support.
It's sad that people have such little faith in things these days but I guess that's nothing more than a sign of the times. Please know that those of us who care about Chi and his family will continue to support this cause in any way possible.
Please let me know if there is anything you need from me. I am here for you!
Much love,
Jude
www.oneloveforchi.com
judy thanks so much. don't worry about the haters... they have to hate on something. just focus on the good and the positive. i appreciate everything you do and so do the cheng's.
thanks for your donation.. it is going to help with getting chi the additional therapy he needs to help him thru his recovery.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Deftones-argentina on Mar 22, 2009, 03:26 PM
Just as a reminder to the sharing lungers, you should take into account that the 2 pennies per search will end when april begins. From that point, only a penny will be donated. So hurry to do as much searches as you can now, to make it more effective.
thanks so much for this reminder. you would be surprised how much pennies can add up when you are working in large numbers. thanks to all of you that are helping with this. make sure to install the http://www.iSearchiGive.com/oneloveforchi (http://www.isearchigive.com/oneloveforchi) toolbar.. it makes it easy to make sure he gets the .02 donation every time you search.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Sam Cassel on Mar 22, 2009, 01:08 PM
Hi, just registered to post this.
Gina, its really nice what you're doing. I've been a fan since Adrenaline, and it feels like this happened to an old friend or something. Keep your spirit up, no matter what. People here are understandably skeptical, the internet being what it is(meaning anyone can claim to be anything), but I'm sure it'll work out as awareness spreads. I'll give a bit.
thanks sam... i appreciate that. and thank you for your donation.. the cheng family is so very grateful to all that have donated.
keep spreading the love.
one love for chi,
gina
www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
This has been a difficult time since Chi was injured four months ago. He remains in a coma and is slowly waking up. The entire Cheng family would like to take this opportunity to extend our tremendous gratitude for the worldwide outpouring of prayers, love and support. You have opened your hearts and have been the blessings that have made our situation bearable. Your kind words, shared stories, doing the "good deed of the day" (which I would love to start again), and most of all your prayers for Chi have kept us from feeling alone or helpless. There have been so many faces and names that would always show up when I could get to a computer. It was like going home to see you sharing and caring.
There are so many special people to thank for so many kindnesses. Jeff Irwin from WillHaven asked me about doing some benefit shows. He and his wife, Alice, along with many great bands shared their time, energy and talent. In response to the questions of why a rock star would need benefit show money, let me say that not all successful people are rich and even rich doesn't always last forever. When Chi is fully awake, we hope that he won't care that his dream home went back to the bank, his dog got given away, his health insurance quit paying for hospital care after a month and a half and life might take much more effort and some relearning. We in his family think that he will have some challenges and a lot of new insight and stories to share.
It is pretty clear that he goes in and out of his coma. Many days he seems just tired or maybe sad. Other days he will open his eyes, looking around startled, seeming not to know where he is, then finally after we talk to him , he relaxes and goes back to sleep or just looks at us. He has said "mom" to me several times. That is a huge thing. It means that he can see and recognize me, he remembers, he can think of the word that matches the image, and can verbalize it properly. It actually takes so many steps for the brain to do that simple thing.
I owe an apology to everyone who asked for an update and didn't get one. Other than the obvious time spent with Chi, which usually meant no computer access, there were other situations to deal with. There has been relocating, which I need to do again this month. There has been insurance to fight with. There has been a rude legal battle to win the right to make medical and care decisions for Chi until he is fully awake. Thankfully, other than another move, all of my energy can go where it should again..
Many of you, in and out of the U.S. have made offers of help. It is very appreciated! And then there's Gina Blackmore. When she heard about the (roughly $750,000.) unpaid medical expenses, she just jumped on in and set up the OneLoveForChi.com and asked us to look at it. It is a great place for us to blog, people to share ideas and she set it up to assist us with whatever the need is. I mention this because I want there to be no misunderstanding about funds that are coming in. The money will go directly into a separate account set up for where the money most needs to go. That may be for part of his hospital room or for his extra physical therapy, but wherever it is distributed, I will be accountable to you. You can all know where it is spent. And be assured that is will be used with care and respect for the fact that all of it is someones hard earned income and shared with trust. Thank you to those who have contributed and, in advance, to anyone who feels inclined to. It amazes me how many people Chi has touched. You are all family to me and I love how you love my son! I will get back to updating on a regular basis. Look for updates on OneLoveForChi.com or the "Get Well Chi Cheng Card" on MySpace.
With Much Respect and ONE LOVE,
Chi and Jeanne and the Cheng Gang
Keep posted on more updates at www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
This has been a difficult time since Chi was injured four months ago. He remains in a coma and is slowly waking up. The entire Cheng family would like to take this opportunity to extend our tremendous gratitude for the worldwide outpouring of prayers, love and support. You have opened your hearts and have been the blessings that have made our situation bearable. Your kind words, shared stories, doing the "good deed of the day" (which I would love to start again), and most of all your prayers for Chi have kept us from feeling alone or helpless. There have been so many faces and names that would always show up when I could get to a computer. It was like going home to see you sharing and caring.
There are so many special people to thank for so many kindnesses. Jeff Irwin from WillHaven asked me about doing some benefit shows. He and his wife, Alice, along with many great bands shared their time, energy and talent. In response to the questions of why a rock star would need benefit show money, let me say that not all successful people are rich and even rich doesn't always last forever. When Chi is fully awake, we hope that he won't care that his dream home went back to the bank, his dog got given away, his health insurance quit paying for hospital care after a month and a half and life might take much more effort and some relearning. We in his family think that he will have some challenges and a lot of new insight and stories to share.
It is pretty clear that he goes in and out of his coma. Many days he seems just tired or maybe sad. Other days he will open his eyes, looking around startled, seeming not to know where he is, then finally after we talk to him , he relaxes and goes back to sleep or just looks at us. He has said "mom" to me several times. That is a huge thing. It means that he can see and recognize me, he remembers, he can think of the word that matches the image, and can verbalize it properly. It actually takes so many steps for the brain to do that simple thing.
I owe an apology to everyone who asked for an update and didn't get one. Other than the obvious time spent with Chi, which usually meant no computer access, there were other situations to deal with. There has been relocating, which I need to do again this month. There has been insurance to fight with. There has been a rude legal battle to win the right to make medical and care decisions for Chi until he is fully awake. Thankfully, other than another move, all of my energy can go where it should again..
Many of you, in and out of the U.S. have made offers of help. It is very appreciated! And then there's Gina Blackmore. When she heard about the (roughly $750,000.) unpaid medical expenses, she just jumped on in and set up the OneLoveForChi.com and asked us to look at it. It is a great place for us to blog, people to share ideas and she set it up to assist us with whatever the need is. I mention this because I want there to be no misunderstanding about funds that are coming in. The money will go directly into a separate account set up for where the money most needs to go. That may be for part of his hospital room or for his extra physical therapy, but wherever it is distributed, I will be accountable to you. You can all know where it is spent. And be assured that is will be used with care and respect for the fact that all of it is someones hard earned income and shared with trust. Thank you to those who have contributed and, in advance, to anyone who feels inclined to. It amazes me how many people Chi has touched. You are all family to me and I love how you love my son! I will get back to updating on a regular basis. Look for updates on OneLoveForChi.com or the "Get Well Chi Cheng Card" on MySpace.
With Much Respect and ONE LOVE,
Chi and Jeanne and the Cheng Gang
Keep posted on more updates at www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
This has been a difficult time since Chi was injured four months ago. He remains in a coma and is slowly waking up. The entire Cheng family would like to take this opportunity to extend our tremendous gratitude for the worldwide outpouring of prayers, love and support. You have opened your hearts and have been the blessings that have made our situation bearable. Your kind words, shared stories, doing the "good deed of the day" (which I would love to start again), and most of all your prayers for Chi have kept us from feeling alone or helpless. There have been so many faces and names that would always show up when I could get to a computer. It was like going home to see you sharing and caring.
There are so many special people to thank for so many kindnesses. Jeff Irwin from WillHaven asked me about doing some benefit shows. He and his wife, Alice, along with many great bands shared their time, energy and talent. In response to the questions of why a rock star would need benefit show money, let me say that not all successful people are rich and even rich doesn't always last forever. When Chi is fully awake, we hope that he won't care that his dream home went back to the bank, his dog got given away, his health insurance quit paying for hospital care after a month and a half and life might take much more effort and some relearning. We in his family think that he will have some challenges and a lot of new insight and stories to share.
It is pretty clear that he goes in and out of his coma. Many days he seems just tired or maybe sad. Other days he will open his eyes, looking around startled, seeming not to know where he is, then finally after we talk to him , he relaxes and goes back to sleep or just looks at us. He has said "mom" to me several times. That is a huge thing. It means that he can see and recognize me, he remembers, he can think of the word that matches the image, and can verbalize it properly. It actually takes so many steps for the brain to do that simple thing.
I owe an apology to everyone who asked for an update and didn't get one. Other than the obvious time spent with Chi, which usually meant no computer access, there were other situations to deal with. There has been relocating, which I need to do again this month. There has been insurance to fight with. There has been a rude legal battle to win the right to make medical and care decisions for Chi until he is fully awake. Thankfully, other than another move, all of my energy can go where it should again..
Many of you, in and out of the U.S. have made offers of help. It is very appreciated! And then there's Gina Blackmore. When she heard about the (roughly $750,000.) unpaid medical expenses, she just jumped on in and set up the OneLoveForChi.com and asked us to look at it. It is a great place for us to blog, people to share ideas and she set it up to assist us with whatever the need is. I mention this because I want there to be no misunderstanding about funds that are coming in. The money will go directly into a separate account set up for where the money most needs to go. That may be for part of his hospital room or for his extra physical therapy, but wherever it is distributed, I will be accountable to you. You can all know where it is spent. And be assured that is will be used with care and respect for the fact that all of it is someones hard earned income and shared with trust. Thank you to those who have contributed and, in advance, to anyone who feels inclined to. It amazes me how many people Chi has touched. You are all family to me and I love how you love my son! I will get back to updating on a regular basis. Look for updates on OneLoveForChi.com or the "Get Well Chi Cheng Card" on MySpace.
With Much Respect and ONE LOVE,
Chi and Jeanne and the Cheng Gang
Keep posted on more updates at www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
:)
Just wondering, there now are various ways to send messages, talks, conversations, thoughts, prayers and love to Chi (via Deftones's blogspot, MySpace, various boards and for this one in particular, this thread and the letters to Chi thread as well as the new oneloveforchi website and blog): does that all get compiled at does it all end up with Chi? Or is it better to use one specific way to send all good things his way?
Just dropping by to wish everyone a great week ahead and to ask a favor of you. Please help support Chi by leaving a message at the following site. I know how much the Deftones have meant to my life and I know what they mean to you. Chi is surely part of that picture, so if you could spare 5 minutes and show some support, I think it would help Chi and his family in more ways than you can imagine. Thanks to all Def fans and please keep Chi in your thoughts and prayers.
Record a Get Well Message for Chi Cheng!
All recordings we be manually reviewed. Once reviewed/approved we will make a compilation CD for Jeanne, Chi's mother, to play for Chi.
Please go to www.oneloveforchi.com and follow the instructions to record your message to Chi.
Please keep these messages coming in! We will soon have enough to publish the CD for Chi!
Your message will be kept private and will not be posted on any related sites.
One love for Chi
Just dropping by to wish everyone a great week ahead and to ask a favor of you. Please help support Chi by leaving a message at the following site. I know how much the Deftones have meant to my life and I know what they mean to you. Chi is surely part of that picture, so if you could spare 5 minutes and show some support, I think it would help Chi and his family in more ways than you can imagine. Thanks to all Def fans and please keep Chi in your thoughts and prayers.
Record a Get Well Message for Chi Cheng!
All recordings we be manually reviewed. Once reviewed/approved we will make a compilation CD for Jeanne, Chi's mother, to play for Chi.
Please go to www.oneloveforchi.com and follow the instructions to record your message to Chi.
Please keep these messages coming in! We will soon have enough to publish the CD for Chi!
Your message will be kept private and will not be posted on any related sites.
Quote from: Tuck on Mar 22, 2009, 07:10 PM
Just wondering, there now are various ways to send messages, talks, conversations, thoughts, prayers and love to Chi (via Deftones's blogspot, MySpace, various boards and for this one in particular, this thread and the letters to Chi thread as well as the new oneloveforchi website and blog): does that all get compiled at does it all end up with Chi? Or is it better to use one specific way to send all good things his way?
hi tuck,
i can assure you that on the one love for chi website we are compiling all of the names, contact info and messages of those who have donated to give to chi... and also the voice recorded messages for chi are being compiled now.. i have about 15 minutes worth so far - i need more because i would like to make it longer. also, i know that jeanne, chi's mom, has said before that she would show him the get well card myspace pages that have been made for him.. and she has read him some of the messages from there..
one love for chi,
gina
www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
Hey Gina, thanks for the info. Thinking about recording a message.
Gina, are deftones gonna put the banner graphic for oneloveforchi.com up on their myspace? cause i think that would raise a lot more money. i dunno if they cant do it cause their label, or something dumb like that, but if they can they need to
Quote from: Hidalgo on Mar 23, 2009, 04:41 PM
Gina, are deftones gonna put the banner graphic for oneloveforchi.com up on their mysapce? cause i think that would raise a lot more money. i dunno if they cant do it cause their label, or something dumb like that, but if they can they need to
Warner in the UK are sending the press release out to regional press and radio.
Quote from: pissedandpierced on Mar 23, 2009, 04:57 PM
Quote from: Hidalgo on Mar 23, 2009, 04:41 PM
Gina, are deftones gonna put the banner graphic for oneloveforchi.com up on their mysapce? cause i think that would raise a lot more money. i dunno if they cant do it cause their label, or something dumb like that, but if they can they need to
Warner in the UK are sending the press release out to regional press and radio.
Good. That will probably help quite a bit.
Gina, i just tried to send you a PM but it seems that your inbox is full....my message is in regards to a project im workin on, and in which i am in need of an image you have
thanks
schwab
http://www.rocksound.tv/news/article/chi-cheng-fund-set-up (http://www.rocksound.tv/news/article/chi-cheng-fund-set-up)
http://www.totalrock.com/newsstory.php?id=EkFZlkyZVZIJTimJmV (http://www.totalrock.com/newsstory.php?id=EkFZlkyZVZIJTimJmV)
http://www2.kerrang.com/2009/03/deftones_start_chi_cheng_fund.html (http://www2.kerrang.com/2009/03/deftones_start_chi_cheng_fund.html)
Still waiting for Metal Hammer
Quote from: Hidalgo on Mar 23, 2009, 04:41 PM
Gina, are deftones gonna put the banner graphic for oneloveforchi.com up on their myspace? cause i think that would raise a lot more money. i dunno if they cant do it cause their label, or something dumb like that, but if they can they need to
chi's mom is getting in touch with them about it.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: pissedandpierced on Mar 23, 2009, 04:57 PM
Quote from: Hidalgo on Mar 23, 2009, 04:41 PM
Gina, are deftones gonna put the banner graphic for oneloveforchi.com up on their mysapce? cause i think that would raise a lot more money. i dunno if they cant do it cause their label, or something dumb like that, but if they can they need to
Warner in the UK are sending the press release out to regional press and radio.
thanks so much for your help! it is so very appreciated.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: schwab on Mar 24, 2009, 09:01 AM
Gina, i just tried to send you a PM but it seems that your inbox is full....my message is in regards to a project im workin on, and in which i am in need of an image you have
thanks
schwab
sure - just go to www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) and click on the contact link.
thanks!
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: pissedandpierced on Mar 24, 2009, 10:48 AM
http://www.rocksound.tv/news/article/chi-cheng-fund-set-up (http://www.rocksound.tv/news/article/chi-cheng-fund-set-up)
http://www.totalrock.com/newsstory.php?id=EkFZlkyZVZIJTimJmV (http://www.totalrock.com/newsstory.php?id=EkFZlkyZVZIJTimJmV)
http://www2.kerrang.com/2009/03/deftones_start_chi_cheng_fund.html (http://www2.kerrang.com/2009/03/deftones_start_chi_cheng_fund.html)
Still waiting for Metal Hammer
you rock!
Quote from: Martin on Mar 23, 2009, 04:33 PM
Hey Gina, thanks for the info. Thinking about recording a message.
please do. i have almost 20 minutes.. i would like to do 30.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Mar 24, 2009, 01:36 PM
Quote from: Hidalgo on Mar 23, 2009, 04:41 PM
Gina, are deftones gonna put the banner graphic for oneloveforchi.com up on their myspace? cause i think that would raise a lot more money. i dunno if they cant do it cause their label, or something dumb like that, but if they can they need to
chi's mom is getting in touch with them about it.
one love for chi,
gina
i just saw, they made a blog about it on their myspace. nice, that should help out a lot
Quote from: Hidalgo on Mar 24, 2009, 06:08 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Mar 24, 2009, 01:36 PM
Quote from: Hidalgo on Mar 23, 2009, 04:41 PM
Gina, are deftones gonna put the banner graphic for oneloveforchi.com up on their myspace? cause i think that would raise a lot more money. i dunno if they cant do it cause their label, or something dumb like that, but if they can they need to
chi's mom is getting in touch with them about it.
one love for chi,
gina
i just saw, they made a blog about it on their myspace. nice, that should help out a lot
ya - it has so far - traffic is thru the roof now...
one love for chi,
gina
im sorta confused, is he aawake?
Quote from: Scarf_Bitch on Mar 24, 2009, 07:35 PM
im sorta confused, is he aawake?
he is in and out of his coma. there are updates on the www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) site on the family blog.
is also says 'mom' alot.
gina
Searches have increased increidibly, too. good job people.
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Mar 24, 2009, 09:54 PM
Quote from: Scarf_Bitch on Mar 24, 2009, 07:35 PM
im sorta confused, is he aawake?
he is in and out of his coma. there are updates on the www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) site on the family blog.
is also says 'mom' alot.
gina
o ok thnks clears it up bettter =]
I recorded my message for Chi - thank you Gina for helping me :) It means that once finished, Chi will get to hear MY very personal message - Imagine that.... I get to tell one of my biggest heroes just how much he means to me and how much he has meant over the years with Deftones.... How amazing is that!? And with Chi's amazing family reaching out to fans and methods like this to connect to Chi - it really does feel like people can make a difference to his recovery.
For which I am very grateful <3
Also very very happy that Chi is showing more progress.....! :)
judy and Gina - lots of love to you both <3
:)
One love for Chi <3
Quote from: Sugartolove on Mar 25, 2009, 12:50 AM
I recorded my message for Chi - thank you Gina for helping me :) It means that once finished, Chi will get to hear MY very personal message - Imagine that.... I get to tell one of my biggest heroes just how much he means to me and how much he has meant over the years with Deftones.... How amazing is that!? And with Chi's amazing family reaching out to fans and methods like this to connect to Chi - it really does feel like people can make a difference to his recovery.
For which I am very grateful <3
Also very very happy that Chi is showing more progress.....! :)
judy and Gina - lots of love to you both <3
:)
One love for Chi <3
so glad you did. we have about 30 minutes now so i will be sending it off soon. i will let you know once i know he has heard it and how it went.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Scarf_Bitch on Mar 24, 2009, 11:32 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Mar 24, 2009, 09:54 PM
Quote from: Scarf_Bitch on Mar 24, 2009, 07:35 PM
im sorta confused, is he aawake?
he is in and out of his coma. there are updates on the www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) site on the family blog.
is also says 'mom' alot.
gina
you are welcome. if you sign up to follow the blog you will get updates.
thanks.
gina
www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
o ok thnks clears it up bettter =]
I've just checked the oneloveforchi blog and read Meng's new post. I'm quite puzzled by one of his phrase as english isn't my mother tongue... "He has come along way, but he's still healing. He still has a chunk of his skull sitting in a freezer that needs to be put back."
Sorry if I sound like a total idiot but is it supposed to be taken literally or is it just a way to say that he hasn't regain full consciousness yet, which we all know of course.
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Mar 26, 2009, 06:43 PM
I've just checked the oneloveforchi blog and read Meng's new post. I'm quite puzzled by one of his phrase as english isn't my mother tongue... "He has come along way, but he's still healing. He still has a chunk of his skull sitting in a freezer that needs to be put back."
Sorry if I sound like a total idiot but is it supposed to be taken literally or is it just a way to say that he hasn't regain full consciousness yet, which we all know of course.
maybe it's a way to say that...
hope it's not literally taken !
So it is indeed quite ambiguous... :-\
Hi everyone..
I wanted to thank everyone that has made donations. We are already almost at 50%. I wanted to share a question with you that I got on another site and share my answer as well. I am sure some of you either have the same question or have already asked it.. here goes...
Quote"To all of you that can't understand how a "rockstar" like Chi is having problems paying a "mere" little $750K hospital bill , you obviously know nothing about the music business. For far too long people have assumed that having musical notoriety is synonymous with wealth. This is FAR from the case.
Yes , they have sold more than 10 million records , but these days record sales represent one of the smaller fractions of a musicians income. In Chi's case , he is one fifth of the writing element of the Deftones , so he collects that portion of the publishing/record sales. After all of the pieces of the machine (nice term Jamez) take their cut , which comes BEFORE the band gets theirs , he is not left with nearly as much as the public assumes.
Touring is where bands like the Deftones stand to make their biggest profit. The math involved in that equation has FAR less people involved and taking cuts than the record sales side of things , and the Deftones can generate $30K a night on average in the US , and that's WITHOUT a "hit" single on the radio at the time.
While I AM trying to address the huge misconceptions about musicians' income , I by no means am saying that the band is not capable of generating the necessary funds. Sure , fans donating money will help , and I will be headed over to the donation site after I'm done writing this , but seriously , THE DEFTONES NEED TO GET A SUBSTITUTE BASS PLAYER , AND HIT THE ROAD AND START GETTING THIS CASH!!!!!
No f****ng joke , I'm sure there are tons of high profile bands that would also lend their support to playing a Chi benefit tour. Incubus , System of a Down would get back together in a heartbeat , Linkin Park (not a fan , but they'd draw a HUGE crowd) , and... well seriously , name a band that WOULDN'T throw down to help.
All I'm saying is that no matter how much money us fans manage to contribute , it wouldn't compare at ALL to the money that the Deftones (with a fill-in bass) and a couple other high-profile acts could generate in even one night.
What's the hold up??? Seriously ?? It sounds like a perfect idea to me. And screw all the scheduling conflicts or whatever other excuses that may arise. Chi's life and well-being are at stake here and the people he loves the most that also have the power to DO the most need to stop going on love-line , playing poker , watching LOST , and just BULL-sh****NG in general , and step up to the plate . I have loved the DEFTONES for so long , and they have meant so much to me over the years. I know they will throw down and handle this. I know they will.
-Bobby Coma"
my answer...
QuoteHi,
As you may or may not know... I put up this website on my own. The Cheng's did not ask me to do it in any way shape or form. Once I put it up they supported my efforts and are extremely gracious. I did this because although high profile bands like the Deftones CAN generate more than us little ole' fans can on the Internet in one night flat.. there are many fans that WANT to do something for Chi. They want a way to give back to someone who has given them everything he has thru music. I for one didn't want to sit helpless and do nothing and wait for the big boys to step in. I wanted to get proactive and do something for my brother Chi! And.. I am not alone in feeling this way. Also, for months there was just extreme lack of communications and updates on Chi's condition. Sure I could pick up the phone and call Chi's sister and hear of his progress... But the Internet community.. They didn't have this liberty... And we weren't getting any updates anywhere. With the great progress Chi has been making lately I wanted to create a way I could share this news with you all.
As far as your other comment "Chi's life and well-being are at stake here and the people he loves the most that also have the power to DO the most need to stop going on love-line , playing poker , watching LOST , and just BULL-sh****NG in general , and step up to the plate" I could not agree more. And I know his mother Jeanne would also agree 1000%. We hope they do organize a benefit/fundraiser. But until that happens - we are not going to sit back and wait. Jeff from WillHaven has held 3 events and I believe he is holding a 4th one. I have had emails coming in from people all over wanting to have benefits. I am working with Chi's mom now to set up a duplicatable system to organize these events. I heard from the bass player of Skinlab.. He wants to get involved. He already did one of Jeff's benefits in San Fran and wants to do one in Sacramento. I know Fieldy from Korn keeps in touch with Jeanne often and I believe he mentioned doing something.
Us little guys are going to do more tho. I have a t-shirt contest we are going to launch shortly, we are going to get flyers up, organizing local benefits and more.
I heard from the original promotion guy from Deftones first album.. He has offered his services for free to help me in promoting the website. That will help a ton.
This is all I know for now. But ya... You are so right.
One Love For Chi,
Gina
Updates: I added a newsletter to the www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) website to have a way to get news out quickly on Chi's progress. Also, there are new blogs posted on the family blog.. great news on there!!! Check it out: http://oneloveforchi.blogspot.com/ (http://oneloveforchi.blogspot.com/). Chi is making great progress. I know he is going to love hearing the CD of fan's messages I am sending him today if he reacted that way to hearing me on the phone. I am considering this CD Vol. 1 so if you still want to record a message to Chi it can be on Vol. 2.
Take care all!
One Love For Chi,
Gina
Hi everyone..
I wanted to thank everyone that has made donations. We are already almost at 50%. I wanted to share a question with you that I got on another site and share my answer as well. I am sure some of you either have the same question or have already asked it.. here goes...
Quote"To all of you that can't understand how a "rockstar" like Chi is having problems paying a "mere" little $750K hospital bill , you obviously know nothing about the music business. For far too long people have assumed that having musical notoriety is synonymous with wealth. This is FAR from the case.
Yes , they have sold more than 10 million records , but these days record sales represent one of the smaller fractions of a musicians income. In Chi's case , he is one fifth of the writing element of the Deftones , so he collects that portion of the publishing/record sales. After all of the pieces of the machine (nice term Jamez) take their cut , which comes BEFORE the band gets theirs , he is not left with nearly as much as the public assumes.
Touring is where bands like the Deftones stand to make their biggest profit. The math involved in that equation has FAR less people involved and taking cuts than the record sales side of things , and the Deftones can generate $30K a night on average in the US , and that's WITHOUT a "hit" single on the radio at the time.
While I AM trying to address the huge misconceptions about musicians' income , I by no means am saying that the band is not capable of generating the necessary funds. Sure , fans donating money will help , and I will be headed over to the donation site after I'm done writing this , but seriously , THE DEFTONES NEED TO GET A SUBSTITUTE BASS PLAYER , AND HIT THE ROAD AND START GETTING THIS CASH!!!!!
No f****ng joke , I'm sure there are tons of high profile bands that would also lend their support to playing a Chi benefit tour. Incubus , System of a Down would get back together in a heartbeat , Linkin Park (not a fan , but they'd draw a HUGE crowd) , and... well seriously , name a band that WOULDN'T throw down to help.
All I'm saying is that no matter how much money us fans manage to contribute , it wouldn't compare at ALL to the money that the Deftones (with a fill-in bass) and a couple other high-profile acts could generate in even one night.
What's the hold up??? Seriously ?? It sounds like a perfect idea to me. And screw all the scheduling conflicts or whatever other excuses that may arise. Chi's life and well-being are at stake here and the people he loves the most that also have the power to DO the most need to stop going on love-line , playing poker , watching LOST , and just BULL-sh****NG in general , and step up to the plate . I have loved the DEFTONES for so long , and they have meant so much to me over the years. I know they will throw down and handle this. I know they will.
-Bobby Coma"
my answer...
QuoteHi,
As you may or may not know... I put up this website on my own. The Cheng's did not ask me to do it in any way shape or form. Once I put it up they supported my efforts and are extremely gracious. I did this because although high profile bands like the Deftones CAN generate more than us little ole' fans can on the Internet in one night flat.. there are many fans that WANT to do something for Chi. They want a way to give back to someone who has given them everything he has thru music. I for one didn't want to sit helpless and do nothing and wait for the big boys to step in. I wanted to get proactive and do something for my brother Chi! And.. I am not alone in feeling this way. Also, for months there was just extreme lack of communications and updates on Chi's condition. Sure I could pick up the phone and call Chi's sister and hear of his progress... But the Internet community.. They didn't have this liberty... And we weren't getting any updates anywhere. With the great progress Chi has been making lately I wanted to create a way I could share this news with you all.
As far as your other comment "Chi's life and well-being are at stake here and the people he loves the most that also have the power to DO the most need to stop going on love-line , playing poker , watching LOST , and just BULL-sh****NG in general , and step up to the plate" I could not agree more. And I know his mother Jeanne would also agree 1000%. We hope they do organize a benefit/fundraiser. But until that happens - we are not going to sit back and wait. Jeff from WillHaven has held 3 events and I believe he is holding a 4th one. I have had emails coming in from people all over wanting to have benefits. I am working with Chi's mom now to set up a duplicatable system to organize these events. I heard from the bass player of Skinlab.. He wants to get involved. He already did one of Jeff's benefits in San Fran and wants to do one in Sacramento. I know Fieldy from Korn keeps in touch with Jeanne often and I believe he mentioned doing something.
Us little guys are going to do more tho. I have a t-shirt contest we are going to launch shortly, we are going to get flyers up, organizing local benefits and more.
I heard from the original promotion guy from Deftones first album.. He has offered his services for free to help me in promoting the website. That will help a ton.
This is all I know for now. But ya... You are so right.
One Love For Chi,
Gina
Updates: I added a newsletter to the www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) website to have a way to get news out quickly on Chi's progress. Also, there are new blogs posted on the family blog.. great news on there!!! Check it out: http://oneloveforchi.blogspot.com/ (http://oneloveforchi.blogspot.com/). Chi is making great progress. I know he is going to love hearing the CD of fan's messages I am sending him today if he reacted that way to hearing me on the phone. I am considering this CD Vol. 1 so if you still want to record a message to Chi it can be on Vol. 2.
Take care all!
One Love For Chi,
Gina
I'm indeed a bit surprised by the band's lack of reaction...
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Mar 27, 2009, 04:40 PM
I'm indeed a bit surprised by the band's lack of reaction...
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Mar 26, 2009, 06:43 PM
I've just checked the oneloveforchi blog and read Meng's new post. I'm quite puzzled by one of his phrase as english isn't my mother tongue... "He has come along way, but he's still healing. He still has a chunk of his skull sitting in a freezer that needs to be put back."
Sorry if I sound like a total idiot but is it supposed to be taken literally or is it just a way to say that he hasn't regain full consciousness yet, which we all know of course.
you have to know Ming.. he has a certain way of getting things across.. chi had surgery in which they had to remove a small section of his skull/bone - this is what he is referring to. the bone has not been put back yet.
one love for chi,
gina
QuoteUpdates: I added a newsletter to the www.oneloveforchi.com website to have a way to get news out quickly on Chi's progress. Also, there are new blogs posted on the family blog.. great news on there!!! Check it out: http://oneloveforchi.blogspot.com/. Chi is making great progress. I know he is going to love hearing the CD of fan's messages I am sending him today if he reacted that way to hearing me on the phone. I am considering this CD Vol. 1 so if you still want to record a message to Chi it can be on Vol. 2.
Take care all!
One Love For Chi,
Gina
So exciting, Gina :)
Best of luck with it all, message me please on how it went.
So amazing with all the good things happening recently :)
Hey Gina~It's great that so much is happening now and way overdue! I love it!!
For months you couldn't find anything on Chi and there was nothing the Deftones site or on myspace. I couldn't understand why there wasn't something somewhere.
No matter now....it's awesome that so many people care and I look forward to upcoming events.
If you need help with anything or something comes to mind, just let me know.
Much love and thanks to you,
Jude ;)
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Mar 27, 2009, 06:04 PM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Mar 26, 2009, 06:43 PM
I've just checked the oneloveforchi blog and read Meng's new post. I'm quite puzzled by one of his phrase as english isn't my mother tongue... "He has come along way, but he's still healing. He still has a chunk of his skull sitting in a freezer that needs to be put back."
Sorry if I sound like a total idiot but is it supposed to be taken literally or is it just a way to say that he hasn't regain full consciousness yet, which we all know of course.
you have to know Ming.. he has a certain way of getting things across.. chi had surgery in which they had to remove a small section of his skull/bone - this is what he is referring to. the bone has not been put back yet.
one love for chi,
gina
Wow...I don't know what to say. I guess most of us won't be able to fully grasp the condition Chi was really in...I'm still freaking out when I learn new things like that...
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Mar 27, 2009, 07:24 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Mar 27, 2009, 06:04 PM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Mar 26, 2009, 06:43 PM
I've just checked the oneloveforchi blog and read Meng's new post. I'm quite puzzled by one of his phrase as english isn't my mother tongue... "He has come along way, but he's still healing. He still has a chunk of his skull sitting in a freezer that needs to be put back."
Sorry if I sound like a total idiot but is it supposed to be taken literally or is it just a way to say that he hasn't regain full consciousness yet, which we all know of course.
you have to know Ming.. he has a certain way of getting things across.. chi had surgery in which they had to remove a small section of his skull/bone - this is what he is referring to. the bone has not been put back yet.
one love for chi,
gina
Wow...I don't know what to say. I guess most of us won't be able to fully grasp the condition Chi was really in...I'm still freaking out when I learn new things like that...
the great thing is that there HAS been improvements.. and i just have this feeling.. call me hopeful.. but i have a feeling this CD i sent him today: http://www.slide.com/r/Gn7vnW672T8_hsGRljyGcFNLM0uP_ZLl?cy=un (http://www.slide.com/r/Gn7vnW672T8_hsGRljyGcFNLM0uP_ZLl?cy=un) with all the get well msgs from all of his fans all around the world is going to help him out
alot. chi is really down to earth and connected to his fans... he loves people... he truly cares... so i know he is going to love hearing this. he will have it tomorrow because i overnighted it to him. i will let everyone know when i find out how it went... i am sure chi's brother ming will blog us about it too on the www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) website.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Sugartolove on Mar 27, 2009, 06:30 PM
QuoteUpdates: I added a newsletter to the www.oneloveforchi.com website to have a way to get news out quickly on Chi's progress. Also, there are new blogs posted on the family blog.. great news on there!!! Check it out: http://oneloveforchi.blogspot.com/. Chi is making great progress. I know he is going to love hearing the CD of fan's messages I am sending him today if he reacted that way to hearing me on the phone. I am considering this CD Vol. 1 so if you still want to record a message to Chi it can be on Vol. 2.
Take care all!
One Love For Chi,
Gina
So exciting, Gina :)
Best of luck with it all, message me please on how it went.
So amazing with all the good things happening recently :)
i sure will...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: ValleyGirl on Mar 27, 2009, 06:45 PM
Hey Gina~It's great that so much is happening now and way overdue! I love it!!
For months you couldn't find anything on Chi and there was nothing the Deftones site or on myspace. I couldn't understand why there wasn't something somewhere.
No matter now....it's awesome that so many people care and I look forward to upcoming events.
If you need help with anything or something comes to mind, just let me know.
Much love and thanks to you,
Jude ;)
thanks judy. i appreciate that. chi gets the CD tomorrow!!! yay!
one love for chi,
gina
Very nice artwork Gina, I'm sure Chi will love it!
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Mar 27, 2009, 10:03 PM
Very nice artwork Gina, I'm sure Chi will love it!
THANKS!
YOUR BAND AT BAMBOOZLE LEFT!
(http://www.oneloveforchi.com/bamb.JPG)
For the first time ever, THE BAMBOOZLE LEFT will be auctioning off one of the festival's most coveted spots: an appearance on the Main Stage.
All proceeds from the auction will be donated to the One Love for Chi foundation to aid in the ongoing medical care of Deftones bass player, Chi Cheng. The winning band will be awarded a 25 minute time slot on the Bamboozle Left Main Stage, Sunday April 5th from 2:00 PM - 2:25PM at the Festival Grounds at Verizon Wireless Amphitheater. This is a tremendous opportunity to share the stage with Deftones, 50 Cent, Taking Back Sunday, Thrice, The Used, Shwayze, The Vandals, Saosin, Ignite, B.o.B, Emmure, The Bled, The Adolescents, and many, many,more!. The auction begins today, Friday March 27th at 3PM PST and ends Wednesday, April 1st at 3 PST.
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yeeeeeeeeessssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
One Love For Chi,
Gina
YOUR BAND AT BAMBOOZLE LEFT!
(http://www.oneloveforchi.com/bamb.JPG)
For the first time ever, THE BAMBOOZLE LEFT will be auctioning off one of the festival's most coveted spots: an appearance on the Main Stage.
All proceeds from the auction will be donated to the One Love for Chi foundation to aid in the ongoing medical care of Deftones bass player, Chi Cheng. The winning band will be awarded a 25 minute time slot on the Bamboozle Left Main Stage, Sunday April 5th from 2:00 PM - 2:25PM at the Festival Grounds at Verizon Wireless Amphitheater. This is a tremendous opportunity to share the stage with Deftones, 50 Cent, Taking Back Sunday, Thrice, The Used, Shwayze, The Vandals, Saosin, Ignite, B.o.B, Emmure, The Bled, The Adolescents, and many, many,more!. The auction begins today, Friday March 27th at 3PM PST and ends Wednesday, April 1st at 3 PST.
EBAY LISTING: http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=180341015942 (http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=180341015942)
For more information on the Bamboozle Left Festival please visit: http://www.thebamboozle.com/bamboozleleft/home.php
yeeeeeeeeessssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
One Love For Chi,
Gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Mar 27, 2009, 06:04 PM
chi had surgery in which they had to remove a small section of his skull/bone - this is what he is referring to. the bone has not been put back yet.
one love for chi,
gina
I'm scared now! :o :o :o
But i'm sure chi will get it right!
thanks for the info gina, very useful that!
also nice artwork for the cd! chi will love it!
and that's a good thing that made bamboozle! i wish i would have my band by now...
Quote from: defTHE1s on Mar 28, 2009, 12:07 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Mar 27, 2009, 06:04 PM
chi had surgery in which they had to remove a small section of his skull/bone - this is what he is referring to. the bone has not been put back yet.
one love for chi,
gina
I'm scared now! :o :o :o
But i'm sure chi will get it right!
thanks for the info gina, very useful that!
also nice artwork for the cd! chi will love it!
and that's a good thing that made bamboozle! i wish i would have my band by now...
thanks so much. i can't wait to hear how he reacts. chi is making awesome progress.. i have faith he will recover.
i won't give up on doing my part until he does... he deserves that... amazing person!
one love for chi,
gina
Dear Gina,
Just read a lot of your posts from this page and one back. Again, much much much thanks for doing all this work and being so involved. Being kept updated so frequently is really great. The improvements of Chi, the CD's (yes, I will contribute to Vol II), the possibility of another benefit done by Jeff and maybe even a huge one...man, there's so much energy and positive vibes coming off of that. It's making me really hopeful that everything's going to work out. Thanks - Martin (aka Tuck)
Congratulations Gina, for this beautiful purpose.
I donated right now. My heart and soul are with Chi. Thank you for this.
Cheers from Portugal.
Quote from: Martin on Mar 28, 2009, 01:16 PM
Dear Gina,
Just read a lot of your posts from this page and one back. Again, much much much thanks for doing all this work and being so involved. Being kept updated so frequently is really great. The improvements of Chi, the CD's (yes, I will contribute to Vol II), the possibility of another benefit done by Jeff and maybe even a huge one...man, there's so much energy and positive vibes coming off of that. It's making me really hopeful that everything's going to work out. Thanks - Martin (aka Tuck)
thanks... everything will work out.. i have faith. it may take awhile... alot of effort and hard work.. but chi can do it and he deserves all of our help/efforts. i'm in for the long haul.. no matter what it takes or how long it takes.. and i let him know this.. i know he will keep fighting on.
thanks for all that have made a recording.. chi will get vol.1 today.. for those of you who have or are planning to do a recording for vol.2 thanks in advance.
have a great weekend everyone.
one love for chi,
gina
Gina, what you're doing for Chi is awesome. if i got hurt really bad or sick i'd definitely want someone like you in my corner :)
yepp.. but youre not a rockstar so noone will ever pay for you. that also means you and i are less worthy as people on the same planet
It's not only that Chi is a rockstar though...!
The way he lives his life, or did up untill his accident, is an example people can follow.
He doesn't just use his stardom to chase fame. He uses his talent to benefit others, as in for example his involvement in Youthnoise, all his work with homeless people, his work against domestic violence, and his involvement against animal cruelty through PETA.... And so on.
This inspires people, or inspires me at least.
Also inspiring is how grounded he seems, and appreciative of Deftones' fans.
Apart from his amazing talent, all of these factors are what inspires people to give, I think.
And even if we're not famous, we can all do little things for others and inspire others. Then maybe good things will come back to us as well. You can go ahead and call me naive (or worse) obviously :)
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Mar 28, 2009, 07:26 PM
yepp.. but youre not a rockstar so noone will ever pay for you. that also means you and i are less worthy as people on the same planet
Everyone desevers healthcare... Let's not bicker, rather be quicker, stable, able and helpful.
Quote from: Sugartolove on Mar 29, 2009, 01:53 AM
It's not only that Chi is a rockstar though...!
The way he lives his life, or did up untill his accident, is an example people can follow.
He doesn't just use his stardom to chase fame. He uses his talent to benefit others, as in for example his involvement in Youthnoise, all his work with homeless people, his work against domestic violence, and his involvement against animal cruelty through PETA.... And so on.
This inspires people, or inspires me at least.
Also inspiring is how grounded he seems, and appreciative of Deftones' fans.
Apart from his amazing talent, all of these factors are what inspires people to give, I think.
And even if we're not famous, we can all do little things for others and inspire others. Then maybe good things will come back to us as well. You can go ahead and call me naive (or worse) obviously :)
this is so true.. and i have to say... it is my nature to want to help someone i know.. plus someone who has inspired me over the years (9 or so years). all the guys in the deftones have been extremely cool with my husband and i in letting us watch every show we have ever been to from back stage and hanging out with them on the bus after.. they are all great guys.. and i would have done this for any of them.. but not because they are rock stars.. but because they are people i care about.
my husband met them like 10 years ago thru a mutual friend and went on the road with them for awhile.. my husband pierced chino's nipples on the back of the bus while they were driving.. needless to say one was crooked.. haha.. when we saw him again some time after chino said he had to take the crooked one out.. but he still had the other in.. (i don't think he had it in last time we saw him tho.. didn't ask)...
any way... it isn't because he is a rock star.. it is because chi is an amazing individual who was so nice to me... and i would do what i am doing now for any one who was in the same position who touched my life and my heart the way he has.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: White Wrist on Mar 28, 2009, 03:22 PM
Congratulations Gina, for this beautiful purpose.
I donated right now. My heart and soul are with Chi. Thank you for this.
Cheers from Portugal.
thank you so much for your support.. it means so much. i will update everyone soon with what the funds will be going to first..and how your donations have helped chi...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Hidalgo on Mar 28, 2009, 07:07 PM
Gina, what you're doing for Chi is awesome. if i got hurt really bad or sick i'd definitely want someone like you in my corner :)
thanks.. that is sweet.. i hope you never need anyone in your corner and you lead a long happy and healthy life...
one love for chi,
gina
[quote author=oneloveforchi link=topic=14845.msg645160#msg645160 date=123829893
it isn't because he is a rock star.. it is because chi is an amazing individual who was so nice to me... and i would do what i am doing now for any one who was in the same position who touched my life and my heart the way he has.
one love for chi,
gina
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yeah but if he wasnt a famous rockstar, the money wouldnt pour in like now. im sure there are thousands of goodhearted amazing people in their way who end up in a coma, but they dont get shit, no money or websites, just because they dont play baseguitar. apperently they arent as worthy as people.
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Mar 29, 2009, 04:20 AM
[quote author=oneloveforchi link=topic=14845.msg645160#msg645160 date=123829893
it isn't because he is a rock star.. it is because chi is an amazing individual who was so nice to me... and i would do what i am doing now for any one who was in the same position who touched my life and my heart the way he has.
one love for chi,
gina
yeah but if he wasnt a famous rockstar, the money wouldnt pour in like now. im sure there are thousands of goodhearted amazing people in their way who end up in a coma, but they dont get shit, no money or websites, just because they dont play baseguitar. apperently they arent as worthy as people.
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that isn't true.. i have read numerous stories of people in similar situtations where people have extended their generousity to help others.
sorry you feel that there are unworthy people in the world.. i however feel that EVERYone is worthy.. even you... even tho I don't know you.. and you aren't a rock star.
one love for chi,
gina
i dont think people should be more worthy than others, but if person A gets thousands of dollars when injured and person B doesnt get squat when injured, person A obviously is more worthy. if u think all people are all equal worhty why not donate money to a coma patients fund or something and not single out just one guy .
im for equal treatments when it comes healthcare. if i walked into a hospital room with a sack of money.. and there where 10 coma persons there
,i would share it equaly to all ten. as it is now.. just one guy in the room gets thosands of sacks of money,piling up round the bed, and the other 9 in the room dont get any
it just feel strange. alright enough of this shit, lets all hope he gets better, any person who gets in this mess should be prayed for
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Mar 29, 2009, 04:33 AM
i dont think people should be more worthy than others, but if person A gets thousands of dollars when injured and person B doesnt get squat when injured, person A obviously is more worthy. if u think all people are all equal worhty why not donate money to a coma patients fund or something and not single out just one guy .
im for equal treatments when it comes healthcare. if i walked into a hospital room with a sack of money.. and there where 10 coma persons there
,i would share it equaly to all ten. as it is now.. just one guy in the room gets thosands of sacks of money,piling up round the bed, and the other 9 in the room dont get any
it just feel strange. alright enough of this shit, lets all hope he gets better, any person who gets in this mess should be prayed for
i am not saying one is more worthy than the other at all.. and you know.. this has made me want to do more on a larger scale.. and i am sure when chi recovers he will want to as well... but right now i just am focusing on helping chi..
sounds good..
ok i see what yr getting at.. today: one love for chi.. towmorrow: billions of love for billions of people
One thing is, with helping a high profile person (if you can call Chi that), people participate worldwide. Who are we to say this won't inspire people to do more for lesser known individuals?
I see what you are saying in one sense, and I tend to agree in some ways - why should we feel more sympathy towards somebody who is famous than any number of regular non famous people in the same situation? Kind of when a celebrity has an illness and people make martyrs out of them - (as is the situation in England now with Jade Goody.) I then tend to think why should I care more for this person than for others with same illness.
But even with the Jade situation - good things have come out of it. It has inspired people to be more assertive towards their own health and to do more for others in the same situation.
With Chi, I rang all the way from England and recorded my message because I care about a man who has been an inspiration for me for the about 9'ish years I have loved Deftones. I donated money for the same reasons, and run my little insignificant Myspace page for the same reasons. I would have done that for any Deftones member, but I'll do it even more happily for Chi as he has touched my life on so many other levels and has inspired me in himself to be more giving and possibly spiritual. He made it seem easy and accessible :) And judging from messages I get from people from Azerbadjan to Scandinavia - more people feel the same way.
yeah, you feel he has a higher value as a person because u give him money but not to other coma victims who also may need help with money who never even had a rock star income to begin with. its ok with me "do what u gotta do" i on the other hand think we all are these "psychotic apes on this primitive dirtball" who have the same value, by your actions, u dont
Thing is, you can't really say that, since you don't know what I do for other people when I'm offline :)
Possibly not coma victims, but people in need. But that's okay.
But with what you are saying, people who have worked their way upto having a certain level of success, is not deserving of the general public's support? If you turn it around, that doesn't seem right either. Anyway - I could defend this for a long time, but seeing as it is a thread for Chis benefit, I don't want to come across as negative and unsupportive so I'll stop now. Peace.
im thinking of donating some myself.. i want him to get better of course... but it kinda feels wrong at the same timewhen a famous rockstar who sold millions of records and been touring for years and years cant pay when others with less money doesnt get our help.
oh well. this is going in circles
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Mar 29, 2009, 07:55 AM
ok i see what yr getting at.. today: one love for chi.. towmorrow: billions of love for billions of people
exactly.. knowing chi i know he will want to do something to make a global change for people who have been thru or are going thru what he is.. and when he does - i will help in whatever he does..
one love,
gina
ok.. maybe i will donate to some coma fund directly instead. gonna snook around
Hello to G & H~I love you guys!
Appreciate you both so much and the way you defend my Chi! Not that he needs defending, right? As you both said, Chi is a special person that simply needs our help right now, be it prayers or funds.
Lets face it, we all need that shit! In my humble opinion, Chi is thought so well of because he's lived his life with a giving heart. Karma...plain and simple. If you know nothing else about this man, know that.
His only advantage is the fact that he is more high profile, so more people have had the opportunity to get to know the man and what he is about. Chi shines brightly because of his own merits. I know of many a musician who have been around just as long as Chi, but I don't know a damn thing about them!
If you prefer to look for an alternative donation location, then I applaud you. Because that's what this whole thing is about when you think about it. Bring on the good deeds! Trust me, Chi would approve!
Please continue to pray and think kindly of him as that will go a long way as well.
Have a great week ahead everyone!
Jude
www.oneloveforchi.com
did these letters ever get mailed to chi? just wondering... i could send them with vol.2 of the "one love for chi" cd..
let me know. also - there have been a couple people who are mailing me things they want to send him.. since i can't give out the address to where he is.. i could forward what you would like to send him.. let me know via the 'contact' link on www.oneloveforchi.com..
one love for chi,
gina
Wow, that is amazing.
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Mar 29, 2009, 03:08 AM
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Mar 28, 2009, 07:26 PM
yepp.. but youre not a rockstar so noone will ever pay for you. that also means you and i are less worthy as people on the same planet
Everyone desevers healthcare... Let's not bicker, rather be quicker, stable, able and helpful.
how about we just move on and stick to what 13hrs said above?
one love for chi,
gina
well... hrm.. he said "_everyone_ deserves.. "
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Mar 30, 2009, 07:42 PM
well... hrm.. he said "_everyone_ deserves.. "
yes and i have never disagreed..
ok
guys seriously, some people get help some dont, straight up life.
Quote from: dictatesofreason on Mar 31, 2009, 12:14 AM
guys seriously, some people get help some dont, straight up life.
you are right and it is very jacked up. the more research i do for the family for possible therapy that could help chi the more i see how many people in his state go misdiagnosed and are literally given up on. once we have chi recovered i would love to see www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) go towards helping those people.. and i am sure chi will feel the same way.
when i get the go ahead there will be news released on what the funds we have raised are going to that will help chi recover... pretty exciting to know that his fans will be playing a major role in helping him recover... chi will be so touched to know this.
one love for chi,
gina
Gina, do you know exactly what happened in the wreck? i never heard anything about the wreck itself really. who was driving, what caused the wreck, etc? i've always wondered
Quote from: Hidalgo on Mar 31, 2009, 04:39 AM
Gina, do you know exactly what happened in the wreck? i never heard anything about the wreck itself really. who was driving, what caused the wreck, etc? i've always wondered
the car was clipped from behind by another uninsured driver which caused the accident.... there were no drugs, drinking etc involved.. it was the fault of the other driver.
one love for chi,
gina
did the police get the person responsible, or did they hit & run? was Chi's sister driving? i thought i read that somewhere, & how badly hurt was/is she?
thanks
Quote from: dictatesofreason on Mar 31, 2009, 12:14 AM
guys seriously, some people get help some dont, straight up life.
there are lot of things in the world thats "straight up life".. that does not mean u cant do anything against it
Ow my, 59%....that's quite something!
Quote from: Martin on Mar 31, 2009, 07:05 AM
Ow my, 59%....that's quite something!
isn't it great? :)
oneloveforchi.com.
gina
Quote from: Hidalgo on Mar 31, 2009, 06:00 AM
did the police get the person responsible, or did they hit & run? was Chi's sister driving? i thought i read that somewhere, & how badly hurt was/is she?
thanks
don't know if they did.. i haven't asked... i, like chi's mom, have been focusing on chi's recovery and getting him what he needs.. the details aren't important.
that's all. :)
thanks..
one love for chi,
gina
People aren't willing to pay for Chi because he's famous or a rock star--people are willing to pay to help Chi because they consider him family. Sure, his bass playing got him into our homes, but we can't fault him for that. People are donating because they're looking out for their own, it's just an instinct we all have. Jesusinabowlofdirt--you're just blessed enough to consider the whole human race your own--most people have a more narrow view, but either way, the intent is good, and really shouldn't be faulted. Helping is just what we do for family.
Much respect,
-Matt
Hey gina! as a LONG time Deftones fan i just want to thank you sooooo much for the work you're doing. I've seen the tones 8 times and met CHI within that time twice, and i can for sure say that he is one of the most humble nice guys i've ever met. He always looked me in the eyes when he talked which i thought was very cool. I will for sure be donating to www.Oneloveforchi.com
In my own personal life I can tell you that the music that Chi has saved my life... as in I would be DEAD right now without it. I was at a bad place in my life when my 50 disc c.d. player (Which was on random) Went to to the tones. They were already my favorite band, But at that moment and that song "Dai the Flu" Something about thier music spoke to me.... And stopped me from doing something VERY stupid. My point is. That the Deftones including CHI saved my life so the least i can do is repay that to them. To anyone who has ever had a moment where the tones music and love for life has changed your life, Please donate or at the least say a prayer for Chi and his wonderful Family. Thanks :)
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Mar 31, 2009, 02:37 PM
Quote from: Martin on Mar 31, 2009, 07:05 AM
Ow my, 59%....that's quite something!
isn't it great? :)
oneloveforchi.com.
gina
It sure is Gina, sure is 8)
not everyone is so egocentric, i hope. everyone is giving money to chi but not to other coma victims. everyone says "yeah everyone deserves healthcare" but u all just give money to 1 person. maybe the ones without family needs the money more.a celebrity with a rock star family maybe are the last one to need cash.where are the other def members and the rest of the rock world?
if every one traveled to the nursury home and physicaly gave the money to chi and saw that there actully are more people in need there, and they saw that the line and queue with donating people only were there for chi, then i think people started reconcider. but hey, at this point i havent donating a penny to anyone so maybe i should keep my mouth shut, im still thinking of the rioght thing to do here
another thing.. u just cant say "instinct" and thats that. animals base their actions on instincts, somewhere i hope we humans can feel the instinct but do something else, that is smarter in our minds. my instinct sometimes tell me to hit people in the face but i dont do it,because my mind tell me the instinct is wrong
It so ridiculous to try and say that every human life has the same importance with you. In the grand scheme of things, everybody is equal, yes, but to try and argue that any one person should consider every single person equal is just ignorant. If your mom or dad was in an accident and a coma you'd be doing everything in your power to provide care for them instead of considering whether or not to donate to a general coma fund just because there are others who need help too. Obviously, no matter how mean it may seem, to you your parents are much more important on a personal level than a complete stranger. That's not a bad thing, its life.
A complete stranger who has never heard of the Deftones should be more inclined to donate to a general coma patient fund rather than donate money to Chi. But for the people here on this board, Chi is an inspiration and has effected their lives is a meaningful and positive way, and as such, he is more important to them than a complete stranger. Its just the simple fact of the matter. They shouldn't be looked down upon for trying to help a person important to them.
no maybe not.. i hope chi gets well with our without help... i love deftones music, but i dont know the guys. if deftones and the people who actually know chi helped him fine but it kinda feels strange that just because someone plays base everyone in the world suddelny is related to himand know him on a deep level as a friend, love him as i love my mom and dad in yr comparison.
but what i have written is just thinking out loud,i have no crystal clear opinion here
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Mar 31, 2009, 08:25 PM
no maybe not.. i hope chi gets well with our without help... i love deftones music, but i dont know the guys. if deftones and the people who actually know chi helped him fine but it kinda feels strange that just because someone plays base everyone in the world suddelny is related to himand know him on a deep level as a friend, love him as i love my mom and dad in yr comparison.
but what i have written is just thinking out loud,i have no crystal clear opinion here
i do know him...
i am going to share something i posted on my myspace today and then let this one go cuz i don't see where it is going any more.. and for the record.. chi's cause is not the only thing i donate to..
QuoteDEFTONES - CHI CHENG - OMFG Rock Star????!
Body: he is so much more than a rock star....
in the time that i have gotten to know his dear family... and his fans... he is so much more than that. i have witnessed countless emails literally pouring in from his amazing fans around the globe (i love you guys) with stories of how he inspired them in ways from to not commit suicide to playing music. this is an amazing individual who has taken the time with people to make them feel special and give them the inspiration they desperately needed from near and far.
this is the type of person we need to live by example of.. and give back some time. he may be a rock star.. but his funds are depleted and he is in need.. his fucked up insurance company has bounced on him...he's lost his house and his dog... and now how will we reach out to him now that he needs us (rock star or not)? we need more people in the world like him and i will do everything in my power to make sure he gets the care and therapy he absolutely deserves and needs. we have power in numbers... let's pull together and make a miracle happen for our sweet chi cheng.
one love for chi,
gina
and also.. i am going to share an email someone sent via oneloveforchi.com site about chi...
Quote
Chi came to the aid of my brother in law without even knowing him. My brother in law had brain cancer and we were doing a fundraiser and he was generous enough and donated signed lithographs that were auctioned off online. That says a lot about Chi. First, I just want to say that you and Chi are in all of our thoughts and prayers. We are just hoping he will get better soon.
chi is a giver.. because of these types of actions... not only his music.. he inspires people to be better people... so when a person like that is in need.. and that person has touched their lives (btw you don't have to know someone personally to be inspired by them or feel like they are family.. i am coming to find this out via this whole experience..)
anyway.. that is that... i have nothing else to give on this subject. if you decided to contribute to the cause .. thank you so much. it is very much appreciated and will go directly to helping aid in his recovery.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: PinkMagetRX on Mar 31, 2009, 04:16 PM
Hey gina! as a LONG time Deftones fan i just want to thank you sooooo much for the work you're doing. I've seen the tones 8 times and met CHI within that time twice, and i can for sure say that he is one of the most humble nice guys i've ever met. He always looked me in the eyes when he talked which i thought was very cool. I will for sure be donating to www.Oneloveforchi.com
In my own personal life I can tell you that the music that Chi has saved my life... as in I would be DEAD right now without it. I was at a bad place in my life when my 50 disc c.d. player (Which was on random) Went to to the tones. They were already my favorite band, But at that moment and that song "Dai the Flu" Something about thier music spoke to me.... And stopped me from doing something VERY stupid. My point is. That the Deftones including CHI saved my life so the least i can do is repay that to them. To anyone who has ever had a moment where the tones music and love for life has changed your life, Please donate or at the least say a prayer for Chi and his wonderful Family. Thanks :)
Thanks so much. I am so happy their music helped you so much. It seems to have done that for alot of people.
Thank you so much for your support.
One love for Chi,
Gina
Let me preface this by saying I'm not arguing here, just talking--I'm not angry on any level over anything being discussed here. That being said, I don't think suppressing an instinct to punch someone in the face out of rage, and suppressing the instinct to help someone you feel close to (even if that closeness is illogical) is the same thing. I hope we don't evolve passed the point of helping the ones we care for, especially if the only justification we have for our apathy is that there are others out there with the same problems which we're not reaching. I'm not saying your apathetic over this, as I'm sure you're concerned for Chi as well as others in his, or even more dire, circumstances. I'm also not saying that Chi is on par with my mother or father, as I would jump through many more hoops for them than Chi, as I feel it should be. Unless I am to dedicate my life to the cause of personally funding coma-based research, the best I can do on an individual level is help those I know and care for. I could perhaps become some martyr for the cause and have, in that case, a very minimal chance of making a significant difference--but that is not realistic for most people, including you I'd imagine (not to say I'd discourage an attempt, I'd have nothing but admiration for someone willing to give it a shot). Keeping that in mind, if you're honest with yourself (again, I could be wrong here), you're not going to give all of yourself to the cause of coma research, and thus have almost no chance of making a difference in the cause. Short of that I feel the best you can do is help Chi out, as helping him is very realistic for you, and if it feels terribly wrong to ignore others in need, donate at least an equal if not a greater amount to a fund for research, or hell, perhaps to a complete stranger who is in a coma-based need. Just my two cents.
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Apr 01, 2009, 03:28 AM
Let me preface this by saying I'm not arguing here, just talking--I'm not angry on any level over anything being discussed here. That being said, I don't think suppressing an instinct to punch someone in the face out of rage, and suppressing the instinct to help someone you feel close to (even if that closeness is illogical) is the same thing. I hope we don't evolve passed the point of helping the ones we care for, especially if the only justification we have for our apathy is that there are others out there with the same problems which we're not reaching. I'm not saying your apathetic over this, as I'm sure you're concerned for Chi as well as others in his, or even more dire, circumstances. I'm also not saying that Chi is on par with my mother or father, as I would jump through many more hoops for them than Chi, as I feel it should be. Unless I am to dedicate my life to the cause of personally funding coma-based research, the best I can do on an individual level is help those I know and care for. I could perhaps become some martyr for the cause and have, in that case, a very minimal chance of making a significant difference--but that is not realistic for most people, including you I'd imagine (not to say I'd discourage an attempt, I'd have nothing but admiration for someone willing to give it a shot). Keeping that in mind, if you're honest with yourself (again, I could be wrong here), you're not going to give all of yourself to the cause of coma research, and thus have almost no chance of making a difference in the cause. Short of that I feel the best you can do is help Chi out, as helping him is very realistic for you, and if it feels terribly wrong to ignore others in need, donate at least an equal if not a greater amount to a fund for research, or hell, perhaps to a complete stranger who is in a coma-based need. Just my two cents.
Much respect,
-Matt
well said...
one love for chi,
gina
if they could get their friends Korn to play just one fundraiser show with them, they'd raise a ton of cash. that would be cool
FIRST EAST-EUROPEAN BENEFIT SHOW FOR CHI CHENG WILL BE HELD IN ROMANIA -ON APRIL 12 –DEFTONES DAY IN BUCAREST AT FIRE CLUB
12 April 2009 at Fire Club in Bucarest(Romania) is declared Deftones day.The whole day will be dedicated to the Deftones and starting 19.00 a concert will be held with some famous local bands.COMA,DO-DIEZ,MG 42,CHESTER,SHESDEAD AND A SPECIAL GUEST BAND FROM ITALY-AB 4.will join forces in action to raise money for Chi.All the founds resulting from this concert will go directly to Chi s account put up on "One Love For Chi" Fundraiser http://www.oneloveforchi.com/
DEFTONES bassist remains in a coma following a November car accident. He was gravely injured in a November 3 car crash in northern California and has not regained consciousness since.Info for the show here:
http://www.metalhead.ro/Stire-Concert_caritabil_Deftones_in_Fire_Club-16023.html
no,i dont think helping people out and punching them in the face is the same thing.
i said that u cant say "instinct" and your actions there for are ok.im talking generally of course.
i just thought that its wierd that famous people who have money,when they get injured, they get even MORE money.
and if you are noone with no money,when u get injured, u dont get any money.
that to me seems wrong, but if the answer is "thats life kid" or "we look out for our own,screw others" and "its animal instict brah!" then ok,just the way it is. i was too much of a blue eyed naive hippie to have that thought. if chi doesnt have any money im not against people who donate,u can do worse things in life. but im curious where it all went, he got to have some before right.
get well chi!
Remains a very cool picture.
Down at the local radioshow, we played Headup and asked listeners to donate to oneloveforchi.com if they wanted to, just like last week.
Dunno if it helps. But we have to try.
hehe .. chino usually dress cool.. but a winter jacket with a dead fox on the hood round yr neck and shorts and the tube socks to it? . i just dont know..
Very cool!
Hahah true.
Chino hasn't dressed well since the ATF days, to be honest.
vesanic my man! youre gonna get shit for posting chino fashion on the Chi's Update and Prayer Thread.. BAIL OUT!
Eh, I feel like you've ignored 99% of my post. I in no way said or implied that "thats life kid" or "we look out for our own,screw others" or "its animal instict brah!" I understand what you're saying and you're right, the whole thing sucks. I think your real beef is with our poor healthcare system more than anything else, maybe that's where you should spend your time and money trying to reform. I'm probably beating a dead horse here, but oh well, lol.
Much respect,
-Matt
Mines are:
Quote from: Vesanic on Apr 02, 2009, 12:43 PM...
now, back to the topic please!
*praying for Chi*
Quote from: Martin on Apr 02, 2009, 11:38 AM
Very cool!
+1!
Spread the word worldwide and help our brother!
Quote from: Martin on Apr 02, 2009, 11:33 AM
Remains a very cool picture.
Down at the local radioshow, we played Headup and asked listeners to donate to oneloveforchi.com if they wanted to, just like last week.
Dunno if it helps. But we have to try.
thanks so much for the support..
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: defTHE1s on Apr 02, 2009, 04:31 PMMines are:
Quote from: Vesanic on Apr 02, 2009, 12:43 PM...
now, back to the topic please!
*praying for Chi*
ya plz... wtf.. who cares what the hell chino or the guys wear.. seriously.. i mean.... does it matter? wow... people actually talk about this shit? wtf.. ?
one love for chi,
gina
told u so ;D
well... youre both right. serious issues like chi's health and nerdy things like chinos look both belong at a deftones board.as long as its deftones related,post about damnit.but this thread which we're in right now is about a deftones member who is badly hurt and fighting for his life... i gets wrong talking about chinos hairgel in this particular thread.
thom york said it best "everythiiiiiing.. in its riiiiiight place"
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 03, 2009, 08:30 AM
well... youre both right. serious issues like chi's health and nerdy things like chinos look both belong at a deftones board.as long as its deftones related,post about damnit.but this thread which we're in right now is about a deftones member who is badly hurt and fighting for his life... i gets wrong talking about chinos hairgel in this particular thread.
thom york said it best "everythiiiiiing.. in its riiiiiight place"
i agree...
gina
bout time
our brother chi yesterday lifted both legs up a 1 1/2 off the bed... every day he is having victories...
i redesigned the www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) site.. so if you want updates from there too - just register on the site.. you will get notified every time there is a new blog from the family..
one love for chi,
gina
that's great to hear :)
thank you!
that's awesome really!
Quote from: wither-I on Apr 08, 2009, 03:13 PM
that's awesome really!
* 1000!
Thanks for the infos!
you guys are all welcome...
chi's mom has been playing the CD for him every day and he has been listening.. i am working on Vol.2 so if anyone missed out on the first Vol please submit your recording soon... this is the thing that motivates chi to open his eyes on days nothing else will.. so please.. if anyone has a message to send him.. send it in.. just click on the "Get Well Msg To Chi" link on the site...
one love for chi,
gina
gina, i can't submit the form because it doesn't accept my phone number (from holland). keep getting this error:
'Please enter a complete phone number with area code.'
Quote from: beaverwithfishyshoes on Apr 09, 2009, 08:28 AM
gina, i can't submit the form because it doesn't accept my phone number (from holland). keep getting this error:
'Please enter a complete phone number with area code.'
hello.. sorry about that... just enter any number in this format: 123-456-1234.. any random numbers then in the comment section please include your holland number..
thanks so much.
gina
Gina, contact the band Thrice for the charity show. THey love the deftones, plus they love charity. And they are recording their album in their house, so I'm sure they have plenty of time to collaborate.
Quote from: Deftones-argentina on Apr 09, 2009, 04:19 PM
Gina, contact the band Thrice for the charity show. THey love the deftones, plus they love charity. And they are recording their album in their house, so I'm sure they have plenty of time to collaborate.
thanks for the tip..
:)
one love for chi,
gina
haha
Quote from: Vesanic on Apr 10, 2009, 01:32 AM...
you know.. it's more like he IS awake.. just resting and healing.. i mean he opens his eyes.. says mom now and then.. tries like hell to lift his legs, arms etc and does... and his mom told me yesterday that he is starting to react more and more to when people that visit begin to leave.. he makes physical efforts with his arms, legs etc... he is emerging..
i also have a great bit of news and i don't care if some may say i am starting a new thread to announce it but after i say it here i am going to make a new thread about it cuz i don't want anyone to miss it.
with all of our combined efforts after i launched the www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)site - and everyone that has come (and STILL coming) together... we have raised over $25K which is enough for us to begin hyperbaric oxygen therapy for chi. i researched my ass off not long after the accident and found that this type of treatment has been VERY successful in helping coma patients.. the only problem was/is that insurance co. do not cover it... and it isn't cheap.. and well shit.. his insurance had already bailed. this was a HUGE motivation for me to launch the fundraising efforts.. and i could not have done this without all of you great fans that have helped me along the way.
so then i searched for portable hyperbaric oxygen chambers because our dear chi isn't able to be taken into an office for treatment without huge efforts and treatments need to happen twice a day for 2 hours each.. while i was looking i happened to find one on ebay that included assistance of a doctor who is certified in this type of treatment and would assist for a year if we bought it thru him... now here is the universe in action.. turns out he is 4 miles from where chi is.. tell me that wasn't meant to be? so i call him up.. hook him up with chi's mom... now known to me as momma j.. and he went to meet chi.. momma j has already picked out the chamber with his assistance and it has been ordered. it should arrive within days. the funds we all raised together will pay for the chamber and his treatment. so i can't say thank you enough.
so.. ya.. we have done alot for our dear chi. and he is now on a road to a faster recovery. for those who are inclined enough to learn more about the success other people in chi's condition have made recovery with this type of treatment just google "hyperbaric oxygen therapy coma".
this community is awesome and i just want to take the time to thank all of you who have been helping me. we are making such a huge difference in someone's life who has done so much for all of us for many years now via music.
i added a new page to the site about all the stories i get about chi's random acts of kindness.. you should check it out: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-stories-from-fans/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-stories-from-fans/) and if you have any to add plz let me know.
much love to you all great people.
one love for chi,
gina
Thanks for the update Gina... We are all wishing the best for Chi -- Cheng family, friends & fans.
Quote from: 13hourstoparadise on Apr 11, 2009, 06:42 PM
Thanks for the update Gina... We are all wishing the best for Chi -- Cheng family, friends & fans.
thanks so much. i will keep updating you guys as i get new info..
everyone's support is VERY appreciated.. and helping in chi' recovery.
on love for chi,
gina
http://www.flickr.com/photos/76817871@N00/401392007/sizes/l/
this is the best chi photo I've ever seen.
Not that it much matters I suppose, haha, but I just uploaded a couple cell phone pictures I had from a show a couple years ago (not sure which or where to be honest?). They're not great, as they were taken while jumping around and on a cell phone, lol, but it's still Chi. I can upload more of the other guys if anyone cares.
(http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d40/Chino2Jesus/DSC00110.jpg?t=1239503244)
(http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d40/Chino2Jesus/DSC00107.jpg?t=1239503391)
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 10, 2009, 07:33 AM
we have raised over $25K which is enough for us to begin hyperbaric oxygen therapy for chi.
yeah the goal was 20k from the start then u raised it to 50k when the goal was reached. what r u going to do with the rest of the money, make up and new shoes?
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 12, 2009, 10:50 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 10, 2009, 07:33 AM
we have raised over $25K which is enough for us to begin hyperbaric oxygen therapy for chi.
yeah the goal was 20k from the start then u raised it to 50k when the goal was reached. what r u going to do with the rest of the money, make up and new shoes?
you are kidding... gotta be...
no sweetheart.. it is all for chi.. everything. his care and therapy is not cheap... really i would like to raise even more.. $100K+ and he is going to need it. his recovery is going to be a long road... he will in reality need even more than this...
make up and new shoes... please! lmao... you don't know me at all.. i would not be able to do that to chi and still sleep at night!
one love for chi,
gina
Hey everybody
Hefe here (Deftones promoter in 2006 in Romania)
just finished the benefit concert that i ve put for Chi In Bucarest -Romania
more than 300 people showed up and showed love for Chi..
all the money from the entrance ticket(1400 USD)are already in Chi s account
the good news that I m continuing my benefit shows around Europe with a second gig
so here it is what I ve arranged
SECOND EUROPEAN BENEFIT SHOW FOR CHI CHENG WILL BE HELD IN –HUNGARY IN BUDAPEST ON 17 MAY 2009
After Bucarest,Romania a second european benefit show for Chi will be held in Hungary in Budapest on 17 May at the Dürer kert venue.Some of the best local acts Subscribe, Superbutt, Insane, Blind Myself, Fish!, Istenhatomogott, Shellbeach, Solution, AWS.will join forces in action to raise money for Chi.All the founds resulting from this concert will go directly to Chi s account put up on "One Love For Chi" Fundraiser http://www.oneloveforchi.com/
spread the word
Quote from: chino_208 on Apr 12, 2009, 09:11 PM
Hey everybody
Hefe here (Deftones promoter in 2006 in Romania)
just finished the benefit concert that i ve put for Chi In Bucarest -Romania
more than 300 people showed up and showed love for Chi..
all the money from the entrance ticket(1400 USD)are already in Chi s account
the good news that I m continuing my benefit shows around Europe with a second gig
so here it is what I ve arranged
SECOND EUROPEAN BENEFIT SHOW FOR CHI CHENG WILL BE HELD IN –HUNGARY IN BUDAPEST ON 17 MAY 2009
After Bucarest,Romania a second european benefit show for Chi will be held in Hungary in Budapest on 17 May at the Dürer kert venue.Some of the best local acts Subscribe, Superbutt, Insane, Blind Myself, Fish!, Istenhatomogott, Shellbeach, Solution, AWS.will join forces in action to raise money for Chi.All the founds resulting from this concert will go directly to Chi s account put up on "One Love For Chi" Fundraiser http://www.oneloveforchi.com/
spread the word
hey hefe.. just wanted to say thanks again for this... i told jeanne, chi's mom, and she is so appreciative of you.. i gave her your email address.. she wants to thank you directly..
again thanks so much for your support!!!
one love for chi,
gina
Jesusinabowlofdirt you have to relax and trust a bit. The fund has been endorsed by Chi's family, close friends, and the band--its legitimacy is no longer in question. Even if you have your suspicions, there's no reason to be outright rude and offensive about it. Have some consideration that this person has put a lot of time and effort into helping out another person, completely selflessly, and has worked very hard to even realize the goal of 20K. Perhaps if this whole deal hadn't been legitimized than your insults could be warranted. This is all for Chi, there's no need for name calling and finger pointing, I mean c'mon man.
Much respect,
-Matt
Jesusinabowlofdirt, I can't believe you :o
Even if you were joking or being sarcastic, that was uncalled for..!
After all, Gina has spent WEEKS devoting her time to help Chi to get better - more or less full time.
I've been there through the process, kind of, so i know this for a fact.
thanks guys.. it's all good.. ;)
hey - i just heard an inspiring story from chi's mom today... long story short... a friend of the family's mother was in a coma for 8 months.. she did nothing during those 8 months he said.. no spoken words, movement etc.. (chi has spoken, makes eye contact, tracked objects and move legs/arms). he said that all the things that chi is doing now is what his mother started doing just before she fully woke. that in itself was great to hear.. but another thing was that she made a full recovery and is back to her job as a teacher. the only issue she reports is that some times it takes her awhile to remember a word.. (i laughed and told jeanne that i already have that problem myself ;D )... anyway.. it was positive news... and she didn't even have the aid of oxygen therapy which literally speeds up the recovery process... chi will be starting this soon thanks to the funds we have raised via www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com).
also...jeanne said that today again chi tried to sit up... i think he is ready to get outta there!
thanks everyone for your continued support...
one love for chi,
gina
Man, this sounds awesome!
Totally. So glad that Chi could bring people together like this.
Quote from: Martin on Apr 13, 2009, 07:32 AM
Man, this sounds awesome!
ya i know... can't wait for the oxygen therapy to start!
one love for chi,
gina
www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
Quote from: shine down unshy on Apr 13, 2009, 07:52 AM
Totally. So glad that Chi could bring people together like this.
ya - he will be amazed to see how everyone joined together to help him out...
so awesome..
one love for chi,
gina
www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
Hey Gina
You don t have to thank me.. ..united we ll fight till he ll be back ..right? :)
i ve told everybody here that already a second benefit show is arranged in Hungary-Budapest(17 may) and i m very close for a third show -waiting for some final confirmations-
spread the word
love from Bucarest
Quote from: chino_208 on Apr 13, 2009, 08:02 AM
Hey Gina
You don t have to thank me.. ..united we ll fight till he ll be back ..right? :)
i ve told everybody here that already a second benefit show is arranged in Hungary-Budapest(17 may) and i m very close for a third show -waiting for some final confirmations-
spread the word
love from Bucarest
yes hefe.. united we will fight... you are awesome!!!
with people like you on chi's side.. how can not win
thanks again...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Sugartolove on Apr 13, 2009, 03:43 AM
Jesusinabowlofdirt, I can't believe you :o
Even if you were joking or being sarcastic, that was uncalled for..!
After all, Gina has spent WEEKS devoting her time to help Chi to get better - more or less full time.
I've been there through the process, kind of, so i know this for a fact.
let there be no question, i admire ginas work on this... but the site said "we need 20k" (for the coma therapy device) when they later change it to 50k when the money poured in and the goal was reached,of course u have the right to ask why and where that extra money will go. nothing strange about that. im very glad he is showing progress already even before the therapy... but i still dont understand why more rockbands havent donated anything. korn for instance. is it the financial crisis? just that acidband i never heard of gave some
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 13, 2009, 02:06 PM
Quote from: Sugartolove on Apr 13, 2009, 03:43 AM
Jesusinabowlofdirt, I can't believe you :o
Even if you were joking or being sarcastic, that was uncalled for..!
After all, Gina has spent WEEKS devoting her time to help Chi to get better - more or less full time.
I've been there through the process, kind of, so i know this for a fact.
let there be no question, i admire ginas work on this... but the site said "we need 20k" (for the coma therapy device) when they later change it to 50k when the money poured in and the goal was reached,of course u have the right to ask why and where that extra money will go. nothing strange about that. im very glad he is showing progress already even before the therapy... but i still dont understand why more rockbands havent donated anything. korn for instance. is it the financial crisis? just that acidband i never heard of gave some
hey J - actually it went a little different than that.. when i launched the site i started at $20K as an 'initial/minimum goal' - those words were used for a reason because if the efforts went well i wanted to raise
much more for chi... because he will need much more.
WAY more. in the beginning i never said what the funds would be going to specifically besides chi's medical care. i had not even found the portable units at that time.
his recovery will not be a short one.. and with insurance not paying... even with him being in a cheaper facility now.. money will go quick. so the cost of the chamber yes will be covered.. but there are other things that the funds will potentially go to.. like the actual doctor that specializes in oxygen therapy that will be assisting thru his whole treatment.. also for example if no headway can be made with his current insurance company then we may use it to get chi medical insurance.
for sure everyone has the right to know where these funds are going.. which is what i was trying to do in the first place.. let everyone know the first thing we are making happen for chi is the oxygen therapy. i will continue to let everyone know as the money is spent where it is going. not one penny had been spent until the chamber. chi's mother and i know we hold a great responsibility to all of you great people. this is someone else's hard earned money and it will be treated as so.
(just to give you an idea.. jeanne refused to use the funds we raised even for gas for her car even tho pretty much everything she does in the car is something for him.. she said no.) everything is being documented and we will be held responsible to the penny. on the website there will be a break down of where the funds went because everyone has a right to know. jeanne said this from the beginning.. and we will both stand true to that.
so J - yes you are right.. people absolutely have a right to know and they will. everyone has my word.
as far as not understanding why other rock bands haven't donated.. you know.. i don't know.. but i won't let it stop me from pushing on. chi needs us and i won't give up.
i know that ming, chi's brother, talked to fieldy from korn the other day they are in talks on doing an event. but we still need to get the word out i think... raise awareness of chi's condition. there had been NO communication anywhere for so long until www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) happened.. we need to get people back in the loop.
el hefe.. the guy who did the event in romania.. he reached out to people he knows from faith no more and NOFX.. hopefully they can play an event with us. (if you read this el hefe..
you rock! thank you again.)
we just gotta keep pushing.. getting the word out. i am going to work on a press release today regarding www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) looking for bands to step forward for nationwide events..
one love for chi,
gina
Thanks for the info again Gina.
Cool to hear word spreading. I'm sure a lot of bands will help out once they know.
(ps. did you see my PM?)
I am surprised a lot of bands or at least members of other bands themselves are not donating a few bucks Chi's way. I mean it's Deftones. They have loads of friends in the music community especially rich and famous bands like Korn and Linkin Park. So I am surprised at that.
Quote from: mr.sinister on Apr 13, 2009, 08:32 PM
I am surprised a lot of bands or at least members of other bands themselves are not donating a few bucks Chi's way. I mean it's Deftones. They have loads of friends in the music community especially rich and famous bands like Korn and Linkin Park. So I am surprised at that.
ya i know.. again.. maybe they haven't heard or seen the website yet?? i really don't know.... ???
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Martin on Apr 13, 2009, 08:10 PM
Thanks for the info again Gina.
Cool to hear word spreading. I'm sure a lot of bands will help out once they know.
(ps. did you see my PM?)
you are very welcome. i think so too.
ya i just replie.
thanks!!!
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Martin on Apr 13, 2009, 08:10 PM
(ps. did you see my PM?)
Hi Gina, same question here, did you see mine?
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Apr 14, 2009, 12:01 AM
Quote from: Martin on Apr 13, 2009, 08:10 PM
(ps. did you see my PM?)
Hi Gina, same question here, did you see mine?
replied.. i tought i had on myspace already.. things are getting pretty crazy here (in a good way for chi) ... sorry guys... now where is that damn dayplanner?? lol :D
love,
gina
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Apr 14, 2009, 12:01 AM
Quote from: Martin on Apr 13, 2009, 08:10 PM
(ps. did you see my PM?)
Hi Gina, same question here, did you see mine?
you absolutely ROCK! i am amazed. thank you so sooo much! wow...
much love to you!
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 14, 2009, 01:18 AM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Apr 14, 2009, 12:01 AM
Quote from: Martin on Apr 13, 2009, 08:10 PM
(ps. did you see my PM?)
Hi Gina, same question here, did you see mine?
you absolutely ROCK! i am amazed. thank you so sooo much! wow...
much love to you!
one love for chi,
gina
Thanks again Gina, I'm really honored!
new post from chi's aunt renee on her visit with him is up.. great news.. progress etc: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-cheng-news/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-cheng-news/)
thanks all..
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 13, 2009, 06:49 PM
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 13, 2009, 02:06 PM
Quote from: Sugartolove on Apr 13, 2009, 03:43 AM
Jesusinabowlofdirt, I can't believe you :o
Even if you were joking or being sarcastic, that was uncalled for..!
After all, Gina has spent WEEKS devoting her time to help Chi to get better - more or less full time.
I've been there through the process, kind of, so i know this for a fact.
let there be no question, i admire ginas work on this... but the site said "we need 20k" (for the coma therapy device) when they later change it to 50k when the money poured in and the goal was reached,of course u have the right to ask why and where that extra money will go. nothing strange about that. im very glad he is showing progress already even before the therapy... but i still dont understand why more rockbands havent donated anything. korn for instance. is it the financial crisis? just that acidband i never heard of gave some
hey J - actually it went a little different than that.. when i launched the site i started at $20K as an 'initial/minimum goal' - those words were used for a reason because if the efforts went well i wanted to raise much more for chi... because he will need much more. WAY more. in the beginning i never said what the funds would be going to specifically besides chi's medical care. i had not even found the portable units at that time.
his recovery will not be a short one.. and with insurance not paying... even with him being in a cheaper facility now.. money will go quick. so the cost of the chamber yes will be covered.. but there are other things that the funds will potentially go to.. like the actual doctor that specializes in oxygen therapy that will be assisting thru his whole treatment.. also for example if no headway can be made with his current insurance company then we may use it to get chi medical insurance.
for sure everyone has the right to know where these funds are going.. which is what i was trying to do in the first place.. let everyone know the first thing we are making happen for chi is the oxygen therapy. i will continue to let everyone know as the money is spent where it is going. not one penny had been spent until the chamber. chi's mother and i know we hold a great responsibility to all of you great people. this is someone else's hard earned money and it will be treated as so. (just to give you an idea.. jeanne refused to use the funds we raised even for gas for her car even tho pretty much everything she does in the car is something for him.. she said no.) everything is being documented and we will be held responsible to the penny. on the website there will be a break down of where the funds went because everyone has a right to know. jeanne said this from the beginning.. and we will both stand true to that.
so J - yes you are right.. people absolutely have a right to know and they will. everyone has my word.
as far as not understanding why other rock bands haven't donated.. you know.. i don't know.. but i won't let it stop me from pushing on. chi needs us and i won't give up.
i know that ming, chi's brother, talked to fieldy from korn the other day they are in talks on doing an event. but we still need to get the word out i think... raise awareness of chi's condition. there had been NO communication anywhere for so long until www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) happened.. we need to get people back in the loop.
el hefe.. the guy who did the event in romania.. he reached out to people he knows from faith no more and NOFX.. hopefully they can play an event with us. (if you read this el hefe.. you rock! thank you again.)
we just gotta keep pushing.. getting the word out. i am going to work on a press release today regarding www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) looking for bands to step forward for nationwide events..
one love for chi,
gina
you seem to be an inexhaustible source of energy. what are u, an angel on speed or what? ;)
god bless. keep it up!
Quote from: mr.sinister on Apr 13, 2009, 08:32 PM
I am surprised a lot of bands or at least members of other bands themselves are not donating a few bucks Chi's way. I mean it's Deftones. They have loads of friends in the music community especially rich and famous bands like Korn and Linkin Park. So I am surprised at that.
yeah and all those sacto bands like will haven,far,tinfed and so forth. i mean they are really friends with deftones. if strangers can help economically surley they can
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 14, 2009, 04:48 AM
new post from chi's aunt renee on her visit with him is up.. great news.. progress etc: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-cheng-news/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-cheng-news/)
thanks all..
one love for chi,
gina
the man spoke?! wtf thats great news :D
I said it before, I'll say it again, I'm pretty dissapointed by the band's lack of reaction. Most of the things that Gina have done should've be done by the band, they should definitely show stronger support, I find it a bit weak so far....
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 14, 2009, 10:02 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 14, 2009, 04:48 AM
new post from chi's aunt renee on her visit with him is up.. great news.. progress etc: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-cheng-news/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-cheng-news/)
thanks all..
one love for chi,
gina
It's great but every time I read about that piece of skull that needs to be put back on...that makes me cringe, I imagine Chi with a shaved head or some kind of helmet....Poor Chi. What prevents them from doing it exactly?
the man spoke?! wtf thats great news :D
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Apr 14, 2009, 10:12 AM
I said it before, I'll say it again, I'm pretty dissapointed by the band's lack of reaction. Most of the things that Gina have done should've be done by the band, they should definitely show stronger support, I find it a bit weak so far....
you have no idea how they're reacting to all this and what they're doing behind the scenes.
all we know is that they're trying to get the album done. and with all the whining about the album taking too long, I take it you don't rather want them to put the album on hold and take care of their brother Chi instead.
you people are like spoiled little kids who's never happy with what you get.
Quote from: aenemic on Apr 14, 2009, 10:21 AM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Apr 14, 2009, 10:12 AM
I said it before, I'll say it again, I'm pretty dissapointed by the band's lack of reaction. Most of the things that Gina have done should've be done by the band, they should definitely show stronger support, I find it a bit weak so far....
you have no idea how they're reacting to all this and what they're doing behind the scenes.
all we know is that they're trying to get the album done. and with all the whining about the album taking too long, I take it you don't rather want them to put the album on hold and take care of their brother Chi instead.
you people are like spoiled little kids who's never happy with what you get.
why are they doing things behind the scenes? i will be happy with what i get if chi gets well ,they release eros sometime soon,and we get a studio version of buffalo/finger of death death that almost sounds like the live version but with more power in the screams in the breakdown.
in that case... no more whining,i promise!
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 14, 2009, 09:59 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 13, 2009, 06:49 PM
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 13, 2009, 02:06 PM
Quote from: Sugartolove on Apr 13, 2009, 03:43 AM
Jesusinabowlofdirt, I can't believe you :o
Even if you were joking or being sarcastic, that was uncalled for..!
After all, Gina has spent WEEKS devoting her time to help Chi to get better - more or less full time.
I've been there through the process, kind of, so i know this for a fact.
let there be no question, i admire ginas work on this... but the site said "we need 20k" (for the coma therapy device) when they later change it to 50k when the money poured in and the goal was reached,of course u have the right to ask why and where that extra money will go. nothing strange about that. im very glad he is showing progress already even before the therapy... but i still dont understand why more rockbands havent donated anything. korn for instance. is it the financial crisis? just that acidband i never heard of gave some
hey J - actually it went a little different than that.. when i launched the site i started at $20K as an 'initial/minimum goal' - those words were used for a reason because if the efforts went well i wanted to raise much more for chi... because he will need much more. WAY more. in the beginning i never said what the funds would be going to specifically besides chi's medical care. i had not even found the portable units at that time.
his recovery will not be a short one.. and with insurance not paying... even with him being in a cheaper facility now.. money will go quick. so the cost of the chamber yes will be covered.. but there are other things that the funds will potentially go to.. like the actual doctor that specializes in oxygen therapy that will be assisting thru his whole treatment.. also for example if no headway can be made with his current insurance company then we may use it to get chi medical insurance.
for sure everyone has the right to know where these funds are going.. which is what i was trying to do in the first place.. let everyone know the first thing we are making happen for chi is the oxygen therapy. i will continue to let everyone know as the money is spent where it is going. not one penny had been spent until the chamber. chi's mother and i know we hold a great responsibility to all of you great people. this is someone else's hard earned money and it will be treated as so. (just to give you an idea.. jeanne refused to use the funds we raised even for gas for her car even tho pretty much everything she does in the car is something for him.. she said no.) everything is being documented and we will be held responsible to the penny. on the website there will be a break down of where the funds went because everyone has a right to know. jeanne said this from the beginning.. and we will both stand true to that.
so J - yes you are right.. people absolutely have a right to know and they will. everyone has my word.
as far as not understanding why other rock bands haven't donated.. you know.. i don't know.. but i won't let it stop me from pushing on. chi needs us and i won't give up.
i know that ming, chi's brother, talked to fieldy from korn the other day they are in talks on doing an event. but we still need to get the word out i think... raise awareness of chi's condition. there had been NO communication anywhere for so long until www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) happened.. we need to get people back in the loop.
el hefe.. the guy who did the event in romania.. he reached out to people he knows from faith no more and NOFX.. hopefully they can play an event with us. (if you read this el hefe.. you rock! thank you again.)
we just gotta keep pushing.. getting the word out. i am going to work on a press release today regarding www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) looking for bands to step forward for nationwide events..
one love for chi,
gina
you seem to be an inexhaustible source of energy. what are u, an angel on speed or what? ;)
god bless. keep it up!
lmao.. i love that.. angel on speed... i see tattoo potential.. haha...
thanks..
blessings to you too..
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 14, 2009, 10:01 AM
Quote from: mr.sinister on Apr 13, 2009, 08:32 PM
I am surprised a lot of bands or at least members of other bands themselves are not donating a few bucks Chi's way. I mean it's Deftones. They have loads of friends in the music community especially rich and famous bands like Korn and Linkin Park. So I am surprised at that.
yeah and all those sacto bands like will haven,far,tinfed and so forth. i mean they are really friends with deftones. if strangers can help economically surley they can
jeff/willhaven has done alot.. and he visits him diligently every week.. he has done like 3 events and i think he may have another one planned.. not sure.. he has raised over $10K i believe...
i am hoping the press release asking specifically for bands to step forward will help.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 14, 2009, 10:02 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 14, 2009, 04:48 AM
new post from chi's aunt renee on her visit with him is up.. great news.. progress etc: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-cheng-news/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-cheng-news/)
thanks all..
one love for chi,
gina
the man spoke?! wtf thats great news :D
isn't that f'in rad?? he is seriously slowly emerging.. the chamber is going to help speed up the healing process.. should be in this week.. i hope by friday!! if not beginning of next week for sure.. then he will start 2 sessions a day for 2 hours each for 2 months.
can't wait!!!
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 14, 2009, 01:21 PM
angel on speed... i see tattoo potential.. haha...
ok, put some pics up when its done ;)
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 14, 2009, 01:28 PM
the man spoke?! wtf thats great news :D
isn't that f'in rad?? he is seriously slowly emerging.. the chamber is going to help speed up the healing process.. should be in this week.. i hope by friday!! if not beginning of next week for sure.. then he will start 2 sessions a day for 2 hours each for 2 months.
can't wait!!!
one love for chi,
gina
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thats friggin awesome :) i hope for the best
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 14, 2009, 05:23 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 14, 2009, 01:28 PM
the man spoke?! wtf thats great news :D
isn't that f'in rad?? he is seriously slowly emerging.. the chamber is going to help speed up the healing process.. should be in this week.. i hope by friday!! if not beginning of next week for sure.. then he will start 2 sessions a day for 2 hours each for 2 months.
can't wait!!!
one love for chi,
gina
thats friggin awesome :) i hope for the best
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ditto
Quote from: aenemic on Apr 14, 2009, 10:21 AM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Apr 14, 2009, 10:12 AM
I said it before, I'll say it again, I'm pretty dissapointed by the band's lack of reaction. Most of the things that Gina have done should've be done by the band, they should definitely show stronger support, I find it a bit weak so far....
you have no idea how they're reacting to all this and what they're doing behind the scenes.
all we know is that they're trying to get the album done. and with all the whining about the album taking too long, I take it you don't rather want them to put the album on hold and take care of their brother Chi instead.
you people are like spoiled little kids who's never happy with what you get.
This is not about the album, this is about Chi. I'm just saying that things like oneloveforchi.com should have been put up by the band. I really feel that the situation have been pushing forward since Gina came into the scene, that's all. Things like that should be up front not "behind the scenes" btw....
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Apr 14, 2009, 06:19 PM
Quote from: aenemic on Apr 14, 2009, 10:21 AM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Apr 14, 2009, 10:12 AM
I said it before, I'll say it again, I'm pretty dissapointed by the band's lack of reaction. Most of the things that Gina have done should've be done by the band, they should definitely show stronger support, I find it a bit weak so far....
you have no idea how they're reacting to all this and what they're doing behind the scenes.
all we know is that they're trying to get the album done. and with all the whining about the album taking too long, I take it you don't rather want them to put the album on hold and take care of their brother Chi instead.
you people are like spoiled little kids who's never happy with what you get.
This is not about the album, this is about Chi. I'm just saying that things like oneloveforchi.com should have been put up by the band. I really feel that the situation have been pushing forward since Gina came into the scene, that's all. Things like that should be up front not "behind the scenes" btw....
thanks love...
chino did call me.. i missed his call and so i called him back... he was appreciative of everything i was doing...
maybe they do have plans of their own... but they have not said anything yet... but ya.. if they do.. i think everyone would love to know.. no need to keep it under wraps... but we don't always get what we want... so onward...
we will see soon enough tho i guess..
one love for chi,
gina
I welled up from reading Chi's aunt's blog... It's so amazing how far he has come!! It's not that long ago when Chi opening his eyes was major news :)
I admire his family so much, they really are amazing.
I feel for him though... So frustrating to have a lot to say and not be able to make yourself understood... My prayers and thoughts are with you Chi, as long as it takes...
Quote from: Sugartolove on Apr 14, 2009, 06:48 PM
I welled up from reading Chi's aunt's blog... It's so amazing how far he has come!! It's not that long ago when Chi opening his eyes was major news :)
I admire his family so much, they really are amazing.
I feel for him though... So frustrating to have a lot to say and not be able to make yourself understood... My prayers and thoughts are with you Chi, as long as it takes...
ya i know.. but you know.. it is a unavoidable milestone...i am praying after the oxygen therapy soon he will be able to communicate somehow.. whether it be verbally or by writing. pointing.. charades!! something!
he's a fighter for sure.
one love for chi,
gina
I love Chi, WHOOT WHOOT! He's going to wake up really soon, I have a feeling about it! C'mon Chiiiiiiiiii!
Much respect,
-Matt
I have a feeling that Chi is going to wake on 5th May.
can't wait to see results :)
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Apr 16, 2009, 12:47 PM
can't wait to see results :)
me too.. and may 5th sounds awesome! that would be great..
hey all - chk out a new post from alice.. she is jeff's (willhaven) wife... close friend of chi's..
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/friend-visits/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/friend-visits/)
love,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 16, 2009, 09:46 PM
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Apr 16, 2009, 12:47 PM
can't wait to see results :)
me too.. and may 5th sounds awesome! that would be great..
hey all - chk out a new post from alice.. she is jeff's (willhaven) wife... close friend of chi's..
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/friend-visits/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/friend-visits/)
love,
gina
Great post she did!
"The next morning, Jeanne and I were asking him to move his legs, and he lift his left leg so up that I dont think i'm flexible enough to do that. It was awesome, we were so happy and he did it couple more times."
Love that part!
simply beautiful.
ahhh shit 420 posts, lil moment of silence please :)
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Apr 16, 2009, 10:24 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 16, 2009, 09:46 PM
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Apr 16, 2009, 12:47 PM
can't wait to see results :)
me too.. and may 5th sounds awesome! that would be great..
hey all - chk out a new post from alice.. she is jeff's (willhaven) wife... close friend of chi's..
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/friend-visits/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/friend-visits/)
love,
gina
Great post she did!
"The next morning, Jeanne and I were asking him to move his legs, and he lift his left leg so up that I dont think i'm flexible enough to do that. It was awesome, we were so happy and he did it couple more times."
Love that part!
me too... looks like the chamber should arrive to chi on wed. so he will be starting treatment next week! we (oneloveforchi donaters) also bought a digital video camera for chi's room that will record up to like 37 hours of video.. much needed to capture all these little victories on tape to show the doctors.
much love,
gina
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Apr 16, 2009, 10:53 PM
simply beautiful.
ahhh shit 420 posts, lil moment of silence please :)
:-X
Why don't other bands/festivals have booths for donations going to Chi? Or have a benifit with people like Korn(and all those that have toured with Family Values),Thrice,Glassjaw etc. To me it seems like it's the least they could do. Is there any way to get in touch with promoters of shows or what not to see if something like that could be set up? People should email local radio stations and see if booths can be set up at shows.
Quote from: devilinside on Apr 18, 2009, 01:28 AM
Why don't other bands/festivals have booths for donations going to Chi? Or have a benifit with people like Korn(and all those that have toured with Family Values),Thrice,Glassjaw etc. To me it seems like it's the least they could do. Is there any way to get in touch with promoters of shows or what not to see if something like that could be set up? People should email local radio stations and see if booths can be set up at shows.
chi's brother is in talks with korn... we are also going to put out a press release about looking for bands to volunteer to do a benefit.. and as soon as someone from the cheng's is ready to do interviews i have someone ready to get the word out to radio stations. the promoter from the tones first album offered to help me promote to his contacts for free. we just have to get all of our ducks in a row.. but everything is being worked on now.
it will be an awesome show once everything comes together.. and should raise the much needed funds for chi's much needed rehab therapy.
can't wait to see it happen...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 02:44 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Apr 18, 2009, 01:28 AM
Why don't other bands/festivals have booths for donations going to Chi? Or have a benifit with people like Korn(and all those that have toured with Family Values),Thrice,Glassjaw etc. To me it seems like it's the least they could do. Is there any way to get in touch with promoters of shows or what not to see if something like that could be set up? People should email local radio stations and see if booths can be set up at shows.
chi's brother is in talks with korn... we are also going to put out a press release about looking for bands to volunteer to do a benefit.. and as soon as someone from the cheng's is ready to do interviews i have someone ready to get the word out to radio stations. the promoter from the tones first album offered to help me promote to his contacts for free. we just have to get all of our ducks in a row.. but everything is being worked on now.
it will be an awesome show once everything comes together.. and should raise the much needed funds for chi's much needed rehab therapy.
can't wait to see it happen...
one love for chi,
gina
But is this one show or a tour? I would hope a tour because many people can't make it to one specific location.
depeche mode is cool, will try to catch em this time around in L.A.
I think that their record label should also donate some cash that would help a lot.
haha yeah like that is going to happen xD
Quote from: devilinside on Apr 18, 2009, 05:08 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 02:44 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Apr 18, 2009, 01:28 AM
Why don't other bands/festivals have booths for donations going to Chi? Or have a benifit with people like Korn(and all those that have toured with Family Values),Thrice,Glassjaw etc. To me it seems like it's the least they could do. Is there any way to get in touch with promoters of shows or what not to see if something like that could be set up? People should email local radio stations and see if booths can be set up at shows.
chi's brother is in talks with korn... we are also going to put out a press release about looking for bands to volunteer to do a benefit.. and as soon as someone from the cheng's is ready to do interviews i have someone ready to get the word out to radio stations. the promoter from the tones first album offered to help me promote to his contacts for free. we just have to get all of our ducks in a row.. but everything is being worked on now.
it will be an awesome show once everything comes together.. and should raise the much needed funds for chi's much needed rehab therapy.
can't wait to see it happen...
one love for chi,
gina
But is this one show or a tour? I would hope a tour because many people can't make it to one specific location.
ming and i are dreaming of an annual type tour thing that would even after chi recovers contribute to whatever chi chooses.... that would be the ultimate... but let's see if the rock gods smile upon us and make it happen...
<<<--- thanks for reminding me J ---->>>>but i am really happy i met all of you guys during this whole journey... you guys are some really kick ass loyal die hard fans... and chi is lucky to have you guys behind him. i could not have raised all this money for him without you all. we are collectively making some big things happen for him!
much love..
gina
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 18, 2009, 06:51 AM
haha yeah like that is going to happen xD
it would be nice huh j?
*sigh*
of course. but record companies.. arent they just a little bit too greedy?i mean at downloading times... cant see that they would deal with charity. one maybe could twist it to look at it as an investment but im pretty sure they wouldnt
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 07:00 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Apr 18, 2009, 05:08 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 02:44 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Apr 18, 2009, 01:28 AM
Why don't other bands/festivals have booths for donations going to Chi? Or have a benifit with people like Korn(and all those that have toured with Family Values),Thrice,Glassjaw etc. To me it seems like it's the least they could do. Is there any way to get in touch with promoters of shows or what not to see if something like that could be set up? People should email local radio stations and see if booths can be set up at shows.
chi's brother is in talks with korn... we are also going to put out a press release about looking for bands to volunteer to do a benefit.. and as soon as someone from the cheng's is ready to do interviews i have someone ready to get the word out to radio stations. the promoter from the tones first album offered to help me promote to his contacts for free. we just have to get all of our ducks in a row.. but everything is being worked on now.
it will be an awesome show once everything comes together.. and should raise the much needed funds for chi's much needed rehab therapy.
can't wait to see it happen...
one love for chi,
gina
But is this one show or a tour? I would hope a tour because many people can't make it to one specific location.
ming and i are dreaming of an annual type tour thing that would even after chi recovers contribute to whatever chi chooses.... that would be the ultimate... but let's see if the rock gods smile upon us and make it happen...
guys.. this whole thing.. i don't know about the rest of you... but it has touched me in a way that makes me feel like i want to do something huge to try and change the world..(big dreams i know) ming and i talk about this all the time. i mean i have always lived by having alot of compassion and care for others.. but in the position i am in now i have learned so much more about chi than i ever knew before and he's just the type of person you want to live by example of.. maybe not in all ways cuz nobody is perfect.. but shit.. just do more caring for others...
i have been f'ed over by friends before and i think when that happened i pulled back alot.. you know.. fear of being hurt blah blah.. ya i am a girl.. so what.. but you know? it sucks. and when this all happened - i knew doing all this for chi... shit... i would never get hurt. so my love just flowed out HUGE... nice to be able to give your whole heart to something when you know there is no way you can get hurt.
any wayzz.. rambling now... so i will stop here.. ::)
but i am really happy i met all of you guys during this whole journey... you guys are some really kick ass loyal die hard fans... and chi is lucky to have you guys behind him. i could not have raised all this money for him without you all. we are collectively making some big things happen for him!
much love..
gina
That's beautiful. I know what you mean by being hurt by your "friends" and feeling like you have to pull back for fear of being hurt again. It's cool that through this experience, you are at like..your best and finest..helping people and being so altruistic. It's hard to find people like you in this world we live in where everyone is steppin' all over eachother to get where they wanna be. You're an angel of awesomeness and I appreciate everything you're doing for Chi.
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 18, 2009, 07:30 AM
of course. but record companies.. arent they just a little bit too greedy?i mean at downloading times... cant see that they would deal with charity. one maybe could twist it to look at it as an investment but im pretty sure they wouldnt
i know j - and unfortunately you just may be right... :'(
love,
gina
Quote from: shine down unshy on Apr 18, 2009, 07:58 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 07:00 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Apr 18, 2009, 05:08 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 02:44 AM
Quote from: devilinside on Apr 18, 2009, 01:28 AM
Why don't other bands/festivals have booths for donations going to Chi? Or have a benifit with people like Korn(and all those that have toured with Family Values),Thrice,Glassjaw etc. To me it seems like it's the least they could do. Is there any way to get in touch with promoters of shows or what not to see if something like that could be set up? People should email local radio stations and see if booths can be set up at shows.
chi's brother is in talks with korn... we are also going to put out a press release about looking for bands to volunteer to do a benefit.. and as soon as someone from the cheng's is ready to do interviews i have someone ready to get the word out to radio stations. the promoter from the tones first album offered to help me promote to his contacts for free. we just have to get all of our ducks in a row.. but everything is being worked on now.
it will be an awesome show once everything comes together.. and should raise the much needed funds for chi's much needed rehab therapy.
can't wait to see it happen...
one love for chi,
gina
But is this one show or a tour? I would hope a tour because many people can't make it to one specific location.
ming and i are dreaming of an annual type tour thing that would even after chi recovers contribute to whatever chi chooses.... that would be the ultimate... but let's see if the rock gods smile upon us and make it happen...
guys.. this whole thing.. i don't know about the rest of you... but it has touched me in a way that makes me feel like i want to do something huge to try and change the world..(big dreams i know) ming and i talk about this all the time. i mean i have always lived by having alot of compassion and care for others.. but in the position i am in now i have learned so much more about chi than i ever knew before and he's just the type of person you want to live by example of.. maybe not in all ways cuz nobody is perfect.. but shit.. just do more caring for others...
i have been f'ed over by friends before and i think when that happened i pulled back alot.. you know.. fear of being hurt blah blah.. ya i am a girl.. so what.. but you know? it sucks. and when this all happened - i knew doing all this for chi... shit... i would never get hurt. so my love just flowed out HUGE... nice to be able to give your whole heart to something when you know there is no way you can get hurt.
any wayzz.. rambling now... so i will stop here.. ::)
but i am really happy i met all of you guys during this whole journey... you guys are some really kick ass loyal die hard fans... and chi is lucky to have you guys behind him. i could not have raised all this money for him without you all. we are collectively making some big things happen for him!
much love..
gina
That's beautiful. I know what you mean by being hurt by your "friends" and feeling like you have to pull back for fear of being hurt again. It's cool that through this experience, you are at like..your best and finest..helping people and being so altruistic. It's hard to find people like you in this world we live in where everyone is steppin' all over eachother to get where they wanna be. You're an angel of awesomeness and I appreciate everything you're doing for Chi.
thank you sweetheart.. for your kind words and understanding...
something really big and huge is going to come out of this besides just chi's recovery...
one love for chi.. and all sharing lung members,
gina
Fuck, totally didn't happen with the tshirt at the show :(
Quote from: Martin on Apr 18, 2009, 08:32 PM
Fuck, totally didn't happen with the tshirt at the show :(
what happened?
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 09:31 PM
Quote from: Martin on Apr 18, 2009, 08:32 PM
Fuck, totally didn't happen with the tshirt at the show :(
what happened?
Didn't bring my selfmade 'Oneloveforchi' tshirt I was planning on making nor the poster for over my amplifier :(
Got sidetracked by nerves, seeing how much bigger the stage was to what I thought it'd be...
Quote from: Martin on Apr 19, 2009, 09:13 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 09:31 PM
Quote from: Martin on Apr 18, 2009, 08:32 PM
Fuck, totally didn't happen with the tshirt at the show :(
what happened?
Didn't bring my selfmade 'Oneloveforchi' tshirt I was planning on making nor the poster for over my amplifier :(
Got sidetracked by nerves, seeing how much bigger the stage was to what I thought it'd be...
aww - it's all good. how did it go?
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 19, 2009, 05:04 PM
Quote from: Martin on Apr 19, 2009, 09:13 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 09:31 PM
Quote from: Martin on Apr 18, 2009, 08:32 PM
Fuck, totally didn't happen with the tshirt at the show :(
what happened?
Didn't bring my selfmade 'Oneloveforchi' tshirt I was planning on making nor the poster for over my amplifier :(
Got sidetracked by nerves, seeing how much bigger the stage was to what I thought it'd be...
aww - it's all good. how did it go?
one love for chi,
gina
Thank you :)
Went allright, considering we're a noiseband competing in a singer/songwriter contest.
We laughed our collective asses off: in between 9 sweet girls and boys with an acoustic guitar and piano, we ravaged with two keyboards (on through distortion), a loud bass and me disorting a guitar tuned to drop B (yes, inspired by William). We ended in one loud feedback tune.
The jury was cool though: apparantly we were cool, weird, something different and we should go..'but not in singer/songwriter'. We know, but we want to play :D
Anyway, we'll play again soon at thus art fair...i'll bring the stuff then.
Again, only a handfull of people will see, but have to try and reach out.
Just read the updates from family and friends. Got a watery eye from reading Adrienne's post.
Quote from: Martin on Apr 19, 2009, 06:37 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 19, 2009, 05:04 PM
Quote from: Martin on Apr 19, 2009, 09:13 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 09:31 PM
Quote from: Martin on Apr 18, 2009, 08:32 PM
Fuck, totally didn't happen with the tshirt at the show :(
what happened?
Didn't bring my selfmade 'Oneloveforchi' tshirt I was planning on making nor the poster for over my amplifier :(
Got sidetracked by nerves, seeing how much bigger the stage was to what I thought it'd be...
aww - it's all good. how did it go?
one love for chi,
gina
Thank you :)
Went allright, considering we're a noiseband competing in a singer/songwriter contest.
We laughed our collective asses off: in between 9 sweet girls and boys with an acoustic guitar and piano, we ravaged with two keyboards (on through distortion), a loud bass and me disorting a guitar tuned to drop B (yes, inspired by William). We ended in one loud feedback tune.
The jury was cool though: apparantly we were cool, weird, something different and we should go..'but not in singer/songwriter'. We know, but we want to play :D
Anyway, we'll play again soon at thus art fair...i'll bring the stuff then.
Again, only a handfull of people will see, but have to try and reach out.
Just read the updates from family and friends. Got a watery eye from reading Adrienne's post.
cool.. glad you got to play and have a good time.
ya - i know... i think i get like that with every one that i read... :'(
take care... :)
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 07:00 AM
i have been f'ed over by friends before and i think when that happened i pulled back alot.. you know.. fear of being hurt blah blah.. ya i am a girl.. so what.. but you know? it sucks. and when this all happened - i knew doing all this for chi... shit... i would never get hurt. so my love just flowed out HUGE... nice to be able to give your whole heart to something when you know there is no way you can get hurt.
so... what yr saying is.... thanks to those bad friends then? if they hadent fucked u over in the past your love wouldt flow as much right now? should we send them flowers`?
(just to let u know.. im working on a www.oneloveforginasbadfriends.com... up shortly)
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 20, 2009, 08:53 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 07:00 AM
i have been f'ed over by friends before and i think when that happened i pulled back alot.. you know.. fear of being hurt blah blah.. ya i am a girl.. so what.. but you know? it sucks. and when this all happened - i knew doing all this for chi... shit... i would never get hurt. so my love just flowed out HUGE... nice to be able to give your whole heart to something when you know there is no way you can get hurt.
so... what yr saying is.... thanks to those bad friends then? if they hadent fucked u over in the past your love wouldt flow as much right now? should we send them flowers`?
To quote Twilight (of all things), your /\ moodswings are giving me a whiplash... One minute you're resentful, then full of love and butterflies, before you go all premenstrual again. Bad day? :) If somebody shares something very personal, it's not really fair to do what you just did. Is it? :)
Quote from: Sugartolove on Apr 20, 2009, 09:59 PM
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 20, 2009, 08:53 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 07:00 AM
i have been f'ed over by friends before and i think when that happened i pulled back alot.. you know.. fear of being hurt blah blah.. ya i am a girl.. so what.. but you know? it sucks. and when this all happened - i knew doing all this for chi... shit... i would never get hurt. so my love just flowed out HUGE... nice to be able to give your whole heart to something when you know there is no way you can get hurt.
so... what yr saying is.... thanks to those bad friends then? if they hadent fucked u over in the past your love wouldt flow as much right now? should we send them flowers`?
To quote Twilight (of all things), your /\ moodswings are giving me a whiplash... One minute you're resentful, then full of love and butterflies, before you go all premenstrual again. Bad day? :) If somebody shares something very personal, it's not really fair to do what you just did. Is it? :)
what if u just took it the wrong way? it was just a thought.ginas bad friends made her hold her love back and it built up inside her.
once she felt safe all that held back love exploded into this. without those bad friends maybe the love would have vented a little all of the time and non of this would happen. if so, that is funny to me. chi gets lots of cash because ginas friends are evil
I'm sorry if I misunderstood you then :)
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 20, 2009, 08:53 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 18, 2009, 07:00 AM
i have been f'ed over by friends before and i think when that happened i pulled back alot.. you know.. fear of being hurt blah blah.. ya i am a girl.. so what.. but you know? it sucks. and when this all happened - i knew doing all this for chi... shit... i would never get hurt. so my love just flowed out HUGE... nice to be able to give your whole heart to something when you know there is no way you can get hurt.
so... what yr saying is.... thanks to those bad friends then? if they hadent fucked u over in the past your love wouldt flow as much right now? should we send them flowers`?
J - don't put words in my mouth. the answer to questions above are NO and YES it would flow the SAME and NO...
J - you always have some whack way of looking at things.. and if you don't relate to my crap - it's all good. i was just sharing my feelings.. which - ya i wasn't thinking about you coming along to do your thing. i am starting to recognize the patterns..
and no J - not "thanks to those bad friends" for being bad.. wtf is your deal? are you the community shit stirrer? i mean you still look at this as "chi getting cash" like he is on a freaking vacation right now or some crap. you find humor in the weirdest things.
and no my love isn't flowing ONLY cuz they F'ed me... and I wouldn't even call them "evil friends" - just people who ended up taking advantage.... and ALL i was saying it is just nice to DO for someone else without the FEAR of getting screwed.. (you very obviously can't relate??). also.. even if i was never screwed in the past i still would have done this and never would have been reserved in.... wtf am i doing.????... geez..... i got better shit to do...
wtf was i thinking? think what you want J. it's all good. i am sure the majority of the forum was nowhere near thinking what you do...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 20, 2009, 09:46 PM
(just to let u know.. im working on a www.oneloveforginasbadfriends.com... up shortly)
whatever
new post from chi's aunt mary: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-cheng-news/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-cheng-news/)
one love for chi, :)
gina
new post from chi's aunt mary: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-cheng-news/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chi-cheng-news/)
one love for chi, :)
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 20, 2009, 11:29 PM
J - don't put words in my mouth. the answer to questions above are NO and YES it would flow the SAME and NO...
J - you always have some whack way of looking at things.. and if you don't relate to my crap - it's all good. i was just sharing my feelings.. which - ya i wasn't thinking about you coming along to do your thing. i am starting to recognize the patterns..
and no J - not "thanks to those bad friends" for being bad.. wtf is your deal? are you the community shit stirrer? i mean you still look at this as "chi getting cash" like he is on a freaking vacation right now or some crap. you find humor in the weirdest things.
and no my love isn't flowing ONLY cuz they F'ed me... and I wouldn't even call them "evil friends" - just people who ended up taking advantage.... and ALL i was saying it is just nice to DO for someone else without the FEAR of getting screwed.. (you very obviously can't relate??). also.. even if i was never screwed in the past i still would have done this and never would have been reserved in.... wtf am i doing.????... geez..... i got better shit to do...
wtf was i thinking? think what you want J. it's all good. i am sure the majority of the forum was nowhere near thinking what you do...
one love for chi,
gina
"and no my love isn't flowing ONLY cuz they F'ed me." - but u admit that their bad actions towards u played a little part for yr now positive enegry? thats my point... like a thought experiment. good things come out of bad things and chi now gets the good thing in the end, im ALL for it. sorry if i offended u
(but i dont think im that wrong.just saying its funny how life turns out)
Quote from: Sugartolove on Apr 20, 2009, 10:58 PM
I'm sorry if I misunderstood you then :)
obviously.. u didnt,.... apperently - i was totally evil
Jesusinabowlofdirt--again, it is just your approach to things that's offensive. The thought isn't offensive, but you didn't have to make a snarky joke out of it. To say, for example, "I think it's cool to think that even the negative people in your life could have contributed to your love for others," would have been a welcome thought. But , "(just to let u know.. im working on a www.oneloveforginasbadfriends.com... up shortly)." That's just rude and uncalled for man. You talk around things a lot, but in the end you have to just take responsibility for being rude. Your brief apology can't be heart felt when followed with, ".. apperently - i was totally evil." There's no need to talk about it, and there's no need to make this a two page discussion. I think it would be totally in line, because you've clearly offended someone, to just say something along the lines of, "Hey, I'm sorry if I offended you, I didn't mean to," and just leave it at that. Don't weaken it with a sarcastic comment in the following post, just leave it a lone at that. No matter how much you talk around it, you're not going to shake the fact that what you said was rude. More talk isn't going to change that, as anyone reading this can clearly see that it was rude. If I came to your house, ringed the bell, and spit in your face, you won't let me walk away after I explain how I was just thinking that it was funny as a social experiment. I'm not trying to be conflictive, but please, just apologize and give the lip service a rest--it would be best for everyone involved.
Much respect,
-Matt
youre right, good post. i do have to think about how my things come out. im not in middle of this chi chaos in the same way so i have to think about what iu say to people who is right in it. but if i meant it to be that harmful ive wouldnt say anything. sorry
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 21, 2009, 05:40 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 20, 2009, 11:29 PM
J - don't put words in my mouth. the answer to questions above are NO and YES it would flow the SAME and NO...
J - you always have some whack way of looking at things.. and if you don't relate to my crap - it's all good. i was just sharing my feelings.. which - ya i wasn't thinking about you coming along to do your thing. i am starting to recognize the patterns..
and no J - not "thanks to those bad friends" for being bad.. wtf is your deal? are you the community shit stirrer? i mean you still look at this as "chi getting cash" like he is on a freaking vacation right now or some crap. you find humor in the weirdest things.
and no my love isn't flowing ONLY cuz they F'ed me... and I wouldn't even call them "evil friends" - just people who ended up taking advantage.... and ALL i was saying it is just nice to DO for someone else without the FEAR of getting screwed.. (you very obviously can't relate??). also.. even if i was never screwed in the past i still would have done this and never would have been reserved in.... wtf am i doing.????... geez..... i got better shit to do...
wtf was i thinking? think what you want J. it's all good. i am sure the majority of the forum was nowhere near thinking what you do...
one love for chi,
gina
"and no my love isn't flowing ONLY cuz they F'ed me." - but u admit that their bad actions towards u played a little part for yr now positive enegry? thats my point... like a thought experiment. good things come out of bad things and chi now gets the good thing in the end, im ALL for it. sorry if i offended u
(but i dont think im that wrong.just saying its funny how life turns out)
J - i can not admit that bad actions played a roll in my efforts to help chi... but i will go as far to admit good things do come out out of bad experiences.. for example.. if this accident wouldn't have happened to chi (wish it would not have) but IF it had not.. i would not have had the priviledge of meeting so many awesome people via sharing lungs, myspace etc. i have
seriously made some life long friends thru this journey.
i won't allow myself to be offended by your comments because i know my intentions are true and come from love.
so anyway.. let's just move on. this is about chi... not what you think of me. PM me if you have other issues. spare the community.
it's all good.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Apr 21, 2009, 05:56 AM
Jesusinabowlofdirt--again, it is just your approach to things that's offensive. The thought isn't offensive, but you didn't have to make a snarky joke out of it. To say, for example, "I think it's cool to think that even the negative people in your life could have contributed to your love for others," would have been a welcome thought. But , "(just to let u know.. im working on a www.oneloveforginasbadfriends.com... up shortly)." That's just rude and uncalled for man. You talk around things a lot, but in the end you have to just take responsibility for being rude. Your brief apology can't be heart felt when followed with, ".. apperently - i was totally evil." There's no need to talk about it, and there's no need to make this a two page discussion. I think it would be totally in line, because you've clearly offended someone, to just say something along the lines of, "Hey, I'm sorry if I offended you, I didn't mean to," and just leave it at that. Don't weaken it with a sarcastic comment in the following post, just leave it a lone at that. No matter how much you talk around it, you're not going to shake the fact that what you said was rude. More talk isn't going to change that, as anyone reading this can clearly see that it was rude. If I came to your house, ringed the bell, and spit in your face, you won't let me walk away after I explain how I was just thinking that it was funny as a social experiment. I'm not trying to be conflictive, but please, just apologize and give the lip service a rest--it would be best for everyone involved.
Much respect,
-Matt
thanks matt.
much love,
gina
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Apr 21, 2009, 05:56 AM
If I came to your house, ringed the bell, and spit in your face, you won't let me walk away after I explain how I was just thinking that it was funny as a social experiment.
but my experiment wasnt to be cruel,it was a tought that in the end turned out idiotic. alright ENOUGH :-[
can't check it here at work. what's new?
jesus is just fucking around Gina, I mean I don't know the dude but I sense it's all in good humor, act right jesus.... joder!
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Apr 21, 2009, 01:02 PM
jesus is just fucking around Gina, I mean I don't know the dude but I sense it's all in good humor, act right jesus.... joder!
ya - i know... it's all good.
thanks.
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 21, 2009, 06:23 AM
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Apr 21, 2009, 05:56 AM
If I came to your house, ringed the bell, and spit in your face, you won't let me walk away after I explain how I was just thinking that it was funny as a social experiment.
but my experiment wasnt to be cruel,it was a tought that in the end turned out idiotic. alright ENOUGH :-[
just stop, you have derailed. be good
Soooo...back to the topic then? Right.
Chi.
SO.. anyway... Travis Barker from Blink 182 Twittered about OneLOveForChi.com http://twitter.com/trvsbrkr (http://twitter.com/trvsbrkr)
Traffic is going off!
One Love For Chi,
Gina
very cool, I went to high school with him
Quote from: aenemic on Apr 21, 2009, 07:36 AM
can't check it here at work. what's new?
here you go...
First, I want to tell all of you who have been supporting Dai with your love, your stories, your donations, your prayers, your precious time and energy – how much it lifts and strengthens the family. Dai listens to your messages of encouragement. He knows. It helps all of us more than I can say.
I am his Aunt Mary. I read the stories you post about Dai and I think, yup – that's Dai! He has been doing those acts of kindness and generosity since he was a little guy – since he could reach out to give away his cookie or his toy. He was such a loving and compassionate kid, and he has never lost that. I've been happy for his successes, but so proud of him for retaining his generous and sincere nature, and for being such an awesome dad, and loving son and brother.
My sister, Jeanne, is my best friend. She is indefatigable in her determination to bring Dai through this. I have always felt like her kids were my kids, too. For my daughter, Michelle, spending time with her cousins was the joy of her childhood. I try to spend as much time with Jeanne and Dai as I can – I try to make it there every weekend, but like so many of us, I feel limited and frustrated in the scope of what I'm able to do. I want to do more, to make a difference in his recovery, and to support those who are closest to him. So I do what I can to love and encourage and support Dai and the family.
The Chengs are a close, loving family — very funny and high energy. The kids have such a strong bond. The family is all pulling together, and supporting each other. Mae and Ming and Jeanne and Gabriel and Jeff and Alice have been able to be here most consistently and Dai really responds to them. He is surrounded by love.
Dai is getting such wonderful care from the family and the hospital staff. (No talk about insurance companies here, cause I don't want to go negative – grrrrr!) But Dai is fighting one very tough battle after another –from the initial trauma and surgeries, to the fevers and pneumonia that he has had to fight off. And he does fight. It must be terribly frustrating for him, because we can see that he understands what is going on, that he wants to respond, but his brain isn't making all the connections yet. Healing is a painfully slow process. But he is making progress.
I am so touched and grateful for the incredible loyalty and devotion of Dai's immediate and extended and world-wide family. Gina, you have made such a major difference to all the Chengs. We are so grateful for your efforts every day. I will be so happy when I finally get to meet you, my sister. You are helping us all – Dai, his parents and sibs, the extended family, the world-wide family, the wonderful caring people who have started pages and blogs and on-line cards. It is truly inspiring to witness so many people, who were touched by Dai in some way, reaching out to touch him when he needs them. When he wakes up, he will have a story to tell, and stories to hear about the loving people who remembered his kindnesses.
One Love For Chi...
Aunt Mary
Chi, Gina, Chi's family - anyone involved - Been thinking all day about Chi's new treatment maybe starting tomorrow... I am so thrilled and anxious just thinking about it... I will pray as hard as I can that this will be the start of a new chapter in Chi's recovery, and that in time it will lead to great things. I am aware that it will probably still take time. Patience is a keyword in all aspects of his journey back to us...
Best of luck to you all...
<3
Amazing about Travis by the way - if more well known people could be more like him..
Hope he recovers fully from his plane crash.
Quote from: Sugartolove on Apr 22, 2009, 12:14 AM
Chi, Gina, Chi's family - anyone involved - Been thinking all day about Chi's new treatment maybe starting tomorrow... I am so thrilled and anxious just thinking about it... I will pray as hard as I can that this will be the start of a new chapter in Chi's recovery, and that in time it will lead to great things. I am aware that it will probably still take time. Patience is a keyword in all aspects of his journey back to us...
Best of luck to you all...
<3
Amazing about Travis by the way - if more well known people could be more like him..
Hope he recovers fully from his plane crash.
hey - ya i am pretty excited.. so is the fam... the chamber arrives tomorrow.. then they test it... then he will prob get the first treatment thursday.
of couse..it will take several treatments b4 we can expect to notice progress from the oxygen.... will update www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) once he has the first treatment....
one love for chi,
gina
Written down what I want to say when I phone in sometime ago.
Going to call and record it soon :) Hope it comes off well (thought of a little joke, something I hope will cause a smile amongst all who hear it...)
fail. u cannot post jokes in chi threads. based on a true story
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Apr 21, 2009, 01:02 PM
I don't know the dude
"well let me change that and buy you a heineken"
aahh shit, that's a good start, that's my favorite brew
Quote from: Sugartolove on Apr 22, 2009, 12:14 AM
Amazing about Travis by the way - if more well known people could be more like him..
"amazing" ? yeah namedropping oneloveforchi is good but amazing? is not that he donated shit loads of cash? who was it that typed "ill do anything for him" i would like to see how much he donated. big words
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 22, 2009, 12:39 PM
fail. u cannot post jokes in chi threads. based on a true story
ya - but i think he meant he would tell a joke on his recorded msg to chi anyway...
haha.. ;)
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Martin on Apr 22, 2009, 10:25 AM
something I hope will cause a smile amongst all who hear it...)
yeah but a link to it probably will end up here.. im just saying he should proceed with caution
anywayzzz.......
i heard back from travis barker's assistant and looks like he will be able to donate signed stuff to our auction....
should raise some good funds for our cause.
one love for chi,
gina
kewl. i know he knows the pain
uh huh
As little as it seems, it generates interest. Look at the increased traffic to the site! So, indirectly, it might lead to added donations by people who would otherwise not know about the site. And he might possibly donate signed stuff to distribute further, as mentioned elsewhere. He didn't really have to do any of that - and it's more than others have done.
One simple sentence on Twitter might lead to added funds, and we're seeing the effects of Chi's fund in action with his new chamber arriving today :)
I got a couple jokes then.
A horse walks into a bar, the bartender says, "why the long face?"
A sandwich walks into a bar, the bartender says, "get out, we don't serve food here!"
skeleton walks into a bar and orders a beer and a mop
Quote from: Sugartolove on Apr 22, 2009, 11:48 PM
One simple sentence on Twitter might lead to added funds
yeah very good but still not amazing,we're still talking about "One simple sentence". what Gina has done is closer to amazing
thanks J
hey - chk out videos from hefe's event in romania that raised $1400: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/chi-benefit-romania/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/chi-benefit-romania/)
very cool!
one love for chi,
gina
those guys look like they enjoyed this, very cool shit
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Apr 23, 2009, 12:52 PM
those guys look like they enjoyed this, very cool shit
yep
any news on the hyperbaric chamber gina?
Quote from: mr.sinister on Apr 23, 2009, 09:36 PM
any news on the hyperbaric chamber gina?
I was just going to ask this
I know this is semi-unrelated, but the day I started lurking here for guitar tabs, one of Marines was sent to the hospital If anyone could please pray for the family of Lance Corporal Pham of Saigon, Vietnam. He had an aneurism after surgery and slipped into a coma and was pronounced brain dead at 1743 today, I and others would be very appreciative.
For sure man.
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: anothermarine on Apr 23, 2009, 11:37 PM
I know this is semi-unrelated, but the day I started lurking here for guitar tabs, one of Marines was sent to the hospital If anyone could please pray for the family of Lance Corporal Pham of Saigon, Vietnam. He had an aneurism after surgery and slipped into a coma and was pronounced brain dead at 1743 today, I and others would be very appreciative.
i will.. very sad. sorry :-\
hey guys.. ya mae, chi's sister talked a bit about it today in her blog: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/there-is-only-one-way-to-start-thisthat-would-be-with-gratitude/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/there-is-only-one-way-to-start-thisthat-would-be-with-gratitude/)
so his first treatment should be saturday.. friday would be awesome but it is looking like prob saturday.
she posted a great blog - you guys should chk it out.
much love,
gina
Coma were great at Hefe's fundraiser :)
The blog was very emotional...
Made me cry. In a good way though.
thanx
this is coma on my space www.myspace.com/nersotitele
it looks like the show in Budapest in Hungary on 17 may (my second foundriser show) will be a blast
already we have 10 of the greastest hungarian bands playing for CHI
17 may 2009 "durerkert venue"
be there
love for chi
sorry
this is coma on my space
www.myspace.com/nerostitele
ya - hefe/coma rocks!
hey hefe.. my husband and i checked out your band's music last night and we both love it.
thanks for all the amazing things you are doing everyday to help raise funds for chi... we think you are amazing! 8)
can't wait to see the videos from the next shows.
much love,
gina
thanxs for the nice words..
everybody here is amazing .
can t wait for the oxygen chamber treatment to start ..
we wait ..we pray ...we hope and ...our Chi will be back ..
one love for Chi
Quote from: chino_208 on Apr 24, 2009, 03:14 PM
thanxs for the nice words..
everybody here is amazing .
can t wait for the oxygen chamber treatment to start ..
we wait ..we pray ...we hope and ...our Chi will be back ..
one love for Chi
yes.. they should finishing setting it up and testing it today... tomorrow should be a big day.
thanks guys.. i will keep you all posted.
one love for chi,
gina
awesome
Ah, so exciting.
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Apr 24, 2009, 11:41 PM
Ah, so exciting.
Much respect,
-Matt
very much so.. very anxious to see how it goes... this weekend it will start.. i am sure it will take them awhile to get used to using it etc..
i have read stories about people having incredible progress even after only 15 treatments.. i hope chi has the same experience.. but it may be several weeks before we really see progress...
i will keep you posted.
one love for chi,
gina
would you mind posting links to some of those stories? i think it be interesting to read
What's up with that part they're waiting to be installed?
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Apr 24, 2009, 11:54 PM
would you mind posting links to some of those stories? i think it be interesting to read
here is one story:
QuoteWhile we normally breathe oxygen at a concentration of 21%, a patient in a hyperbaric oxygen chamber breaths 100% pure oxygen under pressure. This pressure allows for oxygen to diffuse into the cerebrospinal fluid and brain tissues at concentrations far beyond what can be achieved under normal atmospheric conditions. In other words, oxygen concentrations are increased to the point above what the blood could normally deliver to the brain, and the 'recoverable brain' cells are jump started back to life!
I have personally witnessed startling, unexpected recoveries in Dr. Neubauer's clinic and in our own. Florence , an eighty-year old woman, was recently brought into our center by her son after suffering a traumatic brain injury. She was in a semi-vegetative state and on a feeding tube. Her neurologists said her condition was irreversible. After only 15 treatments, her mental capacity began to return and her feeding tube was removed. Despite this achievement, her doctors then proclaimed that she would never walk again. Once again, their prognosis proved wrong, after thirty treatments Florence has begun to walk with the aid of a cane. Her condition continues to improve.
While hyperbaric oxygen breathed new life into Florence 's inactive brain cells, these cells needed to be retrained so that they performed properly. To accomplish this task, Real-Time EEG Neurofeedback can prove to be an invaluable tool. Invented by the renowned researcher and scientist, Dr. Margaret Ayers, Real-Time EEG Neurofeedback employs sophisticated computer processing to capture real-time imaging of the electrical activity of the brain. Quite simply, neurofeedback gives your brain info rmation about itself and its performance for the purpose of improving and/or changing its performance. Seeing an EEG is like the brain viewing itself in a mirror. The EEG Neurofeedback machine gives positive feedback when the brain exhibits a good brain wave pattern; the brain learns and remembers how to exhibit only the good patterns – thus resulting in a retrained brain.
I routinely combine hyperbaric oxygen and EEG Neurofeedback with astonishing results. The synergy between these two healing modalities provides a cutting-edge, all-natural solution to a variety of neurological conditions. What I mean by 'all-natural,' is that both these therapies work to enhance your brain's own ability to recover, renew, and revitalize. Perhaps you or someone you care about can benefit from these powerful therapies.
Adam Breiner ND
Whole-Body Medicine
and another....
QuoteA 2 1/2 year old boy was seen 1 1/2 months after a near-drowning episode. The child hit his head and fell into the swimming pool. It is not known how long he was submerged. The family was told that the child was blind and he presented in a persistent vegetative state with severe spasticity on the left side and hypomobility of the right leg. He was fed by PEG tube. Initial SPECT imaging showed extensive and symmetrical deficit throughout frontal, temporal, parietal and occipital lobes. After three treatments with hyperbaric oxygen therapy the patient began moving more, trying to speak, and "acting up" when angry. The patient began crying with tears for the first time after 16 treatments. After 26 treatments the patient was smiling, much more alert, laughing, crying, sleeping much better and laughing while dreaming. Following 34 treatments the patient was more aware, developing much more eye contact and was clearly not blind. To-date the patient has received 199 treatments and now sees clearly, is speaking bi-lingually, standing and taking a few steps. He is now able to eat and drink normally. He was given back a life.
and chk this out: http://www.drneubauerhbo.com/papers/Breaking3.pdf (http://www.drneubauerhbo.com/papers/Breaking3.pdf)
I will send more later... cuz i have some GREAT news i want to share with you guys............................ going to be in my next post.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Apr 25, 2009, 03:05 PM
What's up with that part they're waiting to be installed?
the damn compressor they sent doesn't work.. so they are getting another today. we are now thinking monday prob. they are first going to test using it on his sister first just to make sure the oxygen is getting to him properly etc... make sure everything works etc.
i will post more soon.
one love for chi,
gina
our boy said his first sentence yesterday!!! i haven't even blogged about it on the site yet.. but i wanted to let you guys know. he said "i'm not....." and tried really hard to get another word out but couldn't. it's all good chi - that is great!!! the rest will come. his mom told me that he was very clear and articulate getting the words out. what an accomplishment! so awesome!
so there is your good news for the day!!
one love for chi,
gina
good stuff
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 25, 2009, 05:12 PM
our boy said his first sentence yesterday!!! i haven't even blogged about it on the site yet.. but i wanted to let you guys know. he said "i'm not....." and tried really hard to get another word out but couldn't. it's all good chi - that is great!!! the rest will come. his mom told me that he was very clear and articulate getting the words out. what an accomplishment! so awesome!
so there is your good news for the day!!
one love for chi,
gina
alright great news :) im not... hmmm... not what``??
im not forgiving u for playing shows without me... ?
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 25, 2009, 05:26 PM
im not forgiving u for playing shows without me... ?
lmao...
who knows... could be anything...
what is cool is that he started doing this even b4 the oxygen therapy started... so when he starts the oxygen next week.. it is just going to help in speeding up his recovery...
man o man. and the first interview he will give. that day..
That's fantastic news! :) :)
Thank you Gina
That's what I'm talking about! Oh man, I can't wait for Oxygen to start and for him to finally get out of that bed (eventually!). Only wish I could be there myself to see it adn tell him how happy I am for him!
Much respect,
-Matt
That's so awesome! "I'm not..." mmmh, I wonder what he was trying to say too.
Ok, as always, thanks Gina.
you are all welcome...
i know.. can't wait to hear the stories he will tell. i bet he will write a book - seriously. he is such a great writer. i can totally see it.
i will keep you guys posted!! oxygen starts in a day or 2.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Apr 25, 2009, 07:16 PM
Ok, as always, thanks Gina.
you are so welcome :)
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 25, 2009, 05:12 PM
our boy said his first sentence yesterday!!! i haven't even blogged about it on the site yet.. but i wanted to let you guys know. he said "i'm not....." and tried really hard to get another word out but couldn't. it's all good chi - that is great!!! the rest will come. his mom told me that he was very clear and articulate getting the words out. what an accomplishment! so awesome!
so there is your good news for the day!!
one love for chi,
gina
that's huge.
next up - gross motor skills!
YES
THAT S GREAT GREAT GREAT NEWS...
love y all for being here for chi ..
I m not....giving up...
we neither
can t wait for more news
yep - very huge!
we aren't giving up either.. never.
i will keep you guys in the loop for sure.. but be sure to also register at www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) if you want to be sure not to miss anything...
one love for chi,
gina
Awesome news.
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Apr 25, 2009, 05:26 PM
im not forgiving u for playing shows without me... ?
Im seriously hoping that you're joking... if not.. then you gotta get over yourself.
Dear Chi:
I pray to the Almighty Spirit That Flows Through All Things to send you positive energy, every day. No one deserves to be in a coma, especially not someone like you, who has done many positive things for the world...
I got a call from Chi's sister Mae today... Chi had to be taken to the hospital today and is in ICU. He has an infection he is battling so please send as many prayers today as possible.
I will update when I hear back from Mae.
Chi Prayer Warriors Unite!
one love for chi,
gina
Please fight this. Chi... :( You've come so far..! Praying for you to overcome this infection, as you've overcome everything up to now. In my heart and thoughts always, Chi. Thank you Gina for posting.
mae called me again and said that they have him stabilized.. and his vitals are strong... his fever is gone too.. which is good.
they will get test results back soon and i will update the rest of the details then...
keep praying everyone... please...
one love for chi,
gina
what a fuckin scare man, he just got the chamber you know what i mean, thanks for the update Gina. I think about Chi daily :)
chi's mom told me last night chi is responding to therapy.. he still isn't out of danger.. but his vitals are good. they are still trying to find the source of the infection.. so please keep the prayers/thoughts etc coming...
one love for chi,
gina
Ah jeez, they don't know what they're dealing with yet? Keep fighting Chi! We love you!
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Apr 28, 2009, 04:04 PM
Ah jeez, they don't know what they're dealing with yet? Keep fighting Chi! We love you!
Much respect,
-Matt
not yet.. hoping to hear different today... he is on antibotics tho.. so hopefully that is fighting whatever it is...
i hate this... come on chi! fight!
let's keep the prayers and strength to him going... i will update once i hear from the fam today...
one love for chi,
gina
Looking forward to hearing he is okay!
Much respect,
-Matt
last i heard last night from his mom is he is ok: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/message-from-momma-j/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/message-from-momma-j/)
i will post on the site whatever news i get today...
one love for chi,
gina
fieldy from korn is going to help one love for chi! http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/message-from-smokey-fieldy-rocks-thanks-fieldy/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/message-from-smokey-fieldy-rocks-thanks-fieldy/)
one love for chi,
gina
fieldy from korn is going to help one love for chi! http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/message-from-smokey-fieldy-rocks-thanks-fieldy/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/message-from-smokey-fieldy-rocks-thanks-fieldy/)
one love for chi,
gina
Very cool, Fieldy seems to be a really nice guy!
A cool idea too, it will reach many more people than a single concert could. Still hoping for some good news soon!
Much respect,
-Matt
"GETTING TOGETHER A SONG FOR CHI, THAT HE SAYS WILL BE DOPE!! THEY WILL HAVE 4 BASS PLAYERS, 4 GUITARS, 4 DRUMMERS, AND ALL MUSICIANS INVOLVED ARE GIVING UP ALL THE C.D. SALES TO CHI'S RECOVERY"
good idea im totally gonna buy it. but im a little confused, it says "a song" - are they gonna have 4 bass players and 4 drummers on one song? or are there 4 or more songs? i wonder who will sing and if the lyrics are like prayers
update from ICU / Momma J
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/update-from-the-icu/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/update-from-the-icu/)
keep praying.. it's working!
one love for chi,
gina
time to vote.. let us know your fav!
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/vote-on-t-shirt-design/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/vote-on-t-shirt-design/)
thanks!
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 02, 2009, 08:45 AM
time to vote.. let us know your fav!
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/vote-on-t-shirt-design/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/vote-on-t-shirt-design/)
thanks!
one love for chi,
gina
Wow, this is actually quite hard, there are some awesome designs there!
EDIT: Ok, voted, and it looks like it's a winner. Awesome.
Quote from: Martin on May 02, 2009, 08:51 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 02, 2009, 08:45 AM
time to vote.. let us know your fav!
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/vote-on-t-shirt-design/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/vote-on-t-shirt-design/)
thanks!
one love for chi,
gina
Wow, this is actually quite hard, there are some awesome designs there!
EDIT: Ok, voted, and it looks like it's a winner. Awesome.
i know right.. lots of good ones.. there are a few i want actually!
thanks for voting!
Damn, that was shockingly descriptive. I got the chills and almost found myself crying. I'm glad he's doing better though, what a guy.
Much respect,
-Matt
That was difficult! I especially loved two designs - but would buy a t shirt with any of the designs on :)
Well done to all of the ones who contributed..
My heart virtually stopped when I started reading it.. Poor Chi and his poor family..! I'm in awe over how strong he is and how much of a fight he is putting up.
I'm also so grateful to the fantastic medical staff who were working on him.
Had a similar response to this as Jesus2chino and Sugartolove: felt ill, stomach acted up, didn't feel my body for a sec.
Glad Chi is such a fighter. Keep praying indeed.
Been drawing all kinds of Oneloveforchi type posters last weekend for an upcoming festival/show/thing.
Same as above, the very first lines scared the hell out of me! :-\
Hope he will keep on fighting and we'll keep on praying.
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 25, 2009, 05:05 PM
QuoteA 2 1/2 year old boy was seen 1 1/2 months after a near-drowning episode. The child hit his head and fell into the swimming pool. It is not known how long he was submerged. The family was told that the child was blind and he presented in a persistent vegetative state with severe spasticity on the left side and hypomobility of the right leg. He was fed by PEG tube. Initial SPECT imaging showed extensive and symmetrical deficit throughout frontal, temporal, parietal and occipital lobes. After three treatments with hyperbaric oxygen therapy the patient began moving more, trying to speak, and "acting up" when angry. The patient began crying with tears for the first time after 16 treatments. After 26 treatments the patient was smiling, much more alert, laughing, crying, sleeping much better and laughing while dreaming. Following 34 treatments the patient was more aware, developing much more eye contact and was clearly not blind. To-date the patient has received 199 treatments and now sees clearly, is speaking bi-lingually, standing and taking a few steps. He is now able to eat and drink normally. He was given back a life.
one love for chi,
gina
wow.. awesome..
just a question... how long did it take those 199 treatments? i mean.. how many time?
and once again, thanks for all the effort you're doing, and the news Gina!
How often do they run catscans Gina?
theres a hyperbaric chamber in dragon ball, chis guna come out all saiyan'd out, buff and tuff
Another preyer for Chi...
Fuck , ive been out of touch with these boards for a fortnight or two...
honestly coz i find it hard thiking of Chi's condition.
hey guys.. sorry i haven't had much time to come to SL... the website is getting busy and more and more emails are coming in daily.. so it's just been more to keep up with... also keeping in contact with chi's mom, sis and bro daily.. mom some times several times a day.. just making sure they are ok... they have had a rough week as you can imagine.
but chi is out of ICU now and you will see from my last 'one love' update.
since things are getting busier you might want to register on the site to make sure you get all these updates.. as i am not sure if i will be able to keep up with coming here as frequently as before.. i have t-shirts to make happen and alot of other things coming along..
thanks again for your support and prayers..
one love for chi,
gina
chi's not dead he's too much of a beast to go out by the hands of another
my thoughts are with you all
Quote from: defTHE1s on May 04, 2009, 12:35 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Apr 25, 2009, 05:05 PM
QuoteA 2 1/2 year old boy was seen 1 1/2 months after a near-drowning episode. The child hit his head and fell into the swimming pool. It is not known how long he was submerged. The family was told that the child was blind and he presented in a persistent vegetative state with severe spasticity on the left side and hypomobility of the right leg. He was fed by PEG tube. Initial SPECT imaging showed extensive and symmetrical deficit throughout frontal, temporal, parietal and occipital lobes. After three treatments with hyperbaric oxygen therapy the patient began moving more, trying to speak, and "acting up" when angry. The patient began crying with tears for the first time after 16 treatments. After 26 treatments the patient was smiling, much more alert, laughing, crying, sleeping much better and laughing while dreaming. Following 34 treatments the patient was more aware, developing much more eye contact and was clearly not blind. To-date the patient has received 199 treatments and now sees clearly, is speaking bi-lingually, standing and taking a few steps. He is now able to eat and drink normally. He was given back a life.
one love for chi,
gina
wow.. awesome..
just a question... how long did it take those 199 treatments? i mean.. how many time?
and once again, thanks for all the effort you're doing, and the news Gina!
well.. considering in the beginning.. maybe the first 2 months i believe he would get 1 or 2 a day.. then they take a 30 day break and start again.. so after 2 months he would have had 60 - 120 treatments... so it could be 4-6 months.. depends on so many things and hard to predict.
you are welcome. :)
one love for chi,
gina
hey there
hefe here
another show i ve put for our hero
THIRD EUROPEAN BENEFIT SHOW FOR CHI CHENG WILL BE HELD IN MACEDONIA IN SKOPJE at HAVANA CLUB ON 19 MAY 2009
After Romania and Hungary a third european benefit show for Chi will be held in Macedonia in Skopje on 19 May at the Havana Club venue.Some of the best local acts Point Blank,SMUT ,Dedicated for Life and Vivid .will join forces in action to raise money for Chi.All the founds resulting from this concert will go directly to Chi s account put up on "One Love For Chi" Fundraiser http://www.oneloveforchi.com/
GET WELL CHI! STAY STRONG ! YOU RE NOT ALONE
he woke up today according to those news >>> http://www.nuta.pl/news.html?nid=30092
would someone care to translate?
english ftw!
http://www.gigwise.com/news/50772/Deftones-Bassist-Chi-Cheng-Comes-Out-Of-Coma
i'm confused...is this true?
Obviously several sites misinterpreted the fact that he was out of ICU after his last infections but he hasn't fully woke up...at least that's what I think, anyway, we'd know first with Gina...
getting out of ICU is still a pretty big fucking deal.
Quote from: penguin in the desert on May 07, 2009, 04:13 PM
getting out of ICU is still a pretty big fucking deal.
yeah at least the bills will stop building up now.
Yeah, I'm not going to get my hopes up over this, it sounds like a huge misunderstanding. Not fun times, my heart was going crazy when I clicked on the article, and then dropped again when I finished reading it.
Much respect,
-Matt
I haven't heard these rumours but on his sisters myspace it said "please baby wake up" today...
I didn't even realise that on May 4th it was 6 months since the accident...
hey guys.. i emailed these guys last night to ask them to please correct themselves... obviously they misunderstood. chi is more of in a semi-conscious state.. so technically not in a coma since he started tracking with eyes and saying words.. sometimes they label it as a 'vegetative state' but those in a VS do not talk or track with eyes or do things on request like chi does... so it is considered more a 'minimally conscious state'. so basically he is more in and out of a coma like state... but fully awake awake? no.. believe me.. you would have heard this from me RIGHT away!!!!! and i would be on my way to cali.
he is still opening his eyes and tracking.. but he is super tired after this ICU/infection ordeal...
so.. keep up the good thoughts/prayers. he should be starting the oxygen therapy saturday or sunday.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Vesanic on May 07, 2009, 03:51 PM...
sorry love.. i'm here i'm here...
hey guys.. i emailed these guys last night to ask them to please correct themselves... obviously they misunderstood. chi is more of in a semi-conscious state.. so technically not in a coma since he started tracking with eyes and saying words.. sometimes they label it as a 'vegetative state' but those in a VS do not talk or track with eyes or do things on request like chi does... so it is considered more a 'minimally conscious state'. so basically he is more in and out of a coma like state... but fully awake awake? no.. believe me.. you would have heard this from me RIGHT away!!!!! and i would be on my way to cali.
he is still opening his eyes and tracking.. but he is super tired after this ICU/infection ordeal...
so.. keep up the good thoughts/prayers. he should be starting the oxygen therapy saturday or sunday.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Vesanic on May 07, 2009, 09:10 PM...
you are so welcome.. i will keep you guys posted...
thanks!!!
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 07, 2009, 08:35 PMQuote from: Vesanic on May 07, 2009, 03:51 PM...
sorry love.. i'm here i'm here...
hey guys.. i emailed these guys last night to ask them to please correct themselves... obviously they misunderstood. chi is more of in a semi-conscious state.. so technically not in a coma since he started tracking with eyes and saying words.. sometimes they label it as a 'vegetative state' but those in a VS do not talk or track with eyes or do things on request like chi does... so it is considered more a 'minimally conscious state'. so basically he is more in and out of a coma like state... but fully awake awake? no.. believe me.. you would have heard this from me RIGHT away!!!!! and i would be on my way to cali.
he is still opening his eyes and tracking.. but he is super tired after this ICU/infection ordeal...
so.. keep up the good thoughts/prayers. he should be starting the oxygen therapy saturday or sunday.
one love for chi,
gina
That's a huge improvement though.
Thanks for verifying that, people need to learn to read.
Let's hope these headlines become true in the nearest future.
Quote from: Crazylegs on May 07, 2009, 09:43 PM
Let's hope these headlines become true in the nearest future.
i have faith he will recover soon!
one love for chi,
gina
you guys.. as always.. are welcome.
i will keep you posted... i think he will be getting alot of rest this week.. he is really tired. but with the oxy treatments starting this weekend.. i am sure we will see chi start making some more improvements like he was right before the whole ICU nightmare.
one love for chi,
gina
As do I. Since the beginning I have felt he can get through this. I cannot wait for that day.
i remember reading the article about chi's first words and the first thing that ran through my mind was "i'm not dead..."
i'm anticipating the day when he can be up and running again.
Hey Gina,
Thanks again for setting us, and especially them, straight :)
*huggs*
:)
Yeah, it doesn't need to be said anymore (pr maybe it does!), but thanks a lot Gina. Hope all is well.
Much respect,
-Matt
Thanks a lot for this Gina, thank you muchos! ;)
you are all so welcome. chi has so much love and support from all of us and his family... he is not alone in this.
talked to his sis and mom a little bit ago.. he should get his first treatment at the latest sunday. i will let you all know how it goes. he is resting.. hanging with sis now and is doing good.
i am so amazed by him.. and his fight... just an amazing dude. what an inspiration.
hope you all have a great weekend!!!
one love for chi,
gina
I don't think they're bitches, it just comes from those websites and some uninformed individual who wasn't that much up to date with Chi's real medical state to begin with...
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on May 09, 2009, 02:51 PM
I don't think they're bitches, it just comes from those websites and some uninformed individual who wasn't that much up to date with Chi's real medical state to begin with...
they are bitches. maybe they should check their info before they start yelling stuff.
"ok i got this info... should i check it out some more at other places or should i start yelling stuff to left and right cause of these romours ? hmmm.... hmmm... yeah im gonna go with option 2 "
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on May 09, 2009, 05:15 PM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on May 09, 2009, 02:51 PM
I don't think they're bitches, it just comes from those websites and some uninformed individual who wasn't that much up to date with Chi's real medical state to begin with...
they are bitches. maybe they should check their info before they start yelling stuff.
"ok i got this info... should i check it out some more at other places or should i start yelling stuff to left and right cause of these romours ? hmmm.... hmmm... yeah im gonna go with option 2 "
It's not that hard to find out how Chi is really doing, look in the official places rather than on google.
People nowadays don't tend to search too far for infos anyway, at least webmasters should do that, that's why I think they're the biggest "bitches".
check here
http://www.antimusic.com/rocknews/
they don t even know his name...:(
" Metallica Fans Get Their DVD- Deftones Che Off Life Support and more top stories"
jerks
hey all.. sorry i didn't update yesterday... he didn't end up getting his first oxy treatment because they wanted to hold off and clarify something with the doctor.. he should be by today... and chi will also get his first treatment today some time. i will update you all once i hear from his mom and/or sis today.
he is looking really good.. his mom told me he had a good day yesterday.
so anywayz.. i will have more details for you later today...
one love for chi,
gina :)
Can't wait for some news, it has been a bit blurry lately but that doesn't mean you're not doing a great job Gina, of course!
all of this is still so unbelievable.
Keep up the fight brother!!!!!! :)
hey all.. chi had to be taken to ICU again.. he started to have trouble breathing this morning.. it looks like the same problem but they are running tests now. i will let you all know more as soon as i hear anything.
please everyone keep positive thoughts and pray for chi... he fought this before.. he will fight it again...
much love and healing energy to chi.. we love you brother! :'(
one love for chi,
gina
hey all.. chi had to be taken to ICU again.. he started to have trouble breathing this morning.. it looks like the same problem but they are running tests now. i will let you all know more as soon as i hear anything.
please everyone keep positive thoughts and pray for chi... he fought this before.. he will fight it again...
much love and healing energy to chi.. we love you brother! :'(
one love for chi,
gina
Chi's a beast.
Bummer!!! Damn, as if he hasn't been through enough! Hope you come back with positive news, keep on fighting Chi!
Poor Chi :(
Hope you have the strength to keep fighting, Chi, because we need you and miss you :(
Much love to you, to Gina and to your family
man, this is all too much... thats gotta be so hard on the family
Bleh, gutted. Keep fighting brother.
Much respect,
-Matt
ya.. it isn't easy.. everyone please send some good stuff out to the Cheng family as well.
tomorrow's x-ray will let us know if it is pneumonia... i will update you all when i hear more..
one love for chi,
gina
damn, that's some terrible news. but yeah, he'll get through it as he did last time.
keep on fighting, man!
goddamnit :(
dude... wtf, fight on brotha
Quote from: penguin in the desert on May 13, 2009, 09:49 AM
goddamnit :(
i know.. my first reaction was being pissed when i woke to this news from his mom yesterday... just pissed cuz he needs a f'in break already so he can get ahead and get some rehabilitation going on... argh... :'(
i am hoping for some good news today.. i know he is fighting tho...
keep sending him healing....
one love for chi,
gina
chk it: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/news-from-the-homefront/
(http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/news-from-the-homefront/)
thanks!
one love for chi,
gina
Gina.. just a question.. do you still send the daily digest on the news on the page to the registered e-mails?
it's because the last i've received is the one of a reply when i wrote something and you replied on the CHI is out of ICU some days ago, before he was taken back to ICU...
and well, after all, still praying!
Chi, you can do it again!
thx Gina!!
Quote from: defTHE1s on May 14, 2009, 12:55 AM
Gina.. just a question.. do you still send the daily digest on the news on the page to the registered e-mails?
it's because the last i've received is the one of a reply when i wrote something and you replied on the CHI is out of ICU some days ago, before he was taken back to ICU...
and well, after all, still praying!
Chi, you can do it again!
thx Gina!!
yes the daily digest still goes out but i also recently added where you get an email when someone replies to one of your comments...
you are so welcome... keep the prayers coming..
one love for chi,
gina
That's good. I still wish he was over all this infection stuff though. Poor Chi--good thing he's such a warrior.
Much respect,
-Matt
Twitter:
JonahMatranga: Have we covered how much I hate soundcheck? Yea. Sweet day though, made a song for Chi. Tonight will be fun.
Chi's a warrior, I know he'll make it out. Positive energy all the way through, keep up the fight Chi!!!!!
you know... he is a warrior and i am sure you have all seen it before but for me it just realllllly exemplifies why i want chi on stage the next time i see the boys live.... chi's presence is second to none and very obvious in this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CR2RQwId01Q (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CR2RQwId01Q) nobody can replace chi as far as i am concerned - sorry!!!!
for some news.... chi now has been moved out of ICU but is in a room CLOSE to icu... he is stable again. thank you!
i just feel like i know he is going to be OK... he has fought so hard this far.. lets keep faith!
god fucking bless chi now please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Martin on May 14, 2009, 08:57 AM
Twitter:
JonahMatranga: Have we covered how much I hate soundcheck? Yea. Sweet day though, made a song for Chi. Tonight will be fun.
who did a song for chi... sorry? how can we hear it etc..?
Jonah from Far
here s the info
http://jonahmatranga.com/lately/index.html
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 14, 2009, 09:47 AM
you know... he is a warrior and i am sure you have all seen it before but for me it just realllllly exemplifies why i want chi on stage the next time i see the boys live.... chi's presence is second to none and very obvious in this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CR2RQwId01Q (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CR2RQwId01Q) nobody can replace chi as far as i am concerned - sorry!!!!
I couldn't agree more!
well, thanks...
but.. i haven't get any new mails since that one from a response to one of my comments.. what's wrong? i need to register again maybe????
Quote from: chino_208 on May 14, 2009, 10:41 AM
Jonah from Far
here s the info
http://jonahmatranga.com/lately/index.html
i didn't see info there... where on that site do i look?
Quote from: defTHE1s on May 14, 2009, 03:53 PM
well, thanks...
but.. i haven't get any new mails since that one from a response to one of my comments.. what's wrong? i need to register again maybe????
ya go ahead and i try that...
thanks!
one love for chi,
gina
*The direct, only for us,
Not-too-often-but-just-often-enough E-mail list:
Click here to stay in touch*
Here I am on Twitter (Click To Go There If You Like)
* Casbah requires more than 140 char. I'll write some on the way home, about this strange, porous, sweet time in my life. about 8 hours ago
* Have we covered how much I hate soundcheck? Yea. Sweet day though, made a song for Chi. Tonight will be fun. about 21 hours ago
* Virgin America is just a better way (despite the crappy house music lite in the cabin). Outlets at seats! Workin on a new Far tune the whole 1 day ago
Cool stuff, I love Jonah.
Much respect,
-Matt
It's happening the same for me, gina...
Quote from: Deftones-argentina on May 15, 2009, 12:57 AM
It's happening the same for me, gina...
what do you mean? sorry...
Quote from: Vesanic on May 15, 2009, 04:59 AM...
Another great example but I think the headbanging Chi with short hair is kinda awkward, lol.
Quote from: Vesanic on May 15, 2009, 04:35 AM...
hey - not yet... i will ask ming about that today when i talk to him... i'll let you know.
take care,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 14, 2009, 09:48 AM
Quote from: Martin on May 14, 2009, 08:57 AM
Twitter:
JonahMatranga: Have we covered how much I hate soundcheck? Yea. Sweet day though, made a song for Chi. Tonight will be fun.
who did a song for chi... sorry? how can we hear it etc..?
You already know, but Jonah did (I copie his tweet). Dunno when we'll hear it, probably soon :)
Quote from: Vesanic on May 15, 2009, 07:47 PM...
you are welcome.. i will do my best..
take care!
one love for chi,
gina
Far is greatness.
At the 8-58-9:00 mark. my favorite Chi, doing a 3 step hop into a massive headbang lol.
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hello everyone...
i talked with momma j for a long time tonight... we have great long talks... mostly filled with stories of gratitude for all of you great people and the love and prayers you send that help beyond imagination. you all bring strength.. hope and faith at all the right times! thank you!
for an update... they did an EEG today and mae walked in during the process... she asked chi " how are you baby... how do you feel?" and chi tried to form words... he showed a lot of brain activity (via EEG readings)... enough for the person doing the EEG to ask mae to back away.
there are specialists who have run several tests to try and find the source of chi's pain but they have all so far come back negative/clear. although that sounds like great news it still doesn't let us know where the pain is deriving from. he went thru episodes of tachycardia (rapid heart rate). we need to find the source.
the oxygen chamber... we need to get him in that chamber! it will help eliminate these set backs he is having. once they are able to get him past these episodes he will be able to start oxygen treatments.
momma j said to tell you all thank you so much for your generosity that helped in making the purchase of the oxygen chamber possible.
fortunately physically chi is in the best shape he has been in 20 years! besides his lungs dealing with the MRSA he is strong!
this is all i have for now but i will continue to update as i get news.
please keep your prayers and good thoughts coming!
much love..
one love for chi,
gina
Speaking of gratitude Gina, everyone here, including myself is extremely grateful for all your updates! Thanks! I'll keep the prayers coming.
Quote from: Vesanic on May 16, 2009, 08:31 AM...
i knoooow.. it just sucks cuz until they figure out the source of this pain he is having he won't be released to a room where he will be able to get him in the chamber... the chamber is completely set up now which turned out to be a task and then these back to back episodes totally got in the way...
i mean it is good that so many tests are coming back that it is clear or negative.. it still doesn't tell us why he is having this pain... it just sucks.. i just hope they can just find it already.. treat it.. get him released from the "serious" stage and be on with it.
it's great brain activity it there.. for him to show great readings from the right side of his brain like the EEG showed when mae talked to him.. and for him to try to speak means his right side is working with his left.. awesome shit... and awesome that his organs are strong... but the rapid heart beat crap.... wtf is causing that?? until that is stabilized we can't get him into a position to start oxy treatments... argh.................... :(
anywayz.. of course i will keep you all up to date as i get news.. i post here always right after i update one love site...
send our brother chi some strength and ask the pain to leave him...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Timmy666 on May 16, 2009, 08:54 AM
Speaking of gratitude Gina, everyone here, including myself is extremely grateful for all your updates! Thanks! I'll keep the prayers coming.
you are so welcome... you guys are helping more than you know... i tried to show momma j how to access sharing lungs but she just has so much going on you know... she reads one love site daily and i tell her all about you guys (SL) when we talk.. which is several times a day.... she is a strong woman but i tell you.. the strength she gets from us she says helps her thru this so much.... it means alot to her...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Vesanic on May 16, 2009, 09:10 AM...
he is in good hands right now and specialists are working on the situation... my first reaction when i got the text from his mom that he was back in ICU the DAY before (again) we were going to start oxy therapy... i was just
pissed... not at anyone in particular.. just at the fucking irony of it.. i mean his last trip to ICU was the day before we were going to start oxy. it is just time for chi to get cut a damn break already and rid him of these infections so he can just start the rehab.. it's obvious he is trying to communicate by trying to talk etc... but i still have faith... it was great that when i asked his mom tonight how his internal organs were doing she said healthy.. strong.
his body is just overreacting to the pain... and the source of the pain needs to be found before we can move forward.
but i feel your frustration and believe me when i say you are not alone. he is the coolest, strongest most patient guy... and it is showing right now...
blessings to him... to infinity!!!!!!!!!!
one love for chi,
gina
More people having trouble to access the oneloveforchi.com site?..
U guys need to listen to the SNW outtakes.. track nine (untitled-9).. that bass stuff is so f*cking insane..
yep, troubles on the website
That's what pisses me the most, the fact that he was just about to start his oxygen therapy and then all these infections... :-\
Well, let's keep the faith...
I'm saying that I'm currently not recieving OLFC updates since a week or so.
way to go chi
keep it up
I'm not either, Gina....
I go to the website and look for updates myself but I don't recieve emails anymore.
The site is down right now though..
???
Quote from: ablackswan on May 16, 2009, 02:41 PM
yep, troubles on the website
back up now.... had to pay my bill.. yikes! i don't know how i missed that email... time for auto-pay!
sorry guys... my bad...
one love for chi,
gina
back up now.... had to pay my bill.. yikes! i don't know how i missed that email... time for auto-pay!
sorry guys... my bad...
also... if you could please register here: http://oneloveforchi.com/wp-login.php?action=register (http://oneloveforchi.com/wp-login.php?action=register)... then you should start getting updates again via email...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: UrZ* on May 16, 2009, 02:35 PM
More people having trouble to access the oneloveforchi.com site?..
U guys need to listen to the SNW outtakes.. track nine (untitled-9).. that bass stuff is so f*cking insane..
Is that the same stuff than the SNW demos that can be downloaded on this board?
thanks again! :)
I feel like Chi is trapped in this body that isn't responding to his mind. Like Chi's probably thinking "hey guys!!! I'm fine!!! Come on!!!" But his body is having the problems. Chi's spirit is too strong to prevent him from making out okay. I have no worries about that.
Had a nightmare that I forgat to bring the oneloveforchi.com (crappy)self-made posters to this houseparty show at a local festival thursday. Yikes.
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on May 16, 2009, 07:41 PM
Quote from: UrZ* on May 16, 2009, 02:35 PM
More people having trouble to access the oneloveforchi.com site?..
U guys need to listen to the SNW outtakes.. track nine (untitled-9).. that bass stuff is so f*cking insane..
yeah think so, the bob ezrin stuff (2005).. real nice stuff on there.
Is that the same stuff than the SNW demos that can be downloaded on this board?
Quote from: Martin on May 17, 2009, 02:53 PM
Had a nightmare that I forgat to bring the oneloveforchi.com (crappy)self-made posters to this houseparty show at a local festival thursday. Yikes.
awesome that you are doing that! thanks so much.. i was thinking about starting a one love for chi street team.. would that be cool you think??? (feedback anyone??)
one love for chi,
gina
GREAT news!!!!!!!!!!!!! http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/im-hot/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/im-hot/)
one love for chi,
gina
GREAT news!!!!!!!!!!!!! http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/im-hot/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/im-hot/)
one love for chi,
gina
Oh my God! :) :) :)
I can't believe it, he is AMAZING!
This made my day, my week and my month!
Thank you Gina for letting us know :)
Fantastic news! This has been said before but he's a beast! >:(
Oh, that vain little bastard.
Awesome new of the day..!!!!;D;D;D.
and also that Indios beat Toluca today...jajaja....
thanks Gina!
Finally. some excellent news
get ready to welcome back our hero
stay strong dear Chi
so chi's completely out of coma, right ?
AWESOME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D
Quote from: rock_n_frost on May 17, 2009, 11:07 PM
so chi's completely out of coma, right ?
no.. he is still "in and out" in a semi-coma or minimally conscious state... but this is great progress!
you are all welcome!
one love for chi,
gina
he talks and he is responsive, it means a lot
For sure, I believe it's the very first time he's had some kind of conversation with someone...
Any news on the Oxygen therapy?
This news is absolutely great but I have a question about it.
Based on the conversation Mae had with Chi, it sounds like he was fighting her when it came to cleaning his mouth. Later you say, though, that it was the first time that Chi didn't fight Mae.
So does that mean he fought at first but then let her clean him?
Also, do you have any idea how often the other members of the band see him?
By the way, more info about the song Fieldy from korn is wrinting for chi:
Head and band on Colorado Radio show
Friday 15 May 2009 - 07:57:21 | red UFO
In part 1 a caller (which sounded a bit like JD) asked Head if he was going to do anything with Korn on the upcoming album. Head responded that Fieldy got a hold of him and together with some guys from Slipknot and Sevendust will work together and write an instrumental song to benefit Chi from the Deftones who is still in a coma.
By the way, from the same source...
Chi Cheng of the Deftones has remained in a coma since his November 3rd car accident. In the meantime, his house has gone into foreclosure and his family had to give his dog away. The family is trying to raise money for him at www.OneLoveForChi.com If you can help, now is the time.
That sucks like shit man.
WTF GINA.
WHENEVER A MAN SAYS HE'S HOT AND NOT TO CLEAN HIS MOUTH...IT MEANS HE WANTS A DAMN ICE COLD BUD.
GET THE MAN A DRAFT ASAP.
lol
Quote from: Deftones-argentina on May 18, 2009, 01:28 AM
By the way, from the same source...
Chi Cheng of the Deftones has remained in a coma since his November 3rd car accident. In the meantime, his house has gone into foreclosure and his family had to give his dog away. The family is trying to raise money for him at www.OneLoveForChi.com If you can help, now is the time.
That sucks like shit man.
oh really?
Quote from: ablackswan on May 18, 2009, 12:23 AM
he talks and he is responsive, it means a lot
fuck yeah, great news
AWESOME MAN!!! THIS IS GOOD!!! 8)
edit - u think he said "im hot" on april 24 instead of "im not?"
http://www.sharinglungs.com/index.php/topic,14845.msg649522.html#msg649522
the phrases sound similar??? ???
Anyway this is progress!! keep fighting Chi!!!
Quote from: defskull on May 18, 2009, 01:14 AM
This news is absolutely great but I have a question about it.
Based on the conversation Mae had with Chi, it sounds like he was fighting her when it came to cleaning his mouth. Later you say, though, that it was the first time that Chi didn't fight Mae.
So does that mean he fought at first but then let her clean him?
Also, do you have any idea how often the other members of the band see him?
yes - once she asked him you are going to want your teeth etc.. he allowed her to clean without resistance.
as far as your other question... reading comment replies from chi's mom jeanne might answer better... there are a couple here from her: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/im-hot/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/im-hot/)
QuoteYOU ASKED ME EARLY ON WHY THE HOMEBOYS DIDN'T HAVE HIS BACK. I DID ASK AND WON'T BEG. I WAS TOLD THAT IT WASN'T A CONVENIENT TIME NOW (OR FOR THE PAST 6 MONTHS) - Jeanne
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Deftones-argentina on May 18, 2009, 01:28 AM
By the way, from the same source...
Chi Cheng of the Deftones has remained in a coma since his November 3rd car accident. In the meantime, his house has gone into foreclosure and his family had to give his dog away. The family is trying to raise money for him at www.OneLoveForChi.com If you can help, now is the time.
That sucks like shit man.
ya they got this info from the one love site.. i also put it out in a press release...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: sharinglungs on May 18, 2009, 12:59 AM
Any news on the Oxygen therapy?
not until he gets out of the ICU floor/area....
Quote from: fliesinajar on May 18, 2009, 03:18 AM
AWESOME MAN!!! THIS IS GOOD!!! 8)
edit - u think he said "im hot" on april 24 instead of "im not?"
http://www.sharinglungs.com/index.php/topic,14845.msg649522.html#msg649522
the phrases sound similar??? ???
Anyway this is progress!! keep fighting Chi!!!
his mom and i talked about this today.... we think it is quite possible. absolutely...
one love for chi,
gina
here s the man
(http://img269.imageshack.us/img269/9484/chi.jpg)
Way too sexy.
Much respect,
-Matt
fuck yeah, Cheng!
Damn, that pic reminds me how much I miss that guy on stage. I almost watched every video available on youtube, we need more!
wow, that pic is pimp Rock
Watching videos on youtube makes me miss Chi even more. He has such passion and stage presence, and it's always so exciting to watch him tear shit up and just basically rule the stage, with Chino. Then Sergio.... He kinda just stands there. I know he is a completely different person and has his own style, but still...
Miss you Chi.
Quote from: Sugartolove on May 18, 2009, 06:35 PM
Watching videos on youtube makes me miss Chi even more. He has such passion and stage presence, and it's always so exciting to watch him tear shit up and just basically rule the stage, with Chino. Then Sergio.... He kinda just stands there. I know he is a completely different person and has his own style, but still...
Miss you Chi.
yep - i'm with you...
one love for chi,
gina
That's why Chi is my favourite bass player, he's like no other bass player out there, he doesn't just stand there or makes himself as invisible as possible like many others do. For the latter years, I think he's been THE ruler on a Deftones stage as Chino kinda stepped back a little on his stage presence. He was just all over the place, graceful as a tiger.
this band know how to stand there...
stef has his own stylie
chi is god about the stage
also chino is elite !..
remember abes amazing drums !.......oh god i love this band
Just felt like posting some photos of Chi in action - just some old wellknown ones but still..
(http://i369.photobucket.com/albums/oo139/Methodicallymental/Pictures%20Ebay/l_338955d2e43b4940809a50d9151aba2c.jpg) (http://i369.photobucket.com/albums/oo139/Methodicallymental/Pictures%20Ebay/1214971481105_f.jpg) (http://i369.photobucket.com/albums/oo139/Methodicallymental/Pictures%20Ebay/102220lgps2.jpg) (http://i369.photobucket.com/albums/oo139/Methodicallymental/Pictures%20Ebay/photo20.jpg)
Love you Chi.
I'm sorry, I don't even remember! I have this little Chi "tribute" myspace page and at one point i went all over the internet to find Chi photos. If I remember, I'll tell you.
Quote from: Vesanic on May 18, 2009, 08:13 PM...
they pissed me of !....
it has been fuckin 3 years and still we got nothing >:(
we got melanie ;)
and in 72 hours another new song.........................
maybe.. maybe not...
Quote from: rock_n_frost on May 18, 2009, 10:22 PMQuote from: Vesanic on May 18, 2009, 08:13 PM...
they pissed me of !....
it has been fuckin 3 years and still we got nothing >:(
Boo hoo. You mean they have never done that before? Oh wait they have done that for the past three records. Chill the fuck out dude. I'm pretty sure they have more important things to worry about right now.
why they didnt perform melanie again then ?
they just want us to be pissed off !
Quote from: rock_n_frost on May 19, 2009, 07:30 AM
why they didnt perform melanie again then ?
they just want us to be pissed off !
haha.. you seem like a spoiled boy :D
yea, a little bitch, lol jk
ok im fine now ;D
i love kenny's voice ;D
fieldy on myspace
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=57588538
I'm no Korn fan but I respect the guy for doing that, by the way Head will be there too...interesting.
Another thing, does someone saw that tiny piece of footage where Chi is showing off his tats? Where does that come from??? :o
Quote from: lithium on May 19, 2009, 08:36 PM
fieldy on myspace
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=57588538
cool! hope this to be good, and of course, it'll help a lot!!
Quote from: rock_n_frost on May 18, 2009, 07:02 AM
here s the man
(http://img269.imageshack.us/img269/9484/chi.jpg)
nice, orbit room. I was at this show.
love you guys... BUT you are getting a little off topic here - this is a thread for chi prayers/updates... when the new album comes has nothing to do with his recovery...
anywayz..
thanks for the support as always...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on May 19, 2009, 10:52 PM
I'm no Korn fan but I respect the guy for doing that, by the way Head will be there too...interesting.
Another thing, does someone saw that tiny piece of footage where Chi is showing off his tats? Where does that come from??? :o
no idea but i was wondering the same..
GREAT NEWS!
WOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
And cool what Fieldy's doing :)
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 20, 2009, 06:07 AM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on May 19, 2009, 10:52 PM
I'm no Korn fan but I respect the guy for doing that, by the way Head will be there too...interesting.
Another thing, does someone saw that tiny piece of footage where Chi is showing off his tats? Where does that come from??? :o
no idea but i was wondering the same..
private footage?
FV tour?
amen
talk shit on other threads :)
Quote from: Martin on May 20, 2009, 10:10 AM
GREAT NEWS!
WOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
And cool what Fieldy's doing :)
yea, I've never been too found of Fieldy, I think he's a great bass player, Im glad he's helping out his dawg, respect holmes
i always thought Fieldy was a douche, until now. he's good people
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 20, 2009, 06:04 AM
love you guys... BUT you are getting a little off topic here - this is a thread for chi prayers/updates... when the new album comes has nothing to do with his recovery...
anywayz..
thanks for the support as always...
one love for chi,
gina
I agree about the bickering
but I think there is a valid correlation between Eros and Chi's recovery. This album was supposedly done and set for a winter 09 release. What is the hold up really? With the family's financial struggles, I would think the band would want to put this thing out asap.
Correct me if i'm wrong, but wouldn't album sales help pay Chi's medical expenses, thus helping his recovery? Honest question. I don't see any legitimate reason to delay this thing, especially considering the circumstances.
Quote from: BLUMPKIN on May 22, 2009, 03:09 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 20, 2009, 06:04 AM
love you guys... BUT you are getting a little off topic here - this is a thread for chi prayers/updates... when the new album comes has nothing to do with his recovery...
anywayz..
thanks for the support as always...
one love for chi,
gina
I agree about the bickering
but I think there is a valid correlation between Eros and Chi's recovery. This album was supposedly done and set for a winter 09 release. What is the hold up really? With the family's financial struggles, I would think the band would want to put this thing out asap.
Correct me if i'm wrong, but wouldn't album sales help pay Chi's medical expenses, thus helping his recovery? Honest question. I don't see any legitimate reason to delay this thing, especially considering the circumstances.
No, because bands barely get paid for their album sales.. and for them to get any real money, they have to sell over 1 million copies.
Quote from: BLUMPKIN on May 22, 2009, 03:09 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 20, 2009, 06:04 AM
love you guys... BUT you are getting a little off topic here - this is a thread for chi prayers/updates... when the new album comes has nothing to do with his recovery...
anywayz..
thanks for the support as always...
one love for chi,
gina
I agree about the bickering
but I think there is a valid correlation between Eros and Chi's recovery. This album was supposedly done and set for a winter 09 release. What is the hold up really? With the family's financial struggles, I would think the band would want to put this thing out asap.
Correct me if i'm wrong, but wouldn't album sales help pay Chi's medical expenses, thus helping his recovery? Honest question. I don't see any legitimate reason to delay this thing, especially considering the circumstances.
Chi is looking at less money now anyway - they have re recorded songs, which means less royalties for him, since it's Vega playing bass now and not Chi.....
Did a live jamsession with friends at a local music & arts festival yesterday, put up a selfmade oneloveforchi flyer :)
Quote from: BLUMPKIN on May 22, 2009, 03:09 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 20, 2009, 06:04 AM
love you guys... BUT you are getting a little off topic here - this is a thread for chi prayers/updates... when the new album comes has nothing to do with his recovery...
anywayz..
thanks for the support as always...
one love for chi,
gina
I agree about the bickering
but I think there is a valid correlation between Eros and Chi's recovery. This album was supposedly done and set for a winter 09 release. What is the hold up really? With the family's financial struggles, I would think the band would want to put this thing out asap.
Correct me if i'm wrong, but wouldn't album sales help pay Chi's medical expenses, thus helping his recovery? Honest question. I don't see any legitimate reason to delay this thing, especially considering the circumstances.
no you are right about that... but.. *sigh* well it is what it is...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Sugartolove on May 22, 2009, 06:53 AM
Quote from: BLUMPKIN on May 22, 2009, 03:09 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 20, 2009, 06:04 AM
love you guys... BUT you are getting a little off topic here - this is a thread for chi prayers/updates... when the new album comes has nothing to do with his recovery...
anywayz..
thanks for the support as always...
one love for chi,
gina
I agree about the bickering
but I think there is a valid correlation between Eros and Chi's recovery. This album was supposedly done and set for a winter 09 release. What is the hold up really? With the family's financial struggles, I would think the band would want to put this thing out asap.
Correct me if i'm wrong, but wouldn't album sales help pay Chi's medical expenses, thus helping his recovery? Honest question. I don't see any legitimate reason to delay this thing, especially considering the circumstances.
Chi is looking at less money now anyway - they have re recorded songs, which means less royalties for him, since it's Vega playing bass now and not Chi.....
they could very well not use any of chi's tracks for all anyone knows and if that happens... well.. shit!
regardless.. he needs funding like now to get him the BEST therapists out there dammit.. and i don't want to wait around to see what comes... or doesn't come.... i am going to fight my ass off to get him what he needs... no matter wtf happens. he deserves it..
hope everyone has an awesome and safe weekend!
one love for chi,
gina
How is he doing, by the way? Any more talking or other responses worth noting?
ahh, i looked into it. i guess my impression of him was right for all those years, he admits his was a dildo(like a REALLY BAD asshole). he just recently changed & got right with the Lord, like Head did. it's showing, he just seems like a way better person now
ya actually just got off the phone with his sister a little bit ago and he has been trying to verbalize... vowel sounds mostly that sound like words he is trying to make out. he did alot of phisical therapy today.. she said he looked great.
he should be able to start the oxygen therapy mid week if all goes as planned... and it will! no more of anything getting in the way dammit. ;)
all is well. will keep you updated.
one love for chi,
gina
This sounds great! Thanks!
Quote from: Vesanic on May 24, 2009, 07:56 AM...
please remind me what you asked for.. sorry.. as you can imagine it gets pretty crazy. we are starting to get more awareness which is great..and it is getting busy... but help my memory.. haha.. sorry love!! doing the best i can to keep up.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: defskull on May 24, 2009, 07:57 AM
This sounds great! Thanks!
i know... i feel like we are truly moving up the mountain now.. you are so welcome..
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Vesanic on May 24, 2009, 07:56 AM..
could you please call me sweetie aswell? would mean a lot to me, thanks.
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 24, 2009, 07:40 AM
ya actually just got off the phone with his sister a little bit ago and he has been trying to verbalize... vowel sounds mostly that sound like words he is trying to make out. he did alot of phisical therapy today.. she said he looked great.
he should be able to start the oxygen therapy mid week if all goes as planned... and it will! no more of anything getting in the way dammit. ;)
all is well. will keep you updated.
one love for chi,
gina
Yay, go Chi :) There'll be NOTHING GETTING IN THE WAY of Chi's oxygen therapy this time.
It's so great that he is actively trying to communicate - imagine the day when he will be able to :)
Quote from: Vesanic on May 24, 2009, 09:46 AM...
damn.. forgot to ask ming about that... i will ask him today.
will let you know.
one love for chi,
gina
Pretty excited to learn that: 1 - Chi will start his oxygen therapy at last, 2 - the $50 000 goal is almost reached 3 - the tshirts are almost done...can't wait to lay on my hands on two of them!
Chi is such a soldier
over half a million dollars raised for this cause in just a little over a week
http://store.nin.com/helperic/
oneloveforchi, take notice
lol
I noticed that as well... But if you think about it - almost $50 000 has ben raised for Chi, it's pretty good! :) And that was mostly without the help of any big names but just from people who genuinly care about Chi.. Once he starts his oxygen therapy it's gonna be even greater! It's peoples hard earned money that they choose to spend on Chi instead of on themselves... It's pretty cool :)
That alone shows how special he is.
Yes,but people are spending hard earned money on that dude in Lithiums link also. 50k isn't nothing compared to 850k,and it's not all big name acts that are donating. This is some dude named Eric De La Cruz....a theater actor with no fame attached to him. We're talking about CHI CHENG,kick ass dude and amazing musician,and he should have collected way more than what he's gotten. But maybe thats what happens when your fanbase is mainly stoners. It would be nice if Deftones would form some sort of packages like the NIN people have done.
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/urgent-prayers-needed-icu-again/
Damn.... not again ! :(
Come on Chi, we're all with you...
Quote from: tarkil on May 28, 2009, 05:11 AM
Damn.... not again ! :(
Come on Chi, we're all with you...
I'm officially pissed! >:(
It would be nice if we could get Trent Reznor to listen and endorse Chi - I bet a lot of the donations are because he is endorsing Eric. I'm happy for this Eric to have the money he obviously needs though! But if Trent were to mention Chi on Twitter like he has Eric, Chi might have gotten more money and maybe they would have found the cause of his trouble that keeps sending him back to ICU..........
One love Chi :(
ARGH It's not fair! :-\ Poor Chi and his family.....
Praying for you, Chi - and especially for them to find out the cause of what keeps sending you back to ICU...
We love you, miss you and need you, Chi, - you will get better -
One love
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on May 25, 2009, 12:26 AM
Pretty excited to learn that: 1 - Chi will start his oxygen therapy at last, 2 - the $50 000 goal is almost reached 3 - the tshirts are almost done...can't wait to lay on my hands on two of them!
i actually want to raise the $50K goal once we get close to getting there... he is going to need more...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Vesanic on May 28, 2009, 04:19 AM...
i know guys... argh.... it is such an up and down fucking roller coaster... i talked to mom and sis today... he was resting well... just talked to mom he was still resting fine... they have just GOT to find what is causing these episodes.. the good thing is he is still breathing (no ventilator this time) on his own etc. so we really don't know right now what is causing this. talked to ming, chi's brother today also.. and what he said was "can we just fucking get back to dealing with the coma.. fuck!" these other episodes just suck. it is enough dealing with the coma... but this. can a brother get a break? let him just get back to dealing with waking up... *sigh*
well.. that is it for now.. and i am sorry i didn't come sooner but... i am doing the best i can. i know you all appreciate it and that is why i will always come back to tell you guys personally. you guys are the best.. seriously. keep the prayers coming please.... we will get thru this together.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on May 28, 2009, 05:57 AM
I'm officially pissed! >:(
ditto babe... it's time... come on prayers.. let's go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i was thinking.. maybe.. i don't know... if we started like a "letter to chi's doctors" and had everyone sign it and give it to them so they can see how much he means to us....?? i am not saying they aren't caring for him properly - but hey... maybe a motivation to go above and beyond!???
i need some ideas from you ALL on what you are all willing to participate in to get the people/fan's word out... like oprah style.. we need awareness!!! anyone know any youtube pros that can get us something going to start something BIG to bring awareness to bring in the best specialists/docs available for chi??? come on guys! let's get our wheels turning... what can we do? we need something that will go viral on youtube with like a million views or something! but it needs to come from the people/fans... any ideas? any connections? we need to do something!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SAVE CHI!!!
let's "make it happen"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
one love for chi,
gina
something like the 'free hugs" thing maybe??? http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,21453884-5006009,00.html (http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,21453884-5006009,00.html) ??
one love for chi,
gina
they had 43 million views!!!
Glad to hear he made it out of ICU again.
Must say, it's getting frustrating, the doctors not being able to find the cause. Is it that they know what it is (infection right?), but not where it comes from? Or is it that the doctors know nothing yet?
what the fuck dude... so many mixed emotions
Quote from: Martin on May 28, 2009, 11:38 AM
Glad to hear he made it out of ICU again.
Must say, it's getting frustrating, the doctors not being able to find the cause. Is it that they know what it is (infection right?), but not where it comes from? Or is it that the doctors know nothing yet?
no.. he is IN icu now...
they just don't know what is causing the episodes...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: pixElsblUr on May 28, 2009, 12:45 PM
what the fuck dude... so many mixed emotions
i know...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Sugartolove on May 28, 2009, 06:06 AM
It would be nice if we could get Trent Reznor to listen and endorse Chi - I bet a lot of the donations are because he is endorsing Eric. I'm happy for this Eric to have the money he obviously needs though! But if Trent were to mention Chi on Twitter like he has Eric, Chi might have gotten more money and maybe they would have found the cause of his trouble that keeps sending him back to ICU..........
One love Chi :(
+1
if only Trent would mention "Give Help to Chi"...
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 28, 2009, 07:15 AM
i was thinking.. maybe.. i don't know... if we started like a "letter to chi's doctors" and had everyone sign it and give it to them so they can see how much he means to us....?? i am not saying they aren't caring for him properly - but hey... maybe a motivation to go above and beyond!???
i need some ideas from you ALL on what you are all willing to participate in to get the people/fan's word out... like oprah style.. we need awareness!!! anyone know any youtube pros that can get us something going to start something BIG to bring awareness to bring in the best specialists/docs available for chi??? come on guys! let's get our wheels turning... what can we do? we need something that will go viral on youtube with like a million views or something! but it needs to come from the people/fans... any ideas? any connections? we need to do something!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SAVE CHI!!!
let's "make it happen"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
one love for chi,
gina
Maybe set up a video version of the audio messages, get people to film themselves (with webcams or whatever) and tell how much Deftones and Chi mean to them, etc...? Just the first idea that came up, maybe not the best...
omg !..
once again ?!
it has been months, so much money spent for that, he fought finally chi woke up and they couldnt make him better ?
what the hell that doctors are for ?...
i can create a human with that money which gone to the hospital damnit...
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 28, 2009, 02:07 PM
Quote from: Martin on May 28, 2009, 11:38 AM
Glad to hear he made it out of ICU again.
Must say, it's getting frustrating, the doctors not being able to find the cause. Is it that they know what it is (infection right?), but not where it comes from? Or is it that the doctors know nothing yet?
no.. he is IN icu now...
they just don't know what is causing the episodes...
one love for chi,
gina
Sorry, wishfull reading on my behalf.
Mmmm...maybe his body's responding to a different way of life. I'm sure eating and drinking (and drinking) are things he hasn't done in awhile?
And I'm sure he quit smoking as well. Maybe that does something?
Just thinking out loud...
Quote from: rock_n_frost on May 28, 2009, 04:49 PM
i can create a human with that money which gone to the hospital damnit...
oh yeah? i can create a human with my sperm only, top that.
Quote from: Crazylegs on May 29, 2009, 12:45 PM
Quote from: rock_n_frost on May 28, 2009, 04:49 PM
i can create a human with that money which gone to the hospital damnit...
oh yeah? i can create a human with my sperm only, top that.
no egg needed? nice. unique
Quote from: Hidalgo on May 29, 2009, 06:32 PM
Quote from: Crazylegs on May 29, 2009, 12:45 PM
Quote from: rock_n_frost on May 28, 2009, 04:49 PM
i can create a human with that money which gone to the hospital damnit...
oh yeah? i can create a human with my sperm only, top that.
no egg needed? nice. unique
thanks
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 28, 2009, 07:15 AM
i was thinking.. maybe.. i don't know... if we started like a "letter to chi's doctors" and had everyone sign it and give it to them so they can see how much he means to us....?? i am not saying they aren't caring for him properly - but hey... maybe a motivation to go above and beyond!???
i need some ideas from you ALL on what you are all willing to participate in to get the people/fan's word out... like oprah style.. we need awareness!!! anyone know any youtube pros that can get us something going to start something BIG to bring awareness to bring in the best specialists/docs available for chi??? come on guys! let's get our wheels turning... what can we do? we need something that will go viral on youtube with like a million views or something! but it needs to come from the people/fans... any ideas? any connections? we need to do something!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SAVE CHI!!!
let's "make it happen"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
one love for chi,
gina
how about the deftones get involved
yeah. really weird. it looks like they are not involved
That's the impression I've had for months....
I said a GOOD prayer for you yesterday brother! Keep up the good fight! You are in my daily thoughts!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THANK YOU Gina for all your hard work and updates!!!!!
Quote from: lithium on May 29, 2009, 07:54 PM
how about the deftones get involved
Also thinking this.
But who knows, maybe their coocking up something huge?
it's been nearly 8 months, how huge can it get?
Quote from: lithium on May 30, 2009, 07:45 PM
it's been nearly 8 months, how huge can it get?
yeah
Quote from: lithium on May 30, 2009, 07:45 PM
it's been nearly 8 months, how huge can it get?
Di-fuckin'-tto!!
Quote from: AZDEFTONESFAN on May 30, 2009, 04:02 PM
I said a GOOD prayer for you yesterday brother! Keep up the good fight! You are in my daily thoughts!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THANK YOU Gina for all your hard work and updates!!!!!
you are so welcome.. and thanks for the prayers!
i will give you guys some chi updates soon.. till then please keep the prayers/well thoughts up... he needs them... need to get out of ICU stat!
one love for chi,
gina
Hey, I'm back in Sacramento. I don't have a lot of pull around this area but if you just need some muscle to move things around or just need physical help with something let me know and I'll shoot you contact information.
Quote from: White Wrist on May 29, 2009, 10:43 PM
yeah. really weird. it looks like they are not involved
its true....=/
hey guys.. some of you have been asking me why i have not addressed the comments above...
i don't want you to think i am ignoring you.. but you might have a better chance of getting an answer from the family or someone who is in the position to answer by posting it on the one love site.. the family is there the most frequently...
that's all i can say...
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Vesanic on May 30, 2009, 09:11 PM...
Honestly, I'm beginning to think deftones doesn't even give a shit about Chi. They really need to do something, a benefit concert/tour/album, a vigil...anything. Other than a couple blogs from Chino, I haven't heard a damn thing. Didn't they just play a fest recently? Did anyone that posts here see the show? Did they even mention Chi? Just curious.
The decision to tour without Chi, the re-recorded bass tracks for Eros, and the general sense of complacency is disappointing to say the least.
I hate to talk shit about my favorite band of which I have faithfully supported for 13+ years, but I can only come to two conclusions, the deftones are devout Taoists and currently practicing Wu Wei...or they have simply turned their backs on this situation.
addition: still praying for ya Chi, 5+ months in. Youre the strongest motherfucker i've ever heard of and if there's anyone that can pull this off, it's you buddy.
Quote from: BLUMPKIN on Jun 03, 2009, 12:57 AMQuote from: Vesanic on May 30, 2009, 09:11 PM...
Honestly, I'm beginning to think deftones doesn't even give a shit about Chi. They really need to do something, a benefit concert/tour/album, a vigil...anything. Other than a couple blogs from Chino, I haven't heard a damn thing. Didn't they just play a fest recently? Did anyone that posts here see the show? Did they even mention Chi? Just curious.
The decision to tour without Chi, the re-recorded bass tracks for Eros, and the general sense of complacency is disappointing to say the least.
I hate to talk shit about my favorite band of which I have faithfully supported for 13+ years, but I can only come to two conclusions, the deftones are devout Taoists and currently practicing Wu Wei...or they have simply turned their backs on this situation.
addition: still praying for ya Chi, 5+ months in. Youre the strongest motherfucker i've ever heard of and if there's anyone that can pull this off, it's you buddy.
I was at Bamboozle and Chino did talk about Chi. He said their going through a fucking rough time and that they miss their brother. He also dedicated head up to Chi. Its still not enough. They need to do some shows or release some music with all the money going to Chi. Shit sucks man. Fucking sucks
even if they do "at some point" raise some serious cash for him, the most important time he needed it was right after the crash, which was now 7 months ago. the first 4 months of a coma is the most critical. puzzling to say the least.....
why couldn't they have done a bunch of concerts right away & given all the money to Chi's medical bills? tried their hardest to get korn to do shows, any other major bands they know, etc. maybe we dont know the whole story.... well, none of my business
Couldn't agree more with the last four posts!
Quote from: Hidalgo on Jun 03, 2009, 03:24 AM
why couldn't they have done a bunch of concerts right away & given all the money to Chi's medical bills?
Cause they're a bunch of pot/cokehead alcoholics who SEEM to have only been in it for themselves. JMO. Situations like this show their true colors. Sad.
You people make me sick. None of you know a goddamn thing about any of the members of the band. Do you really think that these friends of over 2 decades would suddenly abandon one of their own? You have no idea what they have or haven't done to help, yet you see fit to cast judgment. How can you even pretend to know how they are dealing with this. Fucking shameful.
Quote from: nicklav on Jun 03, 2009, 08:26 PM
You people make me sick. None of you know a goddamn thing about any of the members of the band. Do you really think that these friends of over 2 decades would suddenly abandon one of their own? You have no idea what they have or haven't done to help, yet you see fit to cast judgment. How can you even pretend to know how they are dealing with this. Fucking shameful.
+1, unless you know the band personally and know EXACTLY what their up to, STFU!
Quote from: nicklav on Jun 03, 2009, 08:26 PM
You people make me sick. None of you know a goddamn thing about any of the members of the band. Do you really think that these friends of over 2 decades would suddenly abandon one of their own? You have no idea what they have or haven't done to help, yet you see fit to cast judgment. How can you even pretend to know how they are dealing with this. Fucking shameful.
Right fucking on, brother.
There's nothing worse than coming on here to read about any updates on Chi's condition and instead reading bullshit from people who have zero involvement with the situation other than being "fans" of Deftones. Yes, it fucking sucks that Chi is in this condition and that the new album will be delayed or shelved (for good fucking reason) but you all need to chill the fuck out with the "Deftones aren't doing enough" shit. Like nicklav said, it is truly a mind fuck that you people think you know how the band is dealing with this tragedy. Take this shit to the deftones.com board with all the other assholes who call themselves fans.
Thank you Gina for being an angel and one love for Chi.
so anyway... talked to chino today and he let me know he and the guys are working on things to help chi.
as for chi... he is the same right now.. still in ICU... we are waiting on confirmation on a couple things and then i will make a more detailed update... mae called me last night and chi was resting fine.
some other big things are happening right now that i am working on an announcement for.. i just need to do a couple things first.
let's keep up the prayers and positive vibe.
one love for chi,
gina
p.s. you are welcome sorrow...
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jun 03, 2009, 11:09 PM
so anyway... talked to chino today and he is putting something big together to raise money for chi that will be held the beginning of sept. in LA... a definite date and details will be announced later.. but he did let me know he is working on something. when he lets me know more i will post it on the one love site and on SL.
as for chi... he is the same right now.. still in ICU... we are waiting on confirmation on a couple things and then i will make a more detailed update... mae called me last night and chi was resting fine.
some other big things are happening right now that i am working on an announcement for.. i just need to do a couple things first.
let's keep up the prayers and positive vibe.
one love for chi,
gina
Look at you... lol, I just spoke with Chino (no big wuff) lol...
thats great though, thanks for the update
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Jun 03, 2009, 11:43 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jun 03, 2009, 11:09 PM
so anyway... talked to chino today and he is putting something big together to raise money for chi that will be held the beginning of sept. in LA... a definite date and details will be announced later.. but he did let me know he is working on something. when he lets me know more i will post it on the one love site and on SL.
as for chi... he is the same right now.. still in ICU... we are waiting on confirmation on a couple things and then i will make a more detailed update... mae called me last night and chi was resting fine.
some other big things are happening right now that i am working on an announcement for.. i just need to do a couple things first.
let's keep up the prayers and positive vibe.
one love for chi,
gina
Look at you... lol, I just spoke with Chino (no big wuff) lol...
thats great though, thanks for the update
lol - should i have said it a different way?
Thank you Gina :) Sounds exciting about Chino's plans!
I'm glad Chi is resting, been thinking about him every day and wondering how he was doing. So thanks for updating us :)
Quote from: goldpony on Jun 03, 2009, 09:15 PM
Quote from: nicklav on Jun 03, 2009, 08:26 PM
You people make me sick. None of you know a goddamn thing about any of the members of the band. Do you really think that these friends of over 2 decades would suddenly abandon one of their own? You have no idea what they have or haven't done to help, yet you see fit to cast judgment. How can you even pretend to know how they are dealing with this. Fucking shameful.
+1, unless you know the band personally and know EXACTLY what their up to, STFU!
You don't have to know them personally to SEE they haven't done much of ANYTHING! It's been what....7 months since Chi's accident? You hardly hear them talk about Chi,If it weren't for Chi's mother and a few other select people,nobody would know anything. WHY has it taken 7 months for them do something big to help him out? That hardly seems like a brotherhood. If I were in one of those guys situation,I would have been having benefit concerts,even if it were in a fucking parking lot,a bake sale,auction.....WHATEVER to help out. Fuck,get Deftones to make an official Twitter,and raise money on there like Trent Reznor did for that nobody. People forget Chi's still in this situation,but if you push and push,awareness will be made and more cash will flow in.
Now,if you have proven facts that things HAVE been done for Chi on behalf of the remaining Deftones members,I will eat my words gladly. But until then,I will judge as I please.
:)
You don't have to know them personally to SEE they haven't done much of ANYTHING! It's been what....7 months since Chi's accident? You hardly hear them talk about Chi,If it weren't for Chi's mother and a few other select people,nobody would know anything. WHY has it taken 7 months for them do something big to help him out? That hardly seems like a brotherhood. If I were in one of those guys situation,I would have been having benefit concerts,even if it were in a fucking parking lot,a bake sale,auction.....WHATEVER to help out. Fuck,get Deftones to make an official Twitter,and raise money on there like Trent Reznor did for that nobody. People forget Chi's still in this situation,but if you push and push,awareness will be made and more cash will flow in.
TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU....WHY IT TOOK 7 MONTHS AND NO ONE SAID ANYTHING???IT S SAD....TO SEE SOMETHING LIKE THAT....AND WAIT ...DEFTONES ARE PREPARING SOMETHING FOR.....SEPTEMBER....FUCK THAT...SEPTEMBER ....WHY NOT TOMORROW?????IT S SO SO SAD WHAT S GOING ON ..LET S HOPE AND PRAY AND THANK TO GINA THAT HE PUT ONE LOVE...
LOVE TO CHI....WE RE HERE PRAYING AND WAITING FOR YOU DEAR BROTHER
Thanks again Gina, for keeping us informed :)
Hope Chi will leave ICU soon, and this time for good.
Good to hear Deftones are working on something. Although I do sympathize with the sense of 'why no something, anything, a little sooner?'. Who knows, maybe we'll find out sometime.
hey guys.. you are all welcome.
also... things are really busy with the site and also work.. kids.. etc... so if i am not around here much from here on out.. i apologize now. i will of course diligently update the one love site daily with news and info on chi... so everyone who wants to keep hearing updates from myself and the cheng's on chi please go register there: http://oneloveforchi.com/wp-login.php?action=register (http://oneloveforchi.com/wp-login.php?action=register)... i will pop in here on SL now and then to say what's up..
you guys are all awesome people :) ... keep the positivity and prayers coming. i have faith chi can and will recover from this.
one love for chi,
gina
dont leave us here on our own!
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jun 03, 2009, 11:09 PM
so anyway... talked to chino today and he let me know he and the guys are working on things to help chi.
So there is, now post it EVERYWHERE where everyone could see it and stop bashing about "Why Deftones haven't said a word?" and all that stuff.
I envy you Gina hahaha... I wish Deftones were my neighbors...
oneLoveforChi!!
Not the best moment either but when are the t-shirts supposed to be ready?
By the way, I might be way behind here but did you notice Triangle Tattoo, the studio where Chi got most of his tattoos (all of them?) put a oneloveforchi.com ad?
http://triangletattoo.com/default.htm
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Jun 07, 2009, 04:23 PM
Not the best moment either but when are the t-shirts supposed to be ready?
By the way, I might be way behind here but did you notice Triangle Tattoo, the studio where Chi got most of his tattoos (all of them?) put a oneloveforchi.com ad?
http://triangletattoo.com/default.htm
wow.. that's really good! It may help fine!
if anyone posted this before i'm sorry..... Fieldy talking about the 'Chi song' project. I just know the song most likely will be horrible because i do in fact dislike everyone he mentions. But it is indeed for a a good cause so thank you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G70RP1iO8-o
Horrible or not horrible, I'll still buy it.
Quote from: ilovechino69 on Jun 08, 2009, 06:39 AM
if anyone posted this before i'm sorry..... Fieldy talking about the 'Chi song' project. I just know the song most likely will be horrible because i do in fact dislike everyone he mentions. But it is indeed for a a good cause so thank you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G70RP1iO8-o
Brian Welch is a very good song writer, so i have faith in it.
yea, Head will write something good
I just want to hear some good news.
Did you read that Chi spoke again? To his Aunt Renee? :) He told her he loved her and that he was "hot", and was very responsive and lucid with her :)
Every little positive thing counts, right?
incredible.
now get that man in his chamber already
i get so emotional on this shit dude *sigh*, not like a lil bitch emotional but you know ;)
That's great. Knock on wood, but hopefully he can finally get some of that oxygen therapy. Keep on keeping on brother Chi!
Much respect,
-Matt
I'm so happy for him that he's not in a coma anymore :)
Quote from: Nebontha on Jun 10, 2009, 08:49 PM
I'm so happy for him that he's not in a coma anymore :)
Hes still in a coma
he's in a vegetative state
Quote from: chino_208 on Jun 04, 2009, 08:45 AM
You don't have to know them personally to SEE they haven't done much of ANYTHING! It's been what....7 months since Chi's accident? You hardly hear them talk about Chi,If it weren't for Chi's mother and a few other select people,nobody would know anything. WHY has it taken 7 months for them do something big to help him out? That hardly seems like a brotherhood. If I were in one of those guys situation,I would have been having benefit concerts,even if it were in a fucking parking lot,a bake sale,auction.....WHATEVER to help out. Fuck,get Deftones to make an official Twitter,and raise money on there like Trent Reznor did for that nobody. People forget Chi's still in this situation,but if you push and push,awareness will be made and more cash will flow in.
TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU....WHY IT TOOK 7 MONTHS AND NO ONE SAID ANYTHING???IT S SAD....TO SEE SOMETHING LIKE THAT....AND WAIT ...DEFTONES ARE PREPARING SOMETHING FOR.....SEPTEMBER....FUCK THAT...SEPTEMBER ....WHY NOT TOMORROW?????IT S SO SO SAD WHAT S GOING ON ..LET S HOPE AND PRAY AND THANK TO GINA THAT HE PUT ONE LOVE...
LOVE TO CHI....WE RE HERE PRAYING AND WAITING FOR YOU DEAR BROTHER
life is a bit more than meets the eye
transformers
(http://img199.imageshack.us/img199/6381/85064748.jpg) (http://img199.imageshack.us/i/85064748.jpg/)
A pic I found the other day, haven't seen it before.
wow, his face looks like it's cut out of cardboard
Chi has to be completely free of infection for a period of time in order for him to be able to recieve his oxygen therapy. (Don't remember how long)
Since he keeps getting new infections, small or worse ones, the "timer" goes back to zero days without infection all the time, up to now.
He's also unable to start this therapy where he is presently, I think, as they wouldn't allow the chamber into where he is. I think that's what Gina said.. I'm sorry if I got that one wrong.
Hopefully he will get better soon so he can finally start his oxygen therapy :)
I've always thought that bone flap thing was a bit awkward...
thanks vesanic..
so.. is because of that that i don't get the daily digest since like... two or three weeks? because gina haven't had the time to log in and blog?
well, the $50,000 goal has been met. cool deal
I've ordered mine, and I will wear it when I go to see Deftones at Reading festival and at HMV forum, I think :) I want to order another one eventually.
I really want one but $28 for overseas shipping....ouch! ...I'll still buy one eventually...
I know, and I wouldn't have bought one if it wasn't for the fact that it goes to Chi. If the money went to like a company or a shop or something, no way.
I can't wait to get it though and wear it :)
Yeah, I wouldn't mind if the extra $28 went to Chi and his family, but as far as I know it won't... :-\
Cool! let's see if i have money now to order the 1st or the 4th (or both!!)
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Jun 26, 2009, 12:41 AM
I really want one but $28 for overseas shipping....ouch! ...I'll still buy one eventually...
i know.. but that is the usps rate for priority and sending any way less than that is risky... may never get it.
one love for chi,
gina
update: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/show-me-the-money/
one love for chi,
gina
Gina.. i don't get again the daily news.. is this thing working? or what?
thanks for the updates!!
Quote from: defTHE1s on Jun 30, 2009, 12:50 AM
Gina.. i don't get again the daily news.. is this thing working? or what?
thanks for the updates!!
it hasn't gone out today yet.. usually goes out at the end of the day.. but only if there has been a post.
thanks.
one love for chi,
gina
Thanks again for keeping us up-to-date.
Shirts look awesome too.
thanks gina
Quote from: Martin on Jun 30, 2009, 05:11 PM
Thanks again for keeping us up-to-date.
Shirts look awesome too.
and i'm looking poor... :(
I'll do as much I can to get at least one shirt.
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Jun 26, 2009, 09:47 PM
Yeah, I wouldn't mind if the extra $28 went to Chi and his family, but as far as I know it won't... :-\
No you're probably right... But I choose to look at it like this...
I have to pay $28 for Chi to get his fair share - then I'm okay with paying it.
And if I didn't spend it on Chi, I'd spend it on something else..
Quote from: Sugartolove on Jun 30, 2009, 11:25 PM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Jun 26, 2009, 09:47 PM
Yeah, I wouldn't mind if the extra $28 went to Chi and his family, but as far as I know it won't... :-\
No you're probably right... But I choose to look at it like this...
I have to pay $28 for Chi to get his fair share - then I'm okay with paying it.
And if I didn't spend it on Chi, I'd spend it on something else..
none of the $28 goes to chi.. it goes to international shipping...
one love for chi,
gina
Quotewish list for nursing facility: (these are approximate numbers and could change as his condition improves.)
* convalescent care: $15,000/mo.
* wheelchair accessible van: $5000/down + monthly payments of ~$500/mo.?? (for use while he requires a wheel chair)
home care requirements:
* hospital bed, collapsible wheel chair etc.. and all home care required equipment: $ ???
* home care/trained home care assistant: $ 5000.00/mo.
* housing: $2000.00/mo.
* continued physical therapy as needed: $ 2000.00/mo.
* medication: $1000.00/mo.
:o
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 01, 2009, 02:26 AM
Quote from: Sugartolove on Jun 30, 2009, 11:25 PM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Jun 26, 2009, 09:47 PM
Yeah, I wouldn't mind if the extra $28 went to Chi and his family, but as far as I know it won't... :-\
No you're probably right... But I choose to look at it like this...
I have to pay $28 for Chi to get his fair share - then I'm okay with paying it.
And if I didn't spend it on Chi, I'd spend it on something else..
none of the $28 goes to chi.. it goes to international shipping...
one love for chi,
gina
I just got that too. I thought the whole thing would be $28, but damn, the whole thing's $48...
So much for international shipping?
I guess Gina went to see Chi yesterday...can't wait to read how it went.... ???
Gina has some updates on oneloveforchi.com! Check it out!
Where?
totally buying the 2nd shirt as soon as i go home friday
i'm gonna save $$ to get at least one asap!!
thx vesanic for postin it, and of course, thx a lot to gina!!
btw, i've heard of the hyperbaric chamber yesterday on the radio, and they say it shows really fast results since the 1st session....
so... let's pray to get that man on the chamber ASAFuckingP!!!
Got a question for someone who may know....if Chi is not present on EROS....does this mean no royalties, etc.? Just curious.
nope, he would not
Ordered a tshirt yesterday.
Must say, international shipping prices here are ridiculous. Ordered it to help out Chi.
Quote from: Martin on Jul 11, 2009, 10:21 AM
Ordered a tshirt yesterday.
Must say, international shipping prices here are ridiculous. Ordered it to help out Chi.
he'd more then likely get more money by just donating at OLFC I would figure eh? but t-shirts are cool i suppose
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Jul 11, 2009, 01:52 PM
Quote from: Martin on Jul 11, 2009, 10:21 AM
Ordered a tshirt yesterday.
Must say, international shipping prices here are ridiculous. Ordered it to help out Chi.
he'd more then likely get more money by just donating at OLFC I would figure eh? but t-shirts are cool i suppose
Already did that.
Plus having a tshirt on is promoting the site as well, besides it being cool.
So it works in more then one way.
Figured that too, eh?
hey guys.. my husband and i like literally JUST walked in from our trip to see chi.. i will update you guys soon about it all... but i was going to let you know.. i will look into a way to get around the paypal requirement that international orders be shipped priority international and try to lower costs.... not sure if i can.. it's a paypal thing.. again we (chi) make no money on shipping.
will be back to share about my visit with dear chi.. he is AWEsome.. just love him so much...
one love for chi,
gina
our visit with chi...
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/our-visit-with-chi/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/our-visit-with-chi/)
and...
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/you-cant-go-by-what-you-see-you-have-to-go-by-what-you-know/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/you-cant-go-by-what-you-see-you-have-to-go-by-what-you-know/)
one love for chi,
gina
Yep, awesome! These are bassist's hands!
chi is in my prayers. the Lord will take care of him.
Quote from: Vesanic on Jul 13, 2009, 09:02 PM...
thanks... did alot of holding his hands.. he is as strong as ever.. he squeezed the crap out of my hand a couple times when a nurse was messing with him..
i talked to him again tonight and he was trying so hard to talk back to me: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/i-was-so-blown-away-i-totally-forgot-what-i-called-momma-j-for/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/i-was-so-blown-away-i-totally-forgot-what-i-called-momma-j-for/)
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Vesanic on Jul 14, 2009, 02:36 AM...
sorry.. i am so not ignoring you.. just haven't heard/received anything else yet... if i do i will post it here..
thanks so much.. take care!
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Vesanic on Jul 14, 2009, 06:53 AM...
ya - it ain't easy.. my main focus is on chi and his recovery and things that will help that. we need MORE exposure like BIG time! anyone with some media connects?
thanks so much.. i appreciate it... no worries.. you are NOT harassing... your continued support is sooo appreciated...
one love for chi,
gina
gina if you talk to him, tell about us, tell him how sharinglungs missed him
Quote from: rock_n_frost on Jul 14, 2009, 07:36 AM
gina if you talk to him, tell about us, tell him how sharinglungs missed him
i will.. i will be talking to him tomorrow for his birthday... i am going to try to get someone to read all the birthday wishes to him so if you want to send him one post it here: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/happy-birthday-chi/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/happy-birthday-chi/)
thanks all...
one love for chi,
gina
Gina it doesnt send my message cause of ant-spam shit...
please read that to him ;
Hello Chi
I'm from Turkey..
It's somewhere at Europe.
I really love you as the other members of Deftones.
I know you are a good person and you deserve a good life.
You all have a brilliant personality.
I hope we could see you stand on stage again.
From the first day of that disaster we are praying for you.
Turkey fans and everyone from sharinglungs.com loves you deadly..
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Quote from: rock_n_frost on Jul 14, 2009, 09:25 PM
Gina it doesnt send my message cause of ant-spam shit...
please read that to him ;
Hello Chi
I'm from Turkey..
It's somewhere at Europe.
I really love you as the other members of Deftones.
I know you are a good person and you deserve a good life.
You all have a brilliant personality.
I hope we could see you stand on stage again.
From the first day of that disaster we are praying for you.
Turkey fans and everyone from sharinglungs.com loves you deadly..
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
hey - what do you mean anti-spam? what does it do when you try to post this as a comment on that page?
thanks..
also... some may take " loves you deadly" wrong,... how about " loves you madly" or something..? or... "loves you a shit ton??" hehe.. i don't know.. just something else?
one love for chi,
gina
okey madly then...
error is something like this ''spam=idednty bla bla bla your country marked as spam bla bla bla''
its under submit button...something anti-spam i guess its cause of this
Quote from: rock_n_frost on Jul 14, 2009, 10:16 PM
okey madly then...
error is something like this ''spam=idednty bla bla bla your country marked as spam bla bla bla''
its under submit button...something anti-spam i guess its cause of this
aww crap.. ok - sorry about that... i will add it for you!
thanks so much
one love for chi,
gina
Wohoo!
Just got a message that the tshirt is on it's way!
thank you gina
Chi's Birthday ALL DAY TODAY on XM/Sirius LIQUID METAL...
details: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/chis-birthday-all-day-today-on-xmsirius-liquid-metal/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/chis-birthday-all-day-today-on-xmsirius-liquid-metal/)
i will be talking on air to jose on liquid metal about one love at ~5:40 pm est and ~7:40 est!
one love for chi,
gina
Great! Good luck Gina, spread the word!
Great pic on the site by the way, I assume it was '04...
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Jul 15, 2009, 09:01 PM
Great! Good luck Gina, spread the word!
Great pic on the site by the way, I assume it was '04...
thanks.. i really hope this starts kicking off even more exposure for chi!
one love for chi,
gina
So how was it? I haven't been able to listen to the show...
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Jul 16, 2009, 04:34 PM
So how was it? I haven't been able to listen to the show...
it went good. hope it gets chi the help he needs.
we are going to keep pushing till we get chi the rehab facility he needs..
one love for chi,
gina
Come on CHI! We need you! I think my band mate and I are all going to order t-shirts and wear them at shows. :) Get the word out!
Quote from: Wax And Wane on Jul 16, 2009, 08:07 PM
Come on CHI! We need you! I think my band mate and I are all going to order t-shirts and wear them at shows. :) Get the word out!
that would be so awesome!
one love for chi,
gina
(http://i369.photobucket.com/albums/oo139/Methodicallymental/Pictures%20Ebay/chichenbenefitheader3main.jpg)
(http://i369.photobucket.com/albums/oo139/Methodicallymental/Pictures%20Ebay/chiflyer2.jpg)
I may have missed it but I haven't seen any information on this anywhere so I figured I'd spread the word! :)
Quote from: Vesanic on Jul 16, 2009, 11:32 PM...
cuz.. they're doing the new album??
i hope so!!
thats awesome
yeah!! can you believe it??
;D
thats a cheap poster
i can do a better one,damn
Quote from: rock_n_frost on Jul 17, 2009, 06:21 AM
thats a cheap poster
i can do a better one,damn
i might call on your services then... for our texas benefit...
one love for chi,
gina
Damn Gina I didn't even know you were from Austin..that's crazycool
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 17, 2009, 07:37 AM
Quote from: rock_n_frost on Jul 17, 2009, 06:21 AM
thats a cheap poster
i can do a better one,damn
i might call on your services then... for our texas benefit...
one love for chi,
gina
agreed
i can do anything for chi
I too would like to contribute
Quote from: shine down unshy on Jul 17, 2009, 07:44 AM
Damn Gina I didn't even know you were from Austin..that's crazycool
are you in austin too?
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Jul 17, 2009, 02:09 PM
I too would like to contribute
thanks so much to both of you... i will let you know
one love for chi,
gina
Gina, I know you're super-busy but did you look into this shipping costs' issue?
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 17, 2009, 05:20 PM
Quote from: shine down unshy on Jul 17, 2009, 07:44 AM
Damn Gina I didn't even know you were from Austin..that's crazycool
are you in austin too?
one love for chi,
gina
Yepper
Yah if there's anything I can do to help out at all..just shoot me a PM.
Ditto!
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 17, 2009, 05:20 PM
Quote from: shine down unshy on Jul 17, 2009, 07:44 AM
Damn Gina I didn't even know you were from Austin..that's crazycool
are you in austin too?
one love for chi,
gina
WOAH, Your from austin, you should tell the Deftones to come to Lubbock cuz they have never been here and all the other big bands have!
I had the most intense and wonderful dream about Chi early this morning.
He had been released from the hospital and was allowed to be cared for at what was apparently a family member's home. The house was full of people, young and old, all friends and family of Chi. I was allowed to go inside where he was lying on a special bed that was basically on the floor which cradled his head to protect it. I walked up to him, kneeled at his side, held his hand for a very long time and told him how much of an inspiration him and his music are to me. I was lucky enough to say that to him in real life just a couple of summers ago when I met the band after their set here in Rochester, so I guess that's probably why I chose those words to say to him in my dream.
Anyway, he looked right into my eyes and was able to smile from ear to ear and just nodded his head. I started talking to him and he could respond with one word answers! I remember telling him that Germany is my favorite soccer club, then I asked him what his was, and I'm pretty sure he said "Malaysia!". Haha! I also remember talking to his mother who was sitting near us (though she didn't look like she actually does, she resembled a member of my family who passed away recently) and telling her how much her son means to so many people around the world. I asked Chi if he listened to all of the letters that people sent to Gina and he began nodding wildly with a huge smile on his face. The dream seemed to last for an extremely long time, I never remember having a dream that vivid last for more than a few seconds. To top it all off, before I left, I helped him to his feet and he took a few steps before sitting dow in a big green recliner all on his own!
I still can't believe how realistic this dream was. I remembered to ask about Gina, the letters, and repeated what I had told him in real life a couple of years ago. It felt so real and amazing.
I hope everyone can feel a little bit of inspiration just by reading about my dream. I pray everyday that it's going to come true and that Chi will be able to smile, laugh, speak, and rock again!
Hopefully your dream and everyone's dreams about Chi will come true soon!
Hope it's a premonitory dream!
Quote from: SorrowToSerenity on Jul 19, 2009, 08:05 PM
I had the most intense and wonderful dream about Chi early this morning.
He had been released from the hospital and was allowed to be cared for at what was apparently a family member's home. The house was full of people, young and old, all friends and family of Chi. I was allowed to go inside where he was lying on a special bed that was basically on the floor which cradled his head to protect it. I walked up to him, kneeled at his side, held his hand for a very long time and told him how much of an inspiration him and his music are to me. I was lucky enough to say that to him in real life just a couple of summers ago when I met the band after their set here in Rochester, so I guess that's probably why I chose those words to say to him in my dream.
Anyway, he looked right into my eyes and was able to smile from ear to ear and just nodded his head. I started talking to him and he could respond with one word answers! I remember telling him that Germany is my favorite soccer club, then I asked him what his was, and I'm pretty sure he said "Malaysia!". Haha! I also remember talking to his mother who was sitting near us (though she didn't look like she actually does, she resembled a member of my family who passed away recently) and telling her how much her son means to so many people around the world. I asked Chi if he listened to all of the letters that people sent to Gina and he began nodding wildly with a huge smile on his face. The dream seemed to last for an extremely long time, I never remember having a dream that vivid last for more than a few seconds. To top it all off, before I left, I helped him to his feet and he took a few steps before sitting dow in a big green recliner all on his own!
I still can't believe how realistic this dream was. I remembered to ask about Gina, the letters, and repeated what I had told him in real life a couple of years ago. It felt so real and amazing.
I hope everyone can feel a little bit of inspiration just by reading about my dream. I pray everyday that it's going to come true and that Chi will be able to smile, laugh, speak, and rock again!
this is really amazing because we are making arrangements for him to go home now.. all facilities have been denying him.. the great thing is too that he will be able to get in the oxygen chamber at home...
awesome dream!
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Jul 17, 2009, 05:52 PM
Gina, I know you're super-busy but did you look into this shipping costs' issue?
not yet - but i am going to convert it to a true shopping cart and we should be able to offer regular international EMS which should be cheaper..
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 17, 2009, 05:21 PM
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Jul 17, 2009, 02:09 PM
I too would like to contribute
thanks so much to both of you... i will let you know
one love for chi,
gina
ME TOO! ME TOO! I CAN DO DESIGN THINGS! ANYTHING FOR CHI!
Hey Gina, I've just read Momma J's last blog, great one once again btw, and apparently there's more and more talk about taking Chi back home for the rest of his treatment. Yet, I still wonder about that skull flap thing. What's up with that? Are they going to put it back on at last?
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 22, 2009, 04:35 AM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Jul 17, 2009, 05:52 PM
Gina, I know you're super-busy but did you look into this shipping costs' issue?
not yet - but i am going to convert it to a true shopping cart and we should be able to offer regular international EMS which should be cheaper..
one love for chi,
gina
taht'd be really good, thanks Gina!
and yeah.. what about the skull flap?
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 22, 2009, 04:35 AM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Jul 17, 2009, 05:52 PM
Gina, I know you're super-busy but did you look into this shipping costs' issue?
not yet - but i am going to convert it to a true shopping cart and we should be able to offer regular international EMS which should be cheaper..
one love for chi,
gina
Hey Gina,
Did you ever consider the possibility of sending some shirts along with the tones when they are going on tour to Europe? I'm sure they will sell them in no time and you don't have to worry about shipping and stuff.
Might be a good idea....
Just twittered it:
Today my @oneloveforchi tshirt arrived: beyond awesome. http://bit.ly/UQej3
Wearing it now. Fucking awesome design, it comes out so very fucking well.
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 22, 2009, 04:32 AM
Quote from: SorrowToSerenity on Jul 19, 2009, 08:05 PM
I had the most intense and wonderful dream about Chi early this morning.
He had been released from the hospital and was allowed to be cared for at what was apparently a family member's home. The house was full of people, young and old, all friends and family of Chi. I was allowed to go inside where he was lying on a special bed that was basically on the floor which cradled his head to protect it. I walked up to him, kneeled at his side, held his hand for a very long time and told him how much of an inspiration him and his music are to me. I was lucky enough to say that to him in real life just a couple of summers ago when I met the band after their set here in Rochester, so I guess that's probably why I chose those words to say to him in my dream.
Anyway, he looked right into my eyes and was able to smile from ear to ear and just nodded his head. I started talking to him and he could respond with one word answers! I remember telling him that Germany is my favorite soccer club, then I asked him what his was, and I'm pretty sure he said "Malaysia!". Haha! I also remember talking to his mother who was sitting near us (though she didn't look like she actually does, she resembled a member of my family who passed away recently) and telling her how much her son means to so many people around the world. I asked Chi if he listened to all of the letters that people sent to Gina and he began nodding wildly with a huge smile on his face. The dream seemed to last for an extremely long time, I never remember having a dream that vivid last for more than a few seconds. To top it all off, before I left, I helped him to his feet and he took a few steps before sitting dow in a big green recliner all on his own!
I still can't believe how realistic this dream was. I remembered to ask about Gina, the letters, and repeated what I had told him in real life a couple of years ago. It felt so real and amazing.
I hope everyone can feel a little bit of inspiration just by reading about my dream. I pray everyday that it's going to come true and that Chi will be able to smile, laugh, speak, and rock again!
this is really amazing because we are making arrangements for him to go home now.. all facilities have been denying him.. the great thing is too that he will be able to get in the oxygen chamber at home...
awesome dream!
one love for chi,
gina
the skull has to be fixed before he goes home right? is there plans for that soon?
hey all..
you guys are so fucking awesome.. i swear... really wow!
anyway... ya chi's sister mae just sent me a new blog to post and you can view it here.. she talks about the bone flap issue as well.. http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/you-are-all-chis-angels-thank-you/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/you-are-all-chis-angels-thank-you/)
i have to tell you - when my husband and i were with chi not long ago we could tell he did NOT want to be there any more... any time we talked to him about getting him out of there or joked about throwing him over our shoulder to jack him from the hospital.. he SO reacted! so this is really what he wants. he looks great.. he really does.
read mae's blog - you will see our brother is making progress... he is so damn strong! keep your faith in that and please keep your prayers, positive thoughts and everything else you are doing going.. cuz it is working!
ryan and i are going back soon... shit we may not come back.. but if you want to send him anything... email me thru the contact page on http://www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
one love for chi, (thank you for making this happen you guys!!!)
gina
Quote from: Bayle on Jul 23, 2009, 06:01 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 22, 2009, 04:35 AM
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Jul 17, 2009, 05:52 PM
Gina, I know you're super-busy but did you look into this shipping costs' issue?
not yet - but i am going to convert it to a true shopping cart and we should be able to offer regular international EMS which should be cheaper..
one love for chi,
gina
Hey Gina,
Did you ever consider the possibility of sending some shirts along with the tones when they are going on tour to Europe? I'm sure they will sell them in no time and you don't have to worry about shipping and stuff.
Might be a good idea....
ya we have been trying to make that happen... will let you know... if you don't hear anything - means i guess i didn't pull thru on that one.., and sorry in advance. BUT - i have a connect (LOVE YOU HEFE!) there that i may get to do the shipping from there.. which may work out better.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Martin on Jul 23, 2009, 03:01 PM
Just twittered it:
Today my @oneloveforchi tshirt arrived: beyond awesome. http://bit.ly/UQej3
Wearing it now. Fucking awesome design, it comes out so very fucking well.
glad you love it!!!
I Think oneloveforchi's next step could be Searching for a doctor specialist who's a deftones fan and who's willing to help him recover for a minimun wage. Maybe more than one doctor, who knows? what do you think?
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 25, 2009, 05:53 AM
Quote from: Martin on Jul 23, 2009, 03:01 PM
Just twittered it:
Today my @oneloveforchi tshirt arrived: beyond awesome. http://bit.ly/UQej3
Wearing it now. Fucking awesome design, it comes out so very fucking well.
glad you love it!!!
I really do, apart from sleeping and showering, I've been wearing it untill now (needs some fresh air haha).
Hope it points people to the website.
Quote from: Deftones-argentina on Jul 25, 2009, 06:28 PM
I Think oneloveforchi's next step could be Searching for a doctor specialist who's a deftones fan and who's willing to help him recover for a minimun wage. Maybe more than one doctor, who knows? what do you think?
already covered...
I admire you guys so much, keep it up and well done G.
We've just uploaded a remix of shove it dedicated to Chi. hope everyone enjoys it! Get well soon Chi!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZFhyI0SPoI
www.oneloveforchi.com
great news on bone flap and prayer requests: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/bone-flap-back-prayers-needed-tomorrow/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/bone-flap-back-prayers-needed-tomorrow/)
one love for chi,
gina
man, i cant believe its almost been a year...
i hope all goes well and he gets what he deserves!
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Aug 05, 2009, 12:20 AM
great news on bone flap and prayer requests: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/bone-flap-back-prayers-needed-tomorrow/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/bone-flap-back-prayers-needed-tomorrow/)
one love for chi,
gina
At last! I think I had a dream about Chi and that bone flap issue some nights ago...I can't remember what it was but our man was all good, he was smiling.
great news Gina, Chi will absolutely be in my prayers, much love
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Aug 05, 2009, 12:55 PM
great news Gina, Chi will absolutely be in my prayers, much love
keep the prayers coming... they are working!
one love for chi,
gina
hey all,
i added a chat room to the one love for chi site.. lots of people were in there today.. it was awesome!
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chat-room/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/category/chat-room/)
one love for chi,
gina
Cool, Gina!!
Thanks so much!!
Everyone, unite in prayers!
Quote from: defTHE1s on Aug 07, 2009, 09:40 PM
Cool, Gina!!
Thanks so much!!
Everyone, unite in prayers!
ur welcome..
one love for chi,
gina
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v196/defsteve/deftones/scan00431.jpg?t=1250355596)
hey all,
everyone please pray extra hard for chi tomorrow as he will be in surgery having his bone flap put back.. details: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/tuesday-at-1200pm-pacific/
thanks.
one love for chi,
gina
that's cool defsteve!!!
And yeah, gina, i'll be praying specially for him since this night!
Yay ! Finally! :) After all this time, it's finally gonna happen! I will pray extra hard for Chi, and for the Chengs. I bet they're anxiously happy this is hasppening :) Dammit, this should go well, and then he is that one step closer to oxygen therapy...
He is such a fighter.. It's unbelievable
here's hoping for the best!
amen
thanks everyone. your support and well wishes mean alot to the fam..
one love for chi,
gina
At last, I really hope all will go well, I will think and pray extra hard for Chi tomorrow!
request to all: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/prayer-chat-room-request/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/prayer-chat-room-request/)
one love for chi,
gina
You'll do great Chi! We love you!
Much respect,
-Matt
unfortunately I will not be able to login to pray but chi will be in my thoughts today
STAY STRONG CHI! WE LOVE YOU!
Chat is blocked in work, but as always thoughts and prayers are with Chi...
If you guys haven't checked the One Love site yet, the surgery went well!
Being in the chat room yesterday was really awesome. It was a pool of positivity and we must have done something right!
It seems more realistic than ever that Chi will get through this...
Lets hope it happens before the one year comes up!
Quote from: defskull on Aug 19, 2009, 09:31 PM
Lets hope it happens before the one year comes up!
Yeah, let's pray very hard for that!!!
one thing about Fred, he's never jumped off the bandwagon. he's been a deftones fan for a long ass time
Hey, I think Sergio Vega was wearing a oneloveforchi tshirt at Pukkelpop! Check out the videos on Vesanic's topic.
hey guys
fender donated a SWEET bass guitar! chk it out: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/autographed-fender%c2%ae-bass-guitar-to-be-auctioned-off/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/autographed-fender%c2%ae-bass-guitar-to-be-auctioned-off/)
one love for chi,
gina
yeah? what's been of him?
Is he better?
any notorious new??
Bad news.
http://www.examiner.com/x-15421-NY-Metal-Music-Examiner~y2009m8d30-Deftones-Cheng-losing-his-home-Metallica-Slipknot-Korn-look-to-help
Hopefully this isn't true. That bank is scum.
Quote from: Inkblades on Aug 30, 2009, 07:04 PM
Bad news.
http://www.examiner.com/x-15421-NY-Metal-Music-Examiner~y2009m8d30-Deftones-Cheng-losing-his-home-Metallica-Slipknot-Korn-look-to-help
Hopefully this isn't true. That bank is scum.
maybe you guys missed this but they are just reporting what i had already said on the site.. yes chi's house went back to bank.
there will be some updates soon.. i will probably do an update tonight on one love on chi's status and news etc.
one love for chi,
gina
Didn't he already loose it a while back?
EDIT: ok thanks Gina, that's what I thought.
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Aug 30, 2009, 08:55 PM
Didn't he already loose it a while back?
EDIT: ok thanks Gina, that's what I thought.
yeppers.. yw :)
one love for chi,
gina
chi is recovering from his surgery but doing well. i will try to get an update on the site some time today.. trying to get tshirt orders caught up.
one love for chi,
gina
Hear an exclusive insight into the friendship behind the Deftones success and how Cheng Chi's accident has inspired their latest recording
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xab70f_deftones-on-life-since-chi-chengs-a_music (http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xab70f_deftones-on-life-since-chi-chengs-a_music)
one love for chi,
gina
that was touching to see Chino express how he feels about Chi in comparison to how a fan would, brings it a bit more into perspective on how they feel about the situation. thanks G-dog
great news for chi: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/im-listening-to-willie-and-sending-love-via-pen-and-paper/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/im-listening-to-willie-and-sending-love-via-pen-and-paper/)
one love for chi,
gina
I feel that some good news are coming, Chi will be "home" again, the doctors did finally declared his state as "minimally conscious"...something good is happening.
Good news.
YES.
man, i really hope he recovers, even if he's just 50% of what he was mentally
we are praying for and expecting 100%. let the miracles continue!!!
one love for chi,
gina
fuck yeah! go on, chi. Keep on recovering.
update from chi's sister mae: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/where-to-start/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/where-to-start/)
one love for chi,
gina
Twitter about OneLoveForChi.com and win a One Love For Chi T-shirt of your choice! Click here to view all T-shirt designs. (will open in new window)
The contest will run for one week and one winner will be randomly selected.
Step 1: retweet this EXACT message on Twitter. Simply copy and paste the text below and post it to your Twitter account under where it asks "what are you doing?". If you don't have a Twitter account, you'll need to get one for free here: www.twitter.com
QuoteRT @oneloveforchi help raise awareness for Chi Cheng Deftones Bass Player! www.OneLoveForChi.com #oneloveforchi
Step 2: Follow us on Twitter. You can follow us by visiting the link below and clicking on the "follow" button below the picture of chi: http://www.twitter.com/oneloveforchi
That's it! As soon as you complete both of these steps you will be automatically entered so please check your "direct messages" inbox on Twitter for the message about your entry after you've followed the 2 easy steps above.
One week from today we will announce the winner!
One Love For Chi,
Gina
I really miss Chi today
I don't know if I should say that but Mae posted a recent pic of her and Chi on her MySpace page. They look good together and Chi real better than I thought, it's a great pic.
post that pic
(http://img201.imageshack.us/img201/8297/l63e7f97edc4e435e9e49c6.jpg) (http://img201.imageshack.us/i/l63e7f97edc4e435e9e49c6.jpg/)
No prob. Just hope it's not an issue to post it elsewhere.
thank you
Wow he looks great. But this shit is so fucking sad. Damn....
Quote from: stapezee on Sep 23, 2009, 07:57 PM
Wow he looks great. But this shit is so fucking sad. Damn....
totally agree :(
Yep, but in a way, considering how he looks it gives hope and faith.
Yoga for Chi? That's pretty cool!
Received my 3 shirts a couple of weeks ago. Got stung £26 for import duties on top.....but all good.
Nice shirts. 1 for me and 2 for the missus.
Sorted!
Respect defsteve!
Keep up the good fight brother! I think of you everytime I listen to the music!
I will see you soon in Phoenix!
Been thinking about you even more than usual lately, Chi, wondering how your stay at home is going - if you are starting or have started your oxygen therapy... I have so much love for you, Gina and the Chengs and I'm trying my damndest to pray hard enough for you to wake up. I miss you. I wish I could hug you and your Cheng clan..............
That's all.
(http://i369.photobucket.com/albums/oo139/Methodicallymental/Mae9.jpg)
(Hope it's okay I post this picture from Mae's Myspace as it's been up for quite a while)
hey guys..
i know it has been awhile.. but i have been real busy keeping up with chi/website and my kids...
anywayz... that pic of mae's is actually and older pic.. chi looks even better than that now.
also.. sugar.. he is "awake" - he isn't in a coma any more. he has normal wake and sleep cycles. just wanted to clarify.
defsteve.. all of the international orders should have been marked as a "gift" so to avoid taxes/fees.. sorry you got slapped with that.. but glad you like the shirts.
chi has not yet started oxygen therapy. hopefully will soon. he hasn't had an episode in quite awhile now.. which is great.
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/more-details-coming-soon-promise/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/more-details-coming-soon-promise/)
hope all is well with you guys.
i will post more details soon.
one love for chi,
gina
whoa, that is awesome to hear!
ya they discharged him from the hospital as "minimally conscious"
QuoteA minimally conscious state (MCS) is a condition distinct from coma or the vegetative state, in which a patient exhibits deliberate, or cognitively mediated, behavior often enough, or consistently enough, for clinicians to be able to distinguish it from entirely unconscious, reflexive responses.
one love for chi,
gina
update from mae: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/sleep-you-can-catch-up-on/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/sleep-you-can-catch-up-on/)
one love for chi,
gina
good news.be strong Chi!!
Great news. Keep fighting, Dai.
cool news
it must be because all of you prayed for him. ::) ::) ::)
thats great news Gina, I want more info, clarify what your saying, hes awake like you and me? can he speak?
not like you and i - but to say "coma" would be incorrect. he is in more of a responsive state.. he focuses on you... he tries to talk.. and he shows when he is uncomfortable or frustrated by making noises/gestures... so he is expressing himself. it is recovery time for him. physical, occupational and speech therapy.. oxygen therapy. hopefully everything goes well during his evaluation at uc davis and they will begin using different methods to help him make more progress.
the great thing is he is stable and is slowly being taken off the medications he was required to take to help control his episodes.
he is so strong.. he can do this!
please keep the prayers coming.
one love for chi,
gina
He sleeps and wakes like everyone??
Is that what you mean?
but those are great news Gina!!
Keep praying everyone!
C'mon Chi, you can do it!!
Quote from: Vesanic on Oct 07, 2009, 10:28 PM...
they are closed when he is sleeping.. like ours are closed when we sleep.. when he wakes.. his eyes are open.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: defTHE1s on Oct 08, 2009, 04:18 AM
He sleeps and wakes like everyone??
Is that what you mean?
but those are great news Gina!!
Keep praying everyone!
C'mon Chi, you can do it!!
yes great news! he's been doing that for awhile tho..
keep the prayers coming for sure.
one love for chi,
gina
That's awesome, being back home certainly did a lot for his "new" condition!
hi all,
just wanted to let you all know that I ve put out a compilation cd of bands in romania and eastern europe.called "FROM EASTERN EUROPE WITH LOVE" all proceeds going to oneloveforchi.com. to purchase a CD for $5 please email hefe at: djhefe@yahoo.com. to have alll details on how to place your order.for /Compilation CD For Chi Cheng
here s the info
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/hefecompilation-cd-for-chi-cheng/
onelove
The cover is awesome! :o
hey all,
check out these awesome "one love for chi" necklaces lisa made: http://oneloveforchi.com/shop/jewelry/silver-flying-heart-one-love-for-chi-necklace/prod_7.html (http://oneloveforchi.com/shop/jewelry/silver-flying-heart-one-love-for-chi-necklace/prod_7.html)
this is the new shopping cart i put up that should offer even lower shipping rates then the paypal cart.. you still pay thru paypal but it will actually calculate the lower cost shipping methods offered other than priority and up.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Oct 09, 2009, 06:09 PM
this is the new shopping cart i put up that should offer even lower shipping rates then the paypal cart.. you still pay thru paypal but it will actually calculate the lower cost shipping methods offered other than priority and up.
one love for chi,
gina
Same thing for the tshirts? I still want one badly but still put off by the shipping rates...
did you guys read this article? http://www.sacramentopress.com/headline/15033/Yoga_sends_chi_to_Deftones_bassist_in_coma
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Oct 09, 2009, 07:20 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Oct 09, 2009, 06:09 PM
this is the new shopping cart i put up that should offer even lower shipping rates then the paypal cart.. you still pay thru paypal but it will actually calculate the lower cost shipping methods offered other than priority and up.
one love for chi,
gina
Same thing for the tshirts? I still want one badly but still put off by the shipping rates...
try it now... if it is just one shirt the weight allows for first class shipping rates which are way lower.. if it goes over 13 oz then it has to go priority..
one love for chi,
gina
Hey Gina, why don't you make stickers and posters of the 4 different tshirt designs? They would look great.
Well, maybe that's in the works...
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Oct 11, 2009, 06:16 PM
Hey Gina, why don't you make stickers and posters of the 4 different tshirt designs? They would look great.
Well, maybe that's in the works...
yea thats a great idea, I would love to have a poster.
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Oct 09, 2009, 08:14 PM
did you guys read this article? http://www.sacramentopress.com/headline/15033/Yoga_sends_chi_to_Deftones_bassist_in_coma
the one thing in the world that is actually less usefull thant prayers
Quote from: Nailec on Oct 13, 2009, 08:27 PM
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Oct 09, 2009, 08:14 PM
did you guys read this article? http://www.sacramentopress.com/headline/15033/Yoga_sends_chi_to_Deftones_bassist_in_coma
the one thing in the world that is actually less usefull thant prayers
damn....thats a pretty bold statement.
Last night I had a dream about Chi, he awoke after a concert.
Simple but means a lot for me.
All the peace for you too man.
Get well soon.
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Oct 11, 2009, 06:16 PM
Hey Gina, why don't you make stickers and posters of the 4 different tshirt designs? They would look great.
Well, maybe that's in the works...
yep - it is in the works.. this is one poster i am having done..
(http://i33.tinypic.com/10fw94l.jpg)
also having stickers done, wife beaters, caps and more. any suggestions let me know.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: stapezee on Oct 13, 2009, 08:30 PM
Quote from: Nailec on Oct 13, 2009, 08:27 PM
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Oct 09, 2009, 08:14 PM
did you guys read this article? http://www.sacramentopress.com/headline/15033/Yoga_sends_chi_to_Deftones_bassist_in_coma
the one thing in the world that is actually less usefull thant prayers
damn....thats a pretty bold statement.
bold.. or "useless"? hmmm...
Quote from: stapezee on Oct 13, 2009, 08:30 PM
Quote from: Nailec on Oct 13, 2009, 08:27 PM
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Oct 09, 2009, 08:14 PM
did you guys read this article? http://www.sacramentopress.com/headline/15033/Yoga_sends_chi_to_Deftones_bassist_in_coma
the one thing in the world that is actually less usefull thant prayers
damn....thats a pretty bold statement.
yeah man if you dont have anything good to say leave this thread alone.
and you dont have to be "religious" to pray, which is really a form a "meditation" as far as im concerned. you ever heard of common consciousness?? get on that bro
Gina Thank u so much the poster looks great!!! I Cant wait to grab a couple!
I agree - that poster looks great :) Glad you have lots of new merch in the works - you rock, as always :)
Great poster Gina, maybe you should offer various colors?
Quote from: wither-I on Oct 15, 2009, 03:29 PM
Quote from: stapezee on Oct 13, 2009, 08:30 PM
Quote from: Nailec on Oct 13, 2009, 08:27 PM
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Oct 09, 2009, 08:14 PM
did you guys read this article? http://www.sacramentopress.com/headline/15033/Yoga_sends_chi_to_Deftones_bassist_in_coma
the one thing in the world that is actually less usefull thant prayers
damn....thats a pretty bold statement.
yeah man if you dont have anything good to say leave this thread alone.
and you dont have to be "religious" to pray, which is really a form a "meditation" as far as im concerned. you ever heard of common consciousness?? get on that bro
lol i was really trolling this time. as long as scientific medicine is involved, people can probablly dance for chi or do whatever the fuck they want. im a christ for myself, at least i come from a religiuos familiy and havent yet cut this rope. my family will totally hate me when i abondon my religious roots. but im totally not gonna pay extra taxes for the church. i like churches as buildings, but they are good concert halls as well :). im ok with religious believes as long as they dont harm anyone. its really a tolecance in the strongest sence of this word.
so whats common consciousness???
so yeah that was a pretty long text. i just wanted to make sure that im not an ass on every issue^^
Quote from: Nailec on Oct 15, 2009, 11:54 PM
Quote from: wither-I on Oct 15, 2009, 03:29 PM
Quote from: stapezee on Oct 13, 2009, 08:30 PM
Quote from: Nailec on Oct 13, 2009, 08:27 PM
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Oct 09, 2009, 08:14 PM
did you guys read this article? http://www.sacramentopress.com/headline/15033/Yoga_sends_chi_to_Deftones_bassist_in_coma
the one thing in the world that is actually less usefull thant prayers
damn....thats a pretty bold statement.
yeah man if you dont have anything good to say leave this thread alone.
and you dont have to be "religious" to pray, which is really a form a "meditation" as far as im concerned. you ever heard of common consciousness?? get on that bro
lol i was really trolling this time. as long as scientific medicine is involved, people can probablly dance for chi or do whatever the fuck they want. im a christ for myself, at least i come from a religiuos familiy and havent yet cut this rope. my family will totally hate me when i abondon my religious roots. but im totally not gonna pay extra taxes for the church. i like churches as buildings, but they are good concert halls as well :). im ok with religious believes as long as they dont harm anyone. its really a tolecance in the strongest sence of this word.
so whats common consciousness???
so yeah that was a pretty long text. i just wanted to make sure that im not an ass on every issue^^
im praying for chi every night....he needs it
Quote from: Vesanic on Oct 15, 2009, 03:46 PM...
wow.. maybe i need to get more sleep.. geez.. here i am wondering what a fishing charter website has to say about chi.. i didn't snap that you meant oneloveforchi.com --- what a ditz i am!
haha
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Oct 15, 2009, 10:13 PM
Great poster Gina, maybe you should offer various colors?
well.. the idea was to mimic the infamous "one love" bob marley poster.. so.... i don't think we will be doing any other colors..
(http://i38.tinypic.com/fdzpk8.jpg)
thanks everyone.. glad you like it.
one love for chi,
gina
Yep, I got the Marley reference! ;)
gina, why do you always use this picture of chi?
he looks like a mexican drug dealer...
Quote from: ablackswan on Oct 17, 2009, 06:51 AM
gina, why do you always use this picture of chi?
he looks like a mexican drug dealer...
hey.. well it is cuz it is the only one we have close up of him looking forward.. for a poster like this it was the only one we had to use.
one love for chi,
gina
I miss you Chi, keep fighting man. I hope that the oxygen chamber, along with everyone's love and prayers for you, catalyzes your recovery. We all love you and miss you.
Much respect,
-Matt
I've just ordered my oneloveforchi tshirt, I'll be glad to provide a pic when it reaches my door!
International shipping rates are cool now by the way!
Wear my oneloveforchi shirt a lot I guess; there's a bit where the colour has changed haha
Quote from: Martin on Oct 25, 2009, 12:19 AM
Wear my oneloveforchi shirt a lot I guess; there's a bit where the colour has changed haha
aww that sux... is it bad/normal???
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Hell_Tanner on Oct 21, 2009, 06:32 AM
I've just ordered my oneloveforchi tshirt, I'll be glad to provide a pic when it reaches my door!
International shipping rates are cool now by the way!
thanks love!
chengs and myself thank you so much. send us a pic of you wearing it soon!
one love for chi,
gina
benefit for chi
(http://i38.tinypic.com/2hy7wjn.jpg)
Awesome news, awesome poster! That's the special event they were talking about I guess!
How can you see the poster!? All I see is a very tiny poster with a red x....
I can see it..
At last!!
Hoping this to be awesome!!
This is heart warming. The auctions sound interesting!
Not that it matters much... but the accident happened on the 3rd of November not the 2nd. It was a monday and a terribly stormy day. It was also the day before the election.
I thought it was the 4th...today.
From the first post in the thread:
Quote from: jv_ on Nov 04, 2008, 11:52 PM
Deftones Bassist In A Coma - wookubus
(4:13 PM MST 11/04/2008)
Deftones bassist Chi Cheng is currently in a coma following a car crash in Santa Clara, CA yesterday. Initial details are sketchy, but band frontman Chino Moreno has confirmed the situation to the "The Sacramento Bee", who have more details available here (http://www.sacbee.com/1089/story/1370452.html).
to clarify.. it was the 3rd.
one love for chi,
gina
Had a Chi dream last night.
I dreamt that I was on the board and there was videos of how good his progress is coming along. He was talking and making jokes in the videos..it was awesome.
Quote from: shine down unshy on Nov 11, 2009, 05:27 PM
Had a Chi dream last night.
I dreamt that I was on the board and there was videos of how good his progress is coming along. He was talking and making jokes in the videos..it was awesome.
that sounds dope. who posted all the videos in the dream - vesanic right?
Quote from: jesusinabowlofdirt on Nov 12, 2009, 02:40 PM
Quote from: shine down unshy on Nov 11, 2009, 05:27 PM
Had a Chi dream last night.
I dreamt that I was on the board and there was videos of how good his progress is coming along. He was talking and making jokes in the videos..it was awesome.
that sounds dope. who posted all the videos in the dream - vesanic right?
lol
Lolz
that's awesome... hoping for those vids soon.
he was sure trying to tell me something on the phone the other night.. his mom was holding up the phone to his ear so i could talk to him... and he was so talking about something.. i just couldn't make it out.
so he is back to trying to verbalize which is great.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Nov 13, 2009, 09:24 PM
that's awesome... hoping for those vids soon.
he was sure trying to tell me something on the phone the other night.. his mom was holding up the phone to his ear so i could talk to him... and he was so talking about something.. i just couldn't make it out.
so he is back to trying to verbalize which is great.
one love for chi,
gina
that's so great. really made my day. thanks for everything, gina.
Quote from: No More Sugar on Nov 13, 2009, 09:49 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Nov 13, 2009, 09:24 PM
that's awesome... hoping for those vids soon.
he was sure trying to tell me something on the phone the other night.. his mom was holding up the phone to his ear so i could talk to him... and he was so talking about something.. i just couldn't make it out.
so he is back to trying to verbalize which is great.
one love for chi,
gina
ur welcome :)
one love for chi,
gina
that's so great. really made my day. thanks for everything, gina.
By the way, you should really film the two upcoming shows and release them into DVD's to raise more money for Chi.
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That's an awesome idea...
Quote from: Vesanic on Nov 17, 2009, 09:15 PM...
Your video is awesome, and so is your idea :) I'd buy that DVD and also give it as a present, thus upping the sales further.
nice vid vesanique, who you think you are? me (video editing)
dude i would love to make a fan vid of the show on the 19th, if only there were 2 or 3 other guys with decent cams (I'll be recording a few songs with my 12MP cam) and maybe one guy who can record the audio I would totally edit and put together on a DVD with menus and shit. if there's some of you interested send me a PM, lets sync and make it happen.
guess not, the art of the bootleg is dead
Quote from: Vesanic on Nov 17, 2009, 09:15 PM
Hey Gina, sorry for the propaganda attitude, but I think you might like this quick video tribute to Chi I've set up
[youtube=425,350]juiGmaZRH2c[/youtube]
By the way, you should really film the two upcoming shows and release them into DVD's to raise more money for Chi.
hold on while i dry my eyes... wow vesanic.. this is really awesome! i am posting it to the site now and then calling his mom so she can see it.
thanks again so so much. by the way... someone told me they did see video taping at the benefit so they may be planning on that.. hope so.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Vesanic on Nov 21, 2009, 12:04 AM...
yep - just talked to her.. she is going to chk it out...
one love for chi,
gina
I look forward to seeing how much the 2 benefits raised, all in all, - hopefully with a salesnumber of an official dVD :)
Quote from: pixElsblUr on Nov 19, 2009, 12:14 PM
guess not, the art of the bootleg is dead
thanks to youtube.. now i hate it! >:(
Unfortunately I have been way too busy to keep up on Chi's condition. I have donated some money to One Love For Chi. I just can't believe he's been out of it for so long. I miss Deftones. :'(
Quote from: Vesanic on Nov 25, 2009, 09:15 PM...
not chi related... chi is fine.
one love for chi,
gina
Gina. how much money did those 2 deftones shows raise for Chi? plus the auction stuff
Quote from: Hidalgo on Dec 08, 2009, 06:45 PM
Gina. how much money did those 2 deftones shows raise for Chi? plus the auction stuff
i heard 50K at the shows and don't know about the auction yet.
one love for chi,
gina
hey all,
if you are interested in helping me build a street team for chi in your town let me know.. email me at admin@oneloveforchi.com.
one love for chi,
gina
chi update: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/faith-and-gratitude-wow/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/faith-and-gratitude-wow/)
one love for chi,
gina
Thanks for the update Gina! That made my day!
Quote from: stapezee on Dec 21, 2009, 06:27 PM
Thanks for the update Gina! That made my day!
no prob. made my day too.
one love for chi,
gina :)
You mention that doctors ask whether or not chi has grabbed something everyday and that this is good progress. Do you know exactly what kind of good progress this means? Like does that mean a full recovery isn't far behind?
Quote from: defskull on Dec 22, 2009, 01:52 AM
You mention that doctors ask whether or not chi has grabbed something everyday and that this is good progress. Do you know exactly what kind of good progress this means? Like does that mean a full recovery isn't far behind?
it isn't any type of "prognosis" but it is just a good sign.. could mean many things. more details will come as he is further evaluated.
thanks.
one love for chi,
gina
great news for chi again: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/chi-did-it-again/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/chi-did-it-again/)
and momma j included pics of chi...
one love for chi,
gina
Go Chi!
hey all,
sounds like revolver magazine is going to cover the next chi cheng/one love for chi benefit! awesome!
one love for chi,
gina :)
That's great, Gina - publicity is good! More widespread awareness might lead to more donations :) Cool of them to maybe cover it, - more magazines should take notice.
I miss Chi like crazy. Thanks for all the updates Gina, and keep fighting the good fight brother!
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: Sugartolove on Dec 29, 2009, 12:20 AM
That's great, Gina - publicity is good! More widespread awareness might lead to more donations :) Cool of them to maybe cover it, - more magazines should take notice.
hope so. we need all the exposure we can get.
;)
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Dec 30, 2009, 01:02 PM
I miss Chi like crazy. Thanks for all the updates Gina, and keep fighting the good fight brother!
Much respect,
-Matt
you are welcome :)
one love for chi,
gina
i know it isn't their responsibility in any way, but has management done anything to support cheng? did they put together the benefit shows or something? i don't know who would know that answer, maybe you, Gina?
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Jan 06, 2010, 12:06 AM
i know it isn't their responsibility in any way, but has management done anything to support cheng? did they put together the benefit shows or something? i don't know who would know that answer, maybe you, Gina?
they put together the deftones benefit for chi and that auction... this next one coming up at slidebar danny hill has been helping me organize... it is a oneloveforchi.com event.
one love for chi,
gina
If the guys toured... and tried to raise money for Chi.. would that not be a beneficial thing? They could make money like crazy all over the US from the fans at these shows!!
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jan 06, 2010, 04:07 AM
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Jan 06, 2010, 12:06 AM
i know it isn't their responsibility in any way, but has management done anything to support cheng? did they put together the benefit shows or something? i don't know who would know that answer, maybe you, Gina?
they put together the deftones benefit for chi and that auction... this next one coming up at slidebar danny hill has been helping me organize... it is a oneloveforchi.com event.
ok cool, that's good to hear. i didn't know if management was responsible or if those artists were just playing on their own will with money out of their own pockets... well that's good.
Quote from: White Pwny on Jan 06, 2010, 09:49 PM
If the guys toured... and tried to raise money for Chi.. would that not be a beneficial thing? They could make money like crazy all over the US from the fans at these shows!!
and soon enough they will.. expect a tour, obviously, sometime in the first half of next year... maybe they could have tip jars around the venues haha
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Jan 07, 2010, 02:13 AM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jan 06, 2010, 04:07 AM
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Jan 06, 2010, 12:06 AM
i know it isn't their responsibility in any way, but has management done anything to support cheng? did they put together the benefit shows or something? i don't know who would know that answer, maybe you, Gina?
they put together the deftones benefit for chi and that auction... this next one coming up at slidebar danny hill has been helping me organize... it is a oneloveforchi.com event.
ok cool, that's good to hear. i didn't know if management was responsible or if those artists were just playing on their own will with money out of their own pockets... well that's good.
Quote from: White Pwny on Jan 06, 2010, 09:49 PM
If the guys toured... and tried to raise money for Chi.. would that not be a beneficial thing? They could make money like crazy all over the US from the fans at these shows!!
and soon enough they will.. expect a tour, obviously, sometime in the first half of next year... maybe they could have tip jars around the venues haha
Tour in Feb.
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Jan 07, 2010, 02:13 AM
Quote from: White Pwny on Jan 06, 2010, 09:49 PM
If the guys toured... and tried to raise money for Chi.. would that not be a beneficial thing? They could make money like crazy all over the US from the fans at these shows!!
and soon enough they will.. expect a tour, obviously, sometime in the first half of next year... maybe they could have tip jars around the venues haha
Seriously! People from every show would show support for Chi!!
Quote from: White Pwny on Jan 10, 2010, 09:28 AM
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Jan 07, 2010, 02:13 AM
Quote from: White Pwny on Jan 06, 2010, 09:49 PM
If the guys toured... and tried to raise money for Chi.. would that not be a beneficial thing? They could make money like crazy all over the US from the fans at these shows!!
and soon enough they will.. expect a tour, obviously, sometime in the first half of next year... maybe they could have tip jars around the venues haha
Seriously! People from every show would show support for Chi!!
sounds good to me! ;)
one love for chi,
gina
hey all... sittin here with chi... he is sittin up in a chair WIDE AWAKE and we are hanging out. i am going to do some reading to him... so if anyone has anything they want me to tell him i'll be reading from this page http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/letters-to-chi/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/letters-to-chi/) so just post your message to him in the comments section.
one love for chi,
gina
Wait, did I just read that right?
He has sleeping patterns... meaning, you can clearly tell when he is sleeping or awake. Heck, sometimes though when I thought he was awake, he'd start to snore so I knew he was actually still in a sleeping pattern but then there are times when his eyes are open very wide and they look clear and he looks around at his surroundings and will focus on you and look right into your eyes and sound like he is trying to say something. I haven't seen him since the skull flap surgery though so as to his current state... it sounds like he is finally back to where he was the last I'd seen him... clearly awake when not sleeping and able to say a word or two and make a lot of noises. Which is a relief! Was going to be there next week but these storms are keeping me homebound. grrrr.
So the term "awake" has little to do with a person coming out of a coma. Again, it's not like the movies... there are many levels of consciousness to travel through as an injured brain heals. He's on a slow trip back as all those circuits reconnect in that noggin of his. :) This latest progress, him being able to say Mom again, is encouraging.
sitting here with chi watching pinapple express.. he kept trying to sit up for awhile.. he dozed off just now. but when we got back from the benefit i was telling him all about it and he was focused on me. the new docs are amazing and they sound very hopeful for improvement and their goal is recovery for chi. i am going to work on a blog all about the event and chi etc and post it asap.. but for now i am just going to hang with him.
one love for chi,
gina
Great stuff Gina. I can't tell you with words how much these updates mean to me.
Much respect,
-Matt
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jan 18, 2010, 08:45 AM
sitting here with chi watching pinapple express..
hahahahaha that made me smile, and this is so enlightening to me. It feels great to know that miracles can happen.
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Jan 19, 2010, 06:32 AM
Great stuff Gina. I can't tell you with words how much these updates mean to me.
Much respect,
-Matt
you are welcome. i am back home now and already miss hanging with him. i am working on a blog with all the details... he is doing good.
one love for chi,
gina
here is the doc i found from nj that is going to help chi.. he came to our benefit for chi.. YouTube - Broadcast Yourself. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuEcU-XPphU#)
[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuEcU-XPphU[/youtube]
one love for chi,
gina
tales from our trip to see chi and updates on doc visit: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/updates-wasabi-love-and-more/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/updates-wasabi-love-and-more/)
one love for chi,
gina
Haven't seen any new updates, How's Chi doing?
yea that lady stopped doing updates on the site. WTF??! i thought she was going to be commited? maybe there is no news to report.
chi cant wait fer ya to pick up the bass again bro, pull thru!
-adriel
Quote from: ghettovaquero on Mar 24, 2010, 08:15 PM
yea that lady stopped doing updates on the site. WTF??! i thought she was going to be commited? maybe there is no news to report.
Easy Bro, her name is Gina and she has a family and lives in Texas where as Chi is in Cali. I actually sent her a message a week ago and she said she was hoping to blog something new soon. I just don't know what. I feel your frustration with the lack of updates. You may be right about no new news. But any update would be welcome to us all I am sure.
I noticed the funds raised have been around $90K for well over a month with no real movement up.
I want our "boy" back!!!!
yea your right man. im frustrated and just wanna know something. Chi please wake up!!!!
Quote from: 976-EVIL on Mar 24, 2010, 10:39 PM
Quote from: ghettovaquero on Mar 24, 2010, 08:15 PM
yea that lady stopped doing updates on the site. WTF??! i thought she was going to be commited? maybe there is no news to report.
Easy Bro, her name is Gina and she has a family and lives in Texas where as Chi is in Cali. I actually sent her a message a week ago and she said she was hoping to blog something new soon. I just don't know what. I feel your frustration with the lack of updates. You may be right about no new news. But any update would be welcome to us all I am sure.
I noticed the funds raised have been around $90K for well over a month with no real movement up.
I want our "boy" back!!!!
yea, the funds have slowed down. $100,000 might be the max out. which is amazing really. that's bigtime cash. i never thought it would reach 1,000 at first.
i miss the updates. i've read every one
lady? argh you make feel so old! :-\
believe me.. you can ask any cheng and they will tell you i am beyond commited. and ya.. alot of times there is nothing new to report. i talk to the family daily if not every other day and alot of times nothing is really new. the recovery is a long slow process. i'm sorry there isn't more to report.
i've got a few things to share and will have it up sometime tomorrow.
thanks so much for the support.
one love for chi,
gina
i don't know about anyone else, Gina, but i, personally, appreciate everything you're doing to help Chi and his family. It takes a lot of time and dedication to do what you have done. it's amazing.
i just keep praying for good news, as are most of us. and in this case, no news is not good news.
Quote from: janie13 on Mar 30, 2010, 12:54 PM
i don't know about anyone else, Gina, but i, personally, appreciate everything you're doing to help Chi and his family. It takes a lot of time and dedication to do what you have done. it's amazing.
i just keep praying for good news, as are most of us. and in this case, no news is not good news.
Sorry for the double post guys.
I think most of us feel the same as you Janie.
By the way.......do you have a gun?
thanks guys... it is a labor of love... love for chi and the impression he leaves on me when i am around him... before the accident and even more now. he makes me strive to be a better person.
here is the latest guys: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/sitting-beside-a-miracle/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/sitting-beside-a-miracle/)
one love for chi,
gina
much love ;D
Quote from: 976-EVIL on Apr 01, 2010, 03:53 AM
Sorry for the double post guys.
I think most of us feel the same as you Janie.
By the way.......do you have a gun?
No honey, just a sawed off Louisville Slugger. ;)
NICE !!!!!
Get well Chi!!! We all miss you. Watched "music in high places" again yesterday after many years and it sunk in more than ever how much you mean to this band, it's following and the world. Love u Chi, be strong brother.
chk it: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/just-talked-to-chi/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/just-talked-to-chi/)
one love for chi,
gina
Good to hear from you Gina. Still think of our boy everyday.
Kinda of a bitter sweet day for most Deftones fans. Excited about new music but wishing Chi was playing it.
Please continue your efforts, they are appreciated more than you know!
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 04, 2010, 11:08 PM
chk it: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/just-talked-to-chi/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/just-talked-to-chi/)
one love for chi,
gina
I'm so glad to know that he's making progress. my prayers are sent to him everyday. thank you Gina.
this sux: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/my-brother-and-chi/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/my-brother-and-chi/)
one love for chi,
gina
She hasn't posted it on here yet I don't think but I know they are trying to raise 20k in two weeks to keep Chi's doctor. There is more details on the website. One love for Chi!
Matt for OneLoveForChi.com (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JLjCT6osUkQ#)
One love. Spread the word!
Lots of people are pulling together right now, since we have to raise $20 000 for Chi in just two weeks.
Check my girl Sal's auction for Chi....
If anyone wants to bid on it, message me and I'll pass the bids on to her.
My write up on my Facebook Chi page.. "Chi urgently needs all the funds we can raise for him - Sal is auctioning this rare guitar pick she recieved at a recent Soulfly concert. Please place a bid by sending me a message that I'll pass on to Sal - and let's make it happen for Chi.
Soon to be auctioned on the oneloveforchi.com website - - A unique setlist from the recent FANTASTIC secret Deftones show at ULU, London - SIGNED by all the current bandmembers!! Watch this space!"
(http://i369.photobucket.com/albums/oo139/Methodicallymental/Soulflyguitarpick.jpg)
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/when-he-came-in-he-took-one-look-at-dai-and-was-floored/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/when-he-came-in-he-took-one-look-at-dai-and-was-floored/)
When he came in, he took one look at dai and was floored!
"hey family
just wanted to take a minute to drop a line and share some good news that we got yesterday. first though, i want to send all my love to the olsem family for their loss. i can't think of anything that can be said that would help, it just should never have happened. you know, when i was younger, i never thought too much about buckling up. for me it was mostly to avoid getting a ticket. it never occurred to me that it might save my life when some idiot high on whatever, smashes into me. i feel differently now. i look over at dai lying there, looking back at me, i think about the pain ben's family and his girl feel that will never fully heal, i think of the kid who will be charged with manslaughter and have to live with knowing what he did. let's do everyone that loves us a simple favor and try to not let this happen again. i can say from experience, it does happen, you won't see it coming, so just be careful and live like it might. BUCKLE UP!
alright, enough preaching from me. we went to dr. nguyen yesterday. our last appointment was 4/30/10, so he saw dai 3 wks ago. when he saw him last, not much had changed. just a regular visit. well, yesterday when he came in, he took one look at dai and was floored. he couldn't believe it. he saw a man waking up, that most dr. would look at and say there is now hope. when i first approached him about being onboard with the protocol, he was apprehensive. we had finally got dai under control with the storming and now we want to put him on stimulating meds? he feels very different about it now. and the best part is that dai is only on the first new medication. here is the progress note he made about the visit:
PT IS SHOWING IMPROVED NEURO FUNCTION AND IMPROVED ALERTNESS AT THIS TIME. LIKELY ALL FROM HIS RECENT INITIATION OF THALAMIC STIMULATION PROTOCOL FROM INTERNATIONAL BRAIN RESEARCH FOUNDATION. INCREASED RESPONSE TO VERBAL STIMULI. DIRECTED MOVEMENT, WITH PURPOSE SEEN AND OBSERVED.
needless to say, we were pretty elated yesterday. sometimes being home with dai, it's hard to see progress because we are with him everyday. but for someone that doesn't see him everyday, there is a big difference. and this is just the beginning. when we first started the protocol, i was afraid to be hopeful because of the crushing disappointment that would happen if it didn't work, but now i can see it happening. and we have just started. earlier this week i wrote the protocol all the way out on a calendar and figured out when we would be done the first phase. it will be done in september. if this is what we are seeing already, what will we see dai doing in 4 months? i guess we will find out.
as always, thanks again for the support and love. ~mae"
:)
:)
Awesome.
That just made my day! Great news
in a world of bad news i'm thanking you for some good news and praying more is on the way.
http://www.sharinglungs.com/index.php/topic,16887.0.html (http://www.sharinglungs.com/index.php/topic,16887.0.html)
One love!
Man I really long for the day when Chi is "really" back with us. Stay positive!
hey guys... chk out the new posters i put up:
(http://oneloveforchi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/4-300x119.jpg)
ebay links:
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170491368813 (http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170491368813)
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170491370617 (http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170491370617)
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170491371441 (http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170491371441)
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170491372812 (http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170491372812)
one love for chi,
gina
hey all...
i lowered the price of this poster to $10.00:
(http://i49.tinypic.com/o79ge8.jpg)
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170490322014 (http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170490322014)
please spread the word about all these items.
thanks!
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on May 27, 2010, 06:18 PM
hey all...
i lowered the price of this poster to $10.00:
(http://i49.tinypic.com/o79ge8.jpg)
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170490322014 (http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170490322014)
please spread the word about all these items.
thanks!
one love for chi,
gina
Gina, is one love for chi having facebook? if not, it really should.
http://www.causes.com/causes/257335?as_id=804323&as_type=Sharing&recruiter_id=7200487& (http://www.causes.com/causes/257335?as_id=804323&as_type=Sharing&recruiter_id=7200487&)
This is the Facebook the site links to, on Causes.
Quote from: Sugartolove on May 30, 2010, 09:32 PM
http://www.causes.com/causes/257335?as_id=804323&as_type=Sharing&recruiter_id=7200487& (http://www.causes.com/causes/257335?as_id=804323&as_type=Sharing&recruiter_id=7200487&)
This is the Facebook the site links to, on Causes.
yep that's it.. our one love for chi FB page... :) thanks love..
so busy - haven't had a chance to pop in here!
hi all!
one love for chi,
gina
New item to be auctioned off for Chi - from Jonah Matranga
It will be featured on this Auction page, where we had the Deftones setlist recently. http://www.facebook.com/auctionpageforchicheng (http://www.facebook.com/auctionpageforchicheng)
And on the oneloveforchi site when Gina comes back from visiting Chi in 2 weeks.
Setlist signed by Jonah Matranga from the Barfly show in London, UK, June 10
Jonah says:
QuoteAnyone coming to a show or bidding... I make these up every night, so make sure to send or say ideas, and I'll figure out what the set is, write it out and sign it after I've played :) Then, if you win the bid, you've sort of made the set with me as well. Thanks to all the great folks at the various sites helping Chi's family.
"Jonah Matranga is touring the UK right now!
Matranga is the singer in the reunited Sacramento band Far, who recently released a new album, "At Night We Live." Jonah sings a song for Chi on this album, as they are long time friends.
Jonah is now doing a solo tour, as he writes and performs his own music and releases his own CDs. He played Birmingham on June 06, and will play several dates leading up to his show at the Barfly, London, on June 10. As the kind and generous artist he is, he has agreed to donate a signed set list for his London show at the Barfly!
Jonah is a fantastic singer; he has a passionate style with the ability to make the songs very personal. As people worldwide rejoice that Far has reunited and Kerrang rewarded their CD with 4 out of 5 K's – You are in for a big treat if you have tickets to any of Jonah's solo performances!
• Monday 07.06.10 Trillian's Princess Square, Newcastle
• Tuesday 08. 06 10 The Ruby Lounge, Manchester
• Wednesday 09.06.10 Barfly Cardiff
• Thursday 10.06.10 Barfly Camden, London
Friday 11.06.10 The Forum, Tunbridge Wells
Some reviews:
• "One of music's most charismatic, tuneful, purist geeks..." -ENTERTAINMENT WEEKLY
• "It is this comfort level and humility that surrounds Matranga and makes you fall in love with him, despite the fact that you've never met" -CHATTANOOGAN.COM
• "His intimate sets can last hours, when the lovable, neurotic rock geek interjects compelling and playful banter between - and sometimes during - songs." - MEANSTREET
• "One of the most influential artists out there." – INTERPUNK.COM
To show what a special artist he is, go to his website, www.jonahmatranga.com (http://www.jonahmatranga.com) - where you as a fan can get to post suggestions for songs he will perform, if you post them to him at least a day in advance.. This way you can sign up to be on the guest list and get a reward by showing up at the merch table.
Place a bid on Jonah's signed setlist by messaging this page, and it will be up on Chi's Auction page and on the oneloveforchi.com website shortly. (When Gina returns from visiting Chi) Get a great piece of music history while helping Chi out at the same time!
Bids start on £30
One love for Chi - Always"
If any Jonah/Far fans or anybody who would like to donate to Chi would like to place a bid - message me.
Thank you :)
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/wow-what-a-day/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/wow-what-a-day/) :)
one love for chi,
gina
chi cheng update:
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/wow-what-a-day/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/wow-what-a-day/)
momma j and i are having long island teas to celebrate!!!!
one love for chi,
gina
miss you brother, get well!
thats to sad his pictures.... I love you chi and miss you brother. I'm going to drink a beer in your name right now brother!
Quote from: Vesanic on Jun 10, 2010, 05:41 AM...
I was just thinking that.... I really don't see him playing again. I'm sorry. I love him to death and want him back. But i don't see it happening.
Sounds like he's really improving. Good for u Chi! Keep Fighting Brother! Thanks Gina. Your Amazing!
so fucking sad pictures.... but we love u chi...
Positive and completely heartbreaking at the same time.
Stay strong Chi and thanks again Gina.
Damn - these pictures are scary. At least he looks awake. He'll pull through - I'm with you, Chi.
Love you Chi! Keep fighting, you have some great people waiting to get a big hug from you man.
Much respect,
-Matt
Damn, I can hardly recognize him.
Gina - I don't know if this has already been confirmed, but have the doctors said anything about the possibility of his brain being damaged?
Quote from: theis on Jun 10, 2010, 11:57 AM
Damn, I can hardly recognize him.
Gina - I don't know if this has already been confirmed, but have the doctors said anything about the possibility of his brain being damaged?
do not understand?! his brain IS damaged. this is why he needed surgery and therapy.
What I meant was if the damage will have any effect on his life in the future? Like, having disabilities.
this makes me both sad and happy at the same time.
Quote from: theis on Jun 10, 2010, 12:03 PM
having disabilities.
this is about what is going on right now. he suffered substantial damage to his brain which now basically needs to reassemble and reconnect, in super basic terms. it's like he has to learn everything over. Movement, speech, abstraction, whathaveyou - It really comes down to how bad the injury was and how good the healing/rewiring of the brain will go. Could be that some parts of his brain are damaged beyond repair, which would mean that only serious rerouting (again, super layman terms) would help compensate the loss - which may or may not happen.
you may have noticed his eyes are a little askew now, which is one possible sign of significant brain trauma.
He was asking if the doctors have identified pertinent brain damage yet, or if it is still unclear. Don't answer questions if you don't even understand what is being asked. Not on this subject anyways. No shit he has brain damage, Theis knows that. He was asking if it was permanent or recoverable.
Quote from: Variable on Jun 10, 2010, 12:48 PM
He was asking if the doctors have identified pertinent brain damage yet, or if it is still unclear. Don't answer questions if you don't even understand what is being asked. Not on this subject anyways. No shit he has brain damage, Theis knows that. He was asking if it was permanent or recoverable.
what i said was that there already is permanent damage, so no way to tell if he will one day "recover". what's with the aggressive tone, anyway?
Because you obviously didn't understand the question, and this is just a sensitive subject for some of us. Maybe best to just keep your mouth shut if you don't know what you are talking about. He asked that question to a specific person because she would actually know, not speculate.
Anyways though, sorry if this derailed this topic at all. I'm really happy to hear that Chi seems to be making improvements. Thank you for the pics.
Quote from: Variable on Jun 10, 2010, 01:20 PM
Because you obviously didn't understand the question, and this is just a sensitive subject for some of us. Maybe best to just keep your mouth shut if you don't know what you are talking about. He asked that question to a specific person because she would actually know, not speculate.
Anyways though, sorry if this derailed this topic at all. I'm really happy to hear that Chi seems to be making improvements. Thank you for the pics.
Wow, for a sensitive topic you are making quite a fuss...
dude, just PM me if you have anything else to say.
stfu variable. he was just responding to a question. I would have said a similar thing.
Good news but those pictures are just disturbing as hell.
I'm not going to lie, they made me sad. I like that first pic that was posted in this topic though. I don't know if he was actually grabbing at her arm. But that's what it looked like to me, so to see him making cognitive movements is cool.
OMFG........ !!!! i wanna cry!! :'(
mixed feelings..... glad to se him fully awake but scaried at the same time......
Thanks Gina for the updates, I only wish Chi would fully recover to thank to you personally with a BIG huge :)
Thank you for the pictures. I'm so happy to hear he's making progress!
I don't know if I totally agree to have Chi filmed. Maybe he won't want people to see him in this state he's in. I know I wouldn't!
hey guys...
ok... look....
for those of you who just jump right in and say "great progress.. keep going chi" and focus on that.. THANK YOU! chi thanks you and those are the only comments i am going to read to him.
i have to tell you... looking at him now.. compared to the first time i came out here after his accident... he has made major progress. i guess you guys would have to know where he came from to know these pictures are in no way sad.
for those who are discussing his ability or inability to ever be on stage again to grace us with his presence.. i say "who f'in cares??" i really don't care if he ever wants to get on stage again. do i selfishly want to see that man back on stage? yes! but this isn't about me. it's about chi and supporting him thru his recovery so HE can decide what he wants to do with the rest of his life. hell maybe he'll just want to focus on writing. i don't care what he does.. i will always he a fan of chi's.. and his friend forever.
when i am sitting here with him i see a man emerging... nothing less. he is fighting his ass off and it is great to be around him. his presence is still amazing - just the same as him being my favorite tone to watch on stage.
i didn't post the pictures so you could feel sad/scared for him or pity his situtation. the pictures show progress. just me telling people that he is NOT in a coma state.. i could not get thru to people cuz the last and only picture of him since the accident his eyes were closed so i guess alot of people still consider him in a coma state... well he isn't. he spends his day awake and he woke my ass up 2 times last nite... so hell he was "awake" more then i was yesterday.
and what cain said.. he is right. the parts of his brain that may have had some damage and the functions they control will need to be remapped so another part of the brain can continue to take over those functions. this is what defina's protocol does. to what level will he recover? nobody has a crystal ball.. but i am sticking in his corner to make sure he gets everything he needs to make the best recovery possible. why? the man deserves it. most people would have given up already.. chi isn't giving up and neither am i!
the docs did this test yesterday that measures levels of consciousness and it ranges from 1-100 with 100 being the highest. anything over 90 is considered normal like you and i. he was ranging 97-98! so yes.. he is "awake". now it is just time for lots of speech and physical therapy. the docs still need to go over the data from the tests that were done but they did the same series of tests that were done the first time and thompson told me he can tell that his brain has improved. so his brain is healing. maybe not as fast as we would all like it to.. but we have to be patient because chi is being tremendously patient.
chi will be getting a series of mri scans soon that will tell us more in depth what kind of damage (permentant or not) there is. but even so.. the docs i found for him have methods to "reroute" and "remap" the functions of the damaged areas. there are also areas lying "dormant" that just need to be revived so to say. the protocol will accomplish this.
traumatic brain injury recovery is not an over night thing.. slow slow process. he can take all the time in the world as far as we're concerned.
the docs, chengs and myself feel confident he will make a miraculous recovery.
one love for chi,
gina
That is really awesome news. I had no idea he had made that much of a recovery already. Thanks for the update.
Quote from: Variable on Jun 10, 2010, 08:32 PM
That is really awesome news. I had no idea he had made that much of a recovery already. Thanks for the update.
leaps and bounds! seriously.. you would had to have seen him right after the accident to understand just how much recovry has been made.
one love for chi,
gina
I can only imagine. If you get a chance be sure to tell him that we all love him and are supporting him. Thanks again.
Yes we do all love him. Can't wait to see him on stage again!
well spoken, gina. I always get sad when I think of Chi's situation and seeing pictures of him doesn't help. it's inevitable. but trust me, I feel more happy than sad when I read your updates. especially this one. and I completely agree, the thought of him returning to the band isn't even in my head any more. and I hope it's the same for him and the other members - I hope everyone simply supports him enough to get him back on his feet instead of concentrating on getting him back on stage.
People under estimate the power of the human brain. Chi he is pretty much starting out back at square 1 with his speech and motor functions. My cousin had this same road ahead of her after a massive car wreck that left her in pretty much this same state.
Get well chi.
I am so, so grateful for your update, Gina. My heart is with him, you, and his entire network of family and friends. I've been through something familiar with my family, so this situation hits close to home for me. Like you said, his increased level of consciousness is evident of a remarkable recovery, and while I don't think anyone should underestimate the gravity of the situation, we shouldn't let ourselves dwell and be lost in it. He is in recovery, and it's a long, gradual process, but it's a positive one.
He is surrounded with love from so many people. Please wish him the best, and while I'd also love to see him on stage, I would love even more to see him smile into the camera and tell everyone how he's kicked ass during this time.
-- Mina
i hope he gets better
wow, really good news, gina.. i'm gonna donate some money in a bit..
so after seeing these pictures, does he look at you when you talk like he's listening, or is he just kinda dazing out there? like how is he reacting to everything? is he aware of what's going on?
Great news! Thanks for the update. :)
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Jun 11, 2010, 12:43 AM
wow, really good news, gina.. i'm gonna donate some money in a bit..
so after seeing these pictures, does he look at you when you talk like he's listening, or is he just kinda dazing out there? like how is he reacting to everything? is he aware of what's going on?
i was just sitting next to him talking to him and ya.. he looks right into my eyes. when i show him things to look at he scans it with his eyes totally checking it out.
one love for chi,
gina
This is great news! Traumatic brain injuries are always unpredictable and progress is always hard to gauge, but in Chi's case it looks like a dramatic improvement! All we can do is keep sending good vibes his way. He will always be the Deftones' brother regardless of their bass player situation so the most important thing is that his brain is functioning at a conscious level now.
Thank you for keeping us updated!
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jun 11, 2010, 02:52 AM
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Jun 11, 2010, 12:43 AM
wow, really good news, gina.. i'm gonna donate some money in a bit..
so after seeing these pictures, does he look at you when you talk like he's listening, or is he just kinda dazing out there? like how is he reacting to everything? is he aware of what's going on?
i was just sitting next to him talking to him and ya.. he looks right into my eyes. when i show him things to look at he scans it with his eyes totally checking it out.
one love for chi,
gina
Great news, I admire what you're doing so much.
Deftones - Be Quiet And Drive (HFStival) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bl1x2oGtiy4#)
miss you ..1.39 'nuff said
why are they bleeping out the "FARRRR"s on that video?? did they think they were saying fuck?? haha fucking mtv...
Chi can decapitate someone with that bass hahah
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Jun 11, 2010, 05:35 PM
why are they bleeping out the "FARRRR"s on that video?? did they think they were saying fuck?? haha fucking mtv...
mtv is employing monkeys for the editing/montage...
Quote from: gunsrazorsknives on Jun 10, 2010, 05:50 AMQuote from: Vesanic on Jun 10, 2010, 05:41 AM...
I was just thinking that.... I really don't see him playing again. I'm sorry. I love him to death and want him back. But i don't see it happening.
I do.
Also, considering Hemp Oil cures cancer, I wonder if that would help his brain recovery.
Quote from: Variable on Jun 10, 2010, 08:32 PM
That is really awesome news. I had no idea he had made that much of a recovery already. Thanks for the update.
Me neither. Thats great. Good to know he is fighting. Thanks for the heads up Gina!
Awesome. News like this always makes my day. Thank you once again Gina for sharing this wonderful information with us! I can't to have Chi back. On stage or not.
Quote from: Vesanic on Jun 10, 2010, 05:41 AM
Don't know if we'll ever see the guy onstage again, but fuck he's doing better.
Quote from: gunsrazorsknives on Jun 10, 2010, 05:50 AM
Quote from: Vesanic on Jun 10, 2010, 05:41 AM
Don't know if we'll ever see the guy onstage again, but fuck he's doing better.
I was just thinking that.... I really don't see him playing again. I'm sorry. I love him to death and want him back. But i don't see it happening.
LAME! you guys have a right to your opinion but shit dude...have some fucking faith
shit fucking pisses me off hearing that shit
Quote from: stoneFeD on Jun 13, 2010, 07:48 PM
shit fucking pisses me off hearing that shit
Don't let it bother you, peope with such doubts clearly doubt everything else in their lives. It consumes them, don't let it consume you man :)
Lol, dude I just said I don't know if we will ever see him onstage again, it's not like I said he will die or something.
Quote from: Vesanic on Jun 13, 2010, 09:36 PM
Lol, dude I just said I don't know if we will ever see him onstage again, it's not like I said he will die or something.
right? i sat here and typed up a good paragraph or so but changed my mind 'cause i thought y'all would take it the wrong way...
no i don't see him rocking on stage again, but that doesn't mean he's not going to be here...
he has more on his mind than a fucking band, he has a wife (or ex wife or whatever) and kids... just pray that he gets out of this shit well, physically and financially... would i want to see him jam with his band? fuck yeah, who wouldn't? but that's a little selfish... just be glad that he made it as far as he has after the tragedy and hope that he continues to recover as well as he has... cheng's a strong dude... we all know he will make it out of this well, but to bitch 'cause he might not play bass again with deftones is fucked up... if music or the arts is cheng's shit then i'm sure he'll find something that he can do in this field.. but jumping around headbaning - i don't think so...
tell me if i sound fucked up for that...
hey all,
new update on chi's progress: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/fu-ya-ya-ya/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/fu-ya-ya-ya/)
one love for chi, :D
gina
hey all,
new update on chi's progress: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/fu-ya-ya-ya/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/fu-ya-ya-ya/)
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jun 14, 2010, 07:31 PM
hey all,
new update on chi's progress: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/fu-ya-ya-ya/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/fu-ya-ya-ya/)
one love for chi,
gina
Sounds very promising.
Thanks for the update Gina....
awesome!
Great news, nice to see Chi making progress, looks like this new protocol is really working out =)
Cool beans
Great Stuff!! Keep it up Cheng. Always in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks Gina! Much love
;D
Go go doctors!!!
Kia hora te marino, kia whakapapa pounamu te moana,
Kia tere karohirohi i mua i tou huarahi.
Kia kaha and much love to Chi and the whanau.
I also had similar experiences with a family member around the time this went down and wish their collective family all the best.
hey guys,
thanks for all the love and support for chi. it is appreciated.
i don't put anything past this man as far as what he will or won't be able to do. he is working hard. just this morning i told him "you know everyday moment by moment you are getting better and better?" and he answered me... "ya".
i'll be blogging later to let you all know how today goes.
he's making noises now so i am going to go see what he has to say...
one love for chi,
gina
I'm laughing here, because this is so fuckin' amazing and exciting!! Keep at it Chi, as long as it takes! :D
Quote from: Subliminal on Jun 15, 2010, 10:11 PM
I'm laughing here, because this is so fuckin' amazing and exciting!! Keep at it Chi, as long as it takes! :D
Same here. The progress he's making is really fantastic and...well, inspirational, to be honest. Amazing news.
it puts a smile in my face reading this last news about Chi =)
hey all,
i'm going to be reading him some of the messages sent to chi on the one love site.. so if you have anything you want me to tell him for you.. just post it here: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/letters-to-chi/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/letters-to-chi/)
thanks so much for your love and support for chi!
one love for chi,
gina
hey all,
i'm going to be reading him some of the messages sent to chi on the one love site.. so if you have anything you want me to tell him for you.. just post it here: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/letters-to-chi/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/letters-to-chi/)
thanks so much for your love and support for chi!
one love for chi,
gina
I had a dream Chi woke up last night and was like, "yeah man, no biggy, I just snapped out of it I guess." Haha, he was just doing his Chi thing, it was very odd. Anywho, just thought I'd mention it, it was very vivid. Keep fighting Chi, it'll all be a memory soon!
Much respect,
-Matt
i had a dream kinda like that too, he was like 90%, chillin in the hospital playing his bass, and talking 90% fine, and walkin 90%. i was thinking "is anyone else seeing this, why am i the only one amazed?" cause the rest of the band was there and gina etc, and they acted like it was old news how much he recovered, and they sorta ignored it, but he'd only been like that for 1 day, after almost 2 years
Yeah, that's just how mine was. I was like "Chi man, when did this happen!?" And he was like "Yeah, just today," like it was no big deal. It was very weird, he was playing his bass and getting ready for the stage again. Did you have this dream last night as well--that would be erie.
Much respect,
-Matt
Chi, I have followed your progress since day one! I want to say, you are in my thoughts and prayers! Please stay strong, and my god be with you on your road to recovery!
And to Chi's mom, please stay strong! Your family has ALOT of POSITIVE energy going your way! I will send you some everyday!
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Jun 18, 2010, 02:03 AM
Yeah, that's just how mine was. I was like "Chi man, when did this happen!?" And he was like "Yeah, just today," like it was no big deal. It was very weird, he was playing his bass and getting ready for the stage again. Did you have this dream last night as well--that would be erie.
Much respect,
-Matt
that is so awesome! alot of people have been having similar dreams.
update coming soon.. test results in from the docs and things are looking good. :)
one love for chi,
gina
There are no such thing as coincidences, you guys are clearly seeing a glimpse of things to come!! :)
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jun 18, 2010, 04:35 PM
Quote from: Jesus2Chino on Jun 18, 2010, 02:03 AM
Yeah, that's just how mine was. I was like "Chi man, when did this happen!?" And he was like "Yeah, just today," like it was no big deal. It was very weird, he was playing his bass and getting ready for the stage again. Did you have this dream last night as well--that would be erie.
Much respect,
-Matt
that is so awesome! alot of people have been having similar dreams.
update coming soon.. test results in from the docs and things are looking good. :)
one love for chi,
gina
im looking forward for that
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After asking for his son/family, I bet he will ask for a beer! :)
After reading this thread I had the same dream as some people here have had. What the hell!
Quote from: raynor on Jun 21, 2010, 01:31 PM
After reading this thread I had the same dream as some people here have had. What the hell!
i hope hes straight. Maybe all he needs is chinos voice to make him snap right back into his old self. Maybe kimdracula will do.:)
Quote from: yourwaves on Jun 21, 2010, 02:21 PM
Quote from: raynor on Jun 21, 2010, 01:31 PM
After reading this thread I had the same dream as some people here have had. What the hell!
i hope hes straight. Maybe all he needs is chinos voice to make him snap right back into his old self. Maybe kimdracula will do.:)
lol... that made me laugh
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jun 15, 2010, 09:20 PM
hey guys,
thanks for all the love and support for chi. it is appreciated.
i don't put anything past this man as far as what he will or won't be able to do. he is working hard. just this morning i told him "you know everyday moment by moment you are getting better and better?" and he answered me... "ya".
i'll be blogging later to let you all know how today goes.
he's making noises now so i am going to go see what he has to say...
one love for chi,
gina
I go back and forth in regards to giving up faith on this situation, and reading this really helped me keep the faith. chills and tears over here.
Quote from: skinnypuppy on Jul 01, 2010, 09:44 PM
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jun 15, 2010, 09:20 PM
hey guys,
thanks for all the love and support for chi. it is appreciated.
i don't put anything past this man as far as what he will or won't be able to do. he is working hard. just this morning i told him "you know everyday moment by moment you are getting better and better?" and he answered me... "ya".
i'll be blogging later to let you all know how today goes.
he's making noises now so i am going to go see what he has to say...
one love for chi,
gina
I go back and forth in regards to giving up faith on this situation, and reading this really helped me keep the faith. chills and tears over here.
you can't give up hope OR FAITH... the man has fought thru more battles in this then i care to count. he seems to be on a mission... and i am certain it is to get back to his son.
one love for chi,
gina
How old is Chi's son? I wasn't aware he had any children.
I think about Chi all the time.
I met him only once, the day after White Pony was released, at a record signing at Tower Records in Cherry Hill, New Jersey, when i was 16 years old. (I'll have to find the pic and post it)
They had played on Letterman the night before, and were going to play that night at the Electric Factory in Philadelphia(right over the bridge from my town, Cherry Hill)
I had a ticket to the show, and had bought White Pony the day before. I listened to it all day. : )
I got REALLY lucky, because my uncle was a vice president of Tower Records (by coincidence lived in Sacramento at the time as well), and my Mom worked at the Cherry Hill store!
I knew about the signing in advance, and even though my Mom was going to be out of town that day, she set it up so that i could be in the store when the gang arrived, and hang out in the backroom when they were back there as well, instead of waiting in line just to get something signed(which i would've done anyway).
I was SO excited, not only did i have this amazing album in my hands, but i was going to see THE DEFTONES play live that night for the very FIRST time, AND i got to MEET THEM too!!!
As the line of fans stretched around the store waited outside, i stood next to the table set up for the group as they walked in through the back door.
I was extremely nervous, but greeted them as they passed me, saying hello and shaking their hands. I didn't want to act like a brat with special treatment, so i kept it brief, just seeing my heroes up close was exciting enough for me. Everyone was polite, for the most part. Chino was quiet, Stef was running around getting into trouble, Frank looked stoned or hungover, Abe was super hyper, and Chi was extremely calm and polite. The crew sat down at the table, and there was a few minutes before the fans were let in where it was pretty much just me standing in front of them. It was awkward for me because i was pretty awestruck. The night before i had thought of a million things to say and ask them, but now the cat had my tongue!!!! I didn't know what to do or say, and Chi must haved sensed my nervousness, and he said enthusiastically: "Hey man! How are you doing?" or something like that. It made me feel at ease, he spoke to me like an old friend. I said i was really excited for the concert later. He said he was too. He asked if i had heard White Pony yet, and i said i bought it the day before. He asked me what i thought of it, and seemed like he was genuinely curious. I told him that so far i loved it, and i didn't want to come off like a suckup, but i had to be honest and tell him that i love Adrenaline, and Around the Fur, that they are my favorite band, and that White Pony is just as great as those records, and they are all my favorite for different reasons. I told him i thought it had "it", whatever "it" is that makes their records so great and just thought it went together in a really cool way (i can think of so many other things to say now, of course!). He said that he really appreciated it, and looked at the others to see if they were listening, like he was nudging them to talk to me. Abe said "awesome" or "cool" in a hyper sort of way, Steph leaned back in his chair and slow nodded like he knew it was great (it was funny), and Chino pulled a smirk and gave me a nod. Chi turned his attention back to me and said it was cool to talk to me about the album because i was the first fan he had personally talked to that had heard the full record, since it was just released the day before, but they had been so busy that day. I don't know if it was true or not, but it could've been, and either way it just made me feel really nice and appreciated. I had brought my Adrenaline CD booklet, and he saw it and asked me if i wanted them to sign it. I said yeah thank you, and handed it to him. He signed it and handed it to the others. Then Chi asked if i had already bought my ticket to the show and i told him that i did, and he told me he would see me there....Again, he made me feel really welcome and special, like i was invited. It gave me just a little glimpse into the kind of person he must be, he treated me like a friend instead of just a fan, and i will never forget that day. After that i got to watch them goof around in the backroom after the signing (Stephan was stealing CD's, and brought in a drumming magazine with Abe on the cover to show everyone, saying "look at little Abe", or something like that.. Chino grabbed it and looked at it and said real loud: "Man, this ain't even fuckin' Modern Drummer!!!". They all had a good laugh and Abe made a face). That night i went to the concert, and they were incredible. Probably the best show i've ever seen, the only thing better being maybe one of the other times i saw them, but that night they played to perfection, you could just feel the raw energy and excitement that must have come with releasing White Pony. With Deftones, you feel like you are part of the show, there's nothing else like it. I went to see them everytime they came after that, the last time being in 2007 i think, the second time they came to Philly for Saturday Night Wrist. I was so saddened to learn of Chi's accident, it felt like hearing a friend was hurt. God bless the Deftones, they changed my life, and the super talented musician Chi Cheng, and the wonderful human being that he is. I (and we) continue to pray for him and his recovery. I hope Chi knows how much he touched this one person's life, and i'm sure the lives of many, many others. One love.
Sincerely,
Chas Edwards
Quote from: bodywars9000 on Jul 02, 2010, 03:44 PM
How old is Chi's son? I wasn't aware he had any children.
he is 13... and he is a great kid. very nice and polite.. plays bass, writes poetry.. alot like his dad.
thanks for sharing that story.. can i post it on the oneloveforchi.com website?
one love for chi,
gina
Your story is moving... :'(
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 02, 2010, 05:14 PM
Quote from: bodywars9000 on Jul 02, 2010, 03:44 PM
How old is Chi's son? I wasn't aware he had any children.
he is 13... and he is a great kid. very nice and polite.. plays bass, writes poetry.. alot like his dad.
thanks for sharing that story.. can i post it on the oneloveforchi.com website?
one love for chi,
gina
Most definately. I would be honored. Thank you, and wow, his son is 13? Nice to hear the apple doesn't fall from the tree, my father was a musician, as am i, and it is beautiful when a father and son share passions. Here's to the day they can reunite, so to speak. Thank you so much Gina, for all your support, not only to Chi but all of us in his "extended family", who keep him in our thoughts and prayers. Much love.
-CE
i ask that everyone please pray for chi...
send him strength and love.
one love for chi,
gina
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 04, 2010, 05:40 AM
i ask that everyone please pray for chi...
send him strength and love.
one love for chi,
gina
hang on there troop,
it aint over.
we're with you. hold your ground.
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Jul 04, 2010, 05:40 AM
i ask that everyone please pray for chi...
send him strength and love.
one love for chi,
gina
Come on Chi man, no quit !!
What's happening Gina, is everything ok ?
Chi isn't doing so good at the moment.... He has had lots of infections, as you all know. This time he has pneumonia again, and there are other problems as well. He is in ICU, if I'm not mistaken. He has fought this time and time again before, so I believe he will fight it again this time as well. He still needs our special attention right now though guys... :(
Love you, Chi - Always.
keep fighting, brother! my thoughts are with you.
Quote from: Sugartolove on Jul 04, 2010, 11:08 PM
Chi isn't doing so good at the moment.... He has had lots of infections, as you all know. This time he has pneumonia again, and there are other problems as well. He is in ICU, if I'm not mistaken.
Aww, shit. :(
Quote from: Sugartolove on Jul 04, 2010, 11:08 PM
Chi isn't doing so good at the moment.... He has had lots of infections, as you all know. This time he has pneumonia again, and there are other problems as well. He is in ICU, if I'm not mistaken. He has fought this time and time again before, so I believe he will fight it again this time as well. He still needs our special attention right now though guys... :(
Love you, Chi - Always.
That is sad to hear....
Positive thoughts sent Chi's way.....stay strong.
Just blast "Last Light" by Converge on a huge sound system in his hospital room and that will shake him out of it. Trust me.
Praying for you Cheng. Fight the fight. :)
We love you Chi--you know what you need to do! I know it must be hard, but you have to pull through for the people who love you; I know you'd give anything to talk to them again and give them all a huge hug. Keep fighting brother, it will all be worth it in the end!
Much respect,
-Matt
I don't pray, so I'm sending my love and support. Don't give up, Chi. :-*
Hey everybody,
My name is Lindsey and I run a website called World of Meh! along with my husband Chris. Both of us are huge Deftones fans and have been keeping track of Chi's progress ever since his horrible accident back in 2008. For awhile we've wanted to contribute to One Love for Chi, but financially we've been unable to do so. Last year we participated in a blog posting marathon known as Blogathon where, for 24 hours straight, we posted a new article to our site every 30 minutes. Crazy, right? Well it was.
A few months ago I was thinking about what charity we should pick for the upcoming Blogathon event, and, immediately, One Love for Chi popped into my head. We announced our charity choice last month, and yesterday we opened it up where people can start to donate. By doing the Blogathon, our website makes nothing. Since all donation links go directly towards the fund Gina has set up, there is no middle man involved. All we do is help get the cause out there, and donate our time for Chi.
Since we are a gaming website, I have contacted various companies, asking if they'd be kind enough to donate prizes for our fundraiser. So far, our friends at Activision have kindly, and generously, donated four complete Band Hero bundle kits for Playstation 3, Xbox 360, and Nintendo Wii. We are hoping as the days and weeks lead up to the Blogathon, which takes place on July 31st starting at 6 AM PST, and running until August 1st 6 AM PST, that more companies respond and help us out. All prizes that are donated will be raffled off during the Blogathon, and all those who donate and enter the raffle have a chance at winning. More details on how it all works can be found here: http://www.worldofmeh.com/2010/07/one-love-for-chiblogathon-fundraiser-is-on/ (http://www.worldofmeh.com/2010/07/one-love-for-chiblogathon-fundraiser-is-on/)
With the help of my friends at the Dirty Dowdy Podcast, we are looking to hold a local concert the night of the Blogathon here in Fresno, California, with proceeds from each ticket going towards One Love for Chi. If we can pull it off, we are going to have raffles going on there as well, with the option of people purchasing additional entries so we can boost the donation amount. Should the local concert happen, that information could be found on our site. - www.worldofmeh.com (http://www.worldofmeh.com)
Please help spread the word, and if you can donate, please do so. I know that everybody here on this site loves Chi, so it's the least we can do for a man who has given us so much.
If you have questions, or if you'd like to help us out in some way with getting the word out or by wanting to help write during the actual Blogathon, feel free to email me at lindsey@worldofmeh.com because we'd greatly appreciate it. We're open to ideas and suggestions too, but if it's time consuming, please keep in mind that we have less than a month.
Thanks in advance, and I'm really looking forward to helping out Chi and his family!
Lindsey
Co-Founder
World of Meh!
Headup Chi!!
Woah that is amazing! :) Thank you for doing this for Chi!!
Quote from: Sugartolove on Jul 07, 2010, 11:00 PM
Woah that is amazing! :) Thank you for doing this for Chi!!
No problem. We are just doing our part to help Chi. :)
Yesterday I found out that we are getting more prizes donated, and I'm really excited about it, but it all boils down to people knowing about it and donating so they can be entered for the prizes lol!
C'mon chi! Get up! We miss you bad man!!!!
URGENT REQUEST from Gina:
Chi's sister Mae woke up and was weak and couldn't hear anything! They were at the ER doing all sorts of tests.. testing for brain bleed, stroke and everything.. Everyone please PRAY HARD for Mae. Chi is in the same hospital and is ok and stable.
Later: Mae had a CT scan and it was normal. She is now in icu and in need of lots of prayer please. Lots of tests happening. God bless her. Chi is fine i talked to him tonite and he opened his eyes and lifted his head. One love!
My God... Hasn't this poor family had enough already?? :(
Poor sweet Mae has been with Chi 24/7 since day one - Really really praying for her and sending her all my love
i can t belive what is happening..:(..so so so sad...i wonder why all of this are hapenning to chi s familly..it s unreal...
LOVE YOU MAE...we pray for you.. stay strong
Hope you'll get well soon, Mae.
Any updates with any of these latest things? Why does no one post or update in here very often?
I don't exactly know the circumstances but I know Chi got released from hospital and sent home. Chi was 40 on the 15th of this month, so maybe it was for his birthday, I dunno. Mae is better and seems to be home as well. I'm guessing Gina isn't updating much since I think she has gone to stay with mom J and Chi.
Update from mom J:
Mae is home and resting. Chi is sleeping behind me as I type. Thank you all for the support and prayers! I love you. J
Gina:
yay - chi is on his way home! mae update: looks like an infection.. doing more tests tomorrow. will update as i get news. one love!
Gina:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHI!
i am so glad you were able to get dismissed from the hospital and be home for your birthday! much love to you! miss you!
hey all,
i also wanted to let you all know i talked to chi this morning and told him happy birthday! he was very verbal! he was making alot of noise – which is great! soon those sounds will come together to make words. he is doing good and i am sure is happy to be out of the hospital.
take care one love fam!
one love for chi,
gina
Chi Documentary #1 "The Accident" (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZftdgQ-QIRE#ws)
Mae and mom J speak about the accident. That's Gina with them, by the way.
Head and Sonny (POD) speak about the big benefit taking place August 14.
Have to admit I cried listening to Mae... Poor girl.
This documentary is going to be so amazing.
Sorry for the double post, I don't know how I missed the thread clearly called Chi Documentary #1.......... ::) I suppose it's relevant to this thread but move or delete it if you like :) Note to self.. This is the 2nd time.. Check the board before posting...
My family's prayers and thoughts go out to you Chi! I hope you make a full recovery and are blessed with the gift of holding your son again. Much love to everyone.
Gina, any new news on Chi? I hope he's doing better. Thanks for everything Gina!! I hope he's recovering from his last episode. Much love
Yeah, it has been uncomfortable how quiet things have gotten at oneloveforchi.com over the past few weeks.
I hope Gina is just busy living her life and that Mae and Chi are alright. This whole thing sucks so bad. :(
Amazing to watch, and heartbreaking at the same time. It's nice to see what's actually going on though.
Any updates on either of them??
This stuff is really impactful. We all have to keep donating and helping in every way we can so Chi can get out of that bed. Keep fighting brother, we love you!
Much respect,
-Matt
what s new ?haven t heard any news in a while...
what happened with the benefit show from 14?how many ppl showed up?no one is saying anything..we re here waiting for news from our hero..so please someone update on chi condition
onelove forever
After reading the part of the article I've posted below, I wanted to ask, is there anyone that reads all the love and support letters for Chi to him every day??? I read (http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2010/feb/03/vegetative-state-patient-communication (http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2010/feb/03/vegetative-state-patient-communication)) last week that 1 in 5 people in MCS (minimally conscious state) have full awareness of what is going on, they just can't move or react. This makes me think it would be great, if someone is not already doing so, that they read any letter of support to him. (I'm sorry if this has already been addressed).
QuoteI know you want your fans and the world to keep Chi in their thoughts. What do you want them to know about his current state of health?
At this point he's making very, very slow progress. He's got a great team of people working with him. It's a really tough situation. I mean at this point we're trying to keep people aware of it. People are always asking, and people are curious, they want to know what's up, so we're just trying to keep it out there, cause it's been over a year, almost creeping up on two years, which is a long time, especially in this day and age when people's attention spans are pretty short. Just that he's still there and he's fighting. He's got a ton of love and support from around the world, but he needs it to keep on coming. We're just hanging in there for our brother. It's pretty wild that it's been this long.
http://www.beatweek.com/coverstory/6907-deftones-interview-2010/ (http://www.beatweek.com/coverstory/6907-deftones-interview-2010/)
Take your time brother. Prayers for you everyday man.
Does anyone know what his treatment now consists of?
About a year I read an article about a firefighter from New Jersey who was in a coma for about 4 year and they did an experimental treatment of giving him ADHD medication, most likely dexedrine. It woke him up and apparently all of his cognitive functions were restored.
I suffer from Inattentive ADHD and thanks to dexedrine and ritalin I've really woken up and become more conscious in my day to day life, whereas I used to feel only half-awake all of the time. Despite the controversy that such medications have as being overprescribed amongst the youth, they are miracle drugs for some and I can't help but imagine they would have a positive effect on a semi-conscious person whether they wake them up completely or have a positive effect on their mood and cognitive functions.
do you think he'll ever be able to play again?
:'(
I'm hopeful. Its depends on how he comes out of this semi-concious state. If he doesnt have any brain or nerve damage i think he could do it. Its gonna take a lot of work though but im pulling for him.
Quote from: SX King on Sep 15, 2010, 03:05 AM
I'm hopeful. Its depends on how he comes out of this semi-concious state. If he doesnt have any brain or nerve damage i think he could do it. Its gonna take a lot of work though but im pulling for him.
i wish i had all the money in the world for him.
Quote from: the same sound on Sep 15, 2010, 08:42 AM
Quote from: SX King on Sep 15, 2010, 03:05 AM
I'm hopeful. Its depends on how he comes out of this semi-concious state. If he doesnt have any brain or nerve damage i think he could do it. Its gonna take a lot of work though but im pulling for him.
i wish i had all the money in the world for him.
x2
Just saw bits of http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/1000s-pray-for-chi/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/1000s-pray-for-chi/) and got tears in my eyes.
One love for Chi.
(http://img834.imageshack.us/img834/9112/facebookginablackmore12.png)
:)
=D
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/coming-soon-chi-is-awakening/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/coming-soon-chi-is-awakening/)
GOOD NEWS
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/love-you-love-you-love-you-all-so-much/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/love-you-love-you-love-you-all-so-much/)
EL MISMO POST EN ESPAÑOL
http://www.deftones.cl/site/2010/10/recuperacion-de-chi-cheng/ (http://www.deftones.cl/site/2010/10/recuperacion-de-chi-cheng/)
this made my day omg. wow im so happy for chi! fuuuck xD
I want to see the video of him responding and attempting to get up. This is so great!
Excuse me, I've got something in my eye.
HUCK has re-listed a one-off signed Deftones illustration for auction on eBay in aid of One Love for Chi. It's a special A3 print of Paul Willoughby's illustration that appeared in HUCK#021, signed by the band themselves. It's totally awesome and bidding continues for a few more days, with all money going to help his medical costs.
Please spread the word to other Deftones fans...One love for Chi!
http://www.huckmagazine.com/blog/deftones-%E2%80%98one-chi%E2%80%99/]
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Quote from: Numina on Oct 02, 2010, 08:31 PM
Excuse me, I've got something in my eye.
it's okay, so do i.
Damn thats awesome. Definitely just made my day!
Ming just posted over at oneloveforchi. Talked about Chi waking up and eating peoples brains like a zombie. Seemed to also being calling some people out. Not sure what to make of it but check it out if you are interested.
Damn I miss Chi.......
Quote from: 976-EVIL on Nov 08, 2010, 05:08 PM
Ming just posted over at oneloveforchi. Talked about Chi waking up and eating peoples brains like a zombie. Seemed to also being calling some people out. Not sure what to make of it but check it out if you are interested.
WTF? that was strange as hell... sounds more like a personal rant to me than anything for Chi. I still don't understand why they haven't been able to raise all the money yet. There's so many wealthy musicians and others out there who have mad respect for the deftones...I just don't get why it hasn't been done already. Why can't the record co. kick in a little cash as well? Thinking about it makes me mad, but it's all beyond my control. I just hope he gets the love and treatment that he deserves!
long time no see my SL brothers and sisters... sorry i have been mia BUT i have been workin my ass off for chi. so for some news i had tonite that i haven't posted on the site yet.. chi is following commands like move your tongue etc.... these are beginning stages that they use to start rebuilding.. if it sounds like not such a big deal... it is my loves. it means chi is hearing and understanding and his brain is able to carry out the task requested.
so... ya.. baby steps... the brain is a complicated thing.
i am.. with all of my heart reaching out to each and every one of you to help me with something...
I'm doing a video montage of fans of chi's in hopes we can make it viral on youtube. Can u each do a video of yourself saying what chi means to you and how much you hope for his recovery?
if you can find it in your heart.. please email your video to admin [at] one love for chi dot com. if it is a large file send it via megaupload.com. if you have any questions just email me!
i love you all and thank you!
One love for chi,
Gina
www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
Quote from: 976-EVIL on Nov 08, 2010, 05:08 PM
Ming just posted over at oneloveforchi. Talked about Chi waking up and eating peoples brains like a zombie. Seemed to also being calling some people out. Not sure what to make of it but check it out if you are interested.
Damn I miss Chi.......
my dear ming.. my brother.. and best guy friend... he has a great way of expressing himself... love that dude.
Quote from: oneloveforchi on Nov 14, 2010, 08:35 AM
long time no see my SL brothers and sisters... sorry i have been mia BUT i have been workin my ass off for chi. so for some news i had tonite that i haven't posted on the site yet.. chi is following commands like move your tongue etc.... these are beginning stages that they use to start rebuilding.. if it sounds like not such a big deal... it is my loves. it means chi is hearing and understanding and his brain is able to carry out the task requested.
so... ya.. baby steps... the brain is a complicated thing.
i am.. with all of my heart reaching out to each and every one of you to help me with something...
I'm doing a video montage of fans of chi's in hopes we can make it viral on youtube. Can u each do a video of yourself saying what chi means to you and how much you hope for his recovery?
if you can find it in your heart.. please email your video to admin [at] one love for chi dot com. if it is a large file send it via megaupload.com. if you have any questions just email me!
i love you all and thank you!
One love for chi,
Gina
www.oneloveforchi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com)
i've been taking a little longer on this than i had hoped. i've been insanely busy the past week as i'm in the middle of a 10 day straight stretch at work, but i promise i'll get something to you soon. hopefully i'll get it done tonight since i'll have time to myself for the first time in about a month.
Slow progress is good. It's progress :). Cmon Chi, were all anticipating your return to normal everyday life more than any record you've ever teased us with in anticipation. Get it together man and come back outside brother... Love, Allan n Stacy
BTW, any OneloveforChi tshirts on the US tour? I have one but would love to press my buddies into buying one each (they are new fans) the cause would be more than enough to get them on board. If not, can this be worked out? There are still ppl out there without the internet access that would help but could be unaware, and if they are not for sale on tour already, could be a way to get to every fan's attention n sell em! just a thought....
Way too quiet of the Chi front lately......No new news or updates in quite sometime it seems.
Miss ya dude.
Hi all,
Hope you are all doing fine. I know this update is long over due....
I never intended for this website to be about me at all... but i now find myself in a situation where the only way to explain my recent absence is to be straight up. A little over two months ago I found out I was pregnant.. long story short I was put on bed rest because they classified it as high risk. I ended up having a miscarriage and surprise to me was quite a long ordeal. Any way... I am recovered now and I am moving forward and doing whatever I can to get Chi to New Jersey.
I was in contact with my Chengs the whole time and they were all an incredible amount of support in helping me get thru this sucky time. So thank you my family!
Please don't feel the need to say sorry or anything... I'm ok...back in my flow... "one tough cookie" like Mae said. So let's just press on and get Chi what he needs to recover!
I apologize for any unanswered emails and t-shirt orders that are behind. I will be getting those all caught up this week.
As for Chi... he is hanging tough as always. I talked to him tonight and reminded him of all of our love and support.
We are in the middle of making all the arrangements to get Chi to New Jersey in the very near future. So thank you to everyone who has come together to make this happen for him.
Love you all!
One Love For Chi,
Gina
http://oneloveforchi.com/apology/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/apology/)
Speechless......Love to you Gina......
Worried about Gina, we gotta rally here Sharing Lungs!!!
Oneloveforchi.com is officially down right now. Hopeful this is nothing. Hang in there Gina! How can we help?
From the twitter feed:
"@oneloveforchi: RT Chi is in NJ http://bit.ly/hedIGM (http://bit.ly/hedIGM)"
this is great news indeed!
It's happening guys.... Mom J (Chi's mom) and Ming have been posting about it recently and..... TODAY - After 2 years and 4 months, Chi has started his treatments in New Jersey! The thing we have been working for for sooo long. Dr. DeFina gave him good prospects so hopefully Chi will come back to us now - in time.
Mom J:
Quote"Today is day 1 of the New Jersey treatment for Chi. Please send up a prayer for him to do well and recover. Thank you all again that made this happen!OneLove!!"
fantastic news, this year will be much better than last, hope the docs do they're best to get our boy Chi back to us
Just finished talking to Chi's mum/mom and she asked me to write up a blog on my Chi page - It contains a lot of news so I thought I'd share it with you:
QuoteThis is such an exciting time for our brother.... Just finished talking to mom J, Chi's mom, and she had so much to tell us. I'm writing up a quick blog on her request.
It's day 5 of Chi's treatments in New Jersey. It took 2 years and 4 months to get him in to the right treatment programme, with the right professionals, and believe me when I say our brother is fighting to get out of his current state...
Mom J said he has got muscles in his chest now from trying so hard to pull himself up all the time!
These are some things directly from mom J about Chi's treatments:
"Chi is getting treatments from 11 am to 5 pm every day and is already showing signs of recovery!"
"On the second day, after Chi's first acupuncture, he already showed improvements!
Chi also has speech therapy but it is a lot more than regular speech therapy."
They use a stimulator which she doesn't think he enjoys that much. All for a greater good I suppose...
"His treatments include biofeedback, which he is already improving on. He also receives laser therapy."
Mom J is especially impressed with his acupuncture doctor. He is the first doctor she has met that really does the traditional Chinese style acupuncture. He also adds chi gung to it, which is amazing.
(I will take mom J's word for this as I don't know enough about this.)
Get this though.. Mom J told the acupuncturist about these amazing books she has on the subject, with one page in English and the other one in Mandarin/Chinese. She didn't bring these books to New Jersey, but the doctor still immediately knew which books she was talking about. She has read the English pages in the books but wished she could read the Chinese pages.. She says: "This white guy, trained in New York, read the Chinese side. I thanked him in Mandarin and he speaks it fluently. He does the best technique I have ever seen."
"Dr. Fellus made a house call this morning to reset his (Chi's) Backlofen pump and increase it. I think they will continue to increase it as he struggles to fight with his body tightening up. Dr. Fellus is also going to inject some Botox to loosen his hands and feet. If that doesn't help enough he is thinking of a foot specialist to help with the tightened tendons and a hand specialist to do the same with his hands."
"I hope he can handle the treatment they start next week, it's the electric brain stimulation."
"It is too early to tell how far and how long it will take but this was the right place to come. He looks like he is 20 now..."
xxx
Still a long way to go, Dai, but I can't believe how far you've come.... Still remember how emotional it was the first time I read Gina's blog about how you moved and showed signs of being somewhat awake 2 years ago.... All your life threatening infections, all your struggles, the frustration of being such an intelligent man with fantastic communicational skills - without a voice... All the frustrations of being stubborn and so desperate to get out of that hospital bed that you keep trying to pull yourself out, thus developing serious muscles...! It will all be a part of a long, hard journey back to his life. Back to us who are patiently waiting for him, back to millions of fans worldwide... Most importantly, back to his family.
Love you so much Dai - We are all here, brother, as long as it takes. Keep fighting; we are RIGHT THERE WITH YOU. And Mom J, the most beautiful and amazing mom in the world... We all love you, so much. Lean on us and gather strength from us because we are there for you, every step of the way.
THANK YOU TO GINA BLACKMORE!!!! Without Gina NONE of this would have happened!!
We owe her some serious respect and love.
One love – Now let's make it happen. Chi, you've GOT THIS!!! 2011 = Your Year! :)
Love from all of us on the Chi Cheng Prayer Page
- Heidi
Great great news, let's hope his state only keeps improving from now on.....
Fuck'in Straight Up Awesome!!!!
HEAD UP CHI !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
amen. Progress is progress.
This made me smile. Glad to hear our brother is doing so well.
Great news! Seems so long ago that the accident happened :'(
Haven`t visited this place for awhile (due to travelling)...
Great to hear about Chi`s progress. Slow process but surely. Much love and prayers.
Also to Gina. Hope you really are on your feet, like you said, but please take time for yourself. Haven`t met you in person (yet anyway) but you are a great person :)
If everyone could throw a post up on whatever social media they use, once a week or more, to help promote:
www.OneLoveForChi.com (http://www.oneloveforchi.com) & www.WakeUpFest.com (http://www.wakeupfest.com) & the shortcut to donate link: www.tinyurl.com/Donate2Chi (http://www.tinyurl.com/Donate2Chi) then we can keep the momentum going!
Spread the work to all your Deftones friends! For the greater Good!
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Awareness-For-Chi-Cheng/181123691939978 (http://www.facebook.com/pages/Awareness-For-Chi-Cheng/181123691939978)
http://www.deftones.com/media/photos/artwork-auction-chi-cheng-portrait
New post on one love for chi :
Quotehope all is well with everyone. i just wanted to update that ALL orders have been finally caught up and sent out. if for some reason your merch doesn't arrive in the next 7 days max just drop me an email and i will get it straightened out.
we will not be using paypal any more... we have come to find that paypalsucks.com! we are getting a merchant account for donations and merch orders (which ming is taking over for me) so funds will go directly to chi's trust account and we won't have to deal with paypal any more. i will make an update once this is all in place.
thanks everyone for your major patience during this delay and back orders.
chi is making some progress... dr. defina called me the other day... he said that chi's delta levels are reducing which is a good thing.. they have to deal with brain waves when someone is vegetative.. so seeing less of them is a great thing!
i will update again soon.
one love for chi,
gina
Some Really Cool "Old Footage Video" of CHI on this board.
He looks Like he is 15!! So Good to see him Rock again!!!! Too long since I have heard from Gina...
Chi will rise 2012 VOTE CHI !!!!!!!!!!
Anything new??
From Deftones Benefit for Chi June 14, Kobe/Jakobi joins his dad Chino on 7 Words. Apologies for bad sound quality. It was shared on my Chi page so it's not my video.
If I'm blind and it has been posted already, I apologise.
http://youtu.be/6soGAtCqvHY (http://youtu.be/6soGAtCqvHY)
Otherwise, no there hasn't been any news on Chi for a while, only that he is stable and doing well.
from oneloveforchi.com
"Hi all,
I just got a text from Momma J that Chi is having trouble. He has a high temp and vitals are all over the place.
Please send prayers and healing energy to our dear Chi!
One love for Chi,
Gina"
Quote from: sing blue silver on Jun 19, 2011, 10:46 AM
from oneloveforchi.com
"Hi all,
I just got a text from Momma J that Chi is having trouble. He has a high temp and vitals are all over the place.
Please send prayers and healing energy to our dear Chi!
One love for Chi,
Gina"
very saddened by this news. praying for you, brother.
Sorry it's been awhile guys.
Keep Chi in your thoughts. He's better but still not out of the woods yet.
I'll update more later.
One love for Chi,
Gina
Thinking of Chi and hoping.
Another Update just posted @ oneloveforchi.com
"Hey all,
Just wanted to give you guys an update and thank you for keeping Chi in your thoughts!
Here is the text Momma J just sent me:
"Sonny called last night, talked to Dai, said a prayer w Dai n me touching his head. Within a few minutes his fever broke, he fell asleep n slept through the night so peacefully. Didnt even move or sweat a drop. Pls do a post for me bear. Thank everyone who covered him w prayers. Love u Gina!!"
Chi is so strong. Keep loving and supporting him guys! Have a great day!
I will update with any changes.
One love for Chi,
Gina"
Wow. Which one are you Vesanic? (j/w)
"This recipient is currently unable to receive money"
Just emailed Gina as donations not working ?
Quote from: m1nusblindfoLd on Jun 27, 2011, 01:30 PM
Wow. Which one are you Vesanic? (j/w)
He's second from the left...
Ves isn't in that picture at all actually.
"URGENT PRAYER REQUEST via The Whosoevers
"Jessica and Chi's doctor (Defina) were in a car accident while heading to surgery. Please keep them in your prayers"
One love!!! ♥"
:o :o
Quote from: vinsanity on Jul 06, 2011, 11:10 PM
"URGENT PRAYER REQUEST via The Whosoevers
"Jessica and Chi's doctor (Defina) were in a car accident while heading to surgery. Please keep them in your prayers"
One love!!! ♥"
:o :o
What the Fuck?!!! No!! Updates??????
I'm confused, are you bullshitting? Why does the site say these latest two blogs instead?:
Hi all,
I just wanted to ask that everyone please keep Chi in your thoughts today. He will be having a foot surgery that will correct his "drop foot" that commonly occurs with TBI/coma patients.
Send all your healing, prayers, good thoughts... whatever you can his way!
I'll update after the surgery.
One love for Chi,
Gina
AND
Hey all,
Just wanted to let you all know Chi's surgery was postponed until the 27th.
He started having a different sort of episode right before so they have decided to wait.
We have to wonder if it was Chi anticipating the surgery... Maybe.
I'll keep you all posted as I get news.
One love for Chi,
Gina
Vinsanity would not bullshit about something like this...
Need more information!!
Well??
i've found that information about the supposed car crash in the chi cheng prayer facebook page
http://www.facebook.com/chichengprayerpage (http://www.facebook.com/chichengprayerpage)
Thanks Vesanic....
Who's Jessica ?
http://oneloveforchi.com/?p=2723 (http://oneloveforchi.com/?p=2723)
Sending positive energy Cheng's way.
Jeanne:
PRAYERS FAST PLS!! CHI HAS AN INFECTION.....white cells way up n having non stop dysreflexia episodes back to back n is in pain. pls give a shout out to gina n the whoso's n ask for prayer. they want to put him back in ICU n I said no. pls pray that this eases up fast. loving thanks always! j
Quote from: illmono on Jul 11, 2011, 11:44 PM
Jeanne:
PRAYERS FAST PLS!! CHI HAS AN INFECTION.....white cells way up n having non stop dysreflexia episodes back to back n is in pain. pls give a shout out to gina n the whoso's n ask for prayer. they want to put him back in ICU n I said no. pls pray that this eases up fast. loving thanks always! j
:( stay strong Chi :'(
Jeanne:
Crisis over. Now he has vitals LOW but that is easier for him. The power of prayer is faithful
Fuckt man, this is so unsettling :(
jesus christ :/
This ride is so brutal....How much more must the family take.
I've got a benefit organized for Chi's birthday this Friday (07/15) at Dingbatz in Clifton,New Jersey. Managed to get a close friend to headline the night...Marc Rizzo of Soulfy and Cavalera Conspiracy.
As far as other musicians on Marc's level...I hope the end result is for others to feel encouraged to do the same.
Come out and support a good cause and help celebrate Chi's birthday.
Here is the blog I posted to www.wakeupfest.com (http://www.wakeupfest.com)
http://wakeupfest.com/wake-up/marc-rizzo-of-soulfly-and-cavalera-conspiracy-headlines-wake-up-fest-cliftonnew-jersey-chi%e2%80%99s-birthday-07152011/555/ (http://wakeupfest.com/wake-up/marc-rizzo-of-soulfly-and-cavalera-conspiracy-headlines-wake-up-fest-cliftonnew-jersey-chi%e2%80%99s-birthday-07152011/555/)
happy birthday chi!
From Mom J:
QuoteIn with Chi reading him the birthday wishes you all r sending. He is having a good day today. His brother Wan and family come in tonight for two weeks. That is a real treat!
Happy birthday Chi - Love you.
Happy Birthday homie. Get back soon.....
Hey guys.. Sorry it's been awhile since I've been on SL. I've got updates on one love site and Chi is in need of prayers again. It's been fucking frustrating cuz the guy just doesn't seem to catch a break. It sucks. He's been thru so much. I talk to him on the phone and try to lift his spirits and let him know we are all here for him. He wakes and looks at the phone when he hears me talking his mom said. Things gotta start getting better.
Not giving up.
I will keep everyone posted on one love.
Take care.
One love for Chi,
Gina
hey all.. update on chi: http://oneloveforchi.com/chi-is-stable/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/chi-is-stable/)
one love for chi,
gina
Thanks for the update Gina, your frustration is shared by all of us.
Be well and take care....
my prayers are with chi .
Signed portrait of Chi is up for bidding until the end of the month.CHI!!♡♡♡http://www.charitybuzz.com/catalog_items/272621#.TmQ9Uts445w.facebook (http://www.charitybuzz.com/catalog_items/272621#.TmQ9Uts445w.facebook)
Awesome News!!! Let's go Chi!!!
You got this!!!!
What is storming, exactly?
Good to hear that he's standing, though.
Quote from: Inkblades on Sep 13, 2011, 06:48 PM
What is storming, exactly?
Good to hear that he's standing, though.
storm (stôrm)
n.
An exacerbation of symptoms or a crisis in the course of a disease.
yes.
Go CHI...
ENERGY !!
LOVE, HOPE and FAITH is the Key.....
LETS GO CHI !!!!!!!!
CHI will rise 2012
LET'S GO !!!!!!!!!!!!!
:'( So sad, get well soon friend.
Chi progress is wonderful. Keep at it. Nothing in this world matter but the people we love!
Great news ;D Could someone fill me in on standing table therapy?
Great news to hear!
Lets go Chi!
Any progress will do for me. Keep up the fight, Chi! Sending love your way, bro.
http://oneloveforchi.com/working-title-oct-19th-visit-with-dai-ming/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/working-title-oct-19th-visit-with-dai-ming/)
Wed. Oct. 19th, 2011
12:30p.m. – Secaucus NJ
deftones
I'm here as predicted with our hero. They are treating our hero for a wound. His favorite nurse Dana is in the drivers seat as 3 other staff members watch on and go on with watercooler/shop talk. Our hero is in a precarious position at the moment, but this is just another day at the shop for the folks around here: all sweet, caring individuals that warm up to me. They tried to stop me from coming in at first, I tell them it's nothing I haven't seen before, although when I walk in, it is something new; something I won't go into details about, let's just leave it at that. You're better off thinking about it honestly.
I got here last night at 10pmish. Continental, not the same as Southwest: not coctails! Peanuts! and no free baggage checked: $25 bucks for my silly rolling suitcase. Bitch, moan, whine; I know: Can I get a little cheese with this wine!
But as I sit here pecking away on this laptop as I realize exactly how lucky I am: I can walk, talk, talk shit, type shit, wipe shit. Well, you get the picture. Everything is relative dig? I try my damndest to be grateful for what I got. In all honesty I'm probably one of the luckiest men alive. Nicknames aren't something you're supposed to pick for yourself. I started out a "Bucky," then went on to be an "unlucky bucky." After awhile, my friends/bandmates in L.A.(yes, I realize that sentence is a bit of an oxymoron. If you live in LaLa land you don't have any friends. Maybe people that you use and get used by. Wow I can be a cynical fucker right?)settled on just plain "Lucky." And I can tell you without a doubt, I am so lucky just to be here, doing whatever it is I do. So thank you higher power/universe for keeping me around.
Okay, they are about finished with their procedure. I will get back to you when I get some notes about our hero Chi.
4pm-I'm sitting across from Chi in his room. They have him in his wheelchair, hooked up to a neurofeedback machine. Basically it's set to play a song IF he keep his brainwaves "UP" to a certain level. Right now it's "playing" a series of Tom Pettys greatest hits. It plays in intervals. When his levels aren't up, it stops(pauses)the tune. Right now it sounds choppy at best, but Natalie(the tech)tells me this is actually a "good day" for him. I haven't seen him in a couple months, but he seems like he is at least pretty conscious today.
4:30pm-they have Chi(a.k.a Dai) underneath a laser helmet. He is wearing big huge sunglasses and has a cloth/napkin between his eyes and the glasses. The helmet looks like the kind you would sit under at the hairdressers, except that it looks like about 200 led lights are around the inside(apparently shooting lasers into his skull). The tech tells me this procedure goes on for 30minutes, twice a day.
Let me backtrack from where I left off earlier now.
1:30-2:30pm
I meet Jodi the occupational therapist and Nate(assistant). They take Chi out of bed and put him into his wheelchair. We wheel down to the exercise room. Jodi works on stretching his limbs and getting him to do basic things like: close his mouth, move his hands, etc. He lights up when Jerry the acupuncturist comes through. Jerry is next on the schedule board. Not knowing this I took Dai(Chi)down to the cafeteria to share some apple juice.
3-3:30 Jerry does his thing and we catch up with how progress has been. Honestly, with all the acupuncture needles sticking in Dai's head he looks like that Pinhead guy from Hellraiser. I will tell you from experience: if you ever get yourself in a bind(physically speaking)and nothing else seems to work, these guys with the needles do some magic.
4:45 I'm back to real time. Steve Millers Greatest hits is playing and the laser helmet just shut off. Natalia comes and takes it away.
Apparently I missed Diana the speech therapist this morning, but I've seen her routine. She gets Dai to try and speak(hit and miss at best), swallow ice, take deep breathes, etc. All the things you and I probably take for granted everyday.
Editors Note: As usual on my visit, I get lost in the days with my brother and am now back at home finishing my blog regarding my visit.
Monday Oct. 24th, 2011
1:49p.m. in my living room/Nampa, ID
Time to get caught up with the onelove merch and finish up with this little ditty too. Here goes nothing.
Got back in last nite and pretty much went right to sleep. The night before my mom and I had dinner with a documentary filmmaker named Denise Korycki. She wants to make a film about Dai. She worked at VH1 and MTV and said she must have interviewed the tones about SSEVEN- UH EGHTATEATEATE8 times. I think it will work out; she seems honest with good intentions. Gina and I think it will be good for you to be able to see clips of his progress on this site and Denise seems to be in it for the long haul.
Honestly, there is no telling how long this could take. After "talking" to so many of you, now that I've taken over the merch and donations on the onelove site, I realize that you too are in it for the long haul and are big enough to accept how Dai looks and is "today." I am so grateful to all of you that give what you can and I truly enjoy shipping shirts(a lot more now that I've been laid off and I am on "the unemployment")every other day; hell, at this point it gives me something to wake up to everyday. On that note, I should have a box of the new shirts here by the end of the week.
What can I tell you about how Dai is doing?
I will agree with my mom and quote her: "In some way that I cannot describe, Dai is getting better."
The therapists, doctors and nurses all seem to be at the top of their game
Uh eh, eh eh eh, ehuh?
Repeate 4X
The wound I mentioned in the beginning is a pressure sore. It's bad. I'm not going to start pointing the finger at anyone, as he seems to be getting top notch care, so let's just hope it gets better sooner than later.
On Saturday(oct.22nd)Lisa and I were able to push Dai and Jessica in their chairs over to my moms condo. That was the most exercise I've got in a while. Not sure if Dai was into it, but I don't think he minds leaving his room, that's for sure.
deftonesWhile I had Dai outside one day(I think it was Thursday), I was able to get him to lift his hands up about a dozen times. Apparently he doesn't do stuff like that often at all. I know he responds well to me and I am scheduled to be there again for 2weeks in November, so I will let you know what kind of progress we make. For the record I was able to also get him to lift up his hands every day after as well.
Did some shopping for Dai as well. Nurse Dana had a small list of necessities and we got some new music: Radiohead, Foo Fighters(recommended), Wilco, Ryan Adams(recommended), some Norah Jones duets cd(highly recommended), Janes Addiction and some others. Luckily Dai doesn't have a roommate at the time, so we can rock around the clock as we like. We caught part of the Pearl Jam Cameron Crowe movie that's coming out. Looks pretty good even if you're not a fan. I even have my own bed there if I want to sleep there. I got some of Roxy's beatles pics up around the room and here epiphone acoustic is there, but down to 5strings. Thanksfully it's just the high e string. Anyone that can't play with out a string or two ain't very creative methink, but what do I know.
Okay, I got some shirts to ship. Nice talking atcha. Thanks again for you're your love and interest in our brother Chi. For now-Cheers Ears!!! -M.
p.s. the following was at eyelevel on my American airlines/Continental Flight home from Newark N.J.
FASTEN SEAT BELT WHILE SEATED
USE CUSHION FOR FLOTATION DEVICE
I wonder how confusing that is to kids and aliens. In cheap blue leather, machine sewn into the back of the seats headrest. The stewardess is on the phone explaining/demonstrating our seatbelts, lifevests and emergency oxygen supplies. Life goes on.
three years, jesus man. time flies.
Hope and Heartbreak at the same time. Thanks V....
From Gina:
"I wanted to do something special for Chi for Christmas and I need your help! I know it has GOT to get pretty lonely for Chi at times and I really want him to know how many of us love and care about him! SO – what I was thinking is to create a DVD video compilation of "Merry Christmas/Love/Support" messages to Chi from all you!
All you have to do is a video response to this video. I will collect video responses thru Dec. 18th and put them all on a DVD for Chi so Momma J can play it for him.
Also – if you could ♥PLEASE♥ spread the word about this in any way you know how (facebook, twitter etc) I would appreciate it very much!
Thanks so much for your consistent love and support for Chi!
One Love For Chi,
Gina Blackmore"
http://oneloveforchi.com/need-your-help-christmas-video-dvd-for-chi/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/need-your-help-christmas-video-dvd-for-chi/)
Please share the link and contribute to make Chi's Christmas that little bit brighter :) You can now also send postcards etc to the address in the link and they will be put in Chi's room so he can see them. In the link is also the video Gina is asking us to respond to.
http://www.metalinjection.net/latest-news/fuck/deftones-bassist-chi-cheng-emerges-from-three-year-coma (http://www.metalinjection.net/latest-news/fuck/deftones-bassist-chi-cheng-emerges-from-three-year-coma)
:D
Quote from: punkflop01 on Feb 09, 2012, 11:31 AM
http://www.metalinjection.net/latest-news/fuck/deftones-bassist-chi-cheng-emerges-from-three-year-coma (http://www.metalinjection.net/latest-news/fuck/deftones-bassist-chi-cheng-emerges-from-three-year-coma)
:D
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"Hey all,
Today I woke up to people frantically asking me for more info on Chi being "AWAKE" and everyone was so happy etc. Then I realize not only had I managed to somehow miss the miraculous news but my oneloveforchi.com website was also down. I could not understand what the heck was going on. Surely if Chi was awake Momma J would have called me by now!
For those of you who regularly follow the website.. you are well aware that on Feb 1st I posted a short video clip of some of Chi's recent progress when he lifted his leg on request a couple times. I said
"it's little baby steps like this that bring chi closer to recovery." I don't understand how someone could take this so far out of context to make it into headlines reading "Chi Cheng is Awake After 4 Years in Coma"!?
(example headline of what I have seen today)Please don't think that we aren't
completely thrilled with Chi lifting his leg on request.. but like I said it is a
baby step. Although this is progress he is still considered to be in a "minimally conscious" state. He doesn't complete tasks like this on request every time.
So.. let me take the time to clarify things for those of you that are not aware of his current status. Chi is still not speaking.. isn't able to comunicate. He does make noises at times. It does sometimes seem like he is trying very hard to communicate. He has every once in a while had great moments like the "leg lift video" where he moves on request. He does make eye contact and turn his head towards you. It does show on his EEG scans that there has been "progress within" when they compare initial scans to recent scans. These are all great things and definite signs of progress/improvement. Now for a dose of reality... although Chi has had great occurrences of progress.. there is also lots of time far and in between where nothing at all happens and he is non-responsive. But when you are around him.. even when he is non-responsive.. when you look into his eyes... it's like he is speaking in another way. It's very hard to explain. He is "there" and that is apparent..
but he is in no way out of the woods yet. Still LOTS of work ahead.I really feel the recent rumors/headlines of "Chi Cheng Awakes From 4 Year Coma" could not be more inaccurate (unfortunately!). First of all I blame this on Hollywood. Comas are in no way black and white.. and Chi is still in a very grey area. Everyone seems to think that people emerge from comas in the same way they do in the movies.. full make up... great hair and back to life as it was pre-coma. In reality it just doesn't work that way. It is a very long road to recovery. That isn't to say some people haven't made miraculously quick recoveries... more often it takes several years to recover.. and sadly some never recover. That is the harsh reality of it. Are we giving up?
Hell no! Never will. Chi is still fighting and so are we! We continue to have faith in him and his ability to recover and his tenacious strength.
But please guys.. let's be accurate in our reporting when it comes to Chi. He has a son and family out there and when misinformation like this gets back to them only to be let down that it is not true.. it just plain SUCKS!
From now on I would appreciate if you would please not use headlines like the ones referenced above.. unless you see it here first.
As always your continued love and support for Chi is very much appreciated! :DOne Love For Chi,
Gina"
http://oneloveforchi.com/wow-you-guys-crashed-my-server/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/wow-you-guys-crashed-my-server/)
You know my english sucks
What the hell is happening?
http://oneloveforchi.com/the-countdown-begins/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/the-countdown-begins/)
5/17/2012 A.D.
Cheers mates
Long time no speak. Ming here. And when I say here, I mean with our brother Chi(herein referred to as Dai). Just flew in last nite. A week ago on my birthday(turned 43 btw)I got laid off from work. I suspect it may have had something to do with the fact that like an idiot, I told my boss I was 420friendly. Live and learn I guess. But as usual, the timing was perfect. Somebody needed to fly out here and be with Dai.
My Mom and Mae are rapidly trying to secure a home to fly Dai home to at the end of the month. God bless Gina and her "superfriends." They have already packed most of the house here in jersey and were with Dai these last couple weeks while we were dealing with the death of my father. What can I say, death sucks, but the man lived a full life that you could make a movie about. Hope I can say the same when it's all done. Probably, but it most likely will be a dark comedy. Anywho? For the record the Superfriends names (and I'm going from memory from the log/journal in the room with Dai) are Jenn, Eric? And Gabi. Also, crucial in helping keep it together with us is moms friend Jeanie(doubt I spelled that right, shoot me). So thanks crew. "Form of a moving truck" "Form of some moving blankets" You guys rock!!
I wish I could tell you Dai is doing well, but he's not. He just got over a pneumonia and now has CDIFS? It's and infection of some sort and it means just to walk in and say "hi", you have to put on gloves, a gown and a face mask.
Hindsight is 20/20. That said, we never should have listened to '"them" when they told us to move Dai into the hospital to get the treatments for the protocol. He can't and has never been healthy in these environments. For the last year he's had a bed sore that got so bad I could see clear to his bone. It literally made me sick when I saw it. Sometimes I feel pretty tough, but I thought I was gonna faint. This is finally healing after a year and a surgery that required taking some skin/flesh from a different part of his body. Now come to find out, he's got another one on his thigh. Haven't seen it yet, but they tell me it's not bad. I'm gonna take a peek tomorrow myself.
I snuck in through the back today to get a look at him and I didn't like what I saw: fingernails overgrown, feet scaly and stinking, the list goes on. As usual, I cracked the whip on the staff and they cleaned him up. I don't know if they are just understaffed or just plain suck there, but they will be lucky if I don't shove a lawyer up there ass once we get him out of there. There are others on the hitlist, but for now just getting my brother healthy enough to get on the plane in two weeks is the priority.
Don't get me wrong, there have been some real angels and saints over the last three and a half years. They know who they are. God bless all of you that have supported, helped, cared for and been there for us all this time. Without it, I know we wouldn't have made it this far.
I just want my boy home.
Gonna keep it short, I'm on a break at the condo and gonna run back and check in with our boy for the third time today. I'm pacing myself and going in for a couple hours at a time. I ain't gonna lie, to have someone you love that much suffering for so long takes an emotional toll on you that I can't explain. My poor mom, I just want her to be able to take a break once we get him home to Mae and Chris. God willing.
I use the term god loosely. I definitely believe in something bigger than me, a higher power if you will. Been trying to meditate lately to keep my soul in check, the "internal chatter" was killing me here and there these last couple weeks since pops died.
Hope the next time I have good news for you.
Til then, head up nukkas!!
Basically: Chi has an infection, he's gt another bedsore (if you dont know what a bedsore is, it's a sore that develops wen you're constantly putting pressure on an area and not moving enough), and some of the staff don't seem to have been looking after him properly, hygiene-wise.
Thanks 89.
Thats too bad
I didnt understand the ''countdown'' thing, i thought she meant the last days of Chi or something..
Awww man. I'm sending what I can hoping it goes to something as simple as cleaning him up and maintaining. This seems as if it were trending at one time to be all over helping Chi almost and we at least can't forget about him and let him be in this type of condition if at least we try. I know we all feel helpless but let's pull together and keep this going even individually. I'm selling a couple skate decks w Deftones logos and "one love for Chi" on them as soon as I recieve my orders from my guy and donating this cash. Maybe it will get him cleaned and nails cut. Idk, fuck me. :'(
stay strong Chi!
Damn it! When I saw this thread bumped to the the top of the list I had hoped for some good news...
The Cheng Family is truly as stong as any I have known, keep fighting guys!
:) He's a fighter.
Update From Momma J
hi Gina! let me send you a quick blog to our lovely onelove family,
Mae has been staying with Chi for most of the time since Chi went into ICU on Thursday. Today when Sal and I went
in to see him, he looked better than we had expected. He was quite aware of what was going on. He is still on life support and not enjoying the tube down his throat.
He did respond to us and they are going to try to ween him off the breathing machine tomorrow. When they tried today he did not do well but he has been on it before and gotten off without incident.
He is sedated part of the time but knows that he is near home and we are waiting to get him back to the house. He knows that we are there. Sal read him all of the comments that were sent to him and he knows that there are so many people sending
prayers and love.
Sal took a few pics for me to share with you. He is quite intensely listening to what I say and responds in different small but
deliberate ways. He knows that we are waiting for him.
Thank you all again for the prayers and support! He wanted so much to be home and you all brought him home to California and to his family. We are so grateful! Please keep him lifted in prayer. Blessings to you all family!
-Mom J and the Cheng gang
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http://www.metalinjection.net/latest-news/deftones-bassist-chi-cheng-may-be-leaving-the-hospital-tomorrow?xm (http://www.metalinjection.net/latest-news/deftones-bassist-chi-cheng-may-be-leaving-the-hospital-tomorrow?xm)
From Awareness For Chi Cheng Facebook page
Please send Healing Prayers to Chi. He has pneumonia again and is very poorly. Please Pray Hard and send him all your love. Thank You.
My band THE SUICIDE CHORDS recently raised $1500.00 w/ L.A. band Ruinstar. It was awesome to give back...
news of chi?
There has been no update since start of August they said in the last update the reason their haven't been many is because nothings changed. No news is better than bad news I guess.
Man I saw this bumped to the top and my heart jumped hoping for good news on Chi...been so quiet...
Keep fighting Brother!
Quote from: The Chauffer on Sep 11, 2012, 12:03 AM
My band THE SUICIDE CHORDS recently raised $1500.00 w/ L.A. band Ruinstar. It was awesome to give back...
thats awesome man
Yea its really sad seeing him how he is but at least he seems to be doing better back at home it seemed he was constantly getting infections at the other place.
Respect to you and your band Deftones NZ! Nice effort and thanks dude!
Quote from: The Chauffer on Sep 11, 2012, 12:03 AM
My band THE SUICIDE CHORDS recently raised $1500.00 w/ L.A. band Ruinstar. It was awesome to give back...
thank you man!
Quote from: The Chauffer on Sep 11, 2012, 12:03 AM
My band THE SUICIDE CHORDS recently raised $1500.00 w/ L.A. band Ruinstar. It was awesome to give back...
Mad respect
check out this license plate i saw in chandler, az.
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That's so awesome :D
Cool license plate but it would've been better to use the money for the vanity plate and just donate it to chi.
jesus you are one of those people that just is never happy about anytthing
Quote from: dictatesofreason on Oct 04, 2012, 06:19 PM
jesus you are one of those people that just is never happy about anytthing
i gotta agree with silver on this one though, he's gotta point
man.. just looked at Chi's page again.. it's sickening to see "paypal fees" above the total.. There's an option to send $ as a personal gift, and there's no fees! This needs to be known. Keep that in mind if you donate guys! They should mention that on the page so every last dollar goes towards Chi. (This is assuming the payment made is just like any other through paypal)
Man this shit gets me down must be horrible for him and his family imagine being trapped in your own body,stuff like this is why i don't believe in any god what could he have done do to deserve this?
http://oneloveforchi.com/miss-you-chi-%E2%9D%A4/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/miss-you-chi-%E2%9D%A4/)
In 1998 i was in a coma for 5 days and my family was a complete mess. I can only imagine how devastating it's been for Chi's family being it's going on what, four years now?
Quote from: xLhabiax on Oct 25, 2012, 02:51 PM
In 1998 i was in a coma for 5 days and my family was a complete mess. I can only imagine how devastating it's been for Chi's family being it's going on what, four years now?
Yeah must be hell had couple of family members die of cancer and that was pretty bad this must be worse because you don't know what's going happen or how much of him is left inside, makes me sick thinking that he could be fully aware just staring at the roof all day going crazy because he can't control his own body and he's just desperately trying to communicate but can't, especially since he loved his poetry and using his words now hes been robbed of that it's so cruel.
Quote from: DeftonesNZ on Oct 25, 2012, 02:55 PM
Quote from: xLhabiax on Oct 25, 2012, 02:51 PM
In 1998 i was in a coma for 5 days and my family was a complete mess. I can only imagine how devastating it's been for Chi's family being it's going on what, four years now?
Yeah must be hell had couple of family members die of cancer and that was pretty bad this must be worse because you don't know what's going happen or how much of him is left inside, makes me sick thinking that he could be fully aware just staring at the roof all day going crazy because he can't control his own body and he's just desperately trying to communicate but can't, especially since he loved his poetry and using his words now hes been robbed of that it's so cruel.
Yeah being aware and not being able to do anything about it is a really scary thought, i agree seeing someone robbed of that is horrible. Guess all we can do is hope that one day he fully comes out of this mess.
Quote from: xLhabiax on Oct 25, 2012, 03:09 PM
Quote from: DeftonesNZ on Oct 25, 2012, 02:55 PM
Quote from: xLhabiax on Oct 25, 2012, 02:51 PM
In 1998 i was in a coma for 5 days and my family was a complete mess. I can only imagine how devastating it's been for Chi's family being it's going on what, four years now?
Yeah must be hell had couple of family members die of cancer and that was pretty bad this must be worse because you don't know what's going happen or how much of him is left inside, makes me sick thinking that he could be fully aware just staring at the roof all day going crazy because he can't control his own body and he's just desperately trying to communicate but can't, especially since he loved his poetry and using his words now hes been robbed of that it's so cruel.
Yeah being aware and not being able to do anything about it is a really scary thought, i agree seeing someone robbed of that is horrible. Guess all we can do is hope that one day he fully comes out of this mess.
Yeah hate to be a downer but when you look at him he just looks empty don't think well ever see him back on stage but aslong as he comes back enough to live a happy life and see his son grow up itll be a good enough outcome
Quote from: DeftonesNZ on Oct 25, 2012, 02:41 PM
Man this shit gets me down must be horrible for him and his family imagine being trapped in your own body,stuff like this is why i don't believe in any god what could he have done do to deserve this?
http://oneloveforchi.com/miss-you-chi-%E2%9D%A4/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/miss-you-chi-%E2%9D%A4/)
If u dont believe in god then why you put the blame on god?
Shit happens everytime man, you can live or being coma tomorrow, nobody knows..
You should be thankful because deftones still around making great music and cheng is still alive even he shuld struggle.
Miss you so much, Chi!
Quote from: pony_01 on Oct 25, 2012, 03:14 PM
Quote from: DeftonesNZ on Oct 25, 2012, 02:41 PM
Man this shit gets me down must be horrible for him and his family imagine being trapped in your own body,stuff like this is why i don't believe in any god what could he have done do to deserve this?
http://oneloveforchi.com/miss-you-chi-%E2%9D%A4/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/miss-you-chi-%E2%9D%A4/)
If u dont believe in god then why you put the blame on god?
Shit happens everytime man, you can live or being coma tomorrow, nobody knows..
You should be thankful because deftones still around making great music and cheng is still alive even he shuld struggle.
Miss you so much, Chi!
Not putting the blame on god was saying how can people believe there is a god when something this horrible happens to such a good guy there's just no way they could justify why their god would let it happen.
Quote from: DeftonesNZ on Oct 25, 2012, 03:18 PM
Quote from: pony_01 on Oct 25, 2012, 03:14 PM
Quote from: DeftonesNZ on Oct 25, 2012, 02:41 PM
Man this shit gets me down must be horrible for him and his family imagine being trapped in your own body,stuff like this is why i don't believe in any god what could he have done do to deserve this?
http://oneloveforchi.com/miss-you-chi-%E2%9D%A4/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/miss-you-chi-%E2%9D%A4/)
If u dont believe in god then why you put the blame on god?
Shit happens everytime man, you can live or being coma tomorrow, nobody knows..
You should be thankful because deftones still around making great music and cheng is still alive even he shuld struggle.
Miss you so much, Chi!
Not putting the blame on god was saying how can people believe there is a god when something this horrible happens to such a good guy there's just no way they could justify why their god would let it happen.
shit happens bro .. hes not the only good guy out there that gets fucked over, god puts us through obsticles and stuff all the time to surpass our limits, hes still alive and fighting, the power of prayer is strong and true, im sorry you think that way though, but please dont put the rest of us down like that. one love for chi, ill keep you in my prayers brother we all miss you
Don't have anything against religious people i guess i just need logic and science before i can trust something buts its good to believe in something
Quote from: DeftonesNZ on Oct 25, 2012, 03:18 PM
Not putting the blame on god was saying how can people believe there is a god when something this horrible happens to such a good guy there's just no way they could justify why their god would let it happen.
I believe cheng had beliefs in religion too, but i dont know..
well i believe in god and i think he jad "special plan" for him to experience all of this
Maube he got a ticket straight to heaven? who knows haha
Quote from: pony_01 on Oct 25, 2012, 03:37 PM
Quote from: DeftonesNZ on Oct 25, 2012, 03:18 PM
Not putting the blame on god was saying how can people believe there is a god when something this horrible happens to such a good guy there's just no way they could justify why their god would let it happen.
I believe cheng had beliefs in religion too, but i dont know..
well i believe in god and i think he jad "special plan" for him to experience all of this
Maube he got a ticket straight to heaven? who knows haha
Yea he was Buddhist
Quote from: DeftonesNZ on Oct 25, 2012, 03:27 PM
Don't have anything against religious people i guess i just need logic and science before i can trust something buts its good to believe in something
Its understandble bro dont worry i took no offense to it :)
Quote from: jbmp1390 on Sep 11, 2012, 05:42 AM
Quote from: The Chauffer on Sep 11, 2012, 12:03 AM
My band THE SUICIDE CHORDS recently raised $1500.00 w/ L.A. band Ruinstar. It was awesome to give back...
Mad respect
WOW, big big hearts! Much respect!!!
I think everyone forgot, that today its been 4 years since Chi accident.
So sad...
Sad, and a long time, but he's slowly making progress, so that's something.
It's weird to have deja-vu like this, 4 years ago I was hearing the news about Chi and it was election night...
Even though it's slow. Any progress is good in situations like this. Most people don't survive. He's a strong guy apparently.
He got really emotional there you can tell he's still heavy on their minds,they all mentioned him in their thank you's in the KNY booklet as well
Quote from: Vesanic on Nov 09, 2012, 02:40 AM...
Wow that's very touching. Thanks for sharing this. Haven't come across it on YouTube.
Quote from: Vesanic on Nov 09, 2012, 02:40 AM...
WOW thanks you Belgin Citizen!!!!!!!
I would like to wrap earphones in our Boy CHI and Play Entombed FULL BLAST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
please take love and rise DAI... our lost friend........COME BACK!!
dont you think "romantic dreams" are a song that lyrically meant for chi ?
i remember chino talk about having a dream about Chi, the night before jakarta gig:
[Dahsyat] Liputan konser & wawancara bersama Deftones.. 09/02/2011. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rduRVemiMtQ#ws)
and read the lyrics:
"I promise
To watch and raise your babies
In time, in sync
Tonight the stage is yours "
is talk about chi son maybe????
Gabe Cheng playing with Deftones (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tnLYWf88vCY#ws)
fucking deep song :')
Quote from: pony_01 on Nov 11, 2012, 04:57 PM
dont you think "romantic dreams" are a song that lyrically meant for chi ?
i remember chino talk about having a dream about Chi, the night before jakarta gig:
[Dahsyat] Liputan konser & wawancara bersama Deftones.. 09/02/2011. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rduRVemiMtQ#ws)
and read the lyrics:
"I promise
To watch and raise your babies
In time, in sync
Tonight the stage is yours "
is talk about chi son maybe????
Gabe Cheng playing with Deftones (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tnLYWf88vCY#ws)
fucking deep song :')
That video with Gabe playing on Root is sick!
Awesome find there, wow Chi was so young....
Quote from: Vesanic on Nov 25, 2012, 07:53 AM...
That is too cool, great story to support the photo, thanks again dude!
Damn I wish Chi would rise...
That's my high school! Awesome.
http://blowthescene.com/bands/deftones-bands/deftones-bassist-chi-cheng-conitnues-to-slowly-recover-from-2008-car-accident.html (http://blowthescene.com/bands/deftones-bands/deftones-bassist-chi-cheng-conitnues-to-slowly-recover-from-2008-car-accident.html)
the picture makes me feel very sad :(
get better chi, one love!
Quote from: Vesanic on Nov 09, 2012, 02:40 AM...
Hey Rome, do you remember a video recently where I think it was the same type of deal, I think they were talking about Chi and then went into a song and Chino was crying a little bit during the song... May have been Riviere but I'm not sure...
Actually you know what, I'm probably thinking of Stone Sour or Slipknot and he starts crying through a song after dedicating it to Paul Grey...
Yeah I think i've seen that he was singing bother I think it was at some festival and broke down
Quote from: deftoolsys07 on Dec 09, 2012, 07:33 AM
Actually you know what, I'm probably thinking of Stone Sour or Slipknot and he starts crying through a song after dedicating it to Paul Grey...
It's when he plays Snuff from the Slipknot album All Hope Is Gone. It's become a highly emotional song for Corey and they rest of the band. He's broken down crying many times playing that song because it has such a connection to Paul. I got to see it live when I saw Slipknot over the summer and it was a very emotional experience for everyone there. He really misses the guy. Here's just such a performance.
Corey Taylor Breaks down during Snuff Live in Baltimore (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r6VftcpePOg#)
He did it twice than
Corey Taylor Download most emotional song ever!!! Download 2010 (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8tFHmjjmQJg#ws)
Oh much more than twice.
There's been a couple of updates on oneloveforchi in one of them his family wants to make a video compilation of Merry Christmas/support messages for him.More details here http://oneloveforchi.com/xmas-2012/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/xmas-2012/) Could be a nice thing to do to let him know he's not forgotten
Hey CHi, its been a while since i sent ya some positive energy-but thought its more than time to do it. Ya know when i first heard of your accident i had been home on leave for a week or two as i had just gotten out of my initial army training. And now over four years later, im out of the army, been through a divorce, seen combat, and have learned alot and large percentage of that has to do with the music you and the guys created. the 'tones music has steadily been an influence on me since the 8th grade thats eight years, damn. So brother idk how the inside of a coma works, maybe ur living all your dreams in a dream state, maybe you can hear and see everything around you, maybe your in a unfathomable hell-i dont know but i hope is a more benevolent state, thing is your music your work your spirit is still alive as much as it ever was man, for instance in my mind there is a constant playlist going 24/7 and the tones are on there 70 percent of the time, your bass lines...and hopefully soon you can get up and start creating music again and its all possible i know it. as for the world man dont worry its still in a sorry state of disrepair the middle east is still a mosh pit, the libbys are trying to turn the US into a nazi state...its crazy...and the world definitly needs more creativity, more peace, more orginal thinking, and hopefully one day soon you can give us all what we need, so damn damn good fuckin bass solos! Word! So thanks for all the music and like the man said, Get up and walk-you're work on the planet aint done yet.
cobra two zero
Hi SL!
I am helping Gina Blackmore with the One love for Chi website - She manages it, I co-manage it. It would be really great if you would send me a message if any of you should hear about any benefits, events etc taking place for Chi. I will post it on the website and promote it through my Facebook page for Chi, etc. Contact info is posted here: http://oneloveforchi.com/email/ (http://oneloveforchi.com/email/) or here: http://www.facebook.com/chichengprayerpage (http://www.facebook.com/chichengprayerpage) Thank you :)